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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is this guy I like, trying to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My crush seems to like me back, but he flirts with another girl in class. Ok so I like this boy. I'm pretty sure he likes me too but he's sending some mixed signals. We sit next to each other in the class we have together, and he mirrors my actions quite a lot, which tells me... (217 words)

Why does he look at women so much, when we are on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it common for a man to look at alot of women when you are with him? My b/f often does this while we are out together. Sometimes it is at men and sometimes at women. I notice it is mostly at women. He does this alot of the time. It does get kind of annoying when we are on a... (93 words)

Parents Versus Boyfriend! Help!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in love with my boyfriend of 8 months, hes gorgeous, smart, funny, polite, he doesn't do drugs, hes never been in trouble with the police and yet even after all this hes still not good enough for my mum and step dad. He isn't allowed to my house because my step dad doesnt ... (204 words)

Co-Workers Flirting!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I was at my job and starting and about a year and a half ago I noticed what I think is two co-workers flirting with one another. One of them is married and I know the partner. If you were in a position to tell the married partner whether there was something going on what would ... (153 words)

Love Triangle! BF & Father's Girlfriend's Son! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my mum and my dad got a divorce about 4 years ago, since then my dad has had this girlfriend for about the past year, and ive been going to see him regularly, and ive been getting to know his girl friends son. hes only a couple of year older than me and hes really nice. hes ... (144 words)

Hair Dilemma

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriends mum really wants her to do her hair for a wedding she has soon. she has short white blonde hair with no apparent fringe. she said she would like her hair up and curly. im not good with hair and i have no idea what style to do and what would look good. girls, ... (59 words)

He'd been distant, so I broke up by text. But I don't understand his reply!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So my bf has been very distant towards me. Actually he straight up stopped talking to me after a fight we had about my jealousy issue. I understand he needed time to cool off. It was a week then he called me, but I was in the middle of something and couldn't talk. Didn't hear ... (246 words)

I need a therapist for a couple of issues but don't think my parents will be okay with it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay, I feel desparate to see a Therapist because I'm going through a rough patch in my life from discovering that I'm gay and being bullied because of my weight and too much to handle but I can't really go about it with my parents they think I will be joking and if I do get to ... (76 words)

When is it appropriate to date one of your best friend's ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - When is it appropriate to date one of your best friend's ex? ... (12 words)

Am I allergic to condoms?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend have just had sex for the first time together, it wasn't our first time completely as we have slept with other people before. every time i have sex and use a latex condom, it gets about 10 minutes into it and it feels like it hurts, like a burning feeling.... (155 words)

Financially a mess, I do love him but this discovey has soured my opinion of him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a father with kids a year and a half ago. Initially he was staying with the kids and their mother to help keep family peace. After six months he moved in with me and my kids. Shortly after that he lost his job. I have been paying all of our bills and all of the food and ... (527 words)

I cannot help but feel that I blew it somehow with a man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - You cannot help how you feel. I guess I am looking for confirmation that I did the right thing. But I still feel lousy. I met a man online - we went to dinner for the 1st time in mid April. We had a good time and I really felt a connection. And he said he did too. We ... (962 words)

Is there hope for me to finally recover from this heartbreak?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age - I have not heard from a former lover who is married and i emailed to let them know i apologize for our break up. I finally came to a conclusion that this person has moved on and i am going to not deal with this again. I am involving myself in other activities and if this person ... (151 words)

One minute he treats me like his girlfriend, the next minute, just as a friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so here's the thing....I've been friends with this boy for a while, and recently he's started to give hints that maybe he might like me more than a friend. I'm a bit worried though, because he not long dated my friend - this caused them to loose their friendsh... (178 words)

He cried when he found out his ex had a new boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for six months and we really like each other. There's only one problem. He keeps bringing up his ex. They were together for 8 months and he still has pictures of her on his phone and computer and talk on Facebook. Worse still, when he found ... (162 words)

I'm 16 and allowed to date older guys, but how do I explain to people like my family he's 28?!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some help!! I've fallen for a 28 year old guy and i'm 16. i've liked him since we were 14 and we joked we would get together. now im 16 I really want to date him and get to know him as a boyfriend. He's fine with it, its just I'm worried what people will think of ... (102 words)

