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Does this girl like me? I wrote her a letter....

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26 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - Alright basically Ive been hanging out with this girl for a long while.. she's basically always at my house... she even has sleepovers shes like family. My family basically grew up with her family so.. we somewhat became best friends... something even next to brother and ... (602 words

I cannot find a potential girlfriend. I'm 31 and still haven't had my first kiss.

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26 May 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 31 year old male and still have not had my first kiss. No matter what I do, however many social clubs I've joined, all the internet daing sites I've tried etc, I can't even find any potential girlfriends. Virtually no single girls seem to exist out there, and the ... (203 words

I've been suspicious of my boyfriend, and now I've found a woman's sock in the laundry!

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26 May 2010 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 5 years. When we met and started hanging out, I learned instantly that he is a flirtatious drunk. He gets VERY friendly, kissing, grabbing, etc. We spent a few months in the beginning "on a break", still together but seperated by ... (287 words

We're leaving school and going our separate ways, I'm in pieces and he doesn't seem to care!

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I regret not making a move on this guy.. i've fancied him for over a year and he found out i liked him and didn't like me back at the time but 6 months later he started becoming really interested in me and i really have a feeling he likes or liked me back and everyone says how ... (429 words

I'm too controlling in this relationship, please help!

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, since I was 16 and now am 20 going on 21 and we live together now. I have always been "the boss", perhaps I can say... In my relationship! meaning that, its mostly all about me. I am a very bitchy mean person and get angry easily at ... (361 words

I hope I didn't blow it by sending this picture of us to him!

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26 May 2010 (F - My ex and i were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after the break up..no one cheated..i think we did really love each other..it was petty stuff that i think we can get over from just learning from mistakes etc..i know what i would do differently and ... (633 words

I'm obsessed with being pregnant...help, its driving me mad!

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I hope you can help me out with my situation. During last summer, I 'thought' I was pregnant with my boyfriend's (now ex's) baby. My periods became abnormally light and irregular, I always felt bloated, felt faint, was urinating more often, had constant headaches plus m... (337 words

Do I confront her with the discovery of her email?

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26 May 2010 (M age 41-50 - I recently discovered my long-term partner had been exchanging messages with an ex boyfriend on Facebook. I work away a lot and these exchanges took place while I was away in January. What concerns me is not so much that she contacted this guy in the first place, because I... (234 words

Still in love with my ex...what do I do?

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26 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - Last year I met a guy I had a relationship with for 3 months. He was perfect for me, except for the fact that he didn't want marriage. We decided to see other people, but were still "together". I ended up leaving him for another guy who did want marriage. Now, almost a year ... (200 words

"My boyfriend said that porn is disgusting but I found out he watches it"

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26 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, A few day a ago I found out that my boyfriend had been looking at a porn website when he stayed over at his friend's house. I heard it from both of the people he was with at the time and apparently he wanted to look at the lesbian page! He told me not long ago that... (114 words

I don't talk to him as much as before am I loosing him?

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26 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been dating this guy for a few weeks. The thing is he used to be my best friend and we were so close, we used to talk for hours, joke around and stuff. But now he doesn'talk to me as much, acts awkward and doesn't come to see me at school I always have to go over to hi... (108 words

"I'm so emotionally attached to him but he wants to move on"

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend been together for 3 years. He treated me like a princess in the first 1.5 year.. then he got fed up with me constantly being demanding and rude. I also threatened him a lot .. later he found me lying to him over and over again and he said he couldn't trust ... (247 words

We've only really talked on F/b -- how do I take it farther?

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26 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi I like this guy who i havn't really talked to other than over facebook. Anyway, we go to different schools but i know a lot of people from his school. I've seen him play sports against my school and think he is amazying!!! I'm not sure how to take it farther. He just ... (111 words

Is my married neighbour interested in me?

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26 May 2010 (M age 41-50 - hi, i like one married women , she is my neighbor , that women so many time drank with me but ya she all ways with her hubby,, in last party i give her birthday gift and her hubby also give to her but she like my gift much and when i get chance to kiss her , so i kiss her ha... (139 words

Can you heal after being cheated on?

