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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Why is he lying to me if he isn't doing anything wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - I am in a new relationship, have been with the guy for about ten months now. It has recently turned into a long distance thing which is fine as I have done it before. I trust him.. or at least I did. He is gud friends with a girl, which is fine, ex...

I like my best friend's brother, but should I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - Okay so my best friends brother is amazingly cute and I sadly like him alot and he works down the street from my job and with out fail he comes and visits me at least to 4 times a week with out fail . He doesn't even work.on saturdays and he'll ...

I really fancy her, and she said she'd want to lose her 'V' to me, but now what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - hi, added this girl on FB a while ago and after a lot of chatting and stuff i managed to get her number (she is 16, i am 19) so we have been texting and flirting hinting to each other that we should meet up and stuff, i went away for the weekend to ...

She is very down and I worry about her, should I tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - Hi. I have a female friend who has recently separated from her husband. I have made it clear that I am here for her if she needs me to be but have tried not to smother her. She has other close friends. The problem is that she will send me a message ...

Should I marry him now or wait until I finish school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4414 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - I was in a relationship for five years.my boyfriend cheated and left me when i got pregnant.i had my baby and take care of him alone.He had never shown to me that he care.Then i chose to be a single mother,and my son carry my last name.Later on,he ...

Today marks the end of our month break... now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - Well today is day 30 of our 1 month agreed to "break". For those of you that have read my other posts you will know that I've been through a lot with my boyfriend of 3.5 years and while he kept telling me he wanted to marry me and that we have the ...

Is my boyfriend's behaviour normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - I just wanted opinions to see if my boyfriends behaviour is normal or not. so I left his house around 12 this morning to meet my best girlfriend for a coffee and I told him that i MIGHT go to a shop to look for bridesmaid shoes as my friend a...

I'm shy, how can I tell he likes me without asking him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - So my friend tried to set me up with her college friend around 5 months ago. I wasn't interested at first but recently we've started talking again and it's got to the point where were talking everyday. We haven't met yet but were arranging to. I've ...

Can't believe he spoke to me this way! Should I forgive him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were having a disagreement tonight, and it ended with him saying 'f**k you you little piece of s**it' then he hung up on me - in the 2 years we've been together hes never spoken to me like that, I can't get it out of my head he ...

How can I be sexy to the opposite sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - So I guess I can illustrate my issue with an example. I'm standing in this hip dive bar I like with some friends, and as we sit at a table cracking jokes and making pop culture references, as is the way with most of my social engagements, I see a ...

G/f's ex FWB still contacts her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - Me my gf have been going out for more than a year now we are living together. I don't think of my self as being a jealous or a controlling Bf. Her ex fuck buddy would text her every now and then for a chat. I have never like him contacting her b...

My g/f has been away for 6 days and I sexted another girl. Do I tell my g/f?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - Hi guys, This website is really great and I hope i can get some decent advice from you :) So first off I am going to admit I am a douche regarding what I did, and I feel terrible. My current gf who I have been seeing for five months now is...

What does he mean? He says I changed his life forever

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - Hey, Can you please explain what my boyfriend meant when he said I've changed his life forever? 1. Its changed since he met me and I will always be part if his history. 2. He sees me as being part of his life always? Sorry English isn't ...

Advice needed on how to meet attractive, feminine women

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - I'm a 19 year old female currently studying in college. My sexuality is complicated...I guess I would identify as bisexual but with a strong preference for women. I've been longing to meet a girl and have a relationship (or just hook up as long as ...

I asked him where the relationship was headed and now he seems distant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 3 months. Everything was going really well until I commited the ultimate girl mistake in a new relationship: I asked where this was all headed.... surprisingly he was very calm (i could tell he was annoyed but was ...

I get very anxious when my boyfriend is out with his friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - So me n my bf have been together 4 yrs and sometimes we both go out seperately with friends. We r pretty laid back about it but it seems that I get really jelous over him going out and then I text him and feel like I'm ruining his night out ...

What's going on with this guy? He's playing games with me and I cant figure out what the deal is with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - My question: Is he really sick or did he stand me up? Our history: I met this guy online last year. We talked for 2 weeks and then went out for a dinner date. After the date, he kept insisting that I want to have sex with him. I told him that we...

