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Archived questions from: June, 2014 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

She invited me to church but doesn't want to go on dates.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - So I recently meet up with this girl I dated in high school and she invited me to church with her and we went together sometimes! So anyways at first I thought she lost all feelings for me but the first time I went with her to church I could feel ...

My parents are so strict I am getting teased about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - OK, so I need some advice. My parents are really, really strict and I've NEVER been on a date before. Even when I hang out with friends, I'm not allowed to do it unless they drive us there and back and they're really strict on the amount of time. ...

She has a boyfriend but should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - Every day I can't stop thinking about this girl I like. But she has a boyfriend, she has told me they aren't to serious. Every time I'm alone with her I feel like I should tell her how I feel about her, but at the same time I don't. What should I ...

Is my boyfriend interested in sex but just not with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - I have been with my bf for almost 4 yr our sex hot and heavy in the beginning now its no where to be found the occasional cuddling, peck on the lips. Sex we don't talk about it, I have to ask for it and Im sick of that I am attractive and I feel ...

My boyfriend wont take responsibility for his actions!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Hi all. When my boyfriend has had too much to drink he can be very argumentative, he misunderstands things I say. Last week he asked a stupid question and I gave a stupid answer, he got angry, when I tried to explain he said he never said that. Then ...

I lied about my age by one year. Now we're getting really serious. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - HELP, I met this guy online and he was really awesome. No we are not dating but I lied about my age when we met. And I'm scared he will be mad if I tell him but It will be weird if he finds out later on. We have a three year age difference h...

How can I overcome my jealousy and my fears that he might cheat and my insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Please help guys. I need to stop being so insecure all the time with my boyfriend, I'm so scared im going push him away. I just get so scared he's going to cheat on me or whatever do something. He hasn't really given me a reason to doubt him he t...

I think I'm falling out of love. What can be done to improve the situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year now but it doesn't feel like we're dating anymore. we dont go out much, we never really did, but we would always go to each others houses and hang out have sex and chill. i keep urging him to do ...

Was I right to throw the creep out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - When your kids hate the guy you are dating....watch out. No telling what they will do. I had been seeing a fellow for about 6 months or so, and my two girls could not stand him. He was trying to play the concerned parent part. He never lived in...

He didn't check up on me when I was in the hospital

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - Hey everyone... I'm really going through a lot right now and it's hurting me. So me and my boyfriend been going out for a while now but he broke up with me because he said we have different personality, but we started talking again and tried to...

LDR issues. Do I confront her over her Ex issues ? Do I insist on seeing her to work things out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - LDR issues.Do I confront the issues? Do I insist on seeing her next weekend? To try to work things out with her? For years I ignored the feeling in the back of my mind that I may be gay. However about 3 months ago a friend signed me up to a gay dati...

Four months of dating and he's giving me mixed signals

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - Hello uncle and auntie's, I have posted a concern before regarding my four-month relationship with this guy. This guy and I have been together for four months and everything was going well it's just that he has and ask me to be his girlfriend. ...

My boyfriend hides couples photos of us on facebook but the ones with his ex girlfriend are there for all to see!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - Hi there, nothing major. just a quick question. My boyfriend keeps hiding photos of us together from his facebook timeline thing. This is going to sound very petty, but I'm just a bit worried that he's embarrassed about me or somethin...

I worry I might be too desperate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

29 June 2014 (M) - So a few months ago I met this girl on an online dating website and we hit it off so quickly. Everything was perfect and we had so much fun. About a month ago, we decided to start dating exclusively and thing went ok for a while. But recently we've ...

Online dating guide - with really good advice for you

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - So why use Internet Dating? Over the last few years Internet Datings popularity has soared! There are now millions of us looking for love, romance and friendship online. Like so many aspects of life - shopping, banking, communicating with frie...

My Gf never initiates sex. Makes me feel I'm the only one who wants it. How can I encourage her to initiate sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - For the ladies, Ive been with my babe for 4 going on 5 years and we had sex about 2 months ago and both lost our virginity to each other. Awesome! But the whole time we have been together I always (if not mostly) initiate our intimacy and as her ...

What are your opinions on this close friendship my BF has with this long term friend who's a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Dear cupid, Ok so am new to this however I will appreciate the advice you guys give me. I am currently with a guy i am in love with. We celebrated our 3yrs anniversary of knowing each other earlier in June. He and I are very happy together now b...

