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Archived questions from: 31 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend will not take down sports illustrated calendar that his mom bought him!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3945 days ago

31 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This question is really weighing me down. This Christmas, my boyfriend of about a years mother bought him a sports illustrated swimsuit calendar. Now, before you roll your eyes and dub me insecure, know that my irritation and issue with this has nothing to do with me comparing ... (439 words)

I am ready to end this relationship! I'm tired of being alone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

31 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am sitting here in tears as I type this.... my so called 'partner' has given me no time at all this Christmas and the final blow...he has just told me he is apparently going round to his mums tonight instead of spending it with me the way he usually does! Christmas day he ... (213 words)

I'm afraid I'll lose my b/f of 4 years if he finds out I cheated on him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

31 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with a guy for 4yrs and I'm afraid that I will lose him if he ever finds that i have slept with another guy who have know for about 3days.what can I do to prevent this from happening... (44 words)

Does he have a crush on me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3957 days ago

31 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy has been initiating conversation with me over IM the last few days. He starts the conversation saying things such as 'Merry Christmas missy', 'Forgot to say, I'm glad you enjoyed the movie, you should also watch _. --- [name of another movie] It's amazing.'' and 'I ... (237 words)

I have never had a "G-spot" orgasm.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

31 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Please excuse the graphic details!! I have never had a "G-spot" orgasm. Only ever clitoral orgasms. My boyfriend of two years says he really wants me to have one. I think he misses it and feels he can't satisfy me sexually. But I can only really give myself clitoral orgasm.... (232 words)

Has he lost all interest in me, and if so, can I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

31 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I can't get this off my mind, and I'm wondering if someone could possibly understand what's going on, because I sure don't! For a few weeks I knew my crush liked me back because he told me and also reminded me about it. He wanted to ask me out, but at the time we talked a... (426 words)

I feel so guilty about how I act, but how to communicate this to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

31 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I always feel like i am being used for sex. I know rationally this isn't true, but I can't help feeling that way and it ruins all of my relationships. I was in an extremely manipulative relationship from 15-20 in which I was definitely used for sex. He would have sex, I woul... (497 words)

He doesn't mention me on facebook so I don't feel special to him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

31 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I don't know if I'm being paranoid or what. But i have been dating my boyfriend for a year. We both have a Facebook and there's something really bothering me. He doesn't mention me or anything about me on there. It bothers me because all the other girls he's dated he's men... (346 words)

Was she trying to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3957 days ago

31 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, So my problem is this, at a flat party a year ago I drunkenly made out with a girl I work with. Afterwards I told her I liked her however she had just ended a relationship and said she didn't feel ready for another one yet. So a year has passed and we fell out for a w... (206 words)

I want to find a special girl but I am too shy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

31 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, bit of a long question here. So I am a 22 year old male who has never dated or even kissed a girl. I hadn't really thought about it until recently. Seeing quite a few of my friends getting into relationships be it through Facebook statuses or hearing about it has ... (272 words)

I love him but I can't do this for much longer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3943 days ago

31 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been married to my husband for almost two years now. Our marriage started out great. We both worked, so all our time off was spent with each other. After I found out I was pregnant, I quit my job and we moved someplace more affordable. He got a better job, but was always ... (401 words)

I finished the job, now can I ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

31 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Not so much a problem, more a dilemma. I am a single self employed tradesman of 25 with not to much confidence/luck in the lady department. I have recently been doing a bit of work for a lovelly girl who seems about the same age and from what i gather she is also single, but ... (184 words)

I need to move on, how should I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

31 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4yrs, yet, he hasn't talked to me about marrige. He knows that I would like to get married and have kIds but I'm 28 he's 29, and I feel like I'm getting to that point where I need to move on. How should I bring up the conversation? I... (73 words)

Now that she appears to have moved on I miss her in my life.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

31 December 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Can someone help me understand this. I broke up with this girl about 7 months ago and I wont go into what happened and why I ended it. But it wasn't a nice break up, I ended it in a terrible way, unintentionally of course but as a result I was a jerk and ended up hurting... (421 words)

How can I cope with the pressure to marry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

31 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I become immune to the social pressure from family and friends to get married and 'settle down' already? I'm in my twenties, in a happy longterm relationship and still studying. We have a three year plan regarding starting a family. I have reflected deeply and I kno... (167 words)

I got with this boy, now he is acting like it never happened!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

31 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - on friday i got with this boy and we have been friends for 4 years but lately we drifted apart! when everything was happening i kept saying 'that we dont do this' and h was like this should have happened ages ago. We were both drunk me more than him. Then the next day he was ... (123 words)

Cheater Cheater!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3943 days ago

31 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband bought another woman clothing and jewelry for Christmas I found the receipt in his truck, I know he will deny it, should I ask him about it or leave it alone? ... (35 words)

He says I wont have to wait long for him to pop the question!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3957 days ago

31 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend told me that he was thinking of asking me to marry him a couple of weeks ago. It would have been an impulsive ask. We were in a hotel for a couple of days and the weather was terrible so we spent the day in bed eating pizza and vegging out. We had been at a gig the ... (317 words)