Being a girlfriend without the title!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been dating a guy for 3 months we spend all of our free time together ive met all the important people in his life but he says he doesnt want a serious relationship right now but he also doesnt want me to date other people and hes not dating anyone else at this point i am ... (88 words)

Why would he be avoiding me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well i started talking to this guy 6 months back but in da middle for around 3 months we weren't talking at all due to his exams and he had assured me dat he will talk to me after his exams..yesterday his exams got over..i gave him a call but he didn't answer..today also i ... (159 words)

Will my mother be this way as long as I live at home? My girlfriend is scared to meet her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - ok, im 23, moved back home while I finish my last year of college, and my girlfriend of 4 months is 24. she has her own place, and bc we don't get to see each other very much through the week (im in school, she's at work) i like to stay overnight on the weekends. For whatever ... (366 words)

"My kids dad died 5 years ago but I can't stop thinking on his friend"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I m 24 year old single mom, my kids dad died 5 year ago n when this happened his close friend was there to pick up the pieces, even tho we hadn't spoke much before. we grew extremely close, he brought me out to dinner,took me places, introduced me to his family and friends. ... (211 words)

I was wondering about sexual fantasies.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey :) I was just thinking about all the diffrent types of sexual fantasies there are. I was wondering if any one prefers there partner to have a certain one? (if there is would you mind saying what it is)like one you love hearing about from your partner but its not really your ... (124 words)

Pictures of his ex on his bedroom wall! And porn-type ones with her on his phone and computer!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for just under 2 months, and when i was over his i noticed on his phone and computer he has porn like pictures of him and his ex and a photo of her on his bedroom wall. so i gave him time to delete them etc. but he didnt so i told him how it was b... (135 words)

I like him but my friends and family don't!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and this guy, were not dating each other, but we hang round loads, and we always kiss and... Basically we act like were going out, but my friends all seem to hate him they say he's a player and all this stuff, but if i like him does it matter wat my friends say? My dad also ... (100 words)

Is he being a player?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, my ex-boyfriend dumped me and he continues to ask me who am I dating and do I have a boyfriend. I don't tel him because he dumped me. He really get upset when I do answer him. So I asked him are you dating he tells me no. He say all he is doing is "focusing on his ... (160 words)

I fell for my buddy's gf! How do I deal with the guilt of what I did to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - A few months ago I met a couple who were friends of friends. Since then, I've spent increasingly more time with the girl and guy, while they're together and while they're apart, with others, and just on our own. I've developed what I feel is a pretty meaningful relationship ... (412 words)

He strung me along for a whole year, while he had another gf...where do I go from here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i was with my partner for 12 years and have an 11 year old son, we have been apart 1yr now he said his feelings had changed so he moved out , he often said he regretted his decision and is relly upset that he hurt me , he has been in hospital with anxiety attacks and for the ... (208 words)

Do I stay with my current bf or go for the new guy? I don't know what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. There's this one guy that I've been with for more than a year now. He's my first ever really serious relationship. And I really do love him...and could see myself spending the rest of my life with him. And he even proposed that we get married after we... (416 words)

Physical evidence that he's been cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend has 2 red big patches in between his upper theighs and i asked him what they were from one time and he said maybe it was because i was giving him oral sex and they were from my head rubbing up against him...I can see that happening, but when i dont see him for a ... (82 words)

Why didn't he cum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i am 16 and recently lost my virginity to a lad that's 19 (he was not a virgin) im realy confused though, because it only lasted about 10 mintues, and when i asked him if he cumd, he sed nah he didn't, he was just giving me a 'tester' ? Do you think he didn't cum cus ... (152 words)

I stained my sheet three times... is there any chance she'll still want me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

18 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Well... As my screen name states it all. I am dumb. I recently cheated on my wife of 12 years. I regret everything about it. It does get worse it was with three women. I know that this act is insulting and a slap in the face to her. I dont know the reason that i did this and... (225 words)