Boyfriend doesn't seem to understand my needs in bed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4415 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - First off I just want to say that I love my boyfriend to bits. We've been dating for a little over a year and we both lost our virginity after about 7 months. I don't have issues with how long he lasts and he really does try to do foreplay but it's ...

I'm not attracted to my boyfriend's lack of motivation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - I just graduated college with my bachelor's degree. I've been dating my boyfriend for 2.5 years. My boyfriend will be done with his bachelor's degree in December. We've had many conversations about the future, from where we wish to live to if we ...

Why can't I ever get a guy who cares about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Ok so here I'm going to give a little back ground before I ask the question hopefully so you all somewhaht get a better idea of what is going on. In July, me and my ex broke up because I found out he was cheating. Well, I gave him another chance a...

Are we just numb from everything that has happened? Or have we lost our spark?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Hi, I have been with a truly lovely man for 4 years and we were that couple that were so into each other, laughing together and holding hands all the time, absolute best friends. The last 2 years has been a very difficult time for both of ...

It feels like he's rushing things -- is he a player?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Hi everyone,i am a bit nervous these days and i thought of asking for any advice,there is a guy wich i like and i have known him for three years now,we have been in high school together,we started dating and only after three weeks he wanted to have ...

How do I get this balance right between wanting to be myself and neither be a doormat or too much like his ex? I want to be appropriately assertive.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Hello Everyone, I've asked for help before about a relatively new relationship and it was so helpful - but I have another question please... my confidence is still a bit low in regard to relationships because I had a very difficult one for a ver...

Her Mom has agreed to keep it secret. But do I tell my new Gf that I had sex with her Mom in the past?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

29 September 2012 (M) - I have been dating a woman for a few months now and all is going really great. Recently she introduced me to her mother and immediately we recognized each other. A few years earlier we were in a bar and started talking to each other. She is was o...

I have concerns about returning to my FWB. What should I do though? He wants to resume, but his past actions concern me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Hi I realise there is a lot of questions asked about this thank you for any answers in advance I just need some opinions on this situation I have been in a FWB for 18 months now he asked me if it could just be me and him sleeping together and not ...

Can I regain his trust? He doesn't trust me anymore, he says he loves me but he doesn't know if he wants to be with me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4415 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - last week i said to my boyfriend that maybe we should break up but i was stupid for saying it i just thought it would make him happier. ever since i said it things haven't been the same, he doesn't trust me anymore, he says he loves me but he doesn...

My first serious relationship. But many anxieties:( Did you go through anything like this? What helped? What didn't help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - I'm currently in my first serious relationship, and have been finding it very hard to settle into things. I love my boyfriend very much but it has taken me a while to trust him, how to balance my relationship around my life appropriately, how to a...

LDR - Is he taking me for granted or am I being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - I met this guy online around 6 months ago, we are both mature people so I think we both knew what we were doing when we got into this LDR. I let him know about my health which is a severe neurologic condition from day one. He says he loves and ador...

Was I too inflexible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Did I handle this right or was I inflexible? I have been seeing a man for many months and there have been "issues" mostly around him being too busy to make plans etc.. So he travels alot for work and was in town for only two days. He told me how...

Dating in Social Circles

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29 September 2012 (M) - Dating In Social Circles By Frank Kermit, Relationships Dating can be tricky. Does the other person like you the way you think he or she might? Do you really like that person enough to get more serious, or do you want to keep it more casual a...

Busy schedule , no time for my relationship.. help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4416 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - Hi guys! My boyfriend and I are super close but with school and work we've been seeing eachother less and we just aren't as close anymore. Were still getting used to a busy schedule, were taking a break. Everything seems to be going downhill. ...

Living together and dating.. how to secure it..

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - hello, here is my situation.. I need some input.. In Feb 2012 a friend moved in that needed help. we had previously * 10 years ago*had an affair for 2 years, and were ready to move forward togther, and both decided to try to work out our marraige...

He played me and tore out my heart. How could he do this to a good hearted person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. I hope you can help me because I have never felt more down or heartbroken in my life. I have been married for ten years and my husband left me about a year ago. I do not have a lot of experience with men. I have only had my hus...

