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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think I'm in love with a friend I met on the internet

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a friend on the internet a few months ago, and since then we've been chatting a lot and having video conversations. Sometimes he calls me dear and tells me he thinks I'm amazing, and I've never met anyone like him. But he lives in another country and I think I'm starting ... (70 words)

Tingling sensation after I have sex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I recently started having sex on a regular basis, 2 months ago. Often after my boyfriend and I have sex, my vagina has a tingling sensation, like I need to pee and sometimes there's even traces of blood when I go to the toilet.... What's this from? And what can I ... (63 words)

Is he just not that interested or did I scare him off by suggesting we meet up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Met a guy a while ago through work and recently added him on my Facebook. He didn't remember me but accepted my request and messaged me. We then exchanged a couple messages and he started asking what my weekend plans were. I told him and asked about his. He then tells me he has ... (257 words)

I'm tired of feeling like he doesn't want to be with me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating a little over a year. We are both in high school as of now and we have always planned to finish off together and then continue to be in this relationship for the rest of our lives. We constantly talk about getting married one day and to be ... (312 words)

I feel ill...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I have a problem. I am still attracted to my partner but we hardly ever have sex and to be fair we take it in turns to say no to each others advances-meanwhile I have developed an unhealthy appetite for pornography. It makes me feel ill afterwards and I don't know what ... (80 words)

Am I next???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now. I thought that we were both happy but recently he told me that he isn't happy and wants more things to do with his life - I think he is going to change his job, he's talking about joining clubs that'll mean he is away at ... (87 words)

I told him I liked him... where do I go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I have a typical teenage trauma for you. Ok im 16 and for the last year or so I have been taking to this guy, mainly through text and msn, but I have met him, although this is difficult as hes a weekly boarder. I always thought he showed some interest in me, but I was ... (413 words)

I dated him for 3 weeks in May 2008, I didn't know what I was getting myself into...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've asked a ton of questions on here for some advice, but I've never really got the help that I needed. In May 2008, I *unofficially* dated this guy, we were friends first, I was 16 he was 16, but we just didnt want to rush into anything incase it didn't work out. In hig... (432 words)

I really need help with this urgently before tomorrow (2nd posting) thanks!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - P.S. I am only posting again as this is a very important question and I did not recieve enough answers to consolidate the issue. You may be tempted to delete my post despite this P.S. note - but why don't you take into consideration my feelings and the sorrow which will be ... (1546 words)

Had sex with my best friend's brother and now she's mad at me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my name is sara and im 22 I have a very close friend whose lately got so mad at me because of something i have done we used to be best friends since we were 11 and we are also living in the same neighbourhood i don't even remember that we have been far from each other... (396 words)

Do I keep talking to her even though she doesn't deserve it whatsoever?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

5 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I were together for about 2 years, we were very much in love, we were both each others first true love, and everything was great up until a couple months before it ended. i pretty much made her the center of my life. we did everything together. and i guess she started ... (1407 words)

How do you tell another guy you like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

5 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How do you actually tell a guy that you like him without actually telling him straight up.. by the way I'm a guy.... (23 words)

How long does it take for the contraceptive pill to take effect?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm on a birth control pill. I'm on it for medical reasons. I am not having sex and I don't plan to for a while. But I was wondering though how long does birth conrtol take to "kick in" as a contraceptive? (preventing pregancy)... (45 words)

I have frenulum problems, please help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

5 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm a virgin and my penis has a frenulum, which is a thin skin under the penis head, and it doesn't allow the foreskin (I am uncircumcised) to retract. When I am not erect I can pull my foreskin back a lot, but when I am erect I can't pull the foreskin, not even over ... (98 words)

How can I forget about my ex-girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

5 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I forget about my ex-girlfriend? I really loved her. And she said she loved me with all her heart. But we broke up in the end, she never gave me a good reason. She just said that feelings faded away. I have been sad for a few months now. The biggest challenge is tha... (152 words)

Why does nothing happen the bullies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does nothing happen the bullies? I know a bully who bullied at school for a year she is now classic singer and with good looks and great job in big city. Another who rejected me, I lost all confidence in myself. I could go back doing sport for 2 years, he's ahead of me... (147 words)

I'm scared I'm not big enough for her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

5 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have never had sex but me and my girlfriend want to. I worry about my penis. I measured it and it's 5.5 inches but I'm only sixteen. Her ex was about 2 or 3 inches longer from what I've been told. I'm scared.... (47 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to finger me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I get my boyfriend to finger me? I have tried to bring his hand down there to touch me, but he just stops. What should I do or say to get him to finger me?... (37 words)