H'es giving up because legally I'm still married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive been dating a guy for 6 months and we both have told eachother that were falling in love with one another. I am still married and have been seperated from my husband for over a year. I just found out our marriage is not going to be final for about 6 months (hopefully less). ... (157 words)

Have I got my hopes up for nothing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have never used one of these before but then i've never been so confused. I broke up with my ex three months ago. We didn't contact each other afterwards and things seemed to be slowly getting better. However recently we have been in contact because he wanted to be ... (279 words)

I want to leave but we're married... is it worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid friends, This is my second post :) I want to share with you my feelings and concerns, so you can orient me if I'm doing everything the wrong way. I'm married, since last August 2009, but I come from a long distance relationship from 8 years back and I'm still ... (467 words)

Can you tell if a guy has recently had sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) age 51-59 - How can you tell if a man has recently had sex? I am in a relationship with someone who sometimes has a very strong odor around the tip of his penis. He also has a very reddish on his testicles sometimes? Are these signs of a man recently having sex?... (50 words)

How can I stop these feelings I have for my teacher?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really really love my teacher.He came in year 9 as my form tutor and i had him for buisness studies.Now im in year 10 and just have him as a form tutor.When i had family problems we always used to talk.He used to make me laugh so much.But since i satrted liking him,I cant ... (303 words)

I knew my boyfriend watched porn, but now I have found out he watches it every day!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi ok i really need help. i knew that my boyfriend watched porn, and i was a little hurt but i just didnt really think anything of it. but now ive realised he watches it EVERY day even yesturday when it was his BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!! i was with him all day bar 2 hours where he must ... (219 words)

My irregular periods are worrying me, could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - please i really need helpp jan i had unprotected sex w.my ex my period came 2months late march i started in the middle of the month.i lasted 8days i always last 6days but i had unproetced sex again w.my ex during my period sounds gross but it just happened.i remember him ... (125 words)

How do I talk to her about her texting her ex and being so shady in bed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am having some troubles with my girlfriend...we were about to go out like a year ago and things didnt work and i ended up dating another girl for about 6 months but then i realized that i really wanted to be with the other girl so i dumped the one i was with for her. while i ... (216 words)

Do you think she still has feelings for me even though she claims she has none at all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok.... i have a very complicated question. I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. I have cheated on her before and was caught. She has caught me doing the "SEXTING' (text) thing and we were able to get past it only to find myself doing it again. When we are kinda seperated ... (279 words)

Is he just putting on an act now he has been caught cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I have been dating someone for almost two years now, which may not seem like a long time to some people but he’s my first and I hoped my last. I’m not really into the whole dating thing but something about him just really blew me away. But last week I found out that he has ... (278 words)

She loves me but cant commit, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been in relationship with another. 3 yrs and she gives me her love then freezes up cuz of her past. I have helped. Her through this and now I'm taking the brunt of it. Cuz of her past she cannot commit, even though she is. She loves me dearly but can't commit what should ... (58 words)

My boyfriend has had a tattoo of my name, now I am wondering if I should do something more than just kiss him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 9 months...and about two months ago he got a tattoo of my name, a pretty big one...everyone who's seen it asked him if he slept with me yet..he always replies no..I feel bad about that...I definitely won't have sex at this ... (67 words)

Should I just get it over with and lose my virginity?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll try to just get straight to the point) I am a 20 year old female who is STRONGLY considering losing my virginity, but not to anyone I particularly love, or even trust, but because the offer has been put out there by another co-worker a few months ago and now I'm thinking I ... (173 words)

How can I control my anxiety problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im freaking out,I need help.My family is relying on me to start taking up most of the farm dutys and stuff and i know that if i dont really take it on seriously things will get bad,My dad treats me like a failure,I wnated to prove him wrong by getting a job(Ive been a student ... (256 words)

How soon will I know I am pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my partner have just started trying for a baby after 5years of beeing together. how soon should i do a pregnancy test after we have done the deed?... (30 words)

How can I move on when I have never felt this way about anyone before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i left my boyfriend of 7 months for someone i just met. by the way its a girl. She was super sweet. we were talking for a few weeks then i got locked up. well she sent me flowers to show she cared she called me all the time just tell me that i was beautiful and to remind me how ... (474 words)

