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Archived questions from: February, 2016 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Is my boyfriend's fear of commitment normal or something we should both be concerned about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

29 February 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together nearly a year. It's the deepest connection I've ever felt with someone and he feels the same. Like puzzle pieces fitting together. But my other half is scared of commitment. As he puts it, half the time he...

I'm feeling guilt and shame about meeting up with my ex when my now fiance and I were first dating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

29 February 2016 (F) - Hi, Hope you can help with a dilemma. I met a great guy 18 months ago and now we are engaged. Our first two weeks were strange though. He was convinced it was the real deal me less so. Two weeks later we split before getting back togeth...

Beautiful girlfriend makes me feel worthless

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

29 February 2016 (M) - I really need help. My girlfriend is threatening to break up with me and it seems all I do is not enough. Right now she's telling me she's broken up and that she doesn't want me. But come later that may change. It's the same yesterday. We agre...

Finding a nice guy makes me want to run. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - I dumped my emotionally and verbally abusive BF about 4 months ago. I have absolutely no feelings towards him and am thrilled to get him out of my life. When I date, I tend to be a "woman who loves too much". Each relationship I have had ends in...

Have I rushed into dumping him ? How can I ask him for another chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - I dont know if ive made a mistake , I dumped my boyfriend yesterday because i came last in his life. I know work and family come first. I wouldnt expect to come before them, but he couldnt give me the time i wanted. I'm not demanding. I'd be ha...

The ex factor. Can anyone think of anything that might help or make it better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3151 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - I have a problem and I don't know what to do about it. I've been with my boyfriend for four years now. A year before we got together he was dumped by his high school sweetheart who he was with for five years. At first he talked quite a lot about...

Any ideas on what to do about my Bf who stares at women too often and for too long?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years we have a baby girl together. The problem is everywhere we go he stares at other women and it makes me feel so unattractive and unwanted, as he never shows me any affection nor love. Nor tells ...

Communication issues with my 21 year old partner. What am I supposed to do in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - Hi So i'm getting pretty desperate for someone to talk to about my relationship problems, and i've put off asking for help so many times because there's so much that needs including in the explanation that you would end up reading an essay. So ...

Dating a 37 year old guy. How can I tell him to use anti- wrinkle cream in a nice way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - So my boyfriend is 37, happy guy and it takes much to irritate him. Though he doesn't look far older than his age, his face wrinkles a lot especially when he smiles. I can't change this fact but it might at least be lessened if he uses moisturi...

Dating. How long should I wait for some kind of chemistry to develop?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - So I'm dating this guy, he's 30, and though we get along really well I'm not feeling the attraction. And I know attraction is overrated, but I notice myself thinking I hope he doesn't put his arm around me or kiss me goodnight, because I'm just not ...

Am I doing the right thing? I want to know if my ex may consider a serious relationship with me in the future. Advice needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

27 February 2016 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles I dont want to mess this up again as I never had any one to advise me on relationships when I was growing up so I made lots of mistakes. Cutting a long story short, I met up with my ex mid last year. Had a few dates and b...

How do I backtrack on the date plans and do something more "appropriate"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

27 February 2016 (F) - I met a guy on a dating site which I was just using on a "see how it goes" basis - met him once and he was cute, so we said we'd meet up again. Texted for over 2 weeks since but we've been busy so we're meeting up next week. I said from the ...

We kissed on our last date. Should I stay with her, even though I am not attracted to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3169 days ago

27 February 2016 (?) - Dating a girl I'm not completely attracted to? I met this girl on a dating app and we've been on two dates so far. I like her personality so far and think shes kind of pretty but I'm not as attracted to her like I was with other girls I've da...

Why why do girls dump guys who treat a girl like an angel?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

27 February 2016 (M) - I wonder why ladies, I never hear a woman, talk about them dumping a nice guy, on here. I here all the time,How they get hurt, by the guy who treated them bad. It does happen all the time, a guy treats a woman fantastic. Then a woman, breaks t...

I made an awful first impression, how can I 'correct' it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3169 days ago

27 February 2016 (F) - Hi i need advice on a dating matter . i am an extremely shy person and i went on a date with a wonderful guy the problem is i drank before meeting him it gave me too much confidence i know how to handle my drink but wanted rid of all the nerves. ...

Should I continue a relationship with someone who doesn't want children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

27 February 2016 (F) - I am currently at crossroads in my life. I found a guy I truly love and loves me for who I am. We seem to be made for each other. In fact, I feel that we are soul mates if not for one terrible flaw in him. He hates children! I have seen the wa...

