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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I feel as if I'm not attractive to her any more as she never wants to make love to me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - Dear reader, I've been with my girl for the past 3 years, we've had our share of problems, like every couple must see. But during the last 3 or 4 months she has not been very interested in sexual contact. When I talk to her about it she always sa...

Hey guys, I don't want to get my hopes up but... could I be pregnant at last?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I'm 20 years old and officially late for my period.. I was due on saturday, and am usually very regular. Me and my fiance have been trying for a baby but it hasn't happened in 6 months of trying. I was beginning to assume that he had something wrong ...

What can he do to make me climax?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend can't make me cum! We're not having intercourse, but we do have oral and he fingers me. I've made him cum dozens of times! It's not hard at all! What he does to me feels amazing and I really like it, but he says that he feels bad for ...

He wanted to date me, I said no, now I want to say yes he is saying no

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - im starting to feel quite depressed the boy i like told me he likes me too but it 'isnt the right time for a relationship' he used to try to go ou with me all the time but i didnt want to then and now ive realised i do like him after all. its ...

I can't resist my cousin, is she leading me on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - Hello everyone,sorry, its a big question. So, i am 20.everyone say um handsome and all that. But i am single all the way,something happens when i am around girls i am interested in and i feel nervous.cant talk,cant flirt etc.ok, so In short my ...

What do girls like the most...???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I dont mean to sound unromantic about it but i want to know the best way to pleasure a girl, I want to take my girlfriend on a date to her favorite restaurant and then have some fun afterwards on like our aniversary and i want to know what girls ...

I know she loves me and this is just mind games she's playing. How do I win her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - Never wrote like this before so here goes. I left my wife 3 years ago, I still loved her but the relationship was one sided, I left to see if she cared, as it turned out she did not want me back, leaving her and four kids. So to cut a long story sh...

Boyfriend of 5 years foresees our relationship ending in a year

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 5 years, since he was 19 and I was 20. We've lived together for approximately 3.5 of those years. 6 months ago, when our previous lease was about to expire, he said he wanted to move out on his own. I was shock...

I need your help! How can I get my boyfriend to stop having sex with me until we are married?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and almost 2 months. In the beginning we completely fell in love with each other and had so much fun together. We first had sex together about 2 and a half weeks after we had started dating. We ...

Our long distance relationship just isn't working...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boo are in a LDR. I was prepared to split up as the distance is so big, he was really keen about keeping it going. My compromise was to talk every day, be it phone, skype, msn, letter you name it. This didn't happen. He started making e...

I'm going with a "man-child!"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend Jonah and I , have been together for a little over a year. We've had our ups and downs, but I love him very much, and he says he loves me too. He's a kind man, and very much like a child. This boyish part of him was what I fell in love ...

I want to end it with him but I don't know how!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my man for around 2 years, and its got to the stage where i've been mulling in my head for months that i want it to end. I truly do, i know this and i know it would make me so much happier if i could. But i can't! He lives near Sou...

I need my mind to be put at rest as I'm really worried...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hi. im a bit confused... i started bleeding really lightly it started off brown and ended a pink colour, the bleeding only lasted for 2-3 days on/off...im confused because it was ten days early as well, i usually bleed heavily and it lasts for 5-6 ...

We kiss but she says we can't date, I don't know why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - There is this girl.She is older than me and I think we like each other because we eat together,study together,play together and it has even gone to the extent of kissing and romancing.The problem is that she say we cant date and i dont know why.I ...

How do I tell my boyfriend my friend is coming to see me (us) in a few weeks time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

30 November 2009 (?) - Hi, I moved to London with my boyfriend earlier this year, everything is great, i just miss my friends! my best friend in the whole world is coming to london in December to visit her family and me too and she has assumed we will do something tog...

Super cautious NOT to get pregnant...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My bf and I just had sex for the second time and he made sure the condom was on, every 5 minutes, and when he was about to ejaculate we took it off then i did oral sex on him, when we were done i checked if the condomwas leaking or anything and ...

Where are the best places to meet guys who want a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Hi... I have been on this site for a couple months i think, used it before and have given advice. I just want to ask where are the best places to meet guys who want a relationship? I'm 28, with an Asian background and rarely meet guys, and dont ...