Is he pretending to be busy or is he honest with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I need your help. I have been chatting with him for 5 months.We live in different countries. We understand each other very well. We are like real friends. Recently he has become a manager of very big company and he rarely writes to me. We used to chat for hours, discuss ... (176 words)

Is it safe to have sex in the water?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend are going to the beach this Saturday and I wanted to know is it's safe or not to have sex in the water? I am thinking about bringing this idea up to her but I don't know if it is safe or not.... (47 words)

What was this feeling I experienced?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were messing around and stuff and i started having this like tickling feeling near my vag and like i started breathing really hard. What was going on?... (31 words)

I didnt bleed when I lost my virginity and my boyfriend couldnt feel anything, now he thinks I was not a virgin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend disvirgins me,he doesnt feel anything.i dint lose any blood when i was disvirgined and am sad bcos my boyfriend said he wasnt the one that disvigined me.pls help because it is normal for a guy to feel something within when he disvirgins a girl.... (46 words)

Why is my boyfriend of 3 years afraid to feel attached to me or does he simply not love me any more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are both 21 and we have been dating for almost 3 years since the beginning of college. In the first two years he loved me unconditionally even though I acted like a spoiled kid.. I still regret my action and my constant looking down upon him. We lived ... (412 words)

What was once loved is now lost, can anyone help me grieve?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I just left a relationship with one of my best friends. We've known each other for a few years, and a few years ago we made out for a bit, but I was with my 1st boyfriend at the time and wanted it to work out. Unfortunately it didn't and we broke up 2 years later. So me ... (263 words)

Is it weird to be hated by females but loved by males?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - is it weird to be hated by females but loved males? i hang out with males more then i hang out with females and some of my male friends think im weird because of that. females think that im a slut/flirt when they see me hanging out with my group of male friends as i had to ... (184 words)

My life as his second wife is taking me nowhere, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I fell in love with a married man, who is my hubby now. I'm a Muslim, my religion permits man to marry upto 4 times. I met him 8 years back and had pre-marital sex. He is my only partner, may be this guilt forced me marrying him and not other man. Before our marriage... (369 words)

What sort of competitive racing would be best for me to get into at the age of 18 in los angeles?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello there everyone my family and i are moving to america in a few months and it is my dream to become an indy car driver but because it is hard to get into i have other qualifications to pursue a different career but as i am moving to america i would like to try a racing ... (210 words)

I'm scared of sex! How can I deal with this problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I posted this before but I didn't get much of a response... I'm a guy and I'm scared of sex... Before anyone asks, no I'm not a virgin but being a guy, there's a whole lot of pressure to achieve... And if you don't, there's that horrible look (and sigh) of dissappo... (145 words)

We broke up and I slept with someone else, but now we are back together she wants a break just to sleep with another guy to get back at me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend broke up with me 8 months ago and i slept with someone else after a few weeks. After this she wanted me back and i told her what happened and she still wanted to get back together with me. It was OK for a couple months but then she kept bringing it up and saying ... (212 words)

I want our family back together but how I can I do this when there is another woman involved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - he left me a year ago saying his feelings had changed in truth he had feelings for a girl he met at work, he has been unwell since he left saying he is really upset by what happened and is so sorry for hurting me, he has been leading me to believe that she was out of the ... (136 words)

He wont even hug or kiss me, so why does he expect me to have sex with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27 and my boyfriend is 29. We got to know each other in office for one month before becoming an item. Now we are together for 3 months. During the one month of courtship, the chemistry was great and we started holding hands from time to time when we went out. After the o... (464 words)

Is my age, my attitude, or just the men?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) age 51-59 - Hello. I read all these wonderfull answers, and decided that i need an answer to the question that i have on my mind for the past few years. I am relatively young woman in my early forties. I look very good for my ages, at least this is what i've been told.So, when i ... (1249 words)

I really want a second chance with my ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - if you finally start talking with an ex again but he isn't ready to be in a relationship again---is it ALWAYS black and white that they just don't want to be with you? We were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after the break up..noone cheated..i think ... (318 words)

