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Should I send these photos to my ex as a nice gesture now that we are talking again?

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24 May 2010 (F - My ex and i were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after the break up..no one cheated..i think we did really love each other..it was petty stuff that i think we can get over from just learning from mistakes etc..i know what i would do differently and ... (448 words

Premature Ejaculation and Weak Erection, Help!

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24 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am 22 and have been with my bf for 3 years .My problem is when we have sex he ejaculates too soon,he has a weak erection and most of the time i don't feel him at all.At first i thought it was because we were each other first sexual partners and thought it would get better ... (113 words

Afraid to let him into my life in case I'm hurt again...

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - This guy at work he has been sitting across from me all the time during break and he always asks me to go do little things with him. Like dishes or bring laundry to laundry room he always asks me to go and if he bumps into me or sprays me with water he says sorry. Also he asks ... (195 words

Job interview help needed!

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have a job interview tomorrow for the position of a receptionist. I really need a job cos I'm just out of school and this one is perfect for me. I will be devastated if I don't get it. Only thing is, I have no experience in this field of work. Or any field of work. What ... (69 words

Hot one minute, Cold the next!

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24 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - So I was practically with this guy and we were living together (im using past tense because I am in the process of moving out) and when we get along its awesome and great. He's a funny person and loving and affectionate. But then there are days when he can wake up and be a ... (210 words

Playing with fire...

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok, me and my boyfriend have been with each other over a year now. We're in a long distance relationship and i love him very much. He's caring, funny and sweet but i always feel like something is missing and i dont know what. He's talked about marrying me and whilst he hasnt ... (171 words

Wow! He wants to have sex with me but I feel I'm too young... Help!

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24 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - i was going out with this boy it lasted 2 weeks and then he dumped me. i re asked him out a few months later and he said yes and it was all ok but now he has asked me if i would have sex with him. (but not forcefully) i just laughed and changed the subject. ( me 14, and him 13) ... (116 words

She doesn't think I can change...

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24 May 2010 (M age - Hi im 47 and my ex girlfriend is 55 we were together for 2 years i left a partner and three kids for this lady now she has kicked me out because she felt that i was putting a lot of pressure on her cause we used to argue every weekend because i was jealous when she was talking ... (215 words

Cam sex???

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - i need some help! i recently met this 18 year old boy on a chat site, im 16, we've been getting on really well and i know he's genuine an not a paedo or anything! but anyway, he suggested that we could start having cam sex, which im up for! im just inexperianced in that kind of ... (89 words

I feel this relationship is going way too fast!

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24 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok so I met this guy two years ago and in Feb. he finally decided to ask me out. We've been together since then and I'm really happy with him, but May 18th he told me he loves and I can't honestly say I love him back. Then this past weekend he told me that he wants to move ... (156 words

How can I get rid of acne spots?

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey. I'm asking for ways to get rid of acne/spots quickly. My skin's ok. It's not disastrous but it's not glowing either. I cleanse and moisturize daily but I still get the odd spot or two which make my skin look bad. Are there any ways of getting rid of spots quickly?... (100 words

"I want to blow his mind"

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24 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have known this guy since September. We met online and only chatted up until about 2 weeks ago. Well, a few days after we met, I went to his apartment to watch a movie, and things got carried away. We didn't talk about what happened, until last night. He said it was ... (189 words

Looking at an escort site and my girlfriend found out...what should I do?

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24 May 2010 (M age 51-59 - Where do I start I have been seeing my partner of a year I'm 41 she is 42 we both have kids everything was amazing till I very stupidly one night I was waiting on here to return from work and I used her pc I was fed up been working since 5 am was still up at midnight waiting on ... (152 words

"How do I stay just friends with a flirting boy?"

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24 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - "OPs own title" I am extremely confused at the moment. I have an amazing boyfriend, of 8 months, he is 16 (year older than me) and I love him very much :) However, recently I became friends with a fourteen year old (year younger), who keeps flirting with me like crazy, and I ... (96 words

"When guys says he loves a girl so much....do they really mean it?"

