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Archived questions from: June, 2015 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Am I nitpicking or are these various issues, such as her very bad breath, deal breakers in our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

30 June 2015 (M) - Hiya Agony Aunts. There are a few things that nag at me about this girl I just started dating, and I'm not sure why. As y'all are likely older and more experienced than I am, I'd like your perspective. We started dating about 3 or 4 week...

Have I read it wrong in her interest in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

30 June 2015 (M) - Hey guys. I'll try and make this as short as possible. I went on a date with a girl I met on tinder the other night. It was my first ever date so I don't really have anything to compare it to, but it seemed to go reasonably well. It was a bit odd...

Should I quit my job...and look elsewhere for a relationship with a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

30 June 2015 (M) - Well this may sound pathetic and funny but after breaking up with my last girlfriend 4 years ago...its been very hard for me to find love... It sounds cheazy when a guy says it ...but i really do feel that i need help. I was nt that bad with gi...

My boyfriend speaks English but uses his language most of the time. I don't like it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - Hi, I have been dating a guy over 2 years and in the first year we communicated in English and then after a year I noticed he started talking in his native language to everyone his friends,his parents(which he always did)his sister,his best friend w...

Don't know where to start. Any ideas or suggestions on how to start dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3411 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - So I am 20 years old and I feel like it's time to start dating. But i am completely lost on how to even start. I have female friends but they don't have male friends plus I'm scared to even ask. I don't want to seem desperate. Any ideas or sug...

Is there a way to only be interested in straight women, or am I cursed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

30 June 2015 (M) - So, I seem to have bad luck with women. I personally don't get along with the beliefs of someone who is LGBT, just because of my upbringing. Because of this, my friends and love interests are extremely limited. I have a single lesbian friend...

I don't understand how a person can have more than one significant other and not feel guilty?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3411 days ago

30 June 2015 (M) - Hello all! I have a question that I brought up because of my ex girlfriend. When we were dating, we had gotten together and broken up several times, because she was cheating on me, but she says it is okay that she's with others and all that. ...

Should I wait for the "one"??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3411 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - Hey aunts I want and need advice. A little background about me, I'm soon to be a 24 year old college student who works like crazy. Who's nice,funny and loves to shop. I got my 1st real boyfriend a couple months ago and wow is all I can say. He ...

He's kind of a jerk but the man I think I deserve at this stage in my life. Is it wrong to think that way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - For five months I've known him and we've argued more than I have through any previous relationship! He's stubborn and selfish with anger issues-he knows this. I'm secretive, vindictive and have issues I haven't yet dealt with...my first boyfriend ...

Will it be leading this girl on if I text her? I know she likes me but I don't want to date her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - I used to work with this girl at work and she has a very strong crush on me(workmates all know and she expressed her feelings of love many times). Quite awhile ago she left for another workplace, making sure I got her number to chat with her. I d...

I didn't care for g/f getting heavier but suddenly our sex life has become awesome. Have I conditioned myself to like her body?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - Hi. I'm in a bit of a strange place with my love life and wondered what people thought. I've been with my girlfriend for coming up to six years now, 3 of which we have lived together. I used to absolutely love her slim, toned figure but after we ...

How do I end things gently after 3 dates?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - First date - coffee and dancing. Second date - drinks, dancing, and kissing. Third date - (impressive) dinner at her place, and couch make out session. How do I end things gently as soon as possible? I'm 32 and she's 33. While I had fun o...

I'm afraid my fetish for watching my lady with other men will ruin our relationship. She doesn't want to do this!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - Got a difficult question. I have been with my girlfriend for about 4 years but we have different mentalities. She is set on monogamy and I have a bad fetish of watching her be intimate with other males. I don't mean different males every time, I ...

I thought an older guy would know what he wants but he's sending missed signals

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

29 June 2015 (F) - Is he interested or just playing games! I recently decided to join a online dating site! I met a older guy, he is 51 and I am 40. We first met for coffee, we chatted for a few hours and all went well! He was consistent in his persist with r...

My friend is heart broken and I don't know how to help her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3410 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - Hi , Its been one year since my best buddy has fallen love with her colleague.Beside that her colleague has a girlfriend with whom he wants to get married. She knows it but can't help getting depressed about it.Beside that her colleague tells ...

I'm so nervous about dating that I can't show this guy the real me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

29 June 2015 (F) - Hi, I am really into this guy, you'll know this if you have read my previous questions. He used to work next door to me and would come to visit me everyday at work and would make it very clear that he liked me. We kissed last week but we're not to...

