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Archived questions from: July, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

We had a very emotional and nasty breakup and haven't spoken since.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

31 July 2012 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I dated inconsistently for over three years. We also lived together for most of that time period. Throughout that time period, we had some rocky times, but also some amazing ones. However, the major problems were her twin ...

I want to know how to gain my jailbird boyfriend's forgiveness!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - I was friends with this guy for the last two years, he helped me out when I was in difficulties and needed emotional support. We were close friends plus I thought he was gorgeous and was very attracted to him. A year ago he was sent to prison for ...

I don't want him to think I'm not interested but I also don't want to look overly impressed

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31 July 2012 (F) - I have a date in a few weeks with a guy I met a while ago and really like. We spoke and flirted here and there but our schedules never permitted us to see each other. Now that we are, it just seems like he is trying too hard and I'm not sure how to ...

Could it be he really doesn't want to get married?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is 41 and has never been married. We have been together for a year. When I ask him if he sees himself getting married in the future his response is "maybe, I'm not sure". I would think that by 41 you would know if you wanted to get ...

Dad will disinherit me if I marry my guy. Is my Dad just being paranoid about my Fiance? Or does he have a point?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - Hi! Last night I told my estranged father I'm getting married in the Fall. He threw a fit and said if I do he will disinherit me and we won't talk anymore. When I asked him why he said that if we got divorced I'd have to support him financially ...

Do you think he is blowing me off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - I am in my mid twenties. I have been on about 5 dates with someone who I met online and things seemed to be going really well..a good pace, good momentum..we text, talk almost every night..I didn't feel that anxiety too much wondering if he is go...

I'm tired of being the guy that every girl falls back on after their relationships don't work out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

31 July 2012 (M) - Hi there everyone! I'm the guy that every girl falls back on after their relationships don't work out, or when something upsets them. I'm only talked to when it's convenient for others. One specific case has been bothering me lately however.....

I need advice, I am confused by her behavior.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4475 days ago

31 July 2012 (M) - Hi Guys, I met a girl online 2 months ago ( I am 32 she is 26 ) and we conversed via email for a couple of weeks before moving to phone then our first date was about 5 weeks ago I am 32 she is 26. We had a great afternoon, we then had a second dat...

How do I choose the right person to date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm in my early 20s and feel like I am not being very good at dating. So far, I have dated two guys and I just felt like every time something was missing. I know I am ready for dating but also for a relationship. But, how do I go abou...

How should a man treat a women, now a days?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - How should a man treat a women now a days, anyways? We se so many shows and have so many social pressures, both on men and women, but mostly on women. Also though i think it's difficult to get to know someone, becuase of that persons past, with ...

Is it a good idea to go through with this relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - I am an american women dating a turkish guy. We have been talking off and on for the past two years. He comes to virginia beach, virginia every summer on a work visa. We were introdued through texting by my brother which is good friends with my ...

Should I just stay cool with my friend's situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - Hey I need some help. I've never done this before but I've never been in this of type if situation. In the start of this year me and my ex broke up after 6 years but out of last fours years we were extremely unhappy even tho she says she was we ...

Am I getting set up to fall?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4468 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - I started sleeping and intimately hanging out with a girl i've known for some time now. I really like her and when we're together she seems to be enjoying my company. I am concerned however as this is my first fully sexual relationship and I'm aware ...

My guy has never cheated on me but I give him the 3rd degree after he goes out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - I have been with my man for almost a year now, we get along pretty well and love each other very much. the one problem that has occured repeatedly is me not trusting him when he is out. i have no basis for this except my past seems to be constantly ...

We both love each other but I am jealous about the men he hooks up with!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - I am 18 and have been seeing a boy on and off for well over 2 and a half years. We're both in love with each other but about 9 months ago I found out that he thinks he's bisexual. At first I was so shocked and thought he was jokin with me. We had a ...

I'm 13 and all my friends have a girlfriend except me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - I a 13 year old guy. I want to know if it is wired that I don't have a girlfriend. All of my frIends do and I want to know If it is weird for me not to have one at this age. ...

My girlfriend is snooping on me via google!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - not sure what to do here, but my gf had found out about an abortion approx 4-5 years ago in a previous relationship she got upset at me because its something important i failed to tell jer, she said she wasnt checking up on me, but googled my n...

