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Archived questions from: January, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I feel as if I go out of my way for everyone and no-one can be bothered when it comes to me.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - Its' my birthday today. A milestone. A special one. I've had a tear in my eye most of the day – not because I have reached 40 but because I feel so let down and now I'm feeling that maybe I'm being unreasonable, selfish and ungrateful. Situat...

I haven't heard from him in a few weeks. Does that mean he wasn't interested?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - I met someone a few months ago. He is a lot older than me (15 years) and when I met him he was just finishing a relationship and we had a few dates. We spent the night together a few weeks ago but he wasn't sure about it because of just coming out ...

Menu ideas for a romantic dinner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - hi guys just looking for a tad bit of help. been with my partner for 5 half years now. been engaged a year and this september were getting married. :-) my partner is in the merchant navy with a pretty good rota..he works 3weeks away and 3 weeks...

Boyfriend in love with his ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - Hello, I got back with my ex of 6 months January, after finding out that he had never broken up with his ex of two years. He felt really guilty and kept saying how sorry he was. He was being really lovely and paying me lots of attention. Everythi...

Engaged but not ready to marry

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for a year and a half. We are engaged with no set date. I know he loves me and I don't want to throw away a loving relationship for no reason, but I don't think my feelings for him are very deep. I'm worried if ...

Would you end a relationship because your partner is untidy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - Would you end a relationship because your partner is untidy and unorganised ?. My boyfriend is lovely. He treats me very well, but one thing i don't like is that his house is a mess a lot of the time and unorganised. He doesnt have a bed. He has ...

I've liked this guy for a long time but don't think he feels the same. Do I tell him or walk away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - I have been attracted to this guy for quite a long time now, i think he knows it but i dont think he feels the same way about me. I used to speak with him online just as friends and really liked his personality, he was very deep and i just really e...

Do sparks die down after a certain point in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - Hi, I just had this thought and it made me wonder,do sparks die down after a certain point in a relationship?do men get bored of their girlfriends?how do u maintain these sparks? I know some of you will say,if your in love it will never die down,b...

Increasingly jealous and insecure for what reason? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - I'm 21, my boyfriend is 26, we have been together for almost 2 years. He is *amazing* in bed, gives me many intense orgasms whereas he doesn't come easily (a woman's dream since it means he stays hard for a *while* without 'arriving') My questi...

What's the point in telling a guy you've fallen for him when you have no intention of taking things further?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

31 January 2013 (M) - Hi people, i'd just like to ask opinions on this matter. Basically I'm a 29 year old single male whose not going out of his way to look for a relationship, but open to one if the opportunity presents itself with a worthy candidate. A bit about my...

How can I stop torturing myself thinking about the night my b/f had sex with another girl

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years. A year into our relationship we had some bad problems, mainly that my boyfriend hated the fact that I was friends with my ex and he became convinced I was going to cheat on him with him. (I never did not ...

I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend and I wish I wasn't.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - I need help or someone to talk to... I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend and I wish I wasn't. We've been broken up for 2 months but he is moving halfway across the country in a month, so we've been spending time with each other, acting li...

How do I handle girls flirting with my boyfriend in front of me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles! My question is : how to hande girls flirting with my boyfriend in front of me? See, today I went to a bank with my boyfriend, we are very serious, and he really wants to be married and wants me to meet his parents. He i...

I'm worried that my Bf is getting tired of me. He's even said he does not feel he "needs" to see me. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - I have been really worried about my relationship lately, and really need some advice. I'm worried my boyfriend is getting tired of me, or if this is just normal for a relationship as it goes along? I don't know what to do. help please! I'll try...

Should I apologize for saying that his friendship with this other woman makes me uncomfortable?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, please advise: My guy has a married girl friend who is flying in to his city for a week, without her husband, just to hang out with my guy because she “misses him”. I don’t live with my guy yet, though we’ve been together fo...

Why does my male friend who has a gf txt me every day

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - il try keep this short and sweet...... why would my male friend text me every day. We did have a drunken kiss at christmas and hes been texting me every day since, even tho he has a gf the last couple of yrs. I told him nothing will happen wit...

I hate that my boyfriend said his best vacation was with his ex! Should I be mad?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, we talked with my bf the other day about spending some summer vacation together. We want to go to the sea, because we haven´t been by the sea for a long time. My BF told me he was by the sea few years ago and it was the best, most ama...

I need the strength to despise him for cheating on me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - I don't know what to do. I'm 26, found out my boyfriend of 4 years has cheated on me 2 times, once each time with two different girls. He seemed so sweet and loving up until I just found this out. I have 100% concrete evidence, there's no doubt he...

