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Archived questions from: 3 December, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Need ideas to spice up sex life after 30 years of marriage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

3 December 2013 (M)

age - I been married 30 years. Whats something we can do in bed that will turn on my wife. she's not into anything kinky. Its as if she's lost interest? I need a women view.... (35 words)

I have become attracted to someone else and it's changing the way I feel about my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

3 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been in a relationship for about 5/6 months now, but recently I've been having a dilemma. My boyfriend is lovely and sweet and I'm not unhappy in my relationship but neither am I happy. I just feel a bit bored and sometimes it feels like we are a couple who have been ... (237 words)

The safe option vs. the one you really want?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

3 December 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I wonder if any girl has had this situation before? My female best friend I've known for a long, long time. We talk a lot, especially relationships. She asks my opinions on blokes she dates and vice versa. She met a guy two years ago who she was so excited about, ... (295 words)

After two years lust and communication are gone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

3 December 2013 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 2 yrs, not my longest relationship but the best one I've had tgus far.in life. I'm 25/m I understand in the beginning of relationships you have that a few months of lust exploreling a new partner, but recently there's been a lack of ... (197 words)

Aunt died a year ago on the 11th due to cancer, now I'm being tested for it. Advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

3 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello my aunts and uncles! I really could do with a tad of advice as I am slightly worried. I do not expect any medical advice and only wish for some support and general opinions. My aunt died a year ago on the 11th from Ac... (640 words)

Four years and he still doesn't know when he'll be ready for marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

3 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and yet he still says he doesn't know when he'll be ready for marriage. I've asked him twice now and he's said he does want to 'one day' but he has lots of living to do before then. When I ask him what type of 'living' he means, he ... (310 words)

How do I get him alone to steal a kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

3 December 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm going bowling with my sports group and I really like one of the boys (he suggested going in the first place), and I need some tips for how to get him alone so I can maybe kiss him (Christmas time). They'll be about 20 of us so it would be nice to see him away from our ... (78 words)

I'm afraid this woman might out of jealousy try to turn my tutor against me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

3 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm almost finished a PhD programme and have to meet regularly as part of this with a particular group of people, led by a couple of tutors, to debate various issues. I love attending the group and I know that most people at college like and appreciate my contributions, ... (356 words)

Been set up with this guy and wonder about his insecurities

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

3 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I know if I really like this guy? So my friend and her husband set me up with their single guy friend. He lives in another country and is only 45mins on the plane. I don't mind it. We've been talking on the phone and Skype sending pictures here and th... (244 words)

What am I doing wrong?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

3 December 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I think I am doing something wrong when it comes to dating. Every time I am with a girl I seem to screw it up or the circumstance won't let me advance further. For example, the other day I was in a party and I was hanging with a girl who seemed to be attracted to me, but for ... (172 words)

This obsession really sucks

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3985 days ago

3 December 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a happy relationship with a really nice man and everything is fine. It's just that I am crazily attracted to my colleague and I can't seem to help it. I sort of get butterflies in my belly when I see him and a smile from him makes my day. I guess he knows how I feel and ... (124 words)

Why would two grown men want to play a video game as nothing but sexy dressed characters if it wasn't for the sexiness?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

3 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my bf for 3 years. We're both in our 30's. We don't live together. Anyway, sometimes I feel he's a pervert. lol. I know this sounds silly, and especially at my age, but almost every thing we watch together has T and A in it. He also stayed at his friend's last ... (517 words)

Why has he moved on so quick if he really loved me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

3 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have ended a very turbulent relationship, which went on for over three years, due to his continued determination to continue using dating sites, while at the same time swearing blind that he loves me. After being broken up, for less than two weeks, he is now with someone ... (173 words)

We broke up when we just had the chance to even start dating. Any reconciliation advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

3 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all.So Ron(not his real name) and I are now college sophomores.We became really good friends since our day 1 as freshmen.We started spending more time together.At first it was only academic related but later we just started hangingout.He would ask me for long walks,took me ... (408 words)

I want to use him the way he used me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

3 December 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been living out of the country (I still am) ... i met this guy a couple of years ago where i go to school. At the time i was still dating my bf, whom just broke up with me. I met this guy in my finance class and we exchanged numbers because he gave me answers to ... (605 words)

Nasty comment has caused devastation and despair.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

3 December 2013 (F)

age - I am seeking advice for a close friend. She is from Latin America, moved to Canada a few years back so English is her second language. She is hoping to work in Health Care, she now has her masters and was asked this evening to do a presentation. A very rude person that was... (269 words)

Should I be worried that my boyfriend isn't ready for marriage at least for the next 5 years? I'm almost 30!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

3 December 2013 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together a little over a year..we are 29 years old. It is the best relationship i have ever been in. He is the most caring genuine man I have ever been with. I know with all my heart he is the person for me. We are very loving toward each other, he ... (493 words)

I just need to feel loved

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

3 December 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi im feeling very lonely x I've been living with my partner for 6 months or so but I known him all my life,although he never showed any interest in me before his divorce 18 months ago,he also can drink sometimes say 4 nights out of 7 a large bottle of cider,anyhow I'm quite ... (207 words)

Was it wrong to admit I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3986 days ago

3 December 2013 (?) age 30-35 - So one of my best guy friends and I talk quite a bit. Well so I don't have a boyfriend or anything. He has a girlfriend though. Anyway so for about two weeks or so he's been asking me who I like. I kept telling him that I wasn't going to say who. Well Saturday he kept asking me ... (188 words)

My boyfriend wants time apart while I'm grieving

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

3 December 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 35 of 7 months has said he doesn't know how he feels and wants some time away from each other. We have been very up and down lately. My brother died in an accident three months ago and my aunt is terminally ill. I've been upset and very up and down and he ... (148 words)