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Archived questions from: 26 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do people so young achieve so much in a short time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know i'm going by television here, but i'm sure this is a reality for some people. But i've always wondered how is it that people in Los Angeles for example, live in these massive houses and always have these parties with so many people!! But the part i'm getting at is they ... (172 words)

My bf likes to sleep with other people and doesn´t mind if I do either

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently met this guy online who has since told me that he thinks we were made for each other. I was totally into him from the second we first met. We have mind blowing sex and he says he has never loved anyone or anything until he met me. He also says that he knows we ar... (359 words)

I keep letting possible partners slip away even though I want a relationship. Should I persevere with this guy I've met online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

26 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Relationship/ gay advice please? I don't know what to do. I've let so many guys slip away on the advice that 'they're not the right one' etc. but I tired of this happening and it makes me sad. I'm in my final uni year, still single and I don't want to be. I realise that you... (240 words)

Questions about orgasms and squirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ladies.....I am new to g spot stimulation and am in need of help. I have a vibrator which has helped me to find my g spot since now I can find it with self exploration. I can squirt which I love the urge to pee feeling and then just letting myself relax and have it happen b... (121 words)

I've been having an affair for 9 years. I know it's wrong, but how can I break away?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) age 36-40 - Hi all. I love this guy totally but he's married, so am I. Been trying to stop seeing each other for years. We been together 9yrs now. Each time we fail and whenever we do, we desire each other more and get closer. We have great fun, time and laughter together. We don'... (95 words)

My boyfriend says he found another girl that gives him happiness. Can I get him back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Have been dating my bf for 3yrs. Recently he started complaining about my attitude, saying am too insecure, demanding, and that he has found another girl that gives him happiness and there is nothing I can do. Truthfully, have been kind of rude and bad to him since, but h... (103 words)

Please help me get him back :(

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - there's this guy that I dated almost a month. we went to highschool together but we never talked . but we have mutual friends and that's how it all started. it started off as just hooking up and then I told him how I felt so he asked me out this is the first time I've actually ... (294 words)

Was it wrong to send a message, instead of seeing him or calling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel terrible... I've known this guy for about four months, two of which we've been dating. He was really sweet to me, I'm still a virgin (and almost 21 y/o) and he was so nice and patient. We did some stuf, but he would never push me and made sure I was comfortable. Hone... (462 words)

How do I go to see him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4327 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everybody :) First of all im really happy to have found this website because i realized i am not fully in control of my relationship problems.Here is my little story and my questions. I've been with this amazing guy in a long distance relationship since July 2012. I ... (385 words)

Long distance relationship revolving around sex good or bad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a man I met on this blogging website. Naturally people tend to meet kindrid spirits there. I met a man and we both wanted to meet so bad. So we did and hit it off hard. Now we are in a long distance relationship, from florida to idaho... He is finishing up sch... (448 words)

What do you call a man who breaks up with you, then pretends it didn't happen and expects you to miss him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Thank you for helping people even in the busiest time of the year. Well I guess for some it's the most leisurely time of the year, and some the loneliest time. I had been dating my ex for three months. It's fair to call him an ex because he broke up with me. At the fourth d... (749 words)

My partner was told I was cheating so he decided to look for guys and cheat on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

26 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with a guy for 7.5 years, and everything was going fine until about April of this year,(December now) until I found out that he was registered on several gay dating sites and has a profile complete with risque pictures... I confronted him about it ... (312 words)

Why am I so emotional when I have a good relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid. my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months. He means the world to me and I can tell that he loves me too. Obviously, if I had any problems with our relationship, I'd go to him but this is something I don't think he'll be able to help with. i used to be the... (251 words)

He's married but keeps looking at me. I can't stop thinking about him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i really like this local guy who i see sometimes on my commute. theres been lots of eye contact between us and theres definate chemistry there. but he is married he stared at me one evening for about ten seconds i was in shock and didnt say anything to him and he didnt even ... (148 words)

Torn between my ex and the new guy. What should I do for the best?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been torn between to men now for a few months, but I think I have decided to give my ex another chance since we have has such a long history together and we have children together. But I don't know how to let the other man go, because I feel like I crave the attention he ... (242 words)

Everyone I know is married, has babies or is in a settled relationship except me! Am I behind and missing out?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm having a little age crisis I guess haha. I've just turned 20, and I don't have one friend that doesn't have a baby or isn't married. Everyone I knew from school is married, had a baby or has been with the same guy/girl for a couple of years. I'm single, no child... (158 words)

I'm too insecure about my body to get physically intimate with my boyfriend. Any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm really insecure about my body to the point where I mostly wear dark colours, slouchy materials in clothing etc. I have my moments when I wear form fitting pieces and I get a lot of compliments but I never take it seriously. Anyway, back on topic, I've been dating t... (135 words)

Suspicious of my wife. I keep a voice recorder in the house and heard her and my younger brother being over familiar. I am confused.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