It broke my heart and I cried my eyes out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - Okay I've never done this before and don't know where to even begin. The other night I did something stupid and went through my boyfriends msgs on facebook. We've been together for just over 5 weeks. We have just started renting a property in both ...

Please help me with this crazy relationship..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - So I'm dating a guy and he is so wonderful and sweet and i love him so much! well at least sometimes he is wonderful.. He suffers from ocd, depression and i don't know what else. he also lies about stupid little things for no reason sometimes big ...

Did he want a threesome or was he testing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4469 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - okay so when i was in high school sophmore year i kissed a girl just a peck it was like a dare and i never kissed a girl ever again so 2yrs. after i met my boyfriend i told him about it and now 4yrs that we have been togeather he asked me ...

He texts other girls, does that mean he could be cheating too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - So ive been dating ths guy for like almost 4months an were pretty close. But how do i know he isnt cheating? i mean i know he texts other girls but is that all..? im not really the jealous type, just the curious type. Please dont comment if your ...

My twin sister and I are dating twin brothers. Is that weird?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - We are identical twins and the guys we are with (4 months) are identical twins and we only just found out because we hadn't met each other's boyfriends before and I'm not sure what we all think of it. It's a bit strange. What should we do?...

He makes no effort to contact me and its now been 2 weeks. What do I say if he contacts me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I'm in my early 20s and have been seeing a 31 yo man on and off for the past year and a half. I was a little wary at first about even meeting him from an online dating website because he might be looking for something serious (ie a wife). But, I ...

How do I deal with my boyfriend's sister who hates me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - hello aunts! i need some advice on how to deal with boyfriends sister who hates me. she's four years older than my boyfriend, we barely know each other because my boyfriend and her were never too close. last time we met was four days ago on a ga...

Do men just get a thrill from the chase?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - Ok so i been dating a guy now for about a month, i rarely see him due to his job in the army. We started as friends with benefits, then he told me he liked me too much. I then started liking him too. He told me that it wouldn't be worth starting a ...

Tw guys head over heels in love with me.Torn loyalty to each. What should I do? One has been in jail.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I've got a huge dilemma. I have 2 guys pretty much head of heels in love with me. I was with Guy A for 4 and a half years. 3 of those years were spent getting beat up, abused and treated like a dog. Within that time, I gave birth to his 2 childre...

He still hasn't stopped communicating with her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for five years, about 10 months ago he became friends with a girl. I was immediately uneasy about this friendship as he was very secretive and kept everything under the table so to speak. I only ever saw her ...

My boyfriend called me "boxy", I don't know what that means.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - This is going to sound very silly but I'm really puzzled! My boyfriend rang me when I was picking up something from a store today! I didn't have much reception so I said il call u back when I get home.. I rang him bk he didn't answer then about 10...

Has anyone else survived being a rebound?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - My heart has been completely wrecked by my ex. We were friends for over one year before we got together. He was married for most of that time and then discovered that his wife had been having an affair. I was there for him, as a friend, when this ...

I don't see myself as bisexual, and I don't want to have a relationship with a woman, I just want to have a sexual experience with a woman.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I'm currently in a very happy, fairly long term relationship with a man, but I can't get the fantasy of sex with a woman out of my head. I dont see myself as bisexual, and I dont want to have a relationship with a woman, I just want to have a sexual ...

Does she like me or are we just friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

29 July 2012 (M) - Okay so this girl is my friend in school. We'll refer to her as M. Well ima guy so anywho, im not very social however im very smart. and i dont think im too bad looking. maybe a 7 or 8 depending on who you are anywho so the whole school had a class ...

Why doesn't my boyfriend get jealous when other guys look at me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - So I was wondering whether I am right to be concerned that my boyfriend never gets jealous of other guys looking at me or get jealous at all, why? Is it because I'm a virgin? ...

Does any one have any tips about 'soft, light domination' in the bedroom ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4477 days ago

29 July 2012 (M) - Hi guys, Me and my girlfriend have a good sex life, but we're a relatively newly formed couple, and haven't tried anything extreme yet. I wondered about 'dom/sub' play, 'domination' in the bedroom, and she seemed really into it, I want to...