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - "OPs own title" when guys says he loves a girl so much ..... do they really mean it? when my boyfriend is saying me I love u more than you love me ...that's because (I don't allow him to kiss me or hug me) he says me I love him less? its going to be now 4 months of our re... (422 words

He's making subtle comments about commitment -- should I press him?

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24 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I am 26 and my boyfriend is 31. We have been together with for just under a year. We have discussed marriage once before in this time seriously about 3 months ago. At that time I wasn't ready and I didn't know how to express it so I got really paranoid and checked his... (410 words

Can a girl be too sexual? Should I accommodate his fantasies?

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I like to hear guys thoughts and from girls who have had personal experience. My bf and I have been together for quite a long time now (9 months) and are experimenting with hand-jobs. I let him give me one for the first time a few days ago. We spent so much time on me, that... (260 words

It's never going to work so why should I bother?

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24 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - basically i really like this girl but i feel like theres no way it would ever work out. shes my best friend and we get on great as in we are always together and we keep teasing/playfighting and we talk for hours on msn each day where she tells me all about her day and i make h... (193 words

How can I get him to return affection and improve our situation?

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24 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I want to start out by saying that I have been with this man for over 6 years, since I have been 18. I feel he doesn't want me anymore, he shows no affection. Sex is just get in and get out, seriously lasts 15 minutes. Other than that only time he touches me is to give me a ... (203 words

I miss him, but don't want to take him back too easily.

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I finished things with my boyfriend after over 2years because he was texting another girl and I wasn't comfortable with it, he was flirting, he's done this before and we got past it without it being a big issue but this time I felt he needed to know it was wrong. We broke ... (221 words

Is she just making assumptions, or could he really be interested in me?

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24 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - My friend thinks that this guy likes me when I asked her why she came up with a couple of reasons which I don't really think are that relevant but I hope she's right. I am friends with him we hang out in a big group some weekends but I don't really know that much about him. I ... (174 words

I'm really in love with him, but he doesn't seem to want alone time for us

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been with this guy for somewhat close to 3years now. I'll tell you how I screwed up the first 6months of the relationship. I cheated on him thrice. Or actually, left him for my ex,thrice. I don't know why I did it but I did. I used to think I could never love anyone as ... (900 words

I thought she had dropped me in it, she didn't and now wont speak to me!

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24 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - One of my best friends has not spoken to me in 2 months because of something that happened during the days after her birthday and I don't know what to do. Basically it was the Sunday after her birthday and she had invited some friends and had gone to another town just to exp... (284 words

I can't let what my 'friend' did go, am I a stalker?

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24 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I split up and got back together with my boyfriend in september last year, in the few months we weren't together a mutual friend of ours got a bit too friendly with him, flirting, sending love letters, generally coming on to him at every opportunity and telling me i should keep ... (294 words

4 years younger... Is it OK to date?

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid... i really like this guy who is 4 years younger than me. Just now we are in high school. But we both like each other. People are saying its bad for us to start dating but, do you think its ok? or Shall we wait until we have both left?... (52 words

I broke up with him, but now I'm not sure.

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24 May 2010 (? age 36-40 - Hi, I have just ask my 2 years boyfriend a breakup. It has not even reached 24hours yet and I already wish he will be knocking on my door. He admitted that we both have flaws. He said I cannot see his openness to and see it as not caring. As for him, he cannot see my sen... (292 words

Girl of my dreams... still loves her ex. What do I do?

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24 May 2010 (M age 36-40 - Ok, here it is. A few months ago I met this lovely girl who I instantly developed very strong feelings for, right from the beginning. We have been texting each other ever since and have since met up once for lunch and we both had a lot of fun. I can tell she really enjoys my ... (228 words

Does this mean he likes me ?

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Yesterday I met a dude. He's really cute and I think I like him... He hold my hand and then when I had to leave he kissed me on the cheek... that that mean he likes me? ... (37 words

Why do all my relationships end so badly and I keep on getting hurt?

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24 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - I dont know what to do anymore. I feel lost and hopeless and have for some time. Ive always had terrible luck with relationships, each and every time they have ended on a bad note and just leave me hurting and depressed afterward. The last relationship ended a few months ago, ... (718 words

Can losing your virginity bring on your periods? And now he has had sex with me could he be going off me?

