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Archived questions from: 29 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She's making catty remarks about me. Do I ignore her? Or involve the guy we both may have a crush on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - this girl might like this guy I might have a crush on. I know he used to like me but I think he likes her now though I don't know for sure. He may even like Both of us. Anyways this girl is rude to me making catty/smart comments most of the time when she's around me. Then ... (118 words)

Seeking advice as considering getting an IUD. Can you explain any issues to consider? Side affects?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 22 year old female considering getting an IUD implanted. I have had one sex partner, and we are exclusive. I am wondering, if this things are so good...why does not everyone get one? I want to get one, but I am quite tight down there. Also, I am wondering what ar... (124 words)

An Alpha male in my midst. Do I feel this way about him because he's more manly than my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a long very term, live-with boyfriend. I have always been loyal to him. My neighbor is very close to my family and is pretty much an extension of such, he comes to visit on holidays and is welcomed into my home no questions asked... A lot of his friends come ove... (852 words)

How do I ask my boyfriend is he was/is a ladykiller?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My brothers friend and i have recently began a relationship after a few months of fwb. We really like each other and have talked about moving in together in march after my lease is up on my own flat. My brother however has put serious doubt in my head. Hes always talking ... (173 words)

I think my boyfriend only wants material things from me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been w my boyfriend for almost 2 years and I made the mistake in spoiling him and now I feel like the only thing he wants from me is material things. We haven't been intimate in over a year and I'm lucky enough to see him once a month. I love him soooo much but I don't ... (71 words)

How do we tell people that I'm dating my former teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i am dating this guy who is older than me i am 18 and he is 25 we have been dating for just over 2 months and before we started dating he was my teacher nothing happened whilst i was at college only afterwards how do we tell people what will people think ? what will peopl... (107 words)

I don't know how to approach women. Is there any easy way to do so?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

29 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all! I could do with some tips on how to approach people more. I don't mean to sound full of myself but I am a fairly attractive and athletic guy who shouldn't have any problem meeting women. However, when it comes to the communication side of things I kinda suck! Onc... (310 words)

Why do I feel like I need a man to complete me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - hello cupid,i hoping you can help me anwser some concerns i have about me. i have been married for 20 years now. but thinking back i really got into this marraige really fast. within a week of my husband and myself dating we moved in together and had kids and than got married ... (369 words)

Is the lesson from all this that he'll attempt to make further conversation if this is going anywhere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I would appreciate someone's advice on this. I work in an office and sometimes the pressure can get quite intense. There's a guy who works in another department who I've seen looking at me a few times here and there. I find him very attractive and am a bit of a shy per... (503 words)

We're not looking to have sex but how can we make passionate moments more interesting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend, we have been good mates for years and have been going out for 2 months, we are in year 10, and love being passionate, we dont want to go into anything like sex or anything going in places... etc... but we do love a good snog and touching up, and things like ... (93 words)

Feeling overshadowed by this new girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I hope someone out there can help me out as I am feeling pretty stuck on this situation. I have met a lovely guy recently who I really feel I can connect with as we seem to get on so well like a house on fire and we share common interests, views and opinions and tbh ... (524 words)

Left my pot head, cheating boyfriend. So why do I feel upset that he's already talking to other girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I am the same girl who wrote about my pot head cheating ex boyfriend and I thank you all for your lovely and supportive feedbacks :) So lastnight, I couldn't sleep. I had a lot on my mind. I was talkin to a friend of mine about him and she said that her friend said ... (227 words)

A wife, another woman who I love, and kids with both. Tell me how I can fix this situation.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

29 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - hi there I am 33 years old man and I have been married for 4 years now but been together for 10 years and we also do not have sex my wife treats this like a job. half a year into being married I started having an affair with a woman but only for fun to start with and it lasted ... (655 words)

Why would he bring up the past? Does he like me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4324 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem is that I went out with this guy when I was younger (6 years ago) and now we are chatting and flirting again, He approached me a couple of weeks ago by asking me about a cutesy nickname he had for me when we dated before and spoke about different things we had done ... (571 words)

Did I make the wrong decision by not giving my ex a second chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Long story short, I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 and a half years about 4 months ago. I had felt that he didnt have enough respect for me. we had almost no sex life and he didnt want to marry me , which i had come to terms with over a few months. however, i was shocked at ... (431 words)

I think I still love him. But it's not mutual. What can I do? Seeing as my partner thinks I'm silly, and wants to leave.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont think my husband loves me because I just cant feel that! I think this question will be a long question. We did love each other a lot, he left his hometown and move to my city, in the frount of all the pressure just came to us, all the bills, jobs, stuff we stay toge... (456 words)

Was I justified to walk away from a man who would not commit? I'm finding it hard to move on.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. Just two weeks ago I ended a relationship with a man I had deep feelings for. He was not willing to commit to me. He and I were seeing each other for a year but he broke it off and started seeing someone else. All the while, he continued to flirt with me and tell... (735 words)

What is wrong with me? Am I damaged goods?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What is wrong with me? Am I damaged goods?:(? So my ex bf cheated on me with 2 other girls and he dumped me when I found out. He got with someone straight after and when it didn't work out he came back begging me. Of course I gave him a shot (I'm such an idiot!!) cause... (312 words)

Is it ok to purposely mislead or lie about your past to get someone to commit to you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

