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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My daughter is dating a co-worker that I don't want her to date!

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12 May 2010 (M)

age - I have 4 children all adults and I have neve rtried to interfer in any of their lives before/. I think that kids need to learn from their mistakes, until now that is. I own a contracting compnat and have a lot of young men work for me. As guys will be I always hear stories of ... (327 words)

I married him so I wouldn't lose my best friend, but I don't want to kiss him

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - It may not seem serious to u, but am desprate... He is everything any woman whould want in a man, he loves me so much. I have known him for 4years now... We got married last year, I married him not b/cos I love him,but b/c am use to him, he's my best friend and I don't want to ... (104 words)

Losing hardness straight after

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a somewhat embaressing thing to ask/talk about. But this is the thing... I have been with my girlfriend for almost half a year. I am almost 18, she is 17. Ever since the first time we had sex together everything has been fine. But since 2 weeks ago for some reason ... (343 words)

Is my ex in a rebound or should I give up?

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex and I were together almost 3 years. We broke up, and a week later, she had been hanging out with her best guy friend since high school and they started dating. We have been broken up about 4.5 months and now they are in a relationship. She and I had been hanging out ... (129 words)

Is she being polite? Or asking me to get in touch with her?

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi there, I would like an input ideally from the ladies out there. Her goes:- I will call her "Sally" and call myself "Ben" (not our real names) 30yrs ago almost to the day I met a wonderful,intelligent,kind, considerate beautiful young lady at ... (1014 words)

Serious relationship, or live my life as a young woman while I can? please help.

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - guys and girls, i have a big problem. this may drag on so i apologise but im so confused i need to ask someone for advice. so please listen and give me any advice you can. i have been with my boyfriend for a while now. i love him very much but we are currently on a b... (1317 words)

How do I give boyfriend the green light to do more?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 16 and so am I. A while ago we were making out and he slipped his hands into my pants, I later said we should slow it down for a while. How do I now show him it's ok? And is this likely to lead to fingering?... (50 words)

Great connection one day, the next she barely acknowledges me?

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm interested in a girl in a few of my classes. I began by just talking friendly with her, asking her for homework help, ect, and getting her used to me, as we are both shy people. It worked out well. We sparked a conversation after about a week where we talked for about an ... (449 words)

Can minors get married in Ohio

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm pregnant and a minor. Can i leagally get married in the state of ohio?? ... (15 words)

How can I show my love without saying it outloud?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age - What are some ways to show my love and care for him without actually saying the words out loud, because I'm nervous and a little bit scared to say them? We have been friends for a year, and until 3 months ago, started to flirt and hang out more. He is respectful and very swe... (118 words)

When it comes time for sex I lost my erection almost immediately

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a great girlfriend who I am completely comfortable with so there is no awkwardness between us. Sometimes just making out will give me an erection with her. Everything goes great until it comes time to have sex. I will be hard, for everything but whenever its time for ... (181 words)

How do I tell him that we are nothing but friends

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - OK. i have a boy best friend and it seems like everyday we get closer and like each other more and more. i mean i like my best friend but i think he wants more than just a bff friendship. how should i tell him that it is nothing more than best friends? ... (53 words)

He says he doesn't love me anymore that he cares for me as a friend.

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really upset, my boyfriend of almost 9 months just randomly broke up with me. It started with 2 days of no talking after a stupid argument in which he pretty much assumes I told him he couldn't go to the movies with his friends when I never said that, I simply asked who was ... (252 words)

How can I seem less intimidating to my crush?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 years old and never been on asked out, gone a date, had my first kiss, or anything of the sort. I have a lot of friends, basically equal amounts of guys and girls, and consider myself a people-person. Several of my friends have told me that I'm quite intimidating, and I ... (296 words)

I can't be at two places at the same time!

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this is kinda weird but, I am dating this guy and he is in a classic rock kinda band (they play good oldies). So, they haven't had a show in over a year because they had no drummer (he got a girlfriend and became to cool for the band). Anyways, so they finally got a show and ... (169 words)

Why is my ex prolonging the hurt from the breakup?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up almost two months ago. He texts me every so often to see how I'm doing,sometimes I respond,sometimes I don't. The breakup was HIS decision solely, I wanted to work things out...I haven't been inititiating contact with him at all,and been doing a pretty good ... (205 words)

This isn't love when he treats me like crap...what can I do about this?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I`ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he treats me like shit. Sometimes i really dont believe he cares for me. I moved in with him about 2 years ago and he has bad anger management problems so we keep getting into fights over stupid things. He always ends up apologizing ... (435 words)

Did I get her pregnant? How do I deal with this?