I love my boyfriend but its mentally draining to be with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

29 June 2015 (F) - Hi all, Thank you in advance for taking the time to read my question. I am having some trouble with my relationship and would really appreciate some help in figuring out the problem. I met my boyfriend 7 months ago at my new job. If I’m hon...

Is it worth remaining in a relationship if you don't trust a person?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

28 June 2015 (F) - Is it worth being in a relationship if you do not trust someone? I love my boyfriend, very very much. Yet, I think he does things that are a little shady. Lately too, I've been wondering if he is cheating. He didn't want me to see his phone so...

Was it wrong that I wanted to share a dance with him? He's unhappy with me. My friends say I should leave him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

28 June 2015 (F) - Hi all, so lately my friends have been telling me I should leave my boyfriend.. We've been together for a year and a half.. So this is what happened. We graduated and we had a grad ball for us to celebrate and have a good time. So a day before ...

Does his comment mean he isn't thinking into a future with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

28 June 2015 (F) - I have a question about something my boyfriend said, but here's some background first: I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. We're both the type who are marriage minded, and he has said he is dating me with the end goal of marriage. ...

We have an amazing connection but he says we'll meet up and then never contacts me till its too late!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

28 June 2015 (F) - Hey everyone,here is my problem So this guy I have been seeing we have been on 5 dates to now and it's been very on and off there is no spontaneity,no flow..he disappears then comes right back and ask if we could meet up!last date I told him I find ...

20 never had a boyfriend..am I that ugly? invisible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

28 June 2015 (M) - What's so bad about me? Am I that ugly? Am I that invisible. It's so frustrating that I'm almost 21 and have never had a boyfriend and never had the opportunity to experience love. I feel like guys don't even see me or they just don't care. I ...

Are my reactions to his actions enough to call me clingy and obsessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Am I being paranoid and clingy? My bf of over a year and I recently got into a long-distance situation. Getting used to the distance has put considerable strain on our relationship as he is more extroverted than I am. He's always been a bit of a ba...

Things seemed fine, then he blocked me. Should I just continue on with my life, and if he ever returns then ''so be it''?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - I've been talking to this guy and we really hit it off. We went on a few dates and immediately had a connection. He met my family and they liked him and we planned for me to meet his family next. As we got closer, we talked about more serious thi...

After sex: is it even normal to still cramping up for an extended time?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3414 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Okay im going to ask very bluntly about this. When I had sex with my finance and he layed me down an held my legs up while going in he kept hitting something that kinda felt uncomfortable like hurtish . After the sex I started getting cramps w...

I lost it. Smashed a glass coffee table top. Was I in the wrong for anything? What should I do in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3414 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Hey all... got a dilemma in my almost 3 year relationship. When I first met him I fell in head over heels love with him. We had the very best relationship that made people jealous seeing how happy we were together. Until months went by and I fo...

Are my concerns justified ? He's joined the army and I'm worried that the army will change him and our relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Ok so I just got married to a guy I have been with for about three and a half years. I love him so much, he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He has just enlisted in the national guard/reserves and is currently in basic training...

My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend wants to stay friends with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - We are living together in our own apartment for 3 years now and I just found out one of his female friends that he spends lots of time talking to was one of his exgirlftiends (his first love), she's the only ex that he's still talked too and I've ...

What is the difference between Friends With Benefits and a Long Distance/ Casual Relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - What is the difference between Friends With Benefits and a Long Distance/ Casual Relationship? Call me old fashioned here - but from a woman's point of view - I cannot see how she can get anything from FWB without having some sort of feelings for...

How could he go from being the (I thought) love of my life to marrying another girl five months after we broke up and leave me when I was feeling vulnerable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

26 June 2015 (?) - Hi, I went through a terrible breakup in December. We were in a long distance relationship for 4.5 years at the time of breakup. Last year while I was finishing my masters I got placed at the first company that visited our campus (Top company in ...

Trust is an issue. How do I just be laid back and learn to let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - I'm struggling and trying really hard to trust my boyfriend. I am by nature a suspicious and paranoid person.. I don't really trust anyone and have never been in a relationship where I didn't snoop. My ex of 8 yrs used to laugh at me when I went ...

Is it ok to help him out with money until he starts to get paid again? How do I make it clear it's temporary help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3414 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - I recently started dating a guy, i really like a lot. He has been laid off of his job. Is it ok to help him out with money until he starts to get paid again? I dont make a lot of money but i live comfortably. If i do this how can i make sure he...

Should I still go on seeing this man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - I am recently widowed and have bumped into a man I met about 30 years ago who is also single and an OAP like me. The problem is I do not trust him, we have been going out together for about 18 month now and we have become intimate. He likes ball...