My ex contacted me, but now what I've read on his dating profile has shocked me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Alright Sunday night a guy I dated briefly contacted me via dating site we met on two years ago and I should probably mention that it ended ugly with his last words to me being F-off or something to that effect when I told him I was pregnant. Anyway so the message I get that ... (382 words)

Do you think my cousin likes me, or is it all in my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't really know how to Say this but, I think my first cousin likes me. Since I can remember we've always been "real" close. She's always would come up to me and put her head in my lap or put my arms around her, flirt with me sometimes. It always made me feel weird but in a ... (155 words)

I love my enemy. Help me please...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody! I need your advice, friends. I have been chatting with this guy online for 4 months.I am 18, he is 27. We trust and respect each other very much. There is such impression that he is my soul mate. We like and dislike the same things and read each other's thoughts. ... (240 words)

My married boss wants to start dating me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 19 year old girl.I recently joined an office.The boss is really hot and has told me he has a huge crush on me and wants to start dating me.But he is 38 years old and married.What should I do?... (42 words)

Is he even slightly in love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - does he love me, never told me. I'm seeing a guy now for 4-5 months. At first month we broke up cause he wasn't sure he was ready for a relationship, as he'd only been split with his ex of 8 years, about 7 months ago. Then he came back, said he missed me and said that he was... (511 words)

Have you ever been betrayed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a little different. Have you ever been betrayed by someone you trusted. This can be a spouse,friend, family etc.... tell how they betrayed you and if you ever forgave them. what did you do after the betrayal... (39 words)

She doesn't want to date me because of our age difference, how should I act now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I am interested in a colleague who is 7 years older than me. We went out few times for movies. One day I confessed but she rejected me due to age gap. However, she said she felt relaxed and comfortable with me, that's why she likes to go out with me. I told he... (117 words)

I don't love my boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Yes i have a bf, but i don't love him. .i know he loves me so much but i don't have feelings for him. .i really need someone to love,how do i get a guy to truely love.... (38 words)

My boyfriend just dumped me, and I just found out that his ex is his current housemate...

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend just dumped me, and i found out that his housemate is actually his ex girlfriend, and he never told me. I got really angry. isn't that something you would tell a new girlfriend? he always had me stay over his house too, yet never told me. And this girl had been his ... (202 words)

How can I show him I love him when we have never spoken before?

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love with someone but we haven't talked at all how do i show this person that i really love him, what can i do to win him over?... (31 words)

I want to begin a new life with my new man but I cant move on from my ex!

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a divorcee with a son.I fell in love with my best friend's boyfriend. Having known my best friend for years, I knew how hard she presses her boyfriends when it comes to relationships. She forces things outta them e.g to go out, to spend time and does not allow them to go ... (552 words)

I'm worried I might be pregnant and my boyfriend could go to jail for having sex with me!

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im a 14 yr old girl and i recently had sex with my boyfriend who is 19. I have a feeling im pregnant because im suddenly having weird feelings, i dont know if im just over reacting. Im not sure what to do because my parents have said they would kick me out if that ever happened ... (95 words)

Should I tell him I cheated with my cousin or just keep it to myself?

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my babys dad 3 months ago.I started to go out with this new guy about a month already.hes been trying to have sex with me but for some wierd reason i cant.....i cheated on him a week ago.i had sex with my cousin and now i dont know what to do....should i just ... (71 words)

I'm jealous of his past relationship - am I being silly or could this be a problem if I moved in with him?

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've fallen for a slightly older guy, who I like except for one issue: I am a virgin and he has lived with someone for three years. I am sort of upset about that and jealous of his prior relationship. I feel like I don't want the first time I move in with someone to be the ... (109 words)

My ex text me out of the blue but because I had deleted his number I now feel like an idiot!

