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Archived questions from: 12 December, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he attracted to me or is it just that I'm 'available' to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

12 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to this guy (A) on and off for 2 years. He told me 6 months ago that, he's not attracted me and he doesn't want to get close to me. We all have the same friends so we interact every now and again. Two years ago I met him (A) and met his friend(B) who I ... (321 words)

I want my mom to know that I'm sexually active

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

12 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have a little bit of a dilemma... I am 16, nearly 17 and am sexually active (I live in the UK) I have been with my boyfriend with 10 months and we have only ever had sex with eachother and we only did it after about 7 months.We did it for all the right reasons, we love... (117 words)

Why did he change his relationship status and then go back and change it again the same day?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

12 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why would my friend change his FB status to engaged and then change it back to in a relationship two hours later??? Haven't asked him yet but curious about what you guys think. Doesn't this strike you as being very strange? How can you make that kind of an announcement and then ... (64 words)

Out of control PMS, I've tried EVERYTHING, please help me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

12 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm at my wits end here and really need some advice. I am a 25 year old woman. I'm generally a happy person who enjoys life. But the week (sometimes 2 weeks) before my period I feel as though I go absolutely INSANE! I'm extremely angry, depressed, and even suicidal. I ... (374 words)

I just found out a girl I really like has a boyfriend. Should I still attempt to get to know her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

12 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - First, just a short question, should I feel sorry for flirting with her a little bit before I knew she's already seeing someone? She was really nice about everything towards me. Anyway, I asked this girl I like for her number, but she said that she has a boyfriend. I will... (202 words)

The only way he'll let me break up with him is if I tell him the truth!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

12 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So im kind of stuck in a pickle. what do you do when you dont want to hurt someones feelings, break them by telling them the truth ? That after 4 years of dating you went away alone for acouple months and in just 3 months felt happier with someone else than you ever did with ... (101 words)

Is attraction usually mutual (meaning it is unspoken between 2 people) or am I looking too hard for signs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

12 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so emotionally confused right now. I am married to a man I love, but I am mentally attracted to someone else. I am not sure what to make of this man's actions. I was once taking a long walk and he was driving in the neighbourhood. His car slowed down almost to a full sto... (268 words)

Should I pursue my old flame?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

12 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I dated this girl in high school. We broke up the summer after her senior year (my junior year). We ended up going to the same college, and screwing around a bit my freshman year (her sophomore year). We occasionally talked here and there after wanting to "take a break" after ... (371 words)

How can she just forget 6 years, our dog, our house, and our family with someone who came in the picture for 3 months?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

12 December 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Im a 25 year old male, who just broke it off with my girlfriend of 6 years, due to her cheating. I cheated on her once early in the relationship,when we were already serious. I never told her,but she always had her suspicion. I know there was no excuse for what I did, but after ... (685 words)

I don't want to appear desperate but I don't want to discourage him either. How do I do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

12 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months.He was the most wonderful boyfriend a girl could have.Did the nicest most special things for me. We are in college. Recently he suffered a terrible loss and I guess I was suffocating him. He asked for some space.He... (570 words)

I broke up with him because he made me feel worthless! So why does it hurt so much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

12 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry about the length but... Hi Everyone, I'm so sad right now... I just ended a 10 month relationship with a guy that i actually thought i loved. We said we would never leave or walk out on each other.. I had to end it because i was left with no choices. I'm 25 years ol... (667 words)

Fertility doubts!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

12 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! i seem to have a 32 days based period, does that make one less fertile? i wonder, i sometimes don’t get periods for 2 months do i still have a chance to conceive?... (34 words)

Can't get past his excessive body hair!! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

12 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, Im 21, im gay, and have been going out with this amazing guy now for a couple of months. The other day we 'went all the way' for the firs time- with each other. Thing is, he's got the most amazing smile and eyes, but he is REALLY hairy on his chest, stomach and below.. ... (92 words)

I think this woman is using my guy friend..what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

12 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey there, I've been hanging out with this guy for about three years, he considers me as his best friend and we hung out often, be it just the two of us or in groups. He told me confidential stuff and said he could trusts me. I get the feeling he is comfortable around me and ... (286 words)