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a male 20 yrs and I think I may have ejaculated inside this woman, I'm positive that I ejaculated outside as I saw with own eyes. But my lack of self confidence makes me doubt myself. I'm totally freaking out and I'm constantly cursing myself for have done what I did.... (136 words)

How do I tell a family member, she's worn out her welcome and she's the reason my bf is unhappy?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How do i go about keeping my boyfriend happy in our relationship and not alienated by my family with a live in sister in law who doesn't know when to go home or know when her welcome mat is worn out. how do i tell her that she is the reason that he left again and she is the ... (69 words)

I love her but I do all the pursuing! Is she just using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

12 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Dear friends. I am going through a rough patch in my life at this time. I am married and seperated recently but still my wife has not accepted my papers so practically we are still married, we live seperate though. I met this girl in my gym a few months ago and went craz... (344 words)

He's never turned on when he gives me oral! What's happening with him?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 12 years barely gives me oral sex and when he does he is never hard. I give him oral sex at least 1 time a week. Is it normal for him not to be turned on?... (39 words)

He likes me a lot, but wants no gf! Should I continue seeing him to 'make out' or let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey (: so... there's this boy i really like. And he says he really likes me too.... but there's alot of problems. Firstly, he doesn't want a girlfriend. he invited me around to his house the other day, just as friends... and we ended up kissing and making out on his be... (371 words)

Feeling so bad, that I hurt my friend! Any advice?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really bad! Since I told my guy friend that I would never talk to him again. He hasn't been online or talking to anyone. I didn't mean to hurt his feelings by telling him that. He just really hurt my feelings and I didn't know that he would care so much. I'm still not ... (90 words)

Fell in love with her but she didn't reciprocate..how do I deal with this?

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was friends with my best friend for about 3 years when I was a senior, and she was a freshmen (let's call her Shirley). About 2 years into the friendship, I began to develop feelings for her. I had never felt this way about any other girl...and still haven't to this ... (814 words)

Torn between my bf and my family! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5274 days ago

12 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I dated this guy C on and off for around 4 years..We met when I was 21 and he was 22(was about to turn 23 in December of that year) at the same community college while taking Pre-Calculus.We went on to date,graduate with our Associate Degrees from the same community college ... (965 words)

A co-worker sent obscene texts to my man! What should I do?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What should I do if I find obscene texts sent to my man and him replying to them from a coworker?... (21 words)

Am I too skinny to have boyfriends?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! I am a 15 years old girl and i have shame of my body because i am so skinny/thin and i think i am ugly (some guys say that i am beautiful but i dont believe i dont know if they are telling the truth) and i think that guys will not like me because im too skinny. Boys don... (81 words)

He has a gf but I can't help liking him a lot! Any advice?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like this guy, but i'm not sure what he thinks of me. He's an actor/musician. He isn't a famous one though. I saw him in a show once with my friend, and he said we could have a drink with him after the show, and he sat on his own with us the whole time. He was seeing ... (552 words)

My gf doesn't want a lot of contact with me and ignores me! What's her game?

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship which is a year and six month,recently everything seems to be coming to an end.My girl friend is acting so strange,she wouldn't come to see me the way she always do.Whenever i call her to come,she would promise,but will not come.What i don't understand is ... (109 words)

How can I stop his constant arguing and my apologizing to him when it's not my fault!

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19, in university and having a hard time in life. Been with my boyfriend for 7 months, he's 20 and hard work on times. Hes gorgeous, caring, treats me like a princess. Only problem is he's like a girl, and if we have a bicker or an arguement he keeps it going for hours.... (380 words)

Such complication I've never had... HELP!

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - "OPs Own title" So, I like this guy a lot. He likes me too, but he has a girlfriend of three years. I know that he feels bad for having feelings for me... I can't help but be attracted to him though! He says things about not knowing what will happen and how he doesn't try and ... (161 words)

Married and sex is mundane...should I cheat?