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi i lost my virginity and 2 days later i started bleeding i wasn't due on for about another week or so is it normal to bleed a few days later? or can loosing your virginity bring your periods on? also since that night me and my bf haven't spoke a lot he is a few years older ... (82 words

Mysterious Girlfriend?

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24 May 2010 (M age 26-29 - Ok. I feel like an idiot already. I have a girlfriend, an awesome girl, we love each other a lot but the thing is, I think she's hiding something in her past. Then again she's always been a little strange. Things I have noticed that lead me to believe this are as follows: 1... (1008 words

I'm just not getting into this new relationship!

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24 May 2010 (M age 41-50 - dear cupid, i was recently dateing a girl for 2 and half years for which we broke up about 9/10 months ago after her doing the cheating thing on me which in the past 4 weeks i got together with my new girl for which i have known for a year, the thing is that im not getting the ... (128 words

How do I deal with the bitterness I feel towards the other woman?

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24 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - My partner cheated on me and this is not a question about him. I've been dealing with it with him. It's about the girl. I have taken so much anger out on him but she walked away with having no affect in her life and ruining mine. He knew her, had once been intimate but thou... (279 words

Should I explore the dating world while I am young?

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24 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - Im 20yo and I love my girlfriend very much. We have had many ups and downs. But I think I want to experience more of life while im young, date more girls. Is this wrong? Im trying to tell her how I feel, but she says she is at breaking point, she's had enough and should let her ... (109 words

I really don't know whether to believe my exes promises and try to give him another chance, or just carry on the way I am, and move on? I'm confused!

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - for starters this will be long, so please bear with me... ok, i met my ex on the internet in july '07, we spoke so much to the point that i asked if he wanted to meet up, so we met up mid aug '07, a few days later started going out, it grew more and more and we loved each oth... (1150 words

What are the side effects of a relationship?

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24 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - What are the problems in a relationship if the guy is 19 and the girl is 22? What is the defects or side effects of such a relationship?... (29 words

I want to know if he feels the same way as I do?

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24 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have strong feelings 4 my causins husband and i how do i know that he feels the same way.He is lonely cause my causin past away last year,i clean his house and do his washing,i even wash his under wears.what must i do?... (44 words

New boyfriend won't let me see old boyfriend and I don't want to lose either!

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, Six months ago my boyfriend, "E" of four months had to move to America after his parents divorce. We initially planned to stay together while he was away, but after two months we agreed to split as the situation was so impractical. I was pregnant when he left but had an a... (200 words

I feel trapped in my marriage and don't know what to do

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24 May 2010 (F age 51-59 - I'm very unhappy with my marriage and I am really fed up and want to finish it but don't know what to do. I do all the housework and gardening and shopping and work full time. I have lots of friends and get involved in lots of local activities and enjoy keeping fit, goi... (470 words

Please shed some light on me? I'm so confused with this guy

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - (OP's own title) this guy and i are close. i really like him, ALOT. we work together, but lately after crazy false rumors were going on around us(like that i was pregnant. i am still a virgin!) we werent really talking at work for a couple weeks just so we could cool off i gu... (291 words

How to handle a childhood crush

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24 May 2010 (M age - Please help! I’m a 54 yrs old male and just heard my granddaughter's aunt who's only 15 say to me, I love you! and I know she's not talking about love in the general sense. ... (39 words

Should I just swallow my pride and change my religion to marry him?

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24 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - i have been going out with a guy for more than eight years now. he said one day when we were together "lets get married" but i was just starting work so i told him we should wait a bit. He also says that he will only marry me if i change my religion to his which i don't really ... (130 words

I never told my boyfriend what happened but every time I am around him I feel just empty inside.

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello, I don't know what to do anymore. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 5 years. We were high school sweethearts but recently I cheated on him. I don't know how it happened or why it happened. I didn't sleep with another man but I let him touch me and I enjoyed it thus I ... (316 words

Elp ! I want to trust him !