My boyfriend and brother don't get along... how can I change this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and my brother don't get on, I'm not sure why but apparently there were some messages sent between the two of them but neither of them are willing to say what they were about. My brother and I always fight after my boyfriend visits and ...

Am I right to feel distant towards him for the way he treated me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of almost two years came with me to visit my mother and brothers for Thanksgiving. The first 3 days were great, he was sweet, he did not accuse me of anything or call me bad names. Then on the third night, he needed cash at a...

His size is affecting our relationship. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - This may not sound as important but it is to me. I dated my former boyfriend for almost 7 months. All was well, especially the sex because he was well endowed. We broke up recently then i met someone else who is incredibly small. He's a great guy ...

His family's jealousy is tearing us apart...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and very much in love with my 49 year boyfriend of a year. We've had a lot of ups and downs through having so much grief from everyone. He treats me like a princess and the only issue we have with our relationship is other people. Six mo...

If he remembers lots of small things over the last 3 years we have been together does this mean he really cares for me?

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30 November 2009 (F) - my bf tends to remember many small things or events for the past 3 year we've known each other. we've been together for almost more than year. Does this show he really cares for me? or loves me truly?...

What might of happened for her to lose interest that fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - What do i do? I posted a question relating to this issue a few days ago but now i need to konw what i should do now. Heres the situation. Ive liked this girl for a month or two and just recently asked her for her number, which she agr...

Does she really like me? Is it worth waiting for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - a few weeks ago, a girl came up to me who i didn't know and just started to talk to me. we got on really well swapped numbers and everything and we went out a few times. she kept telling me how much she liked me and how she really wanted to be with ...

My boyfriend has to leave the country to look after his parents in 2 months time, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - dear friends, I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months.we had really good time together and it was just understood that we will be together in long run. But now he suddenly said his parents are old and they need him so he has to l...

I'm a bit ashamed that I cant afford to buy her expensive gifts, should I tell her I don't have much money?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - Hi,i'm 22 and my girlfriend is 21 well we are dating together already 5 months, i'm 2 year university but shes already 4 year and working. We really like and even love each other. Recently she wrote me several letters that she's completly in love ...

What are the chances that we will be able to resolve this problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - My relationship of 4.5 years had developed some problems a few months ago. I think we just got a little too settled and were arguing about some petty things. Then things got much worse, and it turns out that my fiancee had begun talking to an old ...

I want to kiss my girl, but my Mom might be watching

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I have a date saturday night with my girlfreind. I have dated her before and we broke up. We got back together about 2 months ago via email and have been talking on the phone. We are going to the movies and my mother is chaproning us. I want to let ...

I would love to hear your love stories and if it worked out...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. I feel I'm in love, but I am just curious about your love story? Did it work out in the end? Still together? Can't dream of anything better? Please share your story, with me, I've known him since I was in 1st grade and he was in 3rd, I ...

Best positions for full penetration??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I have been in a committed relationship with my boyfrnd for 5 months. Yesterday we had intercourse but only half of his penis penetrated me even although I was lubricated enough. I want to know the reason behind this and why he couldn't penetrate ...

What can I do to keep my relationship alive?

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30 November 2009 (M) - Wow I don't know, me and my girlfriend we been together for two years and we were happy, by july 19 everything has changed, she acts like she don't know me no more every time I'm talking to her she doesn't listen to me. I love her, we have one son ...

Why would she wish that I was two years older?

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30 November 2009 (M) - me and this girl are good friend tho shes 2 yrs older than me. we go to the same school so i see her every day (small school) but one day she started saying stuff about her wishing i was 2yrs older i was wondering wat she couldve met by that? and ...

I'm afraid he isn't over his ex. How do I talk to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - ok well i met this amazing guy 7 months ago but its my cheer friends ex.so me and him have been dating for 7 months now and its been great. me and my cheer friend arent friends anymore because of it. but theres a bigger problem then that. i made a ...