29 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok I want to ask this and give my opinions on this subject. First let's use some scenarios. #1guy has a past of hitting women, or criminal past, but has not been in trouble for years he's "changed" as some would say. #2 women has a past of cheating, sleeping around, drug us... (580 words)

How can I stop being over jealous and clingy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

29 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Umm hello, ok lemme just go straight to the point..I have a gf, we've. Been dating for 2 months now.. She is awesome, got no problem at all, or I dnt know if its a problem. I am too clingy or should I say too jealous, when ever she tells me about her ex (just 2 of them) I just ... (148 words)

Am I really just stubbornly holding onto a fantasy that is never going to come true?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - A little over a year ago, I met a man who I thought was different. He treated me in a way I had never been before and accepted and loved my young son from a previous relationship in a way I could only dream of. However, here were a few issues with him lying, omitting ... (600 words)

Why does this guy block me after he acts like he likes me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does this guy keep blocking me even after we made up? He is a guy I am very interested in and wanted to befriend with. Last year, he invited me to be his friend on facebook, which I immediately accepted. After a few months, we tried to flirt with each other, but I think he ... (362 words)

He says he knows nothing of the texts he received. Subsequently he took longer to climax. Are all these indications that he may be cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - if a man takes longer that usual to climax, does that mean he might have had intercourse recently? I confronted him about a female (and about some texts from her). This confrontation took place three days after the texts were sent. He tried to push it to the side and offered ... (115 words)

Am I enabling my 17 year old son on how to be a responsible young man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I want your opinion on this .Well my mom has fallen sick and I have to work because I have a 17 year old son at home and he watches my mom while I work so when I get paid I shower him with money and clothes and shoes. I would like to know I'm I enabling him on how ... (78 words)

Break-up. Another girl a day later? Should I even consider giving him a new chance to get back together as a couple, in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of one year broke up the day after Christmas. Prior to Christmas we went on a cruise celebrating our one year anniversary. Throughout our relationship I know we have had our ups and downs. When times are good they are really good but when they're bad they... (482 words)

Is he just playing games with me? He denies, to others, that he still likes me. He claims to think of me sexually, still.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex and i had had the longest conversation recently, since we broke up. Word got around that he likes this other girl now. But he told me how he still has had sexual thoughts for me, not her, but me. I questioned why me instead of her. He told me that he never really talk... (195 words)

Should I be worried that my crush might like this other girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - this guy I like and this girl are really close. they joke and kidd and talk with each other alot. there is quite a slight age gap but he has had a crush on someone a little older before. Sometimes if I see them both online it's like they talk back and forth with each other. he ... (93 words)

We had a super-connection. What can I do to rebuild the trust and reunite with my now ex-girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4322 days ago

29 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Dearcupid, My (now ex) girlfriend (26 and i'm almost 25)broke up with me over 2 months ago. Circumstances have changed since - i've moved forward with my career and am closer than ever to where I want to be. This was an issue with us as I was delayed at university this year... (369 words)

He won't talk to me and now I can't eat or sleep and all I do is cry

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I need help.. i feel like im losing my mind. I cant eat, sleep, or go ten minutes without balling... about 8 months ago i met a guy. And we dated and just a few days later he left. He said it was because he was insuccure... but this christmas our familys spend it... (111 words)

I walked up behind her and surprised her. Did she think I was creepy and it turned her off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

29 December 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I met these 2 girls at a pub last Saturday night. And I was about to leave and they ask me to come join them. Both girls ended up loving me!! Both really really cute too. The one, I was thinking wanted to be exclusive. She even gave me her phone number with in 3 minutes ... (502 words)

Why does my friend not seem to understand that I don't want to be exposed to his friend that I used to date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4325 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I confront my 'best friend' about this? Me and my best friend used to speak every night on the phone and have been drifting apart a little. He got in some trouble and went to jail for a year and is quite restricted as to what he can do to ensure a bright future. ... (413 words)

Should I come clean about my past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship for a year, and I lied to him at the start about never having done anything except kissing other guys, but the truth is that although I'm a virgin (even though I'm well into my twenties), I have done more than just kissing. We both come from a very ... (137 words)

Is my female boss taking advantage? She wants me to provide her with sex. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

29 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - it is with big pain and confusion I write this. I have never told this to any one. I have been away for a month for work and my boss (female, may be around 38-40) was also there. Though she was my boss, we were in good friendship. As the bed was big enough - she aksed me to ... (356 words)

Even after 3 years together it would be my first choice to go home to my own bed without my B/f. Does this mean things are not right with us and deep down I know?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been having problems because I never want to stay at his house, but I don't know why I don't... I love him a lot, although we have had lots of problems along the way mainly because I feel like I'm last on his priority list a lot of the time, and I'm ... (144 words)

95 % of the time she's great but its that other 5% that has me worried!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

29 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this girl for about 4 months now. We both go to the same university. 95% of the time she's great and we have a lot of fun together and we've both said we're falling for each other. We split paying for dates and everything. But every month she turns into an ... (424 words)

How do I politely say "no" to men I'm not interested in on an online dating site?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

29 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i got a dilemma, i signed up for a dating website not so long ago. and over all it is fine, what I am finding harder than i though, is replying to messages of men i am not interested in, i try to turn them down as politely as i can but there is always someone who gets really h... (201 words)