Should I be this unsettled about the fact he still has a key to the family home? He's separated from his wife.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3169 days ago

27 February 2016 (F) - My new boyfriend of three months is separated after a 20 year marriage ended six months ago. They outgrew each other and there is no love lost for either of them. A divorce and house sale are going through amicably. He rents a flat near his wi...

I'm appalled at his disrespect, but what can I do? Is it time to breakup?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3168 days ago

26 February 2016 (F) - My partner of 3 years goes out each thursday night with friends, this is usually fine but i am at work on a friday so do prefer him not to come in too late. He usually comes in about 1am. Weve had a number of arguments about this mainly because ...

Is this a break-up? Boyfriend and I haven't talked in 3 days after argument. Please help

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

25 February 2016 (F) - On Monday me and my boyfriend got into a fight over something small and now he hasn't said one word to me in 3 whole days ! I'm worried. I don't want it to be over I just wanna work it out . yesterday he called and let it ring 3 times and hung up ...

His comment was so vague! How do I read into it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

24 February 2016 (F) - I am in my 40s and had noticed this guy that I thought I had recognised from years ago but didn't feel I could go up and ask him. I left my number with the local coffee shop for him and he text me that same day and turned out that he used to live ...

How can I successfully encourage my Bf to take better care of himself and improve his personal hygiene?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

24 February 2016 (F) - I want my boyfriend to take better care of himself when it comes to hygiene and clothing. I don't think I'm asking for too much: I would like him to brush his teeth twice a day, I would like him to shower and wash his face once a day, I would lik...

My girlfriend is unhappy that I'm watching porn so she retaliated by posting photos of herself on the internet!

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 3170 days ago

23 February 2016 (M) - Ok I'll get straight to the point. Like most women my girlfriend hates porn. I told her when we got together that I didn't like it either, but recently she caught me watching it. We've now been together for 3 years. Needless to say she got really ...

How can I make my girlfriend secure? She's heard my ex is now free and is acting strange

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

23 February 2016 (M) - My life is like a soap opera and I don't know what to do about. A girlfriend breaks up with me. I try to reconcile, but she's with someone else so I move on. I am still in a little pain or rebounding, but I began a new relationship with another ...

I'm worried my girlfriend might have cheated on me but I'm afraid to know

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

23 February 2016 (M) - I don't know if my girlfriend cheated on me, and I'm scared to find out. About a month or so ago, my girlfriend of about 6 months went on vacation to her home town with her family, which happens to be where her ex lives. He's an old friend of he...

I have feelings for a co-worker but what about my boyfriend of 3 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

23 February 2016 (F) - I think I have feelings for a guy at work, despite being in a relationship with my boyfriend of almost 3 years. I know it's dangerous getting into things with other colleagues at work but on our Christmas works do we shared a drunken kiss, since th...

My boyfriend would rather go into the bathroom and wank off than to touch me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

23 February 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 yrs and he won't touch me sexually he'd much rather go into the bathroom and lock the door and watch other females and he chats with them and tells them that he wants to go down on them and then make love ...

I get anxious about my fiance and his female friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

23 February 2016 (F) - I am currently engaged to a man with whom I have been together, on and off, for the past 8 years. In these 8 years we have gotten together and broken up about 4 times. Inside of these 8 years I had a 2-year relationship with a woman (during the off ...

Is there a way I can help my jealous ex husband move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

23 February 2016 (F) - My ex husband and I seperated over 5 years ago. We have two children in Junior High School. He tries to stay in their lives by coming by our house every morning to drive the children to school. I met a man in another State about a year ago and thro...

Should I give the bank teller my number? Or wait to see if she asks for mine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

23 February 2016 (F) - Does she like me? i frequent my bank, and there is a new teller there and ive notice she is always eager to help me and if I don't go to her window she gets upset and wont speak to me, or if I don't speak to her she gets upset....today I called ...

He just wanted to hook up...why is he texting me ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3151 days ago

22 February 2016 (F) - I posted a thread about a guy who was giving the impression that he just wanted sex and subsequently disappeared when I made it clear that I'm looking for someone to date . Here is recap of this saga -I met a guy when I was out and he gave me h...

What are my options? I can't tell my gf because I don't want to break up with her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

22 February 2016 (M) - Hi, so I’m in love with girl that I’ve been with for 4 years, were 20 years old and we’ve been living together in our own flat for the last two years. She’s an orphan and has little contact with her family and does not have a lot of friends. She’s ...

What can I do? The magic, the spark, is gone from our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

22 February 2016 (M) - Im not sure if i love my girlfriend any more. Im 24 she is 21. We have been together for two years. During that time we have done so much, been on holidays around the world, travelled, all kinds of things. She has helped me in so many ways. I've ...