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I really need some help. I am currently married. My wife is pregnant. About 2 months. I don't understand myself. I love her very very much. However, I can't help but feel an urge to cheat; and I don't know why! I've even registered on some web sites that facilitate havin... (361 words)

Needs ideas on how to get this guy to ask me out?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Any way so I'm really close to my best friend. He's really sweet and charming. He lets me wear his jacket, we hug a lot and we even hold hands. The thing is I think I'm in love with him and I know that he used to like me in that way and I think he still does. I think... (118 words)

Need an excuse to break up with him...any suggestions?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm being split into two!!On one hand is my ex who is back..He says he does love me [We broke because he broke my trust]Now,I find him loving and caring. On the other hand is this good friend of mine who i had i a crush when i broke up [Its a crush,he likes me too].I was ve... (202 words)

Does she want me to break up with her, but can't tell me? Should I stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

12 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been with my girlfreind 6.5 years, we were planning to live together, now out of the blue she says she is just not happy, talked about feelings but she is reluctant to be openand just says she dont know whether we should split, this has dragged on for two weeks and i ... (90 words)

Do you think he should break up with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

12 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, first of all, I don't want any silly comments like: "you're an idiot, he should dump you, dumb b*tch." I already know. Anyways, so I went to Mexico without my boyfriend (we have been dating for a year and a half) and one night I got really really drunk and hung out with ... (291 words)

I'm 17 and seeing a 15 year old girl, is this wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

12 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused right now, I've been hanging out with this girl for the last few weeks and we got on really well, then we admitted we have feelings for eachother and so I asked her to be my girlfriend yesterday, she said yes which I was overjoyed about naturally, she's ... (160 words)

I feel all I was to him was an emotional crutch!

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a male friend who i am very close to and like a lot but hes unaware of my feelings. he had a near breakdown last year and i did everything i could to help him-i was there for him day and night-got him loads of presents to cheer him up etc. since then hes recovered and ... (157 words)

I really want my homophobic father to meet my girlfriend!

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everybody. For about a year now I've been positive I'm bisexual. I live with my father who is highly religious and for this reason he condemns homosexuality. My problem is that up until now, I've had no reason to do the whole "coming out" charade to him, but I'm now ... (166 words)

It's spooky. Every time I'm with another woman, my ex texts me!

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12 May 2010 (M)

age - This is very spooky. Every time im with another woman. My ex girlfriend texts me she still loves me. She lives 130 miles away. We haven't seen each other for 9 months. We went out for 2 years. Is it possible she senses that im with another woman. We are both 50 years old. Its ... (59 words)

We have planned that we will start having sex this weekend, and I have some contraception questions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend want to start having sex, and we have kind of planned that it will be this weekend. Im not sure which contraception to use and where i can get it from and how i use it and all that. I know that he already has condoms and i wasnt sure whether I would need 'th... (90 words)

He's let me down after this unintended pregnancy, and he's making me feel very low!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

12 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi...im in a bit of a mess and dont usually do this sort of thing but my family are bias (obviously) and i feel i need some impartial and objective feedback and advice. I am 35 and have been in a relationship with my partner for 16 years. We have 2 children-boy 14 ... (538 words)

He won't tell me the results of his STD check--has he cheated?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

12 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all. Do you know when you are with someone and suspect that they are cheating on you but can't prove it?? It is the most frustrating thing ever. I've never been in this situation before, so I don't know if it is just me or if the signs are typical of this. Ok, me and my ... (319 words)

Madly in love with a beautiful woman... who is married. :/

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am/was loving this girl since a lot of time. My life was dry before she came into my life... but when she did, it was like a breadth of fresh cool air blowing by your face you just washed with water. She's stunningly beautiful and I kept loving her a lot day by day and I... (279 words)

Sometimes I love him, sometimes I don't. What doe this mean?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I live in different places but are able to spend some time together - more than weekends. Our jobs keep us apart but we have long holiday breaks. When we're together I really love him. I feel like I want to be with him forever. He's sweet and likes to snugg... (405 words)

I'm an emotional mess after my miscarriage

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help, i thought i was coping but i'm really not. I had a miscarriage, found out nearly 2 weeks ago and apart from the initial shock and then the tears when it sank in, it hadn't really affected me. But i've noticed myself drifting away from my partner and i can't stop ... (239 words)

Can an STD take effect immediately?

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12 May 2010 (M)

age - I was at a local bar a few days ago and a local woman I know who is easy wanted to have some fun with me in her car. She gave me oral sex and right after the act was finished, I started having some pain at the tip of my penis. There is no redness or any fluid discharge. Could I ... (116 words)

It seems he wants this girl who he knows is engaged, but everyone was sure he liked me!

