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Archived questions from: 28 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I get this guy interested in me without him expecting sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this guy I've liked for three years now. It's kind of pathetic I've admired him for this long and haven't had the guts to ever do anything until now, but let's say I've let him no I'm interested but not enough for him to no I REALLY like him and want to date him. Afte... (260 words)

Should I confess my feelings to my teacher? / does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have a common issue but I cant seem to find an answer that fits my exact situation. I have a crush on my teacher and I don't know if I should tell him or not but I think he likes me back. So ive been in an ensemble all four years of high school and I hon... (329 words)

How can I gain confidence to talk to boys?

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28 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Stuff you may need to know about me before I start. I'm 17, i've never had a relationship, i've never kissed a boy, i have acne which is a massive reason as to why i have no confidence atall! I started a new college in September and i really love it! I've made some great fri... (171 words)

Am I being immature or childish or high maintenance? I don't want to be a weekend girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My story is a little long, but I will try to be succinct as possible. I started dating a guy in January 2012. He is 61 now, and I am 39. He has been divorced for 15 years (his wife cheated on him and married the guy a year later right after they divorced), and he hasn't re... (1282 words)

How is a woman who hates porn ever going to know for sure she's with someone who doesn't watch it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been on this site for awhile now, and one topic in particular really stands out to me: the whole porn debate. I've read many peoples' opinions from both sides of the issue, and I think they all make some good points, but there is one thing I wonder. How is a woman who h... (277 words)

He did the chasing, I was confident he liked me but he seems to be acting like a sociopath? Was it all a game to him? Help me understand his actions

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a charismatic quite popular guy on a night out when I was a bit drunk I'm 23 and hes 27. I’m always louder and more confident when I’ve been drinking and we hit it off. He asked me to meet up again and we got on really well, although he mentioned that he hates shy people ... (695 words)

I've just dumped my pot head boyfriend. Where do I go from here?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 21 years old and I came home for Christmas and Broke up with my pot head (ex) boyfriend. I don't drink, I don't smoke weed, I graduated high school and I am currently on a holiday break from College. He smokes dope, drinks, dropped out of high school and has a ch... (228 words)

Too much, too soon... how to recover and be a MAN?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I've met a woman an hour away from me, we have many things in common and I'd like to think we've got great chemistry. Fast forward 7 weeks and we are exclusive, sleeping together and spending sat/Sundays The problem is I have almost turned mushy or wussy by being too open a... (365 words)

I am a good person so why don't I have any friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a female in my mid twenties and I seriously have no friends! I am an intelligent, good-looking woman and I spend every weekend alone at home. Ever since graduating college, I moved back to my parents house and have lost touch with all my college friends who moved away. I ... (235 words)

Married in 1975 and then in 2011 he cheated. He blames me for the break-up. Could we ever get back together?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age - my husband and i met when we were 16 and 17 he was my only boyfriend. We married in 1975 and been married for 37 years. In June 2011 he did something unusual that he never did before it was only a phone call to me and said he had rang the wrong number at a time that he shou... (871 words)

How can I prevent the guy friend always being the tag-along friend whenever we plan to go out or do anything? What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I hope somebody can help me with a small problem, its short and simple really but the solution is more difficult. I have recently met a beautiful man, who I have started to like, not a lot but want to just keep hanging out etc and see what happens. My problem is... (202 words)

Holiday blues. Why do I feel more alone than ever, and without a partner, especially during the holiday times?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Why is it that I feel more alone over the holidays? I have family and friends, yet I long for the warmth of a man. I feel like I will never find a man and have that marriage I so long for. I'm 43 and never married. Something BTW, I always wanted. That bond, shared love and ... (108 words)

What are the options to introduce more sensuality, more excitement and delight him more when we make love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I make sex more exciting for my boyfriend? We havent been going out too long and have sex a handful of times.. For me it gets more amazing every time, he is a lot more experienced than I am, so he knows exactly what to do.. Generally I'll start of giving him a hand job... (172 words)

Can I trust men after this? And why do I fall for men too fast? I want to stop doing that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am not sure why i fall for men so fast. I was just in a two year relation ship and he cheated on me so bad. I finally got sick of it and after two years i dumped his ass. Well I got involved with a nice guy I thought hit was nice. ' He opened the car door for me, touchy f... (192 words)

Have I upset this guy? Or has he just moved on in his busy life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Can someone please help me shed some light on why this guy is being like this... About 5 years ago this guy and i were really good mates at work. We were on the same team and used to have lunch together, go to the gym at work and we had a laugh etc... There was no attractio... (418 words)