I get very upset when my partner sees his child from a past relationship! How do I deal with this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

12 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for 15 months. We love each other very much. However, 7 months into our relationship I discovered that he has a child with his last partner of 2 years. I was skeptical throughout these 7 months as I had heard roumors, and he would never let me near ... (383 words)

What goes through a man's mind when he watches porn?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

12 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Can some actually explain to us women what happens when watching porn? Does it make the man feel like he is having sex with the woman on the screen? Apparently I am told they are not watching it to pretend they are the man in the video. I am confused what are they getting off ... (71 words)

Why do I find so many similarities between my dead boyfriend and my current one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

12 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid; I was one of the most blessed people alive, I had everything, the family, the friends and a love story that blossomed since I was young, I fell in love with my high school sweetheart and we went to collage together then got engaged and set a wedding date onl... (895 words)

First love questions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

12 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone :) You're probably going to think this is a stupid question but Im in love for the first time and im so so happy. But sometimes I feel a bit too happy and then i get freaked out because im so young (only 18) and i'll be going to uni soon etc. Also i dont want to ... (115 words)

My son feels no connection with his father

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

12 December 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a mum of one, he's 18, and he's in university studying graphic design and computing. We live in North Lincolnshire, and work across the border in Kingston-u-Hull, my son goes to university and lives in Sheffield - so a bit of a distance between the three. My son has told... (283 words)

I've never been in a relationship, before, but there is a girl I want to ask out. Advice Please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

12 December 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi i have a problem im a sophmore in high school that has never been in a real relationship ( sadly never even kissed a girl) but there is a girl in my biology class that i get my mind off of but there are two problems we hardly ever talk,she is a freashmen. im afriaid that if ... (75 words)

My girlfriend has stood me up 4 times in the past 3 weeks.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

12 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some outside advice... We've dated for over 2 years now. My girlfriend has stood me up 4 times in the past 3 weeks. Each time, she had what sounds and feels like a reasonable excuse why it happened. First time, she had fallen asleep - getting over a flu - and... (1095 words)

Boyfriend Watching Porn In A Long Distance Relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

12 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years now from opposite sides of the world. We are both 18 and we have not seen each other within the last 3 years. Everything is great except for the fact that he watches perverted things like women showing off their bodies and porn ... (274 words)

My ex boyfriend left me pregnant, doesn't care to see our child or pay for anything,

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

12 December 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend left me pregnant, we already have a child together and he has two before me. When we broke up the first time, he was on craigslist looking for men and women for sex and i took him back, he was looking at porn also and when we were together i found out. Just ... (110 words)

Can chemistry be built up over time??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

12 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I currently have an intimate relationship with my best friend, but when I bring up being in a relationship, she says the chemistry isn't there. I really think it's just because im not a big muscle tatted bad boy. We already get along great and complete the other half. We have ... (99 words)

I met a guy that's everything I want (love at first sight) but he's in a long distance relationship. I don't want to break them up, nor do I want to be the man on the side. I really need some advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4342 days ago

12 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm almost finishing my first term at University, but not all is amazing. Around then end of October I met a guy (Same age as me, same Uni year), and he is literally amazing. If there's any proof that love at first sight exists, he's it. I mean it just started out as being ... (424 words)

My married lover and I have ended our affair, but I want to stay in contact with him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

12 December 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have posted a question 3 months ago about my married lover cutting all the ties off with me and I suspected him moving on to some other girl. But now I know the reason why he cut all the ties off with me ( we had a dicussion when I come to know that he is leaving his job).its ... (293 words)

Do I have any chance of winning her love back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4341 days ago

12 December 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Do I have any chance of winning her love back? I met this girl in the final year of school, she was the most mature, independent and beautiful woman I had met. We dated till the end of school and then broke up because we were moving to different cities. Fast forward two year... (561 words)

Will I ever find true love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

12 December 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello y'all I'm Amanda I'm 20 years old about to be 21 in May 8th, I was born with brain damage and my mother died when I was 6 years of age and I'll live with my grandma forever. Okay here's my question why is it so hard for me to find a guy who loves me for me and doesn't ... (109 words)