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26 May 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have just found out that my fiancee cheated on me. We have been together for two years and a few months back he had heard some rumours that I was cheating on him and when I told him it was not true he did not believe me. A few nights later I saw him leave the bar with ... (573 words

How do I let him know about my body issues?

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26 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - Guy Situation There is a guy who I really like and we have been getting close (we are not dating) but we are both physically attracted to each other, and we both want to sleep with each other, he is very experienced and I am not, I am self conscious about how I look and the l... (281 words

The 'break' is going to be permanent. Do I tell her there's someone else?

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26 May 2010 (M age 36-40 - I initiated a "break" with my girlfriend about two weeks ago. Since then, I have started seeing and sleeping with a co-worker. I really like this new girl, and it seems the feeling is mutual. I am meeting with my "ex" in a few days. A chance for both of us to express where we... (143 words

I need to hear those three words

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26 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I am 23 yrs old and I have a new bf, he's 30 yrs old. We've been going out for 4 months now and bf/gf for 2months. A month ago I told him that I love him and he just nod and agree, I told him its ok if he doesnt feel the same way yet, coz i know that i fall in lo... (300 words

Shocked that he's with someone else so soon after our break up

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with my long distance ex-boyfriend 3 weeks ago. I've decided no contact with him is best for me to get over him, so we haven't spoken since the break up. I just found out that he's in a new relationship. It's been 3 weeks!! I was doing soo well, not crying o... (322 words

Are guys bothered by their friends dating their ex?

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - A few years ago, I was "casually" seeing this guy. Long story short, he was a jerk and didnt want a relationship and was just using me so I ended it. A year later, he called and asked if we could still be friends and we hung out once and talked. The whole being friends thing ... (212 words

It seems I'm there for her more than she is for me. Am I being a selfish friend?

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - My best friend, whom is a girl, broke up with her boyfriend a few months ago. She has found a new guy and everything. Sometimes she'll just call me to talk about her dates with him, but I don't want to talk sometimes. Lately here, I've been depressed. It hurts when she talks ... (145 words

How to get someone to get help if you cant get them to admit they have a problem

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26 May 2010 (M age 51-59 - My wife is very jealous. I get accused daily of flirting with or sleeping with women at work, as part of my commute, even with my cousins. Nothin I say can change her mind, and it's all so absurd to me. I haven't been with any woman but her, we met in highschool. This has gone... (249 words

She told me I was too needy. Is there any way I can start over?

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26 May 2010 (M age 36-40 - hi..i need an advice. i like this girl and become a friend since last year.i really like her.but i make a mistake.a big mistake..i too needy,oversensitive and emotional.this is what she said to me..now she hates me..she tell me please don't disturb her anymore.. i r... (80 words

Is there anything I can do?

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26 May 2010 (F age - I've been dating a really great guy for two and half years now, he has a girlfriend, he say's were just friends but sometimes i feel like I'm getting mixed signals from him, sometimes i think he wants more then just a friendship, i know that i would like it to become more than ... (75 words

He abused me but I still think about him!

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26 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - Right here goes! I have recently well 11 weeks to be exact got out of an abusive relationship with my alcoholic ex bf,it has been really hard as he is very volatile and caused trouble at my house by smashing every single window and it wasn't the first time either. Things h... (426 words

Is it possible that I am pregnant?

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - the last time i got my period was april 23 and i have not gotten it since then. during the last day of my period my boyfriend and i were messing around took all our clothes off except underwear and had dry sex i also gave him oral and after continued dry sex...now this past ... (152 words

He's still have his profile in a Dating ste where we met. Was it a smart decision that I broke up with him?

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26 May 2010 (F age 51-59 - "OP's Own title"I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months because I had found out that he is still keeping his old profile in an internet dating site where we met. And the worst part he viewed one of my "fake" profiles that i created to caught him. It really sends me off. I ... (289 words

Where are the good men????