LDR: Attention seeker? Hypochondriac? Or really sick? Cheated in the past. Am I wasting my time with her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

28 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this girl for a while now. Today makes it 5 months. She's in a different country from me, so there's the first problem of distance. However, we try to overcome it. First of all, I found out she had sex with a friend of mine, shortly before we dated (then she ... (329 words)

Should I start looking for someone else? I don't think my current GF is going to be the one, long term

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

28 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 47 and was married happily for 16 years, and not-so-happily for the last 2 as I found myself dragged down a path of divorce I didn’t want to be on. My wife instigated the proceedings; the reasons no longer matter - suffice to say I had never cheated. I mention this beca... (535 words)

Is it only me who gets upset that some people cheat, and then want to keep that fact a secret from their partner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

28 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Some Posters seem to be condoneing cheaters and ex promiscus people. Why do people think that its ok to lie to their husbands or wifes??? I just read where one agony aunt said "don't beat yourself up over it you just felt a connection so you cheated"??? what is wrong with... (126 words)

We've endured a rough time together. I still love her. Yes cheating occurred. Should I try to get back with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So, my story starts a year ago when i first met my ex with whom i just brokeup, i immediately fell in love and told her so on the next day, she also really liked me. everything was perfect and fun, and we really rushed sexually ( which was foolish..), until i made a mistake ... (399 words)

Should I tell my friend that a guy tried to kiss his fiancee in a nightclub?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I was in a nightclub the other night when a guy i know tried to kiss my friends fiancee. She moved her face so that he kissed her on the cheek rather than the lips he was aiming for. They then just continued to chat. I am now in a dilemma as to whether to tell my friend a... (118 words)

Since my miscarriage and his uncaring attitude I don't think I can love him any more. What are my options?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have really been feeling like I've grown to hate my boyfriend at times. There are times when I think what would I do without him? I feel I don't want to leave him because all my friends either live on the other side of the country or I've outgrown and have nothing in commo... (466 words)

Fake FB account and now I'm stuck. What do I do?? I never meant to hurt anyone.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i know.i messed up. i know i hurt people. i just want advice though. okay sorry if this is long.i fell fast and hard for a male friend. well i wanted to find out if he was insterested in anyone without him knowing i liked him. so i made a fake fb account and added him as ... (291 words)

Has anyone else had a back brace for scoliosis? I need one but I'm worried. What is the procedure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - hi, i need to get a back brace for my scoliosis and i've been told by many others that when they take a mould of your back to make the brace, they will ask you to take your clothes off and only stand their in only your underwear and nothing else. people say getting a doctor t... (111 words)

Is there absolutely anyway I'll be able to get over my ex and move past what she did to me? What am I supposed to do with my life now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I dated a girl for 3 years, invested everything I had into the relationship: my time, my money (albeit we started dating when I was only 15 years of age) and she absolutely drove me into the ground. I found out halfway through the relationship she had gotten drunk at a par... (431 words)

How do you know if someone is right for you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - When you've found the one if there is such a thing, do you question it? or little things about them that just don't seem like an ideal fit with you. I was in love a long time ago. crazy, stupid, love. I just adored him. (I'm over him now, and don't have residual feeling... (181 words)

How long should we wait before having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

28 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - It seems to be the biggest dilemma in dating today. With no hard-and-fast social rules, men and women are on their own to determine when is the best time to introduce a physical component to their budding love relationship. The good news is that we are living in a time where ... (130 words)

Sex! Is it that I have a sign on my head that every guy I'm interested in sees only that? How do I change that focus?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy who I've liked for three years now. It's kind of pathetic I've admired him for this long and haven't had the guts to ever do anything until now, but let's say I've let him know I'm interested but not enough for him to know I REALLY like him and want to date ... (275 words)

What are reasons for delayed periods other than pregnancy and stress?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My periods are 5 days late, took a preg test came out neg. I do have usual signs I get when I'm gonna be on periods and I don't have any preg signs. Besides stress( of which I don't have) what are the reasons for delayed periods? Should I be worried?... (54 words)

Why am I having sexual dreams about a guy that I don't like in that way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4326 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I keep having these sex dreams about this guy I like. I like him a lot, but not in a sexual way. I don't understand why I keep having these dreams. They are making me somewhat uncomfortable. Are my dreams trying to tell me that I'm secretly sexually attracted to him? ... (53 words)