I am primarily attracted to men who don't seem to find me attractive and it hurts. I'm well educated, articulate and curvy. What do I need to consider or do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I'd really value your thoughts and advice on my situation. First I'll give a bit of background to give you a better picture. I'm a 24 year old black girl from London and I am primarily (but not exclusively) attracted to white ...

If we break up will he give up on our daughter too? I am tired of his abuse and his behaviour

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - I know he treats me bad but sometimes some people re abusive because they love you too much, this is my baby daddy and he is emotionally abusing me. He left me pregnant and came back when baby was 3 months blaming me for making him leave. We ...

Am I in a hopeless position re my Bf and confused? I very lonely here, my family lives overseas

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Being with this Muslim guy for about 4 months. Is the second time he break up with me saying that he's a bad guy and I am too "drama" for him.. But he changes his mind 10 min after and is like everything is fine.. Then he says he wants to be only...

What's a 32 year old Virgin to do if he feels like a Nerd in his own community - if he wants to get girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - Modnote: I allowed 2 of the videos as I feel that they contributed important understanding. I did not allow the Fleshlight video. I watched all 3 videos before I allowed the 2 in. The rest below is from the Original Poster - - - - - --- Well..I n...

He's lost his job and now I feel like we're over. He's cold and distant. Is this relationship over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - He's lost his job and now I feel like we're over? My bf was the sweetest, caring and very attentive when he had a job. But he's lost his job 6 months now and he's just so distant and cold. He hardly calls or texts me. We argue every time w...

Serious relationship for 2 years. Yet he flirts. He says he doesn't want to be mean or hurt their feelings. But what about my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - As much as I love my boyfriend I seem to have a problem with something - the way he acts with other woman. My boyfriend is what most people would call a 'natural flirt' and honestly it bothers me a lot. We live in a small town and he knows a lot ...

How do I tell my Dad that I'm dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - Alright so I'm 14 and going against my dad's rules, I've been dating this boy for 8 months. I want to tell my parents in dating this guy and I know how to tell my mom but how do I tell my dad? I mean what's the big deal, I've never done drugs or ...

My boyfriend broke up with me out of the blue!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a little less than two years. We met at work and were friend for a year before getting together. I moved to another town for grad school 7 months ago, but we still see each other at least once a month and ...

My best friend showed me a picture of my boyfriend kissing another girl and he had the audacity to tell me I betrayed this relationship because I choose this "other source" over him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - My best friend showed me a picture of my boyfriend kissing another girl. When I confronted my boyfriend he demanded who had told me. I ever gave him the name. He then told me I betrayed this relationship because I choose this "other source" over ...

I fell pregnant, he left me and now I'm having to deal with a miscarriage on my own

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - Hi, I had been in an unstable relationship with my ex for 2 1/2 years. He cheated and lied to me god knows how many times and for whatever reasons when he promised to be a better man i always took him back. The final straw was when he turned u...

I caught my boyfriend on dating website with profile. He denies it. Do I tell him to take a hike?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - Hello So my bf of 3yrs was caught on a dating site. My friend happened to ne on the same site and alerted me. I confronted him and he had some lame excuse for being on it. I asked if he had met anyone off of there, and he said no of course. He sa...

Should I worry about the child getting in the way

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a few months, he is lovely and everything is going great. But!!! he has a two year old son I have never met him as we both decided until we are ready to commit to each other, I won't meet him. I love kids and I'm ...

Did something die in him and he's just in it for the sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I apologize in advance for the lengthiness of my story. I just really need to vent as a sort of closure. Any advice or opinions would be greatly appreciated. I've been seeing a guy for the past 7 months. I know him for over a year as a former cowo...

I called off the wedding. But how do I get past the guilt if I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I was until recently, engaged to be married. I called off the wedding because my fiancé yells a lot, is very stressed (life choices, poor planning, disorganization, plus regular stresses of job, kids, etc.), blames me and others for everything, ...

He's showing no remorse and says my insecurity is the issue. Am I over-reacting over the video?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been off and on for the past 3 years. Within the past 5 months we have finally decided to get serious. We've been living together for 3 months. In the past out relationship has majorly been unstable because of his lack of ...

Etiquette for sex and periods??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I have recently got a new boyfriend, everything's going well, but I have a question so looking for some advice for people in the same situation. We have a lot of sex, which is great, I'm loving it, especially after having none for a good few years...

