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Do I date him? I find his personality crazy attractive, but I just don't find him very attractive.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

10 December 2013 (F age 26-29 - Hi, first of all thank you so much for any help! I'm in a bit of a bind. Backstory: I'm a freshman in college, and I entered college not looking for a relationship. In HS I had two year and a half long relationships, and I entered college wanting to have fun and not worry ab... (445 words

I really like him. What is the best thing to do now? Is it best to just be casual and get to know him slowly, and later on see if anything develops?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

10 December 2013 (F age 41-50 - I met a guy last week and invited him to a music jam night. He came along, and that was great, but by the time he arrived I was already talking to s group of guys and he then got cornered by a woman, who then asked 'is that your girlfriend? ' and he said no, then left. So a... (162 words

She keeps backing out of our dates, but agrees to arrange more

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10 December 2013 (M age 36-40 - So i met this girl at school a few weeks ago and she always acted really shy around me and when i caught her staring she's turn her head away and not look at me. One day i decided to ask her out and she agreed and we later set the date for next monday. Monday came and when... (372 words

Why are gay women so picky?

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10 December 2013 (F age 51-59 - I am a gay female, quieter, average looking, feminine and looking for same,dating (which makes it harder) friends I don't care. Am not into the bar and club scene, am getting too old for it and am a non drinker and dont feel comfortable around half drunk people. I work odd... (523 words

I really like him so how should I proceed?

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10 December 2013 (F age 41-50 - I met a guy last week and invited him to a music jam night. He came along, and that was great, but by the time he arrived I was already talking to s group of guys and he then got cornered by a woman, who then asked 'is that your girlfriend? ' and he said no, then left. So a... (162 words

I just discovered my boyfriend is giving his ex secret guitar lessons

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

10 December 2013 (F age 36-40 - I went to my boyfriend's house a couple of days ago and I saw the photo of us was face down. He went over to put music on and suddenly it was upright again. There were playing cards on the coffee table and empty glasses. I asked who had been playing cards with him. He said it ... (260 words

My negativity is hindering my happiness

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10 December 2013 (M age 36-40 - I am having a REALLY difficult time. I have found myself over the last couple of years becoming more and more disillusioned with life and society. It really worries me but everything about society gets me down. I won't go into too many details as I could rant for ages... (984 words

I don't want to seem clingy, but he's stopped calling and texting

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10 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - Hi there. I need some help. I've recently started seeing a guy. We get on really well and have a great time when we are together. I've been round his house and stayed a few times and we've made love. The problem is he seems to have stopped texting and calling. He said that he ... (149 words

Why does he keep on liking and then disliking my Facebook posts?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

10 December 2013 (F age 26-29 - Long story short, I'm 18, I dated a guy for about two months this summer, our relationship ended by him blocking me on facebook (still have no idea why and still kind of like him). A month ago he added me back because we had to talk about a school project, a couple weeks ago he ... (209 words

Is it weird to invite a friend along on quasi-dates?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

10 December 2013 (M age 36-40 - Is it weird to arrange a date and invite friends along. Someone I met online invited his friend along once, I had no objection, and thought what a great idea. It totally took the edge off the meeting and made it much more relaxed and fun. But I get the impression that most ... (82 words

I'm considering changing my personality to become a jerk in order to date!

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10 December 2013 (M age 30-35 - So, I've recently, after the same bullshit of "I see you more as a friend", decided to change myself into the complete opposite of what I am now, knowing that it will take a long time. Today I behave like a Gentlemen when dating, red roses as a gift, paying for lunch, ... (184 words

Was I wrong in turning down invitation to go away with BF and his family this weekend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

10 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - I was wondering if I was wrong for saying no to going away with his family for the weekend? I've been in a relationship for just over 2 and a half years and I truly love this guy however the last few months have been really rough...A week can't go by without there being a major ... (191 words

Please help - I found dodgy photos on my boyfriend's computer.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3976 days ago

10 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm a bit confused and any insight would be appreciated as I can't talk to anyone else about this. My boyfriend is a sweet guy, I always knew he had a Pervy side but all guys do and that didn't really bother me.... Until I found pictures on his computer that he ... (226 words

How do we mend our relationship once the trust has been broken?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 December 2013 (F age 26-29 - I met this guy a year ago, We dated but he cheated on me with this girl who hated me( his ex). I know he cared for her but I also know she did it to break us up. I didn't want to give her the satisfaction so I tried to work it out with him, but she succeed in her plan. Any... (413 words

Big misunderstanding with almost-boyfriend leads to me being ignored. I don't know what this all means.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

10 December 2013 (F age 36-40 - I met M several weeks ago through a friend. We hit it off and a few days after having met him, we were pretty inseparable. Despite the 10-year age difference (I'm 25, he's 35), we seemed to get along really well. He works as a restaurant manager, but on most days he spends his ... (1487 words

Why do guys ask for underwear?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

10 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - I slept with this guy like more than 5 times. He asked for my underwear twice and on his third ask, I decided, why not? So I gave them to him. I just want to understand this phenomena... why do guys ask for underwear? I'm curious. I just hope I don't end up seing my underwear ... (63 words

Sex isn't going so well during this pregnancy

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10 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 36 weeks pregnant with my second baby with my partner along almost 4 years. The baby was planned and everything is going well apart from our sex life. Ever since I was about 12 week's pregnant the sex has been off and on. To begin with he would say he was tired an... (319 words

I was expecting another chance for us

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

10 December 2013 (F age 36-40 - I have been hanging out with my ex boyfriend this past month, after being broken up for about 5 months. Yes we are sleeping together, hanging out, acting like a couple. But he tells me today that he is not ready to get back into a relationship. He needs time to "focus on ... (146 words

Is it true that love takes us by surprise?

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10 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - Hi! I would like the uncles and the aunties here to write briefly how they met their husbands and how did you know this is 'the one'. It would be nice if you can write how old you were when you met and when you got married. I would like to know because I'm twenty an... (112 words

Broke up with bf... do men actually have feelings?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

10 December 2013 (F age 41-50 - Okay, I broke up with my boyfriend, of 3 years, a few days ago. I changed all numbers and blocked/deleted him from everything and went NC to the best of my ability. We broke up like this 10 months ago and after 3 weeks he found a way back in and we decided to try again. I don't ... (416 words

I'm feeling inadequate because "my number" is low

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

10 December 2013 (F age 36-40 - This is such a stupid thing I'm feeling. I consciously know it's stupid, but it's still there. You see, I'm dating a new guy after having had a very long, awful relationship. I've only been in that one relationship, and casually with a few guys... so my "number" is low. The ... (285 words

My sister is jealous of my boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

10 December 2013 (F age 30-35 - Myself and my sister used to be the best of friends. We were closer than anything, I'd never been closer to anybody else my whole life (She's 21, I'm 19). However, over the last year or so, something's changed. I've always had a lot more friends than my sister - to be honest, ... (283 words

Looking to start a FWB -- any tips?

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10 December 2013 (M age 30-35 - Hi. I'm a 23 year old gay college student and I'm a virgin. I recently joined adam4adam.com since I'm really busy this school year and I don't really have time for a relationship, but like most my age, I have needs. So earlier today I was talking to one guy on the website that ... (153 words

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