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im really confused. The guy i like is generally a bit shy round me. Well when i say shy, people have said he is. We dont talk much however sometimes he will just talk to me normally othertimes he wont. For example if we go out with friends he will mainly just talk to them, ... (442 words)

I need the things that money cant buy! How do I get him to make me feel like a woman again?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age - hi, here's what i'd like to know. i been with this man for going on three years,when we first go with one another this man made me feel good about myself he told me how nice i looked when id dress up and put make up on ,he made me feel like he really wanted me when it came to ... (348 words)

For the girls: should I try and increase the size of my penis or is it enough already?

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My penis is only 4.7 inch in length ,2.5 in girth. I have never engaged in intercourse. Girls like big penis but mine one is small. should I use massage oil to increase the size of it or is it enough(!!).Only girls answer my question.... (50 words)

He's cheated on me with his ex since we have been together!

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my partner have been together for over a year, im 5 months pregnant with his daughter and we are so excited just one problem. i just found out from his ex he has been sleeping with her since we got together. we got together on bad terms anyway we had been sleeping ... (421 words)

Can I receive pictures of my boyfriend even if I don't have a camera phone?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey my boyfriend wants to send me pics of him, cause we havnt been able to see each other in awhile. Well i dont have a camera phone can i still get them? Also i have T-mobile if that can help lol. Thanks for your time!... (46 words)

My girlfriend lied about her sexual past, what should I do?

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hey i dont know how to ask this but here goes ..... i have been with my girlfriend for some time and love every minute i am with her , i knew she has had sexual partners in the past one being her ex boyfriend and the other was a boy she was seeing after him and it was a one ni... (211 words)

How can I let him down gently and keep our friendship?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been told i'm a bit of a flirt aat times and although at times i can control it, sometimes it becomes something i sub-consciously do. It's affected the way i make friends, talking in general, male friends. When i was younger i was a major tom-boy and only recently has that ... (291 words)

I am uncomfortable with the other woman he has in his life, yet he claims there is nothing going on!

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been with my partner for two years we live together and have a 8 month daughter. he keeps texing a girl he used to have sex with he got her pregnant once but she got rid of it. they split up on good terms but ive read the texts and he is always saying "i cant stop thinking ... (140 words)

Am I still covered by the morning after pill that I took in the morning?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I took the aftermorning pill yesturday and had unprotected sex again on the night time, will that pill still cover me or will i have to go for another one?... (30 words)

How can I eject everyone out of my life?

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. I have a really difficult question and I hope you can help me. I have the opposite problem to most people. Most people try to attract plenty of friends into their life. But I want to get almost everyone out of my life. I am anti-social and introverted. How... (102 words)

I want sex but I'm afraid of it after bad relationships in the past

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been sexually active for about four years now. I've slept with two guys, both of whom I dated for 1+ year each. Both relationships started out great, but once we would have sex, they both started to become controlling and emotionally abusive. They both manipulated me into ... (184 words)

What are the hints that a teacher might like you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

12 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - just wondering what are hints that a teacher might like you in that way i shouldn't worry about this but i really want to know just curious ?... (32 words)

I want to marry him but I am sick of him wanting to know everything about me! How should I deal with this?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there friends.. i met a guy a month and half ago, but hes getting too far he want to know everything around me even they way my exes treated me, i told him i am not comfortable with it but he says its nothing big.. if my phone goes off he complains like no body's business.. ... (110 words)

I accidentally offended my colleague, what should I do?

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a workplace problem. I am a 40-year old male, and I have a female colleague of about the same age. It is very clear that neither one of us cares much for the other. A week ago, I got into a very embarrassing situation. I stood up to ask her a work-related question ... (239 words)

I know something isn't right but I don't know how to fix it.

