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Archived questions from: December, 2014 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

My daughter wont let him in the house, and my parents say to leave him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

31 December 2014 (F) - I'm 43 been in a relationship over a year and a half I love him but he cheated on me with his ex, we got back together and I fell pregnant all my family are telling me to have an abortion and get rid of him I love him it's over between him and his ...

Should we postpone our wedding until we have a house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3345 days ago

31 December 2014 (F) - Hi, I have applied for a house with my boyfriend which is supposed to be completed in 2018. However, since we are both 30 this year, we thought of the idea of getting married first and living separately until our house comes. Another option i...

I want my ex take an HIV and STD before rekindling our relationship. What if he refuses to do so?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

31 December 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid,I haven't been with my ex for over ten years we are talking long distance now and have hopes of rekindling our relationship, but I am in fear of having sex with him . I want him to take an HIV and STD test before I give myself to him agai...

Should I give up on Prince Charming? Says he won't marry me unless I agree to become a swinger with him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I am a very attractive, tall, successful, and fun-loving 25-year-old young woman. I am deeply and truly in love with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. Our sex is amazing, and the adventures we have together are truly unreal. ...

He wouldn't commit so I ended it and bought a house. Now we might be getting back together...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years, and for the last year I have been unhappy with the progress we've been making. He asked me to move into his home a while back but point blank refused to commit to/discuss any more of a future than ...

I snooped on my boyfriend's Facebook account because I no longer trust him - is it time to break up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - Basically, I've caught him lying to me a couple of times in the last few weeks and I was shocked. I never believed he had it in him and it's taken a lot of begging on his part for me to agree to give him another chance. I've always had an idea what ...

Why am I like this? I just feel my whole life has been unlucky in love - when everyone else seems to find happiness.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - All through my life I have avoided relationships and getting close to guys. When I was a teenager I was quite plain so never got any male attention. However as I grew older I blossomed and had a few men wanting to get close - but never the ones...

I verbally abuse my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I verbally abuse my boyfriend and I am aware that it is wrong. However, I do it so he can pay attention to me. This time I did it while visiting his job. He ask me for a hug and I told him that I did not want to hug him. Then, I proceeded to tell ...

Married friend wanted sex, I refused and said I could only offer friendship and now he's conveniently disappeared!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - Hi. I'd like some advice about something that I think I already know the answer to. Recently a guy friend, who is now married, got in touch and asked if I'd like to meet up over the holidays. I'm also now in a relationship and told him this. H...

Seeing a Filipino guy; is he genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - Recently I met a Filipino guy in the place in a bar where he works. He’s in his early twenties like me. I feel like this has been a weird journey of many misunderstandings on my part and I’ve probably said some things that must have been cultural ...

Loves me, loves me not. Then wants to see me again. Am I expecting too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I'm not sure about what should I do now. I've been with my bf for 5 years and he's going to marry me next year. We used to be so connected and compatible. Our relationship was great. He made surprises and seriously trying hard to make me happy. ...

What's going on? What should I do? He manipulated me into ending our relationship two days before New Year

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I wrote a few weeks ago because my new boyfriend, who had showered me with attention, flowers, dinners, mix tapes, texts, at the start, had gone a bit quiet with me. The first time I stayed over his house (and the first time we had sex), he had a...

I feel cheap doing what he asks. Will I lose my fiance if I stop agreeing to his requests to skype while undressed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I'm in a LDR relationship in which we have met recently and have hadsexual relationships. Everything is well except this man loves sex a lot. He's asked me to undress on Skype and arouse him to masturbate every other night. I've done it twice now...

I said "yes" to a proposal but I was not ready

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - OP's original title ** Call me crazy but I just accepted a proposal from my LDR boyfriend of 6mths. The problem is ever since then there are things about him that I know I won't be able to cope with. I get angry when trying to communicate with him...

A long time friendship is suddenly feeling like something more..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I've been friends with a guy for years I've known him since he was born(our parents lived next door) he's been in and out of my life due to him having feelings for me since adolescent. I never had these feelings as I couldn't get past the brother ...

My girlfriend ignores my calls and only calls back when she needs something

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

29 December 2014 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend over 4year now since then she have been doing some wrong thing in which I just let it go ,but now I can't take it any more she hot my feeling that sometime I feel like crying If call her and she saw the missed calls, ...