My boyfriend of 6 months just cheated on me on New Years Eve.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

5 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 6 months just cheated on me on New Years Eve. He was out of town for work. The week prior we spent Christmas together with my family and his. The thing is his family is still coming to terms with the fact that he's gay. It was a big argument that I go. I told ... (319 words)

Why all the mixed messages from him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Here is my problem... Colleagues and friends with a Virgoan man for 3 years (him 39 and me 42), occasional mild flirting from him but nothing more since both in relationships. Both our relationships ended (at different times) and friendship picked up outside work during l... (440 words)

I just found out he has feelings for another GUY!!! I'm in shock!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel weird posting something on here, but I really don't know what else to do. I had been in an amazing and strong relationship. He is my best friend and knows me better than anyone. It's hard to explain how close we are, or were. I'm a senior and he left for college this ... (635 words)

How can I keep my anger under control?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for five years we have a child together. I cannot hold it together any more, I get so angry with her and we put each other down all day every day. When I get mad I punch walls and break things, I know I won't hurt her but my rage is ... (70 words)

I'm 5 months pregnant and want to know if it is still safe to have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 5 months pregnant and want to know if it is still safe to have sex? ... (16 words)

Lost My Virginty at 14, Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just moved to a new city same state. At my old school I was just getting involed with boys. I was in 7th grade then. And now I am in 8th and I moved here over the summer.So Im in 8th grade now suopose to be in 9th. But lately I have been making out with diff boys and that ... (758 words)

He has trouble staying hard and letting himself cum.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid.. I was searching ANYWHERE for an answer to my question, and I stumbled along this site.. I read someone else's question: "My boyfriend does not ejaculate during any sexual acts, is it because of his prior masturbating?" and the person who responded; Undis... (231 words)

Should I play around like this after the fact that I don't want to have oral?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I told him at the beginning of our relationship that there would be no oral, but then I said I would do it with him this week. I don't know what to do. I don't feel comfortable doing that, and I'm a minor, and he is an adult. Should I play around like this after the fact tha... (65 words)

My man says he loves me, but we are not really "we."

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My man says he loves me, but we are not really we. I am postponing my yes to him, cuz I can't get caught with him, and he wants to make us offical. We were together, after 2 weeks apart today and he was being a butt hole cuz he won't let me touch him, and he won't finger m... (153 words)

Do you think your best friend would risk a friendship if he really liked the girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think your best friend would risk a friendship if he really liked the girl? or is "I don't wanna risk the friendship thing" a lie? This particular guy fancied me A LOT in the past, so it's not like he's never felt nothing for me. He'll be really nice then goes distan... (68 words)

Can I ever trust my wife again or is she just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

5 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - dear cupid. This is difficult for me to talk about. For the last 3-4 years my wife became very distant and independant. She was also quite secretive about how much she earned or where she was going. Basically I could never take an interest in her. She would always say "you ... (623 words)

I had a one night stand with my friend's brother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5777 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a one night stand with my friend's brother recently. It was over the Christmas period. I don't know him very well, but he comes to the pub with his brother each Christmas and over the course of a few years I have always chatted with him in the pub but nothing had ever... (232 words)

Past bites... still sore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have had a torrid time breaking up with my ex-love. She broke up with me, because her ex-boy friend had come back. I was very serious about her. It took me three years to get her to tell me a yes. I had in fact told my parents that I would be marrying her. It's been a year s... (244 words)

My husband said he doesn't love me any more after twenty-two years together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5777 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband said he doesn't love me any more after twenty-two years together, he is in the military and recently was deployed to Honduras and met a twenty-seven year old virgin and came home and asked for a divorce to be with her, she has no greencard and I am afraid that's all ... (80 words)

Acne problem!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My best mate has really bad acne and it is ruining her love life, she fancies this boy but she's not confident to enough to talk to him or anything and she sits and cries she is so unhappy. Is there anything that can help get rid of them.... (49 words)

People's sex education knowledge is horrifying! Why don't people know the basics???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't really a question, it's just something that has shocked me and I would like to hear other people's views. Basically I can't get over the amount of people who don't know about the basics of sex. For instance people who think they can get pregnant by kissing even tho... (111 words)

My best friend and I were in love until the new guy came along - now she loves him and I love her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