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12 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hello Agnony Helpers, So my problem is that on and off for a few months now I just keep feelings like my boyfriend (of almost 2 years) isn't that interested in me. I feel pretty stupid for even mentioning this but it's just been bothering me for awhile now. My boyfriends r... (500 words)

Could I get pregnant from this?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - is there is a chance of pregnancy if my partner does not penetrate in to my vagina and if we are without clothes on a bed... (26 words)

I'm worried I might lose my wife due to my erection problems

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Im 29 year old, everytime i sex with my wife i loose erection half way i dont know what is going on, im afraid i might loose her for this problem im having please help. ... (35 words)

Does age really matter in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this boyfriend whom i met a while back. We've been together for 3 months, he's amazing. I feel like we connect. He understands me, he listens to my doubts. I am 20 years old, he is 28, I have my doubts sometimes. I don't want this feeling or things to ever change, that's ... (82 words)

I havent heard from my boyfriend in a week, what should I do?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - ive been with my boyfriend for a year, its been a haerd year and i really do love him!! i have 3 children the youngest being 13!! he has a daughter of 11, who visits him every other weekend. for the last year i have gone to flat every weekend leaving my son with my parents, or ... (412 words)

How do I choose between these two guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

12 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been causally dated 2 guys but its grown to a time where I must choose one of them. The problem is I can't decide who. On the one hand I have this totally sweet guy who shares a lot of the same interests as me and we have very similar morals. However, I only feel modera... (154 words)

Is it right for us both to be cheating and seeing other people?

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Is it right for a boyfriend or girlfriend to cheat on you after six months and you forgive but he or she still see's other goys or girls, and then you cheat on her or him more then once but she still see you? and and have sex with you but she she countinues to do the same thing ... (68 words)

Stuck between two guys!

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right... Well I broke up with my boyfriend months ago and I'm much happier. I've met this lad online who i've now started texting he seems perfect: He's sweet, funny, Gorgeous, Lives Close and He's the real deal. But he likes to talk dirty alot. Then theres my guy friend w... (256 words)

Is he for real or just playing games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

12 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - About 4 months ago a me and a guy that i have been friends with my whole life started talking, txting and an occasion would see each other. It was agreed that we didn't want anything serious that we were just friends. two weeks ago he starts telling me that he could fall in ... (124 words)

Has my boyfriend broken up with me?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Cupid My bf and me were together for past 1 year, started as best friends and then went into a relationship. Our relationship was going on fine till saturday. He used to call me or ill call him in a daily basis and we chat for an hour or so. On sunday he called me, si... (379 words)

How do I find what I'm looking for?

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. My question is how do I find who I'm looking for. As in a girlfriend I care about and who cares about me. At least I think that's what I'm asking. Here is my story. I'm 16 and I hated middle school. I was very nerd looking so I had no friends... So I got... (288 words)

How do I find my motivation?

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. My main question is how can I find my motivation. My story is that I have no clue what I'm trying to do with my life. I know I'm only 16 but I know whats right and wrong and everything I'm doing is not good. I'm messing up my future. I have been told a ... (235 words)

How can I make him text me and hang out?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i was talking to this guy for about 3 months then he told me we should just be friends. after that he would still kiss me, hang out with me, and all that good stuff. The thing is though, he's been trying to get back with his ex even though i've done everything for him, ... (169 words)

Is this guy a creep I should avoid?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A few years ago, I started working for a local buisness. I immediately fell in love with the job. The people I work with are so fun to be around and I enjoy going to work everyday. I'm 19 years old. There is an older 25 year old guy who also works there. I'll admit, I've had a ... (235 words)

Do guys want more when they go out of their way to be friends?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Would a guy really go out of his way to be friends with a girl and really just want to be friends and nothing more? ... (29 words)

How can I have a relationship with him when I am afraid to visit him?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have an online friend that I trust completely, he's 18 or so and we've been the best of friends for 3 years. But lately he's been saying sexual things to me and even told me that if I visited him he'd probably rape me (He only lives a couple hours away). I have tried to ... (86 words)

Do I owe it to myself to put my feelings out there?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - There's this guy I have been friends with for some time now. He is very sweet to me and I have recently realized I have feelings for him. I do not know for certain if these feelings are mutual, but he does express genuine affection towards me, mostly through long hugs and ... (240 words)

How do I finally put it all behind me?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 6 1/2 years. I love him with everything I have. Four years ago he left me for his ex girlfriend. He left me over an email and told me a week later he loved me but not in love with me. Oviously we got back together. I know very little about what ... (403 words)

Will I regret moving for more opportunity?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I always thought I'd go to college, move to a city, establish myself, go to graduate school, meet somebody along the way, and eventually we'd move to a suburb together and settle down. But I moved in with my parent (due to the economy) in a suburban/rural area after gradu... (470 words)

How do I see my kids when they are acting like I'm Charles Manson?