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26 May 2010 (F age 51-59 - I've been dating a man for over two years. We went into this relationship saying that we didn't want anything serious but over time I have fallen in love with him and care a lot about him. I expressed my feelings to him a few weeks ago only to have him tell me he doesn't feel ... (299 words

I'm getting the feeling she's just ignoring me, but I have no idea why

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26 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - I've been talking to this girl for a while now and I really like her. I thought she liked me as well, so I told her how I felt and it turned out she wasn't looking for a boyfriend and she said she was sorry if she gave me the wrong impression. Obviously I was a bit upset and ... (152 words

Sexual frustration!! My girlfriend doesn't touch me : (

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26 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'm a newly outed (to myself and everyone else!) lesbian, and I've been with my girlfriend for about 5 months now. We're very much in love and quite frisky and spend a lot of time in the bedroom, but things have begun to seem increasingly one-sided to me. Typically, I caress ... (369 words

Two years and I still cant make her orgasm....help me someone!

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26 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hey everyone, Well here's the situation, me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years and im not sure if ive ever really given her a true orgasm... The other day we were completely alone and i set out rose petals, turned on romantic music, gave her a 30 min massage and ... (124 words

How do I get over this and just appreciate what I have? I am imagining that he is thinking of others now....

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26 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I'm in a great relationship that's going strong after several months. We have good sex and communicate really well, and I'm happy. Yesterday, we were talking about sex and porn, and juicy stuff like that, and my boyfriend asked if I thought about other guys when I masterbate, ... (215 words

Does he love me or does he play games with me?

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello! I need your help. I have been chatting with him for 5 months.We live in different countries. We understand each other very well. We are like real friends. Recently he has become a manager of very big company and he rarely writes to me. We used to chat for hours, discuss ... (176 words

Should I be over the molestation by now or not?

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - should i be over the fact that i was molested? ok, ill keep this short. i was sexually molested from the age of 6-9 and then again by a different man from age 12-16 (This stopped about 3months ago). i would like to know if you think i should be over the molestation by now or ... (57 words

How can I ask my parents to let me sleep over at my boyfriend's house?

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi, i see my boyfriend nearly every day. he shares a house with his housemate and is 26. iam 20 and i have asian parents who are not too strict, they will let me go out till very late with him and let me spend a lot of time with him. i would very much like to sleep over my ... (79 words

My manager brings her baby to the office every week but doesn't allow anyone else to bring in their kids!

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26 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi guys, My manager at work had a baby 4 months ago and since it's been born she has bought him (the baby) in to the office practically every week! 1 week she came in 3 times. She came in to show off the baby- not for anything work related. What's annoying is that when h... (200 words

How can I talk to my boyfriend about this without making him feel bad?

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi! I saw that you gave some great advice to a a girl a while back I believe about getting fingered and I didn't know if you could help me out. I am 19 as well as my boyfriend. The other day for the first time he fingered me. I was sitting up because we could not just l... (234 words

We don't have sex anymore!!

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26 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - hi everyone. ive been with my husband for 13year on and off. we've been married for almost 5 of those years now. he seams to have lost interest in me. ive had 2 kids and put on 2stone. my youngest is 4months. since my last child was born we wouldnt have sex that often but we ... (130 words

How long does it take for chylamydia to turn into Pelvic Inflammatory Disease?

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26 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hey everyone. So I've had a bf since last year, we just started having sex a few months ago, in our past we both only have 1 previous partner. We used condoms, I'm on the pill, all is good right? Well shortly after we started doing that there were 2 occasions where we did not ... (353 words

Is the height difference between my boyfriend and me normal?

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi friends! I need your advice.I'm 17, my height is 153cm. It has always bothered me. I do not know, tell me, please, is it too short? My boyfriend is 179cm. Is the height difference between us normal?... (38 words

What is the best way to get him interested in me again?