What do men experience during their 'first time'? How can I help him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend who is a year younger than i am. He is 18 and i am ninteen. We have been together for a year and half now and he wants to lose his virginity with me. I am not a virgin, but i really dont know how will i "guide him." We have talked ...

How do I reconnect with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - my question is how do i reconnect with a old girlfriend when she is much more succesful and attractive then me without being that friend. we just started talking again and it seems that she is somewhat intrested in me but i just dnt know since ive ...

What kind of female personality tends to suit shy guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - What kind of female personality tends to suit shy guys? How much outgoingness? How much confidence? More of a child, an equal, or a mother? I don't think an equally shy partner works. They tend not to talk much. Neither of them draws the othe...

He makes me feel worthless. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I really, really like this guy, but I don't know if he likes me. He is always starring at me, but when we speak on IM he says he has to go but never leaves. He is always flirting with other girls and he never speaks to me. He makes me ...

He used to talk about taking vacations together, now he doesn't answer my calls. What happened?

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30 November 2009 (F) - Hi I saw this guy that I use to work with about 5years ago. When we worked together he was married, but when I saw him, he told me he was divorced.He asked about taking me on a date. He called me the same night. The nights leading up to our first da...

Will she ever get over her divorce and show that she loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I am not sure what actually should i put here...I am so sad, confused and depressed that it is all mixed up. I am in a relationship with a woman 2 years older to me. I love her a lot. She is divorced and I have never been married. She has this ...

What to do about his bad boy behaviour...im having his baby...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend/father of my unborn baby is a big pothead. I get so mad because he constantly smokes around me. He stays drunk Thursday - Monday. He has no job but is in college 2 days a week. When he is by himself he doesn't smoke weed as much as when ...

Is he being too shallow? Or does he love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hi i have been going out with my bf since 9months, though i wwent to a different country 6 months after the relationship started and now, i am going to see my bf in a week and he said he won't be able to keep his hands off me. he is a great gu...

How do I tell her that I don't want her to always be the dominant one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My girlfriend and I have sex often, however she is the more dominate one I think she believes that she should be the only one who touches or gives pleasure,however I am not that kind of lover I too would like to pleasure her I don't know what to do ...

He doesn't want a relationship, just sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - i like this boy and i would love a relationship with him but we were talking earlier tongight and we got onto the conversation of relationships and he told me he didnt want a relationship, just sex. im still a virgin but im 16. should i go for the ...

He doesn't like me like "that" anymore. Is it over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Hello. This is my painful and bitter sweet romance disaster. Well, my name is Jossie and I'm 18 years old. I moved to Wisconsin about 5 months ago so I attended my familys church. When I moved to wisconsin romance wasn't something I thought of. Not ...

Why do women do such things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, I don't know why I don't listen to what people tel me. I'd love to know a reason for my stupidity. I fell in love wit ha girl who has a boyfriend. She also fell in love with me. As a fact, yesterday she was at my place. Wonder what...

Was I wrong to go with my instincts and look in his phone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I've been dating a wonderful guy for about 5 months and the other day for some reason, I looked at his text messages while he was in the shower, I found some messages from a girl who I think is an ex. She accused him of cheating on her, and she ...

How do suggest to my girlfriend that I'd prefer it if she shaved down there...?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - I was intimate with my girlfriend the other night, it was great. But her it was really hairy down there and i thought it as a turn off. I'd prefer it shaved like, it would feel 'nicer'. But i dont know how to go about asking her. It's no big deal, I ...

The thought of her in his bed makes me feel sick!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend's been really close to another girl and i dont know what to do. We were out yesterday and i was playing with his phone when i stumbled across some texts between him and this girl at his uni. I've met her and she seemed nice enough b...

Will my awkward kiss, ruin my chances for another date with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I went on my second date with a guy and we went to a movie. He held my hand (for the first time) during the movie and throughout the night as well. At the end of the night, he kissed me. However, the kiss wasn't amazing. It happened so quickly and I ...

Confusion here!! Why did he just stop calling me out the blue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

29 November 2009 (?) - Hello everyone! I'm having this problem and would love you guys help with this situation I'm having. First off I met this guy that's a year younger than me, and I'm 22 by the way, and from the first time we met he was up front with me about his ...