5 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all. Three years ago, in the midst of highschool, I had recently just settled down into a new group of friends after moving, and all was well. I became amazingly close with this girl, who I'll call "E," and within months, the two of us were inseperable best friends.... (1097 words)

I'm crying every night since the break-up and I feel ugly and worthless, how can I get over him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have just recently split with my partner of two years, i am tryin to follow the advice of friends and relatives to keep busy, get out more, but i just cannot motivate myself, im spending my days either sleeping or constantly waiting for a text from him. i know that may sound ... (145 words)

Is there a chance he may be interested in me after all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice on a guy, we arranged to go out once but he blew me out, we didn't really speak for a while and lately we have been getting on really well, he has been sending me emails just general chat but when we see each other he doesn't always speak to me only now and ... (65 words)

How do I find out if he has true feelings for me?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I find out if he has true feelings for me?..I mean more than just friends. He does things that surprise me..calls me on his lunch break every so often, text, after work late night calls just to talk..nothing sexual. He doesn't mention other girls, and I don't... (153 words)

I had sex with my best friend's brother and now she's mad at me, how do I fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi,my name is sara and im 22 i have a very close friend whose lately got so mad at me because of something i have done we used to be best friends since we were 11 and we are also living in the same neighbourhood i don't even remember that we have been far from each other for ... (396 words)

Should I tell what I did with other guys when we were broken up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boy friend and I have been going out for over a year. About two months ago we broke up for over a month. Now that my boy friend and I are back together for a few weeks, my boy friend wants to know what I did, if anything, with other guys. He does know from one of his ... (238 words)

All my friends have done it but me and now I've met a guy who wants to take my virginity, should I do it or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey i knw am under age n all... buh am just having second thoughts... all my friends have done it. there's this guy at skwel a little bit older than me and we only started talking on msn..( as friends) then he mentions tht he wants so bad.. 4 the past year and he wants to ... (101 words)

So did she have an orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

5 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im 15 and my girlfriend is 14, we recentley went to the mall, and went into a nursery room where she gave me a hand job and i figered her. i think she got an orgasm but im still not sure, the first time i gave her one she legs started to tremble and her back arched a little ... (126 words)

Divorced but he still records significant dates that happened with his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm not typically the jealous type. My BF (of 6 months)and I check out others, watch things on t.v, have friend of opposite sex, and no prob I do however seem to have a problem with his ex wife. He hasn't been divorced long so I'm trying to understand that he doesn't want to ... (277 words)

Do I take the morning after pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - i did the stupidest most irresponsible thing ever and messed around with my ex/almost boyfriend again. we are taking some time apart before getting back together so that we dont mess things up the second time around. we hung out today and things got pretty intense. we had of ... (271 words)

I want oral sex! How do I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm 15 and my girfriend is 14, my girlfriend and i have been goin out for three wonderful months and counting..... she used to say that we would wait for the perfect moment to have sex, then soon after she started saying that we would never have sex. twice already, we've gone... (200 words)

I don't understand our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I met this guy thru an online dating site. After months and months of talking on the phone..then me being in a serious relationship that he knew about. We still kept in contact thru it all. After the break-up about two months ago, we finally made it official and went out on ... (253 words)

I don't know how to cope with this

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I thought I'd like to update you on my husband and dad situation: (original situation - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-spends-far-too-much-time-with.html) I don't believe they went for 6 weeks, as I know that what people say and what people do are two differ... (216 words)

Married but in love with someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5777 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Last year I ran into an old friend at the company I worked for. He and I were attracted to one another, years ago, but we never dated seriously, we were just really good friends. At the time, I had a boyfriend, but he wasn't in a relationship. My boyfriend and I broke up and my ... (171 words)

I want to get pregnant and cant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok yes i do want to get pregnet and i had unprotected sex all the time i been with my man for 2 years and we never get pregnet i wanna know y i cant get pregnet???????????i had sex just before i got my period can i still get pregnet??????????????... (50 words)

I want to be clever in asking him out..any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really have so many worries don't I? Here goes: Just got back to school today and I am certain I want to ask out Tom. I like him, he doesn't have a girlfriend, I don't have a boyfriend and I think he likes me. But I'm not sure how to ask him out. I want to be clever. If... (155 words)

Can I still get pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok here is my problem well i had unprotected sex about two weeks ago so i got my period 5 days late i thou i was pregnet but i got my period.......but the day before i got it i had sex agian and he came inside can i still get pregnet???????????????... (51 words)