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok so Ive been with my Boyfriend for over year we had some problems at the begining with him leing and various other things that went very wrong last year, In August last year we split up for a month and since getting back together in September he has completly changed he ... (400 words

2 days after sex I find part of condom in me

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had sex 2 days ago and today I found the top half of the condom inside of me.. Is there any danger with having had the condom(latex) inside of me for such a long period of time? HELP!... (42 words

He was the one who wanted to live together but now I don't think he wants to!

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - I Have been with my Boyfriend for over a year now, i am 4 months pregnant, we are looking for a place to live together, we are on the council housing list but it will take months even a couple of years to get one, a few weeks ago he applied for some apartments to rent monthly ... (197 words

When you lose a baby do you bleed?

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Im 13 weeks pregnant and still waiting on my scan. im just worried because i dont really have symptoms of pregnancy, i have had no morning sickness, my boobs aint as sore as they were at first. the only things are is that i get tired, more hungry, my stomache looks bigger and i ... (156 words

School boy crush

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24 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - hey, so there is this girl, who I've recently got a crush on,.. i started talking to her about a week ago nothing full on, i sit with one of my female friends who sits with her in class, so we talk a little there, other than that we have had some chats on face book etc, i don't ... (93 words

How to stop liking my teacher..

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24 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay, so im 14 and I have a crush on my teacher. I want it to stop because I know I can never have him. Please give me tips on how to stop, and please don't say ignore him because it won't work. I just hate thinking that when he gets home he forgets about me. I'm never going to ... (124 words

I don't think I'll ever be in life again without him

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24 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - i just broke up nearly 2 wks ago with my partner of 3yrs and 8 months.we had finally moved in togteher but we had finacial probs cause i couldn't find work and i hated where we lived due to noisy neighbours above us.he broke up with me saying he coudln;t live with me and ... (211 words

Is my boyfriend a little possesive or am I over reacting??

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend has been together a year and my sis thinks hes obsessed with me because hes weird...hes always telling me im his and trying to force me to say im your all tha time..and he tryed to fight my best guy friend for putting a pick of me with angel wings on his ... (156 words

I want to beat her male friend up but don't want to lose her because of it!

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24 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - hey i need some help. my girlfriend has a lot of guy friends and im okay with that becasue i have a lot of female friends, but two if them are driving me crazy. one she used to takl to but lost interest in him when she met me. The other is HIS friend that she is also friends ... (219 words

Do any of his action indicate hes flirting with me

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - A little over three months ago I started to like this boy in my grade (10th) named Jaiden. We quickly started talking in school and made up our own private jokes, sayings and silly routines. He would throw little papers at me and we would talk about everything from music, ... (1394 words

Trouble after just 5 months and I don't want a second divorce!

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24 May 2010 (M age - My wife of five months wants to leave me. We met two years ago at work and were just friends until we got married. I took her in with her three kids and I have been trying to provide for them as she had to quit her job to move with me to a different town. In the last three ... (217 words

How much communication with your significant other is enough?

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24 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - How much communication with your significant other is enough? My boyfriend of three years goes to law school at night and I work all day and so during the week we hardly talk. I tried calling him during the week but he just sounds stressed out from school and that makes me sad. ... (236 words

My husband loves bj's but I don't like the taste

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24 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - My husband loves bjs. What guy doesn't right? Well, I hate the taste of sperm, I mean I really hate it, but I adore my husband. I went online to find spermicide free condoms to see if maybe giving him a bj with out tasting it would leave us both happy. I ordered a pack. Well, I ... (225 words

Too late to end the relationship over cheating?

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24 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend cheated on me 6 months ago when I went on holiday. I told her I forgave her but the I haven't really felt the same since. She made msn her everynight and told me how much she hated me, and made my whole 2 months miserable. I have resented her since. I love he... (72 words

How can you tell if a guy you've been friends with for many years has developed a crush on you.

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24 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - How can you tell if a guy you've been friends with for many years has developed a crush on you. We are past the point of long loving glances, as we look each other in the eyes when we talk anyway. I have fallen from him, but I don't want to screw things up by saying something ... (153 words

My parents don't like that I am in a FWB relationship

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24 May 2010 (? age 30-35 - I'm in a casual relationship with this girl. To be blunt all we really do is meet up and have sex every few days. What I really don't get is that people dissaprove of it, especially my parents. They say it's not right and that I should be in a proper relationship with her, or ... (140 words

I love him, I don't think he feels the same, what do I do?