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26 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - This is complicated: A guy at my work flirted with me. Now he seems to be backing off. What is best way to reignite him. Here is what happened: he starts saying Hi looking at me with these big puppy dog eager eyes. I think Oh he has a crush on me. then he starts talking to me ... (221 words

Why is he always searching for pornography that is the complete opposite of me?

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26 May 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hi everyone. I am 38 and with a long time partner. We have a son together (and I have another one from my marriage)and get on reasonably well. We have quite busy lives up at 6 am and running around till children in bed at 9 pm. The normal rat race type of thing. Then we h... (435 words

Marriage without intimacy

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26 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - Okay I've been married for 3 years but been with my husband for 7 years now. We get along just fine, he is caring and respectful treats me great. The only problem we have is that I have to initiate any form of physical intimacy, he seems withdrawn in that department. In the ... (176 words

Are we heading for a rocky end?

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - me and my bf have been together for 3 years now. I love him to pieces no-one makes me laugh, feel safe and creates that sparkle in my eyes the way he does. I know he loves me very much 2. We have had the usual ups and downs that couples have but recently we argue over pathetic ... (381 words

Why is sex painful?

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - why does it hurt when he does deep inside of me ( my leg on his shoulders) but it does not hurt when it is not hitting the end ( my legs open at th side of his arms while he is on top of me ). is thr somethng wrong? ... (53 words

Why do I "wet" the bed when fooling around with my boyfriend?

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - why do i "wet the bed" everytime he fingers me and when it feels good? is it normal? is the liquid supposed to smell slightly sweet and sour? is it even normal? does weting the bed count as cum or the eletricfying sensation count?... (44 words

Why is it ok for them but not for me?

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - is it a "crime" in society that when we have a prelationship with a person younger then you. why when other girls do it they are accepted but im not? is it jus because im not in their chique?... (39 words

I'm not sure if I am still inlove with my boyfriend of 3 and a half years.

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26 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years. He is the nicest, sweetest and most loyal guy I have ever known. And this is why I fell in love with him at first. but as time has gone on im starting to feel less in lvoe with him, and I dont know if its just a phase. I do ... (171 words

How do I tell my husband I just want to be friends?

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26 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - I knew before I ever met my husband that I didn't ever want to be anybody's 'wife'. He is a good man and my best friend, but after 9 years of marriage I still don't like the role of wife. How do I get back to just being friends without the pressure of sexual/financial ... (55 words

I cant talk to him about his behaviour, so what else can I do?

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26 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - Last year, I started talking to my crush. He was a nice guy, funny, intelligent - the whole shebang. I've gotten to know him a little better this year and we've become friends. Lately though, I've been hearing some... not so nice things from/about him. Like apparently he's bei... (301 words

Am I doing something wrong in the bedroom department? We have both had previous sexual partners and this has never happened before!

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm really happy with my bf, only been together a month but things are going amazing... but theres a problem in the bedroom... we've both had other sexual partners with no problems but basically the times we've tried to have sex either he gets soft and we cant continue... ... (140 words

Was it a terrible idea to send my ex a picture of us when we were together?

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26 May 2010 (F - My ex and i were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after the break up..no one cheated..i think we did really love each other..it was petty stuff that i think we can get over from just learning from mistakes etc..i know what i would do differently and ... (588 words

I am back with my boyfriend after I cheated on him, but the other guy doesn't appear to have got the message!

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - i was with a guy for nearly a month who i cheated on my current bf with when i went on holiday last year, but yesterday(25/5/10) my current bf just knows the way to my heart and won me back, so i get home, tell the other guy its over in the friendliest way i can(i sent him a ... (233 words

I am really falling for this guy but he has not left his girlfriend for me yet, should I talk to him about this?

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26 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I Met A Guy 3 month's ago.he was so sweet from the first night.we kissed a lot flirted a lot and had fun for 3 weeks then the sex happened.after sex he asked me if i have a bf and i was surprised so i relied by a SURE NO and asked him back expecting the same answer and he said ... (223 words

Should I go to my partner's son's birthday party when his ex will be there and all the family who all know each other well?