I feel I can't do any better than him and will never settle down

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3594 days ago

29 December 2014 (F) - Plz help, I'm so down, and before I go any further information do have a two year old and know I'm lucky to have her.anyway... Everywhere I go my closest friends all seen to b having babies or getting married or even just very happy with the part...

My boyfriend despises my best friend and her husband!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

29 December 2014 (F) - I have a real problem on my hands. My boyfriend of 1 year is absolutely despises my best friend from my childhood and her husband. With New year celebration that he is hosting in his house where I just moved in he blankly refuses to invite my girfr...

Should my b/f have told hix ex why I blocked ber on facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

29 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of six months has a really hot ex girlfriend. I have spent a lot of time looking at photos of her on Facebook and feeling jealous. She dumped him after a few years together and he was heartbroken. I decided to block her on Facebook so ...

Where can I go to meet girls appropriate for my age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

29 December 2014 (M) - Can't login because my email "isn't in the right format". But whatever... I've been feeling a bit isolated since I left my high school during my sophomore year to go to school online. Long story short (well, not really short), it's gotten kind of ...

He asked me not to email or text while he's abroad, because his sisters might see?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

29 December 2014 (F) - Hi all, please see the other question for brief background info as i was already feeling nervous about where i stood. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/when-im-with-him-i-feel-loved-i.html bf of three months, i love him , he doesn't love me ye...

Is there some way to tell if he's ready for a girl friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3595 days ago

28 December 2014 (F) - I met this guy in 2013 (he's 45, I'm 42) and we've stayed in touch, texting back and forth. When I met him, he was going through his first year of separation, waiting to be divorced. We met at the worst possible time. This year in Aug-Sept, we ...

I am forced to leave the love of my life for the love of my parents

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

28 December 2014 (F) - I am forced to leave the love of my life for the love for my parents. We have been in love for past 4years.he has made my life as wonderful as a fairy tale. Not all fairy tales have happy ending. My parents are against marriage. We are from differen...

I can't understand myself

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

28 December 2014 (F) - So I meet men , we break up and later I find out they met someone else in less than a month. They block me from their lives or harrass me by using the other woman or completely disappears out my life. I am getting so sick and tired of this. I feel ...

Are these signals he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

28 December 2014 (F) - *OP's original title* Are these signs coworker likes me? He gently nudged me on the back and when I turned he smiled and walked away He hits the back of my chair so I'll look up and notice him He stood in my way in the lunchroom, he got...

Is she being selfish and should I bring it up in such a new relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

27 December 2014 (M) - To cut straight to the chase, I think my girlfriend is selfish. But is she? Is it just me overreacting? Basically I really like this girl. We've been together about 2 months. We've told each other that we like each other and were not trying to me...

My boyfriend's mother dominates our relationship. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

27 December 2014 (F) - (Sorry, this ended up being a long question. It's a few issues, that all stem from the same issue. I think. I hope the below makes sense!) So I've been with my boyfriend for 14 months and for the most part our relationship is happy and health...

Is her mother being disrespectful for seeking too much information about any sexual relations and of intimacy in our relationship? Why is her Mom asking?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

27 December 2014 (M) - This girl I’m in a relationship with for a year and a half, her mom always asks her if we were having sex. I mean we are two grown adults so why would her mom want to know that information, that’s private. She would tell me how her mom would sa...

Am I being jealous, selfish and disrespectful towards my Gf? Should I put up with her disrespect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

27 December 2014 (M) - Hi, I've been with my girlfriend now for six months, she has two kids to a guy she split from over a year ago. They came to an agreement after they broke up that he would collect the kids and have them stay at his house every weekend. Since me and ...

If I break up with my girlfriend I will have nobody!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

27 December 2014 (M) - My girlfriend complained to me tonight about me not having any friends..we both know it's true, but it stung because we always kept it beneath the surface. I'm an awkward guy and I lack the effort of connecting with people, especially in college ...

Can age gaps work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3555 days ago

27 December 2014 (F) - Hi, why do I always fall for older men! I have had 2 serious relationships one when I was 19 and he was 38. Then I met my daughter's father (48) when I was 22 which ended badly. I swore after that I had to stick to men around my own age, more in ...

I'm looking at buying my own home, but my boyfriend wont marry me unless I move in with him.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

26 December 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. I'll make this quick. I've been with my boyfriend for several years now, and we don't live together. He's recently asked me to move in with him, as a bit of a first step towards settling down, but I'm currently in a position where I'm ...