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my babies mother was together for 9 months and we were doing fraud and breaking the law...well she got pregnant 3 months before I was federally indicted...i went to jail and stayed there for 4 years...after she found out she was pregnant she had some dirty drug tests ... (448 words)

Is this some sort of STD or cancer?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, today my bf really surprised me...he insisted that we use a condom wen he normally penetrates without usin 1. the thing is, for the 1st two years of our relationship, our main contraceptive method was the withdrawal method and once in a while if he cum in me, we would buy ... (369 words)

Am I just easy to fool or could he really love me?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, I am a 20 years old girl, I dated a guy four years ago, I really loved him we were crazy in love but I did something wrong and he broke up with me I felt horrible for a very long time, we met after and we went out many times the previous year but he had a girlfriend, now ... (121 words)

Why is she mad at me for trying to keep the sparks going?

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some help understanding my wife. So my work schedule has made it hard for us to spend time together, let alone be intimate. I was working and called her, it went to voicemail. She called me back and said, "Sorry, I was in the shower." she was in a good mood and I started ... (303 words)

How can I stray strong when he is harrassing me?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all. HELP. 1.dated a guy from work.2.broke up with him cos he was no good. 3. he nearly got me the sack,he sent my manager evidence that i hated her after she bullied me. 5.he made sure my life became hell in my workplace despite the fact he left.6.He knew people in orange, ... (247 words)

Is she infatuated with him?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend has a boyfriend. They've been going out for a month and a half to two months. I've noticed for a while now that shes kind of obsessive over him. One day, he didn't text her back for a while and she freaked out and thought he might've died or he was cheating on ... (149 words)

Do all relationships start with fire and sparks?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Do all relationships start with fire and sparks? I went out with a guy that I find very attractive. He treats me with respect and has a lot of the qualities that I am looking for in a partner. We have gone out a few times and the conversation flows well. But it's more of a ... (295 words)

Why would she tell her friends and our family?

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12 May 2010 (?) age 41-50 - About 2 months ago I told my 1st cousin how I have wanted to have sex with her for a long time now and actually gave me a rush when I told her that I do in fact jack off thinking about her. Then I heard myself bluntly ask her if she would have sex with me tonight. "I would ... (123 words)

My boyfriend never wants sex so how do I fix that?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Help!! My bf is training for the marines, and now he never wants sex! Or anything to do with coming near me, this isn't like him, he used to b all over me and constantly wanted sex wot has happend to change this and how can I fix it? ... (49 words)

Sad and lonely...

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm here once again sorry. As some of you may no I have been having a rough few weeks with my parents and my ex boyfriend. I tried very hard not to talk to him or think of him but it got the best of me. Over the last few days I have been very lonely and depre... (597 words)

How do I handle my husband betraying me?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I trusted my husband so much that i don't believe that "all men are the same".the other day I saw the love msg that he mailed to his ex in Germany last 2yrs,i have known him for more than 3yrs,and all this years he never stop telling me how much he loves and cherish me. I ... (77 words)

Why do girls go back to the guys who dumped them?

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12 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This really is just a question having to do with a previous problem. But ill tell as much as i think i need to in order to fill you in. But ill try to keep it short. Well anyways theres is this girl I liked for awhile, i am not so close of a friend but we text a little. In the ... (230 words)

How do you chat up a guy?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi this guy has been giving me attention lately. he says hi and calls my name but never actually talks to me. he isnt like this with other girls so what does this mean? i know this is embarrising at my age to be asking but how do you chat up a guy?... (53 words)

Was it wrong for me to open that message?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months, but we've been officially talking for over a year. I feel in love with him a long time ago. We trust each other so much! I know he might be the one for me. We have so much in common and all of that. We trust each other enough ... (192 words)

He's acting hot and cold so what does this mean?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So this boy sent this message to me after I wrote him a message saying that I can't deal with his hot n' cold behavior. We were already kind of separated because he did some dumb things. For example he gave me my first kiss and then ignored for a month then came back and acted ... (1000 words)

If I'm not sure she's gay, should I still ask her out?

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12 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, a girl I was certain I really loved had to move far away. This was back in August and I had been having trouble moving on, but now I feel I can try dating again. There's now this girl at school that I'd like to ask out, but I don't know how to go about it. It can be a ... (95 words)