My boyfriend never shows me off...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - my boyfriend never shows me off, the majority of people probably think hes single. his parents met me, know who i am, yet he acts single. whenever i say 'i love you' or somthin on his facebook wall, he doesnt comment, he acts like im a stalker girl. ...

Would you consider this dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I was 16. I had never kissed a boy before, i had a boyfriends before but never had done more than held a guys hand.(i was a junior and he was a senior) There was a guy i was somewhat friends with.(he's a twin) So i decided to hang out with...

Do you see tis relationship going anywhere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - About a month ago, I met a guy and we started to have conversation and he said he wanted to get to know me. I told him no because I was leaving the next day and I wouldn't be back until next year or the holidays. He seemed a little ...

My boyfriend seems to be having some commitment issues. Some advice would be appreciated.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4477 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I are apart right now but will be back together at college in about a month (we're 4 hours apart now). He randomly basically freaked out because we're apart he said he basically feels single but cannot pursue other women. I let him ...

He chose to be with somebody else, even though he doesn't like her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - He wont go out with me because he says Im too good for him, that he wouldnt make me happy, and Id end up finishing with him. We both like each other alot, and everyone knows it. Im a model and I do get alot of attention. He is unemployed and has ...

My feelings for him are strong. His actions indicate he doesn't care. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I know i need to split up with my boyfriend, he is constantly out with his friends even though he has no job. We have a child together and when he is out im stuck in the house myself with no one to speak to, it has gotten so bad that it has driv...

What's he on about? Wedding called off, he's moving out, but doesn't want to split !?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Okay...so I'm feeling heartbroken and I don't know where to go from here? My fiance and I have been together for 4 years and we were supposed to be getting married this September. We've lived together for the last 3 years and we bought a new hom...

Why ask? Should I comply? My married lover wants to know about any other women I sleep with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

28 July 2012 (M) - I have been sleeping with a married woman for over a year now. She has an open marriage (within some limits) and we get along great both inside and outside of bed. She and I were talking and I asked her if she'd be upset if I slept with other...

Religious differences. Parental interference. I love him so much and I know he loves me too. What do I do!?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I'm in love with my guy friend who has been brought up in one religion and me in another religion. I have started to question my beliefs about 2 years ago... now I identify as agnostic. A few months ago I told my parents about my love for my frie...

It's a LDR. But he still hasn't told me he loves me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Dear all, I'm currently having a LDR with a guy who I see sometimes every other/weekend for 8 months as his in tbe military. We're very happy and have made and booked future plans for next January his always treating me to holidays and really ...

To me he is perfect. We plan to marry. But do you think he is gay? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years. He told me approx a year ago that before we got together he had two sexual encounters with another male. He said these two occasions happened within a few weeks of each other. They didnt h...

Do guys make girls pass "tests" to see if they are worth dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Do guys make girls pass "tests" to see if they are worth dating or whatever? The guy I like was dumped when his girlfriend went to college because she wanted to have freedom to date whoever. He hasn't dated anyone since, just had a bunch of random ...

Is it that he just does not like me? I feel neglected and hurt by his actions.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I met this guy at a club. we exchange numbers and texted time to time. then he invited me to come over his place to watch movie together. so I came to his place and had a small conversation with him suddenly he invited his friends and left me ...

What are your best tips to help me become flirty and sexy and successful when talking to guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4478 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Hi, I am fairly good looking girl, (or so I have been told) but I rather nerdy, I think. I seem to genuinely be the girl that the guys like to be friends with. I am not looking for a relationship right now, just some casual fun. I have been ...

Is he cheating? I love him with all my heart but I'm now caught and lost in his deception

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - my bf is always lying and taking off for hours or days without saying he is leaving and doesnt call while hes gone. then lies about where he was who he was with, etc. then i find out from other people he was kicking it with other broads. he alwa...

Seems the same guy is trying to steal another girl away from me. How should I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

28 July 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly three months now, and lately, a guy has started trying to steal her away from me. This same guy has already taken one girl away from me and I know that he's heartless enough to do or say what...

Why would my boyfriend behave like this? He was most insistent about wanting sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Hi, I really need to know that you think is going through my boyfriends head because this has never happened to me before in any relationship I have been in. I was getting ready to go out with a group of girlfriends one evening. About an hour bef...