Totally smitten after the first date. How can I keep my cool (and win her over)?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3415 days ago

25 June 2015 (M) - Yesterday I went on for a few drinks with a girl I met online. The date went really well (at least, I think it did); it lasted well over two hours. We have a lot in common, had lively conversation and she is stunningly beautiful. But now I am c...

Should I keep chatting with her and ask her out again when she's settled in uni?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3416 days ago

25 June 2015 (M) - OK . so Im a 24 year old guy, I recently went on a couple of dates, (first time in over 2 year). They both went realy well. How ever a couple of days before the 3rd date she sent me this "im not sure its a good idea , im not interestd in anyth...

She says she will not sleep with anyone while we are "actively working on our relationship" How am I supposed to trust her ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3416 days ago

25 June 2015 (M) - A little background on my marriage, we've been together for 10 years and married for almost 5 and we have an almost 6 year old son. Before this we had only ever been intimate with each other. Back in December my wife and I seperated. I was...

I just want someone to tell me if my feelings are justified?!! Or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3416 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and things have never been perfect from the start but I chose to ignore the first warning signs. We met years ago then lost contact and started talking online again 3 years ago, we decided ...

Any tips? How can I get him to kiss me on our second date ?.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3416 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - I started uni in September and met someone I like a lot. We've chatted loads and I plucked up the courage to ask him out but he said no. I was upset but got over the rejection. But our friendship got a little stronger. We had an end if year part...

I found a hotel key in my fiance's pocket. Help ! I don't know what to do

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - I was doing the laundry last night and I found a hotel key in my fiance's pocket. The day before, he had gone off to run an errand as well as pick up the food shopping and he took so long I started to get worried about him. A trip that should h...

What to do? I Love my Gf, she's pretty, but I'm not attracted to her body

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

25 June 2015 (M) - I need help. I love my girlfriend a lot but don't think I'm attracted to her body. I'm not trying to say she's completely unattractive because she's not, she's actually very pretty. I just don't find myself lusting or wanting her body/sex. I've ...

How could he throw in the towel and walk away like that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - My recent ex bf is 49 and I am 39..we have been together a total of 4 1/2 years with a 1 yr break in between because he thought the grass was greener.. After making him wait I took him back and we dated another 2 1/2 yrs. we broke up almost ...

My Bf is happy to spend and hour or two with me and that's it. I want to spend more time with him. Is my request to him unreasonable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - My boyfriend got mad at me because i've been asking for more time with him. He finds time for everything else then I get an hour here and there. He said he cant keep arguing about this and now won't answer my calls. What do I do? We've been to...

How to turn down dates?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - So I feel a little ridiculous posting this but I never thought I'd have this problem! I need to figure out how to quickly, unambiguously turn men down. I feel so uncomfortable doing it that sometimes when I am asked to get together, I just...

He wants time apart after our years together. Does this suggest that he's already seeing someone else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - Why would my boyfriend after 22 yrs tell me that we need time apart ? i feel he has been seeing someone else he always makes me feel like im nobody to him ...

How do I get my head around the fact that he's rejected me because I have a child?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3416 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - My ex and I were together for a year and we've been broken up for 4mos. He came back a month ago wanting a second chance but then changed his mind. He says that he doesn't want to be with me because I have a child. I'm trying my best not to cry w...

Dating for three years and no sex despite my efforts to initiate! Why isn't he interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - Hi. I have a question about my relationship with my bf. We've been together for almost 3 yrs now and we rarely ever get sexually active. We haven't had sex yet. Neither one of us has had it before and when we try we don't get very far. He is 27 and ...

Would you date someone who was missing one of their hands?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

22 June 2015 (M) - My continued dating adventures have recently led me to confront this issue. Would you date someone who was missing one of their hands, and why or why not? I'm interested in all perspectives. ...

My boyfriend's parents aren't taking proper care of his little sister and I'm worried he may try to gain full custody of her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - Hey everyone, This isn't a typical dear cupid topic, but it's about my boyfriend and his relationship with his family so I guess it's something.. Anyway. My boyfriend(20) of 4 years is seriously considering contacting social services about...

He claims to have picked me over all these gorgeous women but compares me to them anyway! Should I be flattered or hurt?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a few months and there is something that is starting to get me down. I'd like to know if I'm right to be a bit upset about it. We met each other on a dating site, we get on quite well and we are both very open p...

Nothing happened, but I wish I could have slept with this old friend! What does that mean for my current relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3418 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - I am in a long term (six years) relationship. I do love my boyfriend buthe works all the hours there are in his job. I see him rather infrequently. I met an old friend a month ago for a catch up. We got on really well and it was so lovely.to catch ...