How do I tell my girlfriend her house is nasty and I wont eat at hers again until the roaches are exterminated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - Should you tell someone you love they are a slob and should do much better about being clean? I'm lesbian and coincidentally my girlfriend is too. Anyways I've recently just begun visiting her home after 3yrs making arrangements to meet up or visit ...

How long should you wait in the ambiguous friends/dating zone, before you give up on the idea of a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - So I meet a guy by chance at a coffee shop a few months ago, he gives me his number and we start dating. We date for a month, and then he just stops calling for no reason. I’m a bit bummed, because I really liked him… but it was still early in the ...

LDR makes me feel insecure. How do I get over it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship with my current boyfriend and we talk everyday. As far as looks go, I consider myself to be attractive, and I believe we are very compatible personality-wise, and we have many similar interests. We've been ...

What should I do? Call it quits until he gets his stuff together or tough it out a little longer?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we have been together for 2 months. I've known him 9 months before actually making it official. Anyways at this time he's currently jobless and Car less . He has been applying for any kinda of job yet nothing has come up. He ...

Is this a normal cooling off period or silent treatment/emotional abuse/manipulation?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - I have been dating a man for just over a year. We broke up at one point for three months because he got cold feet about the relationship. (He’s been divorced for a number of years and hasn’t had a committed relationship in that time, only dated ...

Is it a bad sign if she says she's waiting to see if there is a spark after we've kissed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

30 January 2013 (M) - Is it a bad sign if she says she's waiting to see if there is a spark after we've kissed? We hung out a little bit as friends. We went to see Les Miserable where we held hands. Since then we have been together a couple of times, holding hands an...

Friend goes MIA when there's a guy on the scene. Do I drop her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - My good friend since highschool has always been the type to go Mia when a guy pays any attention to her. She will ignore me for months until the guy leaves then she wants to be my BFF again. It has come apperent that she values our friend ship less ...

My ex is going to marry my friend soon, and I always will wonder what if?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

30 January 2013 (M) - Hey everybody! I'm a rookie on this site, and this will be my first time talking about this I don't want to waste anybody's time so I'm sorry for the long post and if you take the time to read it all the way through I greatly appreciate it! I'm ...

Cheating:( How do guys keep their girlfriend from cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

30 January 2013 (M) - How do you keep your girl from cheating? Please i am asking for a range of different answers, so please give me your opinion on whats the best way to keep a partner faithful, or atleast, what actions can a guy do, to keep her girl from seeking ...

Did I over-react? I thought we had a connection. Maybe not? I feel he's messing with my mind!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - Hello I just wanted some views on my situation. I met a guy on holiday and we kept in touch. I went back to visit him and we spent lots of time together. I met his family and his friends again. When we were apart we always have arguments ov...

What can I do to make it easier for us both to adjust to living together? He struggles with dealing with my 3 year old daughter and I think I'm pregnant again.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - Hi everyone i recently moved in with my boyfriend and I am finding it extremely hard work. He is very argumentative. The least little thing i do sets him off. He is always having a go at me i feel like im walking on eggshells all of the time. W...

Never violent, nor unfaithful. But we did horrible things to each other. Yet I love her still. How can I get over her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - I was with the most amazing woman in the world! The time we spent together was the most amazing time I have spent with anyone. We got each other on every level. Mentally and physically! When things were good they were the best they have ever bee...

Does this 'ho ho ho' mean a laugh or a prostitute?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Hi there! I recently went into hospital to have an operation, and my partner who I've been seeing for nearly a year has been looking after me and has been my rock really, well I noticed in his inbox on facebook a message from his mate asking how...

how can I stop myself from sabotaging this wonderful relationship with my own paranoia and jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - I have been with my current boyfriend for four months. He was an acquaintance who I knew as a friend of several different friends of mine, one of which he was involved in a casual sexual relationship with for about a month. He needed a house to ...

How do I let a friend know I don't want to date him without disclosing my relationship status which is changing soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - I have been with my lovely boyfriend for a year and a half. We have had a great relationship but recently have seen him more like a best friend than boyfriend... I just don't fancy him any more, much as I care about him, and it's getting really ...

Is it normal to hardly know someone after going out on 2 dates?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Is it normal to barely know someone after 2 dates? I'm 20 years old, recently met this 21 year old guy that comes to my university, we both live near campus and have seen each other twice. First time he came around to my house and the 2nd time I w...