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26 May 2010 (F age 51-59 - My partner's son is having a surprise birthday party next week. And i will be in the same place as his mother (my partners ex) and my in laws who all know each other and have history and i wont know any one there. I dont know whether to go as i would feel very out of place and ... (121 words

Ever since he cheated he does not trust me and thinks I am cheating on him!

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26 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - my boyfreind cheated on me a 4 and a half months ago but because i love him to bits i decided to stay with him now when ever i go out to a club with my mates or dont answer my phone straight away he has started accusing me of cheating on him now which i never have and saying ... (119 words

Should I leave her if my partner's ex continues to harrass me?

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26 May 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hello Everybody! I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 15months, 3 months into our relationship she started talking to her ex again and regularly meeting up with him on dinner dates. i nipped that in the bud and out of courtesy for me she cut it down to once a month. ... (458 words

My girlfriend only rings me when she wants something!

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26 May 2010 (M age 51-59 - My girlfriend only rings me when she wants something ! Wht shall i do?... (14 words

Is it just me that is confused, or is he too? He is all I want.

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - So David and I are coworkers at this restaurant. Since my schedule changed to one that is similar to his, we have been getting kinda close since last summer. I drive him home, we flirt nonstop, make out, and i love being around him. Last August, he asked me to be his GF. this... (313 words

I know he loves me, but because he is bi-sexual he still wants to sleep with women! How should I handle this?

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26 May 2010 (M age 36-40 - hi, i am a 22 yr old guy, deeply in love with a classmate, who is 21.he is bisexual, for i know he had girlfriends and was physical with them.he is extremely caring, affectionate and i know loves me very much. but problem is, he still wants to have sex with other girls.. ... (248 words

I'm being blackmailed into sex, help!

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - well uhm, i'm being blackmailed. I feel pretty low about it, but i can't get out of it. Basically this guy who i've been friends with for two years has always been there for me, and now he's being all lovey dovey and sending me innopropriate texts. He's two years younger than ... (189 words

I struggle to have an orgasm! What can I do?

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26 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - i have difficulty in orgasm..what should i do?... (8 words

My girlfriend broke up with me, but things are confusing.

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26 May 2010 (M - I met this girl from a dating site a couple of months ago now, I was the first guy she dated and we got on so well that we started seeing each other straight away. We dated for only just over a month, but everything was perfect, even spent a weekend together in leeds with ... (1142 words

Strong feelings for my cousin's husband

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26 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have strong feeling 4 my causins husband.My causin past away last year (june) since then he didn't have a girlfriend.i clean his house and do his washing every friday,i even wash his under wears.he gives me money and buys me presents.how do i know if he loves me too.i dont ... (66 words

How can I get over someone I can't have??

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26 May 2010 (M age 41-50 - I desperately need advice because I am feel I am about to just completely fall apart or do something stupid. I have a female best friend, we do everything together, we have the same interests, and we both mean the world to each other. I have been suffering from depression for ... (325 words

My current bf called his ex "My Whore" Is this something to be alarmed about?

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26 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - Okay, so maybe I'm over reacting and being stupid idk. Perhaps even worrying too much but... I decided to ask for other people's opinion. I've been in a 5 to 6 months relationship with my bf/fiance whom when i met had broke up with his ex gf/ex fiance of 3 yrs. We use to work ... (190 words

Why is my b/f upset that I'm not bothered by his interactions with his ex wife?

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a little under a month. We went on numerous dates and took things very slow before that, so all in all it has been about 3 months. Our first conversation lasted 6 hours...and I learned that he has full custody of an adorable 2 year old boy ... (262 words

Cheating with a married man for 4 years, does he love me?

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26 May 2010 (F age 51-59 - hi!4 years now i had realationship with a married man.we always have good sex good realation but her wife find out.but even if his wife knows about this.we still together.so many things happend so many fight but yet we have each other.is he really loves me? why is it that if we ... (152 words

Can a vindictive narcissist go to one who just gives up?