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello Here is the thing, I think I'm in love with my best friend, which is not good, one because I feel guilty for liking him when he trusts me and sees me as his bff. And because I'm pretty sure he doesn't feel the same, so I don't wanna get hurt, as a matter of fact I am alr... (86 words

Family treats me like I"m 11 and I want to move out

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - hey there i have a few problems actually alot so if you could help me out with them that would be great ok so first off is i have a wonderful boyfriend and we have only been dating for about two months but we have so much in common! i sleep over at his house every weekend and ... (354 words

I feel I'm ruining our relationship because of jealousy

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24 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months. We both work together. Lately, this new girl started working there too. She slept with his best friend (whom also work there), and two other employees. My boyfriend and I have been fine until this with any jealousy/trust ... (746 words

I want to have more great sex with my husbands friend

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24 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am having marital problems with my husband. He wants space, and we have not had any kind of sexual relationship for the past 2 months. To complicate matters I recently ended up in bed with our friend Ryan. Last week my husband was working late and then went drinking... (188 words

Why wont my boyfriend hold my hand?

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24 May 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi,Im 13 yrs old i love by Boyfriend we've been going out for 2 months but we dont hold hands and i c all these happy couples around me holding hands then i look at us and we r like a billion miles away frm each other.this bothers me. what bothers me more is that i wanted to ... (124 words

A complicated love triangle

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - this is about my best friend. she has had a boyfriend for over a year now, and things are a little boring between them though they still love each other very much. but now she has fallen in love with another guy she has known for 10 months and he's in love with her too. she ... (214 words

Desiring my child's father, but in a relationship with female now. How do I handle this?

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24 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been in a devoted relationship now for almost two years. It's been out of the ordinary in that it's with another female. I have a 10 year old daughter and I have been separated from her dad now for about 4 years. We were young and unsettled. Today, we have both met ... (161 words

Supplement pills and the morning after pill

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24 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - hey all, am really worried. i had unprotected sex wth a guy bt took the e-morning pill the following morning. i have never used the pills b4 n @ the moment am taking sm supplements tablets. will they affect the pill? wht chances do i have 2 get pregnant?... (49 words

Tensing whilst orgasming? is this normal girls?

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi! i have a bit of a personal question for the ladieeeess... when youre about to orgasm, do you have to tense yourself? it sounds weird, but when i am getting to a climax, i tense my body... i dont think i do it on purpose? it feels like i have to tense it to orgasm? i hav... (179 words

How to tell her its time to take a break?

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24 May 2010 (M age 30-35 - Ugh. I hate that its coming to this. Im going to keep this as short as possible. My girlfriend and i have been together for 7 months now. I undoubtably LOVE her. She is the most amazing girl ive ever met. She's the type of girl i would want to spend the rest of my life wit... (424 words

hate the fact that I hurt him.. did I cheat?

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24 May 2010 (F age 30-35 - hey all. im feeling alot of mixed emotions here so i might jump all over the place, but ill try and keep it simple and to the point. my boyfriend and i decided to go on a break due to the fact that he was always questioning me about everything, guys, etc, and i didnt know wha... (364 words

Harmless flirting or something more?

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24 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - So, my final semester of college I developed feelings for one of my professors. I think he has some feelings for me, showing through eye contact, touching, random emails, and just a really strong connection. Problem, well the first was I was his student...solved because I ... (95 words

Why is she acting like this? We've been friends since childhood!

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24 May 2010 (F age 41-50 - My best Friend from childhood has stopped talking to me for no reason, when shes out with friends shes all talk to me but if i meet her in the street/shop or on my own she acts like im a total stranger and walks the other way and pretends not to see me What is her problem ... (79 words

I'm in love with my boyfriend but see no future with him

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24 May 2010 (F age 36-40 - i am in a very hard siruation.. ive been in a relationship for nearly a year (know him for 20. i love him soooo much and he ses he lovs me two.wer always on the fone he is like by best frend.. however there is no future as there amre many complications.. i have known this other ... (141 words

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