How do I talk to boyfriend about having children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - Ive just learnt that my bf would want me to have an abortion if i were to fall pregnant now as he doesnt want a kid For at least a few years. He was serious. We've had this talk before but it has never said that. We have been together for 3 years....

Why won't my boyfriend initiate conversation with me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of nearly 3 months and I are both 18. We used to talk just about everyday. Then my phone was stolen which pretty much coincided with exam week, during which we barely talked. He said it was because of exam week, which was ...

Is it weird that we talk on the phone so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - Is it normal that my boyfriend and I talk on the phone constantly when we're not together, busy, or working? It gets to the point his mom comes on the phone in the middle of our conversation and says "Okay it's time to get off the phone you two!" ...

I need a way of telling my boyfriend that I want exclusivity and a serious relationship without him feeling like he has to give up his freedom

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for about 5 weeks and one week ago we had a talk about where our relationship was going. He said he "cant commit" until college finishes up in one or so months because everything is so busy etc. and asked me what I would ...

She never talks about anything so what are we?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4414 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - .. I never posted or asked anyone before for a help .. but what im going through is just too much and I dont have the strength of holding it anymore, i need to have an advice or i need someone to take the heavy weight ... see I met this girl who ...

My boyfriend asked me if he could be friends with his ex girlfriend who he was deeply in love with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - We are engaged to be married and have been seeing each other for 3 years. His last ex-girlfriend dumped him badly. He was deeply in love with her. When we got together after their break-up which was only two months later, he called me her na...

Is he taking me for a fool or am I being needy and pathetic?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - Hi I'm very confused by my boyfriends behavior recently. We've only been officially together for just over a month but I met him 3 months ago which I know is still no time at all but I've fallen hard and I thought it was mutual. Firstly I have...

Things have gone downhill with my boyfriend since I had a termination...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - Hey everyone I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 years now, our relationship is the best thing in my life. About 3 months ago I got pregnant but I wasn't ready to have a child cuz I'm working and so is my boyfriend and I just wasn't ready to ...

I'm having a hard time letting go... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - This guy and I went on and off for 8 months. We moved extremly fast, moved in 2 weeks of our relationship., the first time we split he said he wasn't ready to be in a commited relationship, and the pain felt unbearable. 2 weeks after I was just at ...

My boyfriend of four years is becoming more racist by the day and its driving me mental.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of four years is becoming more racist by the day and its driving me mental. When I first met him he had virtually no interest in religion and if I had known then how much he would change I would never have gone out with him. Now we h...

Does he still like me??? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4417 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I still like this guy that i used to date, even though i have a boyfriend. Things havent been going that well with me and my boyfriend lately. When the guy i used to date found out that i had another boyfriend, he called me and asked if i was in ...

I think I've found the one. What should I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - I think i have finally found my soulmate. I do a class at my gym, been doing it for about a year now. Our instructor arranged a fitness holiday in july to Turkey. On the holiday i got really friendly with girl from our class and we really hit it o...

Sick of being seen as one of the guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - Once again I have fallen into the 'you're like one of the guys' category with another guy. I love having guy friends, most of my friends are guys because I don't get along with girls my age. I get along with older women really well, but most girls ...

I'm not sure what this relationship is, and I don't know how to handle his insecurity.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4417 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - Ok, I met this guy back in July and the attraction was so strong we had sex the first night and I don't usually do this. Anyway didn't hear from him for a least a month. Now we been seeing each other a weekly basis.The sex is outstanding!! He says ...

I recently met two great guys and can't decide. Should I just date both of them at the same time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4414 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I don't think i'm doing anything wrong, not yet anyways. I need to make a decision, which I think deep down I know I've already made but it's the wrong one. So i'm hoping someone can help out. I've never been a girl to care for dating more than...

I'm afraid he isn't as serious as I thought he was about us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I've just become exclusive with a guy I've been seeing on and off for the last 12 months. He's told me he loves me and I'm the only one it just took him a while to realize it. I was at a friends tonight who was on her dating site and I saw his prof...

How can I help my depressed boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4417 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - Hey everybody. My boyfriend goes through periods of depression. I've experienced similar things in the past so to some extent I understand how it is. Sometimes I find it difficult to know what to do when he goes through these stages. Often we'l...