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex who didn't text or call me suddenly text me asking if I was ok but I delete his number and ask who is this so he text back never mind. now i feel like an idiot and i wanted to talk to him but i accidentally delete his number again. What should i do ?... (57 words)

Part of me wants to break up with her, and the other part wants to stay so I don't hurt her

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18 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok... how do i start this off... i have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years... our anniversary is coming up real soon (less then 2 weeks)... and i dont know what to do anymore... i feel as if she has gone into this fantasy she has had since she was little of the perfect ... (1003 words)

Is it normal to feel this way after performing oral sex?

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18 years old and today was the first day i had oral sex. i gave a blow job to my boyfriend. i have never done anything like that before. but now i feel my legs like jello and i wasnt even on my knees. i dont know i just feel really weird and kinda light headed. is this ... (61 words)

My attraction to bad boys means I'm nearly 19 and have never even kissed anyone! What is wrong with me?

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and I'll be 19 later on this year. I thinnk I have a serious problem. I've never had a boyfriend or been kissed or even had sex. For some reason I'm never attracted to the guys who want me. I like older dangerous men and I can't figure out how to attract them or if I ... (121 words)

My past is haunting me.....

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have recently been remembering things that had happened to me. it all came flooding back. at the ages 6-8 someone sexually molested me. i dont know who did this to me, but i know it did happen. i can clearly remember what whoever it was did to me, the pain from it, and the ... (150 words)

She pretended to be someone else and when we met her appearance was a turn off for me, what should I do?

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18 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So here's my story. Last summer, I started talking to a girl online. We slowly fell in love with each other, but she always said that she couldn't come to see me because she was in another country. We talked on the phone every night and online every day, and it felt perfect.... (667 words)

Should I try to be friends with him still? Or am I crazy to want to be?

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I, we'll call him jack, dated for almost a year before we had some problems and I broke up with him. We tried to be friends but we ended up getting into argument after argument because of the break up which neither of us wanted. We said horrible, horrible things to ... (194 words)

Why do people share all of their personal problems with me?

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ummm....To start it off I'm the type of girl that speaks my mind most of the time..No matter what.. Well since I do that and people know thats the kind of person I am. Which they say I'm two faced and nobody can trust me. It doesn't bother me what they say about me beacuse I ... (109 words)

Is my girlfriend going behind my back with a married man?

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18 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - OK my gf is a tour guide and one of her male work colleagues (around 34) is a married player (disgusting I know!). He openly admitted to trying to find a one-night stand last month (around the time he married). I've asked if his wife knows, and he's also laughed and said she ... (630 words)

How can you tell if a woman is a victim of domestic violence?

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18 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - What are some of the not so obvious signs that there is an abusive relationship going on? What are the subtle signs that women might display hinting towards being victims of domestic violence?... (38 words)

Is it normal to feel uncomfortable now my best friend wants to date my ex?

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so no doubt about it I am over my ex. I am happily engaged and my ex and I are now friends. my issue is that my best friend has decided she wants to try and get with him. This kind of bothers me. Is this a normal reaction?... (52 words)

Is there anything I can do to reduce my discomfort caused by the damage to my pelvic wall?

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The doctor told me that I had damage to my pelvic wall and I will probably always have to deal with the discomfort, but I don't know if I trust that that's what it is, I've had a pap test so I know I'm clean from STD's but it's really irritated then usual. I thought that ... (141 words)

I've been trying to get thinner in time for summer but I seem to be getting fatter! What is going on?

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my friends say im skinny... but i dont think i am. im going to kennywood is june with a guy im practicly in love with and i want to loose weight. for the past three weeks ive been throwing up and starving myself. i know thats not the way to go but my times runing out. but... (116 words)

Pregnant by my step father's brother

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18 May 2010 (F)

age - I am pregnant by my stepfather's brother (step uncle). I have a 1/2 brother (my mother and stepfather's son); what is the relationship between my brother and my daughter/son?... (31 words)

Is it ok to eat so much when I'm pregnant or only when I'm hungry.

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi first of all I would like to say thank you to all who respond to my question =) Ok so I'm 20 years and I'm currently pregnant with my first child. I'm 37 weeks in like two days) My doctor told me that I could have the baby any time between now and June 10th -- my due ... (172 words)

My boyfriend wants to try anal sex and I've never done that before! Will it be a good experience or a bad one?