My girlfriend does not know if she would marry me, but ultimately wants to be married.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - I started dating my girlfriend back in 2010, and for me it became love at first sight. She felt the same and then we started the relationship and everything was perfect. I will admit, I was not the most emotional person and I tend to express my ...

Should I date a guy who's shorter and younger than me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid! I'm a 17-years old girl and there's this 15-years old boy, we kind of like each other. But wouldn't it be weird to date him? People would talk about us. Also he is a few cm shorter than me, I think, and to be honest, looks more like my ...

Advice needed regarding catching my girlfriend sexting

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - I am a 36 year old guy who has been in a relationship with a lady whom I met online 6 months ago. We have become very close but last weekend I found text messages on her phone to at least 3 other men that were explicit in nature ( in both words and ...

Why did my B/f have three naked pictures of the same girl on his phone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - I have been with my partner nearly two years now, he has never been the type to admire any other girls ever.. he got a new phone and when he had it I said would you like some pictures of me to get off to when I'm not around he refused and said he ...

Getting attached too quick... and how do I change my outlook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - Hi everyone ok i met this woman about 3 months ago its going ok i really like her mores the point i REALLY like her to where im obsessing over her constantly worried as to where i stand with her she has a very successful career as a solicitor where ...

My ex is threatening me by saying that unless I get back with him, he will assassinate my character and ruin me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - i am from India..i am in a major trouble. i broke up with my boyfriend because he was so manipulative and controlling. he made my life like hell.In the initial days of our relationship i gave him my gmail and facebook password.Not even in my dr...

Your thoughts on this? He's verbally abusive, spends time online gaming and watching porn. Have to ask him for his % share of bills. Is this relationship working or is there an answer?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - hey guys i am writing this because i am at the end of tether with this man who is supposed to be my husband. We have been married for 4 years and it was long distance. I moved to the US about a year ago and since coming here my relations...

Should I remain a friend to my ex, or should I leave him alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Should I remain a friend to my ex, or should I leave him alone? BACKGROUND: My ex-boyfriend and I dated for three years in university then broke up. Before we split up we never fought. We are both down-to-earth and had only dated one...

Is 22 too young for a man to really settle down? Do we know each other well enough to make this decision?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - I am 21, I went to school with this guy, that we will call GUY. So..we have texted and talked via facebook/text for a while, off and on, but for these last few weeks we have talked heavily. All day everyday. We can't hang out at this moment ...

Any tips to help me get over this and move on? I am about to break up with him. He's happy I'm leaving. His teenage children rule the house. He refuses to back me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Hi, I won't make this too long but would really appreciate some of your views. My partner has asked me to move out of his house. We have been together 5 years and i moved in 3 1/2 years ago away from all my family and friends. He has 2 kids tha...

Is my Bf bi-sexual or gay? He says he's shared oral sex with guys. Do I seem to have a closed mind?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 months recently told me that has fooled around with men before. He hasn't had sex with them, just oral. I wasn't ok with this when he told me and I am having a really hard time with it. A lot of people tell me that if a guys e...

Am I over-reacting? Should he have left me alone? Was I right to refuse to go to a place where I'd be the only woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - So here's my story. I'm visiting my fiance where he stays due to work. Yesterday he wanted us to go watch soccer at his friend's place (actually home boy), I refused to go because I don't know his friend's friends and I was going to be the ...

Everything things my guy and I have the perfect relationship. But I feel confused and I'm thinking of breaking up or cheating. I already talk online to a guy. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4292 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - Hey, sorry for being dramatic about this but I didn't know where else to go for help, thanks for reading. I've been with my boyfriend since 2009, and he is 3 years older than me. I came out when we started dating, and it was hard, very difficult w...

What to do? He's abusive to me and humiliates me. I've lost confidence in myself, and in him, because he shares everything about us with his friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Hi, I just want know what to do with a boyfriend that listens to his friends advices for almost everything. When we planned to buy a house he took all the documents about what was happening.and talked to his friends. He has been abusive to me an...

Got dumped by BBM and then he deleted me as a contact as soon as I read it

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - If you are familiar with BBM you will know that someone knows when their message has been delivered and then eventually read. Today I got dumped by BBM and then as soon as he saw that I had read the message, he deleted me! What a coward!! Duh... I ...

I do have herpes, but not more than that. But was he being flippant, or weird with his response, "that he'd still like me even if I did have AIDS"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - So I went to high school with this guy a few years ago. I lived in a small town so we all knew each other. I have started "talking" to him and we have grown so close, we have not had sex. Well, this may be TMI but, I have herpes. And I was too sc...