My girlfriend says she wants my last days to be happy but they aren't because of her flirting and sexting

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

26 June 2014 (M) - Dear Agony Aunts, Uncles, I really need some perspective and help with my relationship. I caught my GF flirting with someone, proposing to meet them through Twitter and even talking about getting together when I die (I have cancer) a few mo...

Should I be upfront with my parents about seeing someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months already and the only person who knows is my older sister, I've asked my mom if I can date and she said yes it's fine, but my dad would kill me and him if he found out.. Should I be upfront with my parents ...

My boyfriend never takes care of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 2years and 2 months. He never takes care of me, he's always complaining about not having Money. Whenever I bring up the issue, he's like how will I know your needs when you don't ask me? I decided not to ask him for ...

My boyfriend is avoiding our friends and they are asking about him. How do I help resolve this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I have an absolutely wonderful boyfriend of nearly 2 years, pretty much your stereotypical best friend turned boyfriend. However, he seems to suffer from anxiety which can lead to paranoia. Initially this was about appearance to the extent where he ...

He brought an 18 year old home and wanted a 3some. What to do to cope with my bad feelings over this?.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - I am dating a guy that I am crazy about, I am not what you would call a woman that has had the greatest track record with men, two divorces and several lost relationship problems in between with men and woman. Needless to say, been single for a wh...

Is she worth it? Or should I stay away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

25 June 2014 (?) - Perhaps it is my age, given that I am a sophomore in high school, or that I am just flat out stupid, but my ex girlfriend has caused issues yet again. I will not use names, so let's call her.... 'K'. And me as, 'A'. Freshman year of high...

Am I overthinking the dream, or do I really not know enough about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - I'm dating this guy and have been for just over a month and only now realised how naive I've been and I wanted an outside advice to see if it's just me thinking this, or if I am right. I had this dream night before last and it was strange, in the ...

How can I trust my boyfriend when he promises he won't cheat on me again?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - I want to be able to trust my boyfriend, I really do but at times I can't help but doubt what he says when I know he has cheated and lied to me before. We have been together on and off for four years, nearly five. He cheated on me after about a ye...

He went away without me and I feel like I need to even the score

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - My BF of a year and a half is away for a month. Visiting family in South America. I am not going because I have no $$. He knows this and still went for a month without me. I am hurt and jealous and annoyed. It comes after several rocky months of him ...

I'm worried that my on/off boyfriend is leading a double life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - It's been about 10 months of a on again-off again relationship on his part. He comes up with reasons to break it off. I have yet to be invited to his home. He swears that he's just a private person that does not let every girl he meets into his life ...

I need some dating advice to help me approach women

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

25 June 2014 (M) - Hey all, bit of a weird question, I'm a 23 year old male, who has had 1 girlfriend, and I am a virgin. Great introduction! But, I'm starting to realize that my view on dating is perhaps 50 years out of date. I think that two people should be...

My boyfriend keeps playing games, breaking up with me, taking me back and being controlling. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years plays break up game with me often these days. It goes like this: i'll make him angry by not keeping our place clean as I came late from work or ask him what's wrong when he is sulking or demand I need attention from h...

Advice for a long distance relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - So let me start from the beginning: I'm 15 years old and met my boyfriend at school in August. This was the first year he had ever been to my school, and unfortunately appears to be the last. We've had arguments and such but they always draw us ...

I am unable to achieve orgasm with my girlfriend. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

24 June 2014 (M) - Hi I am 21 years old and just gotten into a relationship very recently, we have had sex 3 times now, and each time I have been unable to reach orgasm, I think I have somthing called delayed ejaculation... When I lost my virginity I couldn't...

Dating for 9 months. Now she's decided that she's not ready for a relationship? What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

24 June 2014 (M) - She told she is not ready for relationship, I've been dating her for nine months. Now and all of the sudden this happens. What do i do ? Do i wait ? We headed off since we first met everything was good we had great conversations we wen...

How can I convince them to give my new boyfriend a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3783 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - I have the most loving yet most judgmental family ever. I need help showing them I'm happy in my new relationship even if its not who they would pick for me. I dated the same guy in high school and my parents loved him, they loved his family, ...

Feeling conflicted about being in a relationship yet I don't want to break up. How do I resolve this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - Hello agony aunts! I've never really opened up about this particular thing to anyone in fear of people judging me. Basically, I want to stay in a relationship but at the same time I really don't. I've been with my partner since I was 15 a...