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and have been intimate for four. We love each other a lot, and we've done almost everything .. sexually. But, he wants to try anal sex and I've never done that before. I want to know details, how it feels.. etc. Will it be ... (76 words)

My fiance and his ex have been exchanging very affectionate messages on myspace

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my fiancè and I have been going through alot. Such as his cancer and my depression and now i think he might be cheating on me. Or.. Wanting to. I was on myspace the other day and i went to his page just to post a cute little comment on his page and i see comments from his ... (178 words)

My ex denies me access to our son

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so i was with my childs father for 9 years, it wasn't the happiest relationship, his mother hated me she tried to destroy our relationship and he would never support me she would call me all the names under the sun, and he would just stand there, she even went as far as ... (920 words)

Why does my boyfriend call me fat?

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hey my boyfriend calls me fat after i confided in him and told him i wanted to loose a lot of wieght, but then he'll turn around and call me beautiful. what is his deal???... (35 words)

Is it unreasonable of me to prohibit my neice who I'm raising as a daughter to call my wife 'Mom'?

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18 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My sister had a baby when she was 18 and died a few years afterwards. She was too young, it wasn't her time. The father was a dead beat dad. He is in prison for 15 years for burglary. I have been raising my niece myself. I have the good fortune of being with a wonderfu... (377 words)

I fancy a guy who fancies my friend and she him. Should I make a move?

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I have 2 friends that like eachother but the girl doesnt want to hav a young relationship but still txts him all the time and sends him pics of herself and asks if he likes what she's wearing or her hair. Anyway, i like my the guy who still likes my girl friend. What can i ... (82 words)

I get the feeling this girl at my university likes me but I don't know if I'm getting the wrong end of the stick or not.

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18 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I get the feeling this girl at my university likes me but I don't know if I'm getting the wrong end of the stick or not. I'm 21 and so is she. We have been friendly over the last 18 months, being part of a large group that went clubbing together regularly. We'd usually have a ... (272 words)

Why does my boyfriend leave out of nowhere?

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, I was with my boyfriend and father of my child for 3 years and he recently left May 1st, but its not the first time he has left. Everytime that hes left before he always come back home within a day to a couple weeks, confused, and depressed. And it was always out of ... (190 words)

If I tell him about the third webcam guy, I know I'll lose him!

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - first of all im 16..i was a bit of a webcam "ho" before me and my boyfriend started dating. this all took place last year. well..i told my boyfriend wen we started dating that i had never done anything with a guy. but i didnt tell him about that. all together there were 3 guys. ... (128 words)

I like him but he's leaving in a month!

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey people !! Ok so i've been liking this guy since the longest and he barely started liking me. Were not a couple but we do act like it (babe, kissing, flirting, etc) I dont want to mess around with him but i do want to be with him so thats why i decided to tell him how i ... (127 words)

He seems to care but his actions speak differently..why is he this way?

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, It's been a while since I posted something, but I really need your advice. The relationship I'm in is an utter headache. We're together without the "title". We kiss, we fool around, we belong to each other--meaning we don't date anyone else. This might sound st... (778 words)

Crazy with jealously over her ex being 2-3" bigger than me!

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18 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have had a dilemma with my current partner over my penis size for over 7 months now. Basically, I'm 41 and divorced, and met a gorgeous tall 39 y.o. blonde about 9 months ago who is rather inexperienced but loves sex. We are VERY compatible in that way. She has had 4 partners ... (582 words)

Should I go with the older man who I feel could take care of me, or the younger one who I feel like I'm insecure talking to??

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have two guys who I am chatting with on FB and I am interested in both. One is 18 (I'm 19) and the other is 34. I dated a guy who was 8 years older than me for 2 years...so I'm used to the guy being older than me. I feel a lot more comfortable talking to the 34 year ... (163 words)

I don't want to put my heart into this and then he breaks it!

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18 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for three months. I like him a lot and I'd like to have the whole long term relationship/fall in love bit with him but I'm scared he's not into that. Like he's not into me as much as I am into him. For instance, I said "I love your kisses" ... (109 words)