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok so I am not sure if any of you can help me with this issue.... I have a narcissist ex. We have broken up twice now. The first time he was the vindictive type. He would ask around about me, hold my stuff hostage, drive by my house, text me, etc. However time he seems to just ... (129 words

If a man has cheated in a previous relationship/marriage, is it likely that it will happen again?

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26 May 2010 (F age - If a man has cheated in a previous relationship/marriage, is it likely that it will happen again? I have been dating a very nice man for 6 months. He has been divorced for 10 yrs, I've been divorced for 5. I asked what happened in his marriage, and he said he cheated on her ... (366 words

I want to work things out and have him in my life!

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok so I known this guy for over 2 years we hangout everyday hold hands sometimes makeout, he tells me he has feelings for me but he says that he's too young to have something serious and he just wants to have fun for now um but he still goes and dates other girls he doesn't ... (206 words

How good are older men 45 and up in bed?

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have read in many articles that men's performance during sex becomes worse as they get older, due to menopause and other factors. Does age really matter in how well a man performs? For ex, is a 30 year old better in bed than a 48 year old?... (48 words

15 years and the guy still won't commit to me!

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26 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. but we have known and been together since i was 18 years old and that was over 15 years ago. he tells me he loves me, and he can't get enough of me, but he won't commit. he calls me for booty and that's pretty much it. we don't go ... (82 words

Should I still try to mend this broken friendship, or just move on?

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26 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - Well, I've had a falling out with a good friend. Long story short, it was complicated. We were close, became attached, drama happened and things fell apart. Much of it was my own fault. He has been keeping his distance for over a month. I tried talking to him directly, and I ... (209 words

How long of drinking 3-6 days a week does it take to be an acholic?

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok... I'm a bit tipsy so gimmie a break on spelling. So.. I started drinking about three months ago, about three or four times a month. But in the last couple weeks, I've drank every day. I don't know what classifies alcohol though. I don't drink until I'm drunk, I drink to my ... (122 words

Attracted to Mr. Wrong!

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - attracted to mr. wrong!!!!! i'm a christian and i believe that i'm in a testing ground because i live around with some one whom is older than me and i know that i'm attracted to him even though i know that i can never have him. we occationaly meet without planning... (273 words

I want to teach at my high school some day, would it be okay to date a fellow teacher then?

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I was just looking for some opinions on this one: This year, I developed a tiny bit of a crush on a teacher, I realize this is nothing to act on right now, but I'm not the type that gets a crush that often, I'm 15 and this is only my second crush. Anyway, what I'm try... (142 words

Depression issue or stuck in a rut?

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26 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - I don't know what is wrong with me anymore...If I have a serious depression issue or if I'm stuck in a seemingly endless rut. I am so irritable with my husband and child almost all of the time. It seems that almost everything that they do gets on my nerves. My daughter was ... (159 words

I don't want to be a virgin anymore!

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - There was a time when I was depressed and wanted sex to make it go away. The person I asked it from was a guy that I used to like a long time ago, and he's sort of a player, or sex fiend. We didn't do anything, but I wanted to, so bad. Is it wrong to be attracted to someone but ... (103 words

Turned on by girl porn, but being with a girl just doesn't fit!

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26 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I love watching women strip but dont wana touch a girl, i have no desire watsoever to touch a chick except 'to know' if im bi....but thats a stupid reason, if i really wanted a chick i'd 'want it' to 'want it' not to 'know' i also like watching men strip and gay men but they ... (116 words

My mother and sister are fuming because I didn't let them use my facebook account to look at photos

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26 May 2010 (M - My mother and sister are mad at me because they wanted to use my facebook profile to look at photos of my friends and family. Now they’re not talking to me. I didn’t let her because it’s my account and those people chose to share those things with me. My sister can just ... (118 words

No sex drive whatsoever - 22yrs old raped before

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26 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - Well, I have no idea what to do at this point. I've been raped/molested before. Raped at eight, raped at fifteen by a bf, raped again at 19 by a different bf. My crazy, disturbed mother heavily molested me as a kid and physically and emotionally abused me. I don't come from ... (347 words

As we live distances apart and our love sharpens,I get doubting feelings regarding her

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26 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - I've met this girl on phone,but hadn't seen her then. We fell in love when we eventually met,I felt it. However,there's the case of long distance rearing its ugly head. What's been bothering me lately is the strange attitude she had adopted;at times,I call her line and she just ... (133 words

Do you think he has a thing for me too?