Will my friends want advice on boys from an ex-christian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

26 December 2014 (F) - I used to be quite the devoted christian girl; at high school I was even the leader of certain girl-focused cell groups were I'd encourage girls about valueing themselves by waiting till marriage to have sex. And now, a year later and at university, ...

She left me at Christmas

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

26 December 2014 (M) - So my girlfriend and I have been off and on the past year. Everything seemed alright she had been staying at my house for the past week. She got a DUI and has been worried, Christmas time makes her depressed. Any way I woke up at 5 am and she was ...

Her words have me confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

26 December 2014 (M) - When my ex broke up with me I told her how I wanted to marry her and that I was secretly saving money on the side to buy an engagement ring. She told me “Don’t buy her a ring because she wants a ring, buy her a ring because I want to buy her a ring” ...

My father was upset when I said I didn't want to celebrate Christmas.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

26 December 2014 (F) - For the past few years I've been living with my mom who is not always supportive and my father who moved away with my two siblings. Nobody liked living with my mother and I have never gotten along with my brother so I just decided I would stay with ...

Why would he delete messages if they are innocent?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

25 December 2014 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been together around 7-8 months before me there was a girl at work he was friends with or so he says he was friends with they talked on Facebook and he'd give her lifts home she then started to tell people he'd tried it ...

I want to stay calm and be rational but something doesn't add up. Are the texts really innocent?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

25 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is a friendly guy but he takes it too far with women he doesn't know well. When we were going through a bad patch he struck up a friendship with his new single neighbour and she then came on to him despite knowing about me and this ...

My parents are so strict I can't grow my relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

25 December 2014 (F) - I'm 15. Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years now. We go to the same school and are in the same grade but we don't have any classes together. So, we only get to see each other between a few of our classes. Neither of us have our own ...

Would you be jealous of this cheat's wife if you were me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

24 December 2014 (F) - I'm writing to this site because i'm feeling pretty conflicted. I used to have a physical relationship with someone who was very wrong for me and it destroyed any self esteem i used to have. Most of the time i was miserable when it was going on. ...

My boyfriend is emotionally unavailable so I cheated. Now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3598 days ago

24 December 2014 (F) - I have been with my bf together for 1.5 years and for the past 6 months, we have been arguing a lot (a weekly basis, and it always ends up with me crying). Things we argue about: him flirting with other girls excessively, him texting other girls ...

She's been flirting with another girl. What are my options? I don't think I can cope with her actions and threats.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3578 days ago

24 December 2014 (F) - I honestly don't know what to do. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years and we've lived together for the last year. I pay all the bills as she works part time and i work full time and everything has been going great. Last month she...

18 months together and all was well. So why has he started being distant with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3599 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is being very distant and i dont know what to do. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. So far everything has been hunky dory! Hes fab! I love him, he loves me and were planning to buy a house together next year so we ...

I think I love her, but I'm so confused about how I feel. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3600 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - I'm a 17 year old girl, who is currently dating another girl. I think I love her, but I'm so confused about how I feel and about my sexuality. I feel like I'm denying my happiness by not being open about my relationships and sexuality...help?...

He feels responsible for his depressed ex gf......how do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy for a month now. We really like each other and things were going great. Til now. I dont know the ins and outs of why he and his ex of 7 years split up back in summer but I do know that they werent right together and they ...

This is not the first time he has done this to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf wanted to go celebrate newyear in NY. So I have booked tickets and did all the other arrangements which costed me a whole lot of money. Now he is complaining about the flights, hotels everything. I have actually checked with him...

Do December May relationships ever work, especially if the woman is older?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - Do December-May relationships ever work in the real world? Woman older, man 17 years younger....

How can I get him to show more affection for me and be lovey-dovey to me? we have been dating for 2 weeks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3600 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend isn't very good at making moves? So weve been dating for a couple weeks now and before that weve been best friends for nearly 2 years. He asked me out, however he isn't really the "lovey dovey" kind of person. I want him to be and my f...

How can I deal with my frustration at the rude ignorant behaviour of my Bf?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - I will keep this short. My boyfriend and I were in (large well known store) tonight. The cashier was being very slow and having difficulties with the register or something. WE had to wait...My bf then starts saying OUT LOUD something along the ...

EVERYTHING IS GREAT!! ................ except for our sex life.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3599 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - Let me just start by saying I LOVE my partner very very much. All I want is to make him happy and NEVER hurt him. He is 21, I am almost 23. We have been together for 3 years and have lived together for 2. He is my best friend in the whole world ...