26 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, Seeing other posts, I think I can get opinion here. Please suggest for below a thing that occurs in my home. Me and wife, 28 and 24 yrs and are married for 3 years. We have good relationship. But due to some suspicion, I kept voice recorders in our bedroom and dra... (180 words)

Is my boyfriend taking advantage of me financially? He also makes me feel insecure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all I'm sorry for the long read I'm guessing this is going to be but I need help in what I should do. I've been with my boyfriend now for a year and well I have basically lived with him for that whole year. I give him £75 a week for rent/bills which I don’t know if ... (881 words)

Shall I trust him or not? My friends say he only sees girls for a short time and then dumps them. I don't want to be hurt.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Just recently, one of my friends invited this guy to a movie with me and a couple of friends. He seemed really nice, and we'd been texting each other quite a bit. He then randomly told me he liked me, just completly out of the blue. I have to say first, I've never had a b... (206 words)

How do I get people to stop gifting me live Plants? I tell them I don't want them. I give them alternative ideas. They all ignore me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

26 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - This sounds really stupid, but it is getting on my nerves to the point where it is very hurtful to me. The issue is that I really like plants and I have a green thumb. My wife and my in-laws knows this, so for some years know they have been gifting plants to me. This was ... (423 words)

How do I move on from the heartbreak?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

26 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So, it's been a year since my ex dumped me after calling me the one and only for her and I still can't sleep and don't know why. I want to move on with my life but i just seem to get trapped in the thought that I can't trust a girl that is single because all she is going to do ... (184 words)

I want to get back with my wife. I know deep inside she wants to give me another chance!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

26 December 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I am looking for advice to help me get back together with my wife. We were married for 8 years, knew each other for 15 probably, we have two boys 8 and 11. As people know that have kids, the intimacy in a relationship goes out the the door with kids unless you are very... (663 words)

My B/f doesn't last very long in bed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about a month now and it doesn't last very long. We do some foreplay but almost as soon as he's inside me he has to cum. We've tried taking breaks, I usually don't give him oral before we have sex because it makes it that much qui... (207 words)

Husband is never around for me or our baby. Should I wait or hand him the divorce papers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm young, this I know but like most people my age I don't have all aspects of my life figured out and i'm not sure where to go from here. I have been married for about 2 years now and I have a 8month old baby with my husband, but now i'm not sure if he should be my husband ... (439 words)

Why do I still feel so much love for someone who has never loved me back and openly has told me he has never liked me in that way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship when I was young and ended up having a child with the guy when I was 17. We broke up shortly after that due to him cheating and treating me badly. It has been over 9 years since we were together and over the last 9 years I have never stopped loving him ... (147 words)

What are general tips on the types of places suitable for 1st and 2nd dates?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

26 December 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I met somebody from an online dating site. We went to a starbucks near where she lived. There was background music playing and I couldn't hear her properly because she was speaking very softly ( I didn't like her that much, so won't be seeing her again, but i believe our ... (92 words)

Is it reasonable that I expect, and I am waiting for him to make the first move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Three months ago I met a guy and we both are in love with each other. Though we live quite far apart we have met a number of times to spend time with each other but we haven't yet been intimate. We talk to each other daily but my problem is that the guy rarely expresses hi... (132 words)

How do I converse with my clients in the beauty industry? What can I say or ask or not ask?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a quiet, more reserved person but I just recently got a position in the beauty industry Now I am required to conversate with clients.. I'm not sure what topics to talk about. What should I do to maintain long term relations with clients? Any advice? ... (49 words)

I'm lesbian and I don't now how to tell My family

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Help !!! I have Been lesbian since i remember but the problem is that nobody knows just a friend but i dont now how to tell My parents im afraid they are going to judge me and the thing is that i have to fake that i like guys ... (51 words)

I am having panic attacks after having oral sex. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A night or so ago, my husband and I were getting ready for bed and started fooling around. This is normal, except we decided to try something new this time. Neither of us had participated in oral before so we figured it might be fun. Since then though, I've started having mini ... (73 words)

I stopped working after working all my life, I have no friends and I'm lonely

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello there, just need some maybe little advice or i dont know what others can call it. Here is the fact. I am asian and i was a singer. I am a singer. Thats my job since im 16. I did it for my living. Im not really that star, im just ordinary musician like singing in a hot... (408 words)

How do I tell this shy guy that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I've been at Uni since September. And there's this guy there who I really like, and I think he likes me, but we're both quite shy (a reason I've never been good at the guy thing) and I know that if I don't tell him how I feel then I doubt he'll ever say if he likes ... (218 words)

Do I try anal sex or not?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

26 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants to try anal sex with me but I just don't know about trying it. Do I let him have his way or what? and anyone that has tried it can you please explain it like what do you have to do and how does it feel? I only really care about the first question but the seco... (64 words)

I love my friend but she doesn't know how to break up with her boyfriend. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

26 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, this is Jake, I am 17 years old (¡18 coming early 2013!).I practise football and music is my life. I'm new member and I registered in this page for talk with other people and try to help them. But right now, I write for telling you as I feel at this moment. ... (490 words)