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26 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey guys ! So there’s this guy at my school and I think he’s really good looking and funny and cute and at the beginning of the school year I got his phone number and I texted him , he always answered back but the convo went nowhere , and then a while after that , I dated on... (283 words

I lust to be with my ex's brother just once...

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26 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - So for years now my ex's boyfriend’s brother and I have always gotten along really well, we have so much in common and enjoy the same things. But soon discovered I had a bit of a crush on him, but ignored it due to being with my ex and didn't want to cheat. Now months aft... (262 words

Does he like me again or is he just using me to get what his girlfriend isn't giving him?

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26 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - Heey guys . okay so ... i used to like this guy last year - lets call him bob , lol so i liked bob , but i didnt say anything cuz i was SURE he didntt like me back - but this year i found out that he did but doesnt anymore and now he has a gf ... I didnt really like him ... (238 words

Am I being paranoid about his ex girlfriend?

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - My question is simple. Am I being paranoid? I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 8 months now and have always know he has been friends with his ex girlfriend. I've met her three times and always made the effort to chat to her and get on with her because I know that would ma... (196 words

Almost 25 and still a virgin, some advice needed!

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26 May 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi there, so I'm 25 in mid June and I'm STILL a virgin. There is a reason why I haven't had sex yet and this will probably seem stupid but it's the biggest hurdle I've ever faced in my life and is absolutely affecting EVERY SINGLE area of my life. It's the last thing I think of ... (1105 words

I lied and told my mom I wouldn't have sex anymore but now I might be pregnant!

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26 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - hi..ima start off by saying im 15. i had a bf for a lil more than a year now. my mom found out we had sex and she was upsett. she told me that we shoulldnt anymore, but i did. i felt bad for lying to her and i dont wanna lose her trust. well last week i was suposed to get ... (152 words

She denies it, but I think she's been cheating

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26 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - before me and my girlfriend were together there was this boy who was intrested in her and she was saying its nothing etc etc. we have now been together for about 2 months , and last week she walked back to hers to get changed and speak to her mum , i then rang her because ... (499 words

Is it fair for him to have gotten me nothing for my birthday?

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26 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - i have a new boyfriend been with him for 6 months its tough from the begining but we had many good times together . then i started noticing things .. he was very cheap and didnt want to be giving ( very cheap with his money ) and i felt like even though we were only together ... (216 words

Never been in a relationship -- what's wrong?

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26 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - i'm currently 19 years old, soon to be 20. i'm a virgin and have never been in a relationship. i've never met the "right" one, or have even tried looking. sometimes i feel like i'm a loser, like nobody likes me enough to want to be my boyfriend. i just want to date someone, you ... (158 words

I haven't had a period for five months

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26 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - i am 13, i am not sexually active, i am not pregnant, i am stressed, i am underweight, i have been on a diet recently, i excercise daily for about 1 hour, i am low in iron, i am weak, and i missed my period for about 5 months now... my friends are telling me i mmight be ... (149 words

Is this the right approach?

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26 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I own a marketing company and started dating a guy who owns his own business too. Shortly after meeting he started paying my company to do work for his company. I then broke up with him because I got jealous of his ex who is not in the picture.. (but I didn't realize she was ... (303 words

Have girlfriend, having sex, not attracted to men, but penises excite me, advice please?

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26 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - currently in a relationship with a girl, sexual. no problem getting it up etc, always turned on by her. Yet get turned on when i see penis. but no attraction to men. help.?... (33 words

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