Am I looking likely to lose her? Or is it because she needs to fight her demons?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

22 February 2016 (M) - Hi, I hope someone can offer me some advice, I'll try to keep this short. I met this woman on a dating site 18 months ago, we hit it off very well, talked or messaged on kik, she has three children by the way. Anyway she has had some emotio...

Did his being under the "influence" bring out his true feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3174 days ago

22 February 2016 (F) - I recently had an odd experience with my BF. He went out to meet a couple of friends for a few drinks (he rarely drinks... maybe 2 or 3 times a year). Anyway I joined them during the evening at his request and long story short. My boyfriend ended up ...

Is this a good sign or does she think I'm not well dressed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

21 February 2016 (M) - I was on a second date recently. We both travelled into town together to see a show. We had a really good time and after the show we had some time to kill before the train back home arrived. We decided to take a look at a fashionable new store that ...

Is it OK to make my girlfriend choose between me and her friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

21 February 2016 (M) - Ok my girlfriend has a female friend, but this friend hates me for no reason and gets "bad vibes" from me. This friend has tried to break our relationship many times and spreads horrible rumours about me even though I've never been mean to her. The ...

I feel as if I'm not enough for him. What's wrong, in that he needs porn before he can climax, when we have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 3 months, its only a short time but i really do love him However in the past week or so we have had some issues when having sex! The past 4 or 5 times we have had sex he has been un able to cum just from sex...

My 27 year old girlfriend shares a bed with her 29 year old brother. Is it a cultural thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3174 days ago

21 February 2016 (M) - So my girlfriend told me that her parents won't allow us to sleep in the same room. I understood and agreed to sleep on the couch downstairs. They live in a 3 bedroom family home, so when her brother arrived that night I assumed they would sleep in ...

Do I lose a friend? Or a potential boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3174 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - i have a problem.there is this new boy in my class and i realy like him. the problem is he oikes my best freind and she goes out with him even though she knows that i really like him what am i going to do i am either going to lose a boyfreind or a...

I need to stop stalking my ex-boyfriend's ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3174 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend for three years and the whole time his ex girlfriend made things really difficult for me. When I started dating him he talked about a female friend a lot, so much it made me feel uncomfortable. But after some time ...

Did I ruin my chances with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - I kind of had one too many drinks on a first date and ended up texting my date after I got home some stupidity that I feel ruined my chances with him. He never called again. I usually NEVER drink on a date, but it ended up happening on the...

Is there a better way to try to date girls who'll like me, and not see me as their 'second choice'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

20 February 2016 (?) - What's the point of dating/settling down with girls who have dated/had sex with better guys before you? In high school/ college the loud fratty tall guys were getting looks/getting talked about and relationships/sex while I had to struggle for ...

Should I continue to trust my BF? My gut instinct is not to.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - Hi Cupids, I have a worry that has been giving me sleepless nights for nearly three months now. All my intuition tells me not to believe my BF anymore. And try hard as I might, I find it very hard to trust him now. All started at the beginn...

Have you ever done anything on a date that caused the other person to never call again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3151 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - I did. And I keep beating myself up for it. Any stories about doing something on a date (or even just in the dating process) that led to never getting called again? Please share! I will feel a lot better...

An ex, a breakup. Why is he acting this way, now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - I fell out with a close friend I became romantically involved with briefly a few years ago. It was a complicated situation but resulted in is not talking for 2 years Then he started making the odd text messages occasionally and even after how he t...

LDR - are we at the same stage in life or in different stages?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3172 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in a relationship of just over year with a guy long distance. I am 33 and he is 31. I am currently moving to this town - this involves moving job, renting out my house and leaving most of my friends. Most of his friends are s...

I'm too conscious about my body to take my shirt off during sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3176 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just under 3 months we have been having sex for the last month, however I keep my top on. I had lost 40kg (80lbs) over the last 5 years and my breasts and tummy sag. He has been so patient and supportive for my ...

Its getting on my nerves that my boyfriend tries to act like my parent and hes the same age as me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3176 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - So my boyfriend is a complete know it all. I'm a big of a laggy in high school, only in my junior year though I'd like to transfer schools. He said I'm being an irrational child over this, and that I'm just mad over failing a class. I actually have ...

My fiance's overbearing brother wants us over every weekend and its exhausting for us. How do we draw the line?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3174 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - Hi- My fiancé and I have been together for almost four years. We dated for two years. We stayed at his parents a lot during this time because there was more space opposed to my parents. His brother and wife would stop by his parents here and...

He's in a relationship but has feelings for me. What should we do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3177 days ago

19 February 2016 (F) - I have feelings for a guy - but he is in a relationship. However yesterday he told me he has feelings for me aswell. What do we do?!...