My boyfriend's ex is texting him in the middle of the night asking about me. I think she's trying to take him away!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now and we are currently living together in my house. Neither of us text hardly anyone ever. We're never even on our phones while we're together. The other night I woke up randomly which I never do to find him awake texting ... (186 words)

Unfaithful in my marriage. Why did I do this? Can I keep this secret forever?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age - I have been married for over 20 years and have always been faithful with the exception of one man, twice. I met him 15 years ago at the gym and I was immediately attracted to him but kept it to myself. After a while, we began to talk and before I knew it, I gave him my numb... (585 words)

Friend or more? Is she playing games with me to get me interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

28 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - So there is this girl I've been liking for a while. Her friends tease her with me and she acts casual about it, some times she continues the joke herself. As of recent, another guy seems to be interested in her and she's nice to him and speaks to him normally. Then her frie... (148 words)

She's gorgeous. My envy and jealousy towards her is out of control. What can I do? I'll lose her if I keep being like this.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help bad! Please help! Im in love with a woman but Im jealous of her. Shes gorgeous. Shes everything I want to be and pretend to be but aint. She's smart, funny, kind, thoughtful, classy, generous, shapely, blue eyes, professionally established, financially secure, well... (209 words)

LDR help needed please? How do I break up with my LDR?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Our relationship became a LDR since 4 months... Growing apart from my bf of 2 years: we are at a point where we barely talk now and my feelings for him are not the same anymore. In the beginning I was writing to him every day and we would skype at least once a week. Accor... (304 words)

Despicable actions by him in the past. So do I try to forget that? And see him again? Or say NO to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex constantly said he slept with my sister whenever we would argue. He would do this because he knew that would destroy me and knew that my sister and I were very close. I confronted my sister she denied it and no longer speaks to me. As far as my ex he said he only sai... (100 words)

Does he see me as his rebound option? Is he reluctant as we work together? Or is he interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys... I have a problem. Basically... I changed jobs less than 2 months ago and at my new job I have met a guy who is 6 years older than me. I'm 18 and he's 24. He's been in a relationship the whole time (couple of months) up until 3 days ago. Up until this point h... (485 words)

How do I get my friend back? At least to talk to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm scared, lost and feel really down. This is basically one of those "how do I get my friend back" questions, however this is a little more complicated. My friend (male) wont speak to me. He cut me out his life with no explanation. We had a fall out, but nothing too majo... (1057 words)

Is the girl I know and like trying to make me jealous? Her actions confuse me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - one day in school at lunch i was heading back to my table when i heard a conversation going on with a girl i know/like and her friends. she sat at my table with her friends a few seats down from me,every day at lunch. she was talking about a guy who also sits at my table,ac... (385 words)

How do I deal with people who make fun of my height?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - any ideas about how to deal with people who make fun of my height? usually i would just walk away and ignore such people but then i go home feeling i should replied them in kind. my major problem is i cannot get negative comments abt my height out of my head, no matter how long ... (73 words)

Is this just a lover's tiff? What caused this? And how can I make things get back to normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for around three months and up until now everything has been perfect. We fell in love pretty much at first sight and it's been so intense. But something happened at the beach which might not sound that bad but made me feel terrible. Maybe because ... (421 words)

Slept with him, but he became a jerk. Broke up. Later slept with his brother. If they know will they both hate me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know I will be judged for this but I really need help please? I slept with a guy a year ago. After I slept with him, he was a jerk to me and left my life, until recently. However, I recently slept with his brother. Now my ex has just started talking to me again. But I thin... (79 words)

I can't tell my family about our relationship. Is it wrong to date my cousin? Is it wrong to have sex with him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always like him(My cousin) he like me ... He is my boyfriend too but the problem is that i cant never show it in front of My family. Me and him want to tell our family but i dont now how to tell them ?? Is it wrong to date him? And is it wrong to have sex with hi... (67 words)

Eleven months later my ex made contact. Is he trying to reconnect? What's my next move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4325 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I'll try and keep this as short as possible but two weeks ago my ex contacted me after us not speaking for 11 months. I deleted his number so I didn't actually know it was him but we were together for 2 and a half years. To be clear, he was the one who broke up wit... (655 words)

I want to have sex with this guy, but I'm scared he won't want to if he finds out I'm still a virgin. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

28 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old and have always been really insecure when it came to guys, so I had never dated anyone until four months ago. Then my attitude changed and I met a nice, sweet guy. I had my first real kiss with him, and I was really ready to explore my sexuality so we did some ... (519 words)