I kissed someone else while we broke up, now ex wants me back..don't know whether to tell him about kiss or not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I broke up in nearly two months ago. We stayed in contact and almost got back together a couple of times until we had a big row three weeks ago and decided it was best to end it and have no contact at all. It was him that wanted no contact. Over the last two wee... (351 words)

Will my ex ever realize what he has done to the family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - was with my partner for many years and suffered verbal, emotional and physical abuse. all our children are all grown up now and have nothing to do with their father, ive recently divorced him and have left the area where i lived with him and now he doesnt know where we live or ... (136 words)

Is this a guy's way of ending a marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry this is so long :) Four months ago I came home from work to discover that my husband of 3 years (together for 7) had taken the day off of work to move all his stuff out. He never mentioned anything about moving out prior to that. In fact I talked to him several time... (1604 words)

How do you cope with being an old maid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - does any one know how to cope being old maid.because i am new it.i never had boyfreind once in my life and never being kissed.at this stage of my so called life i have to accept as a fact of life for my self. probaby won,t miss someting i never had,dying virgin is not what i w... (102 words)

I'm really confused what to do, but I want to start over

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a state of confusion, the story is long and very complex but for this purpose I will try to keep it short. Last November my boyfriend and I had been together 5 years when I discovered he had had a one night stand, I was alerted to it and asked him over and over until ... (700 words)

I want to respark the relationship..any cheap romantic ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to respark the flame, any cheap romantic but sweet ideas to help me????... (15 words)

Is there any medicineIcanget that will make my husband want to have sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a marred person my husband not intrested to sex with me there is any medicne in market (in india ) that my husband is out of control and ready to sex with me please help me... (38 words)

I thought I knew my husband..and then I found the receipt for a strip bar

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I need some relationship advice. I just found out my husband has been frequenting strip bars and whore houses. I found out about one through a receipt he mistakingly left laying out and confronted him. He told me that he went there to get a massage. I then found ol... (335 words)

I'm in love with my cousin, he's getting engaged

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok heres my problem i am 16 and in love with a guy but not just any guy my 18 year old cousin now we havent seen each other in 4 years but the last time we saw each other we mad love weve made love before and its all ways been special to me but i dont no about him but now i ... (101 words)

His best mate hits on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well.. my boyfriend has been best mates with this boy for about 2-3 months, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months. Just recently His best mate has been trying it on with me touching me in inappropriate places and keeps trying to kiss me when my boyfriend isnt ... (150 words)

I don't think I love him anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know what to do! I dont think i love boyfriend anymore. We are engaged and have a 3 month old baby! It's such bad timing! I want my son to have his father around and ive stayed in this relationship for him! But i'm not sure i can do it anymore, it's not that my boyfrien... (239 words)

Can I change from being overbearing and jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi my boyfriend just told me i was overbearing sometimes. i try to not be, but apparently i still come off that way. i mean... i'm not a fan of weed. i'm not gonna be thrilled when he smokes (which is not that often) but if he wants to do it, he knows he can. but he says i h... (241 words)

Has he cheated on me? Opinions please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there im guna apologise for this as its guna be a long one. This girl on facebook messaged me with a conversation her and my boyfriend were having, im guna post it here - could you please let me know what you think? Do you think he has cheated? Do you think he would w... (1685 words)

Girlfriend cheated but denies it..what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

5 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So here's the deal. Very long story. I'm almost 21 and she is 23 and I have been dating my girlfriend for the past year and three months and though we have had ups and downs we both can agree our relationship is very good (not perfect by any means) in every way. Our sex ... (1644 words)

Is my mum cheating? And my mum's boyfriend is a transvestite! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My mum has a boyfriend, who she has been with for about 4 years now. But, for about a year I have noticed that she has been on dating sites. Sometimes I'd go on the computer and see that she has the website up, and the chats so I can see what she's been saying to these people! ... (225 words)

Should I just take him at his word?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a bit of a complicated situation. An ex of mine (whom I slept with while we were together.) has come back into my life. Our relationship was good, the break-up wasn't so great. Anyhow, he recently broke up with his newest ex and his life has done a 180 from when I ... (219 words)

Did this guy really get scared or was I lied to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am so hurt and need some advice. There is a man i went to high school with and we recently went out a few times. Everything was so perfect.He led me to believe that we had something special and that he would only being seeing me. I thought everything was too good to be true.I ... (239 words)

Should I be grateful for what he offers? Just friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

5 January 2009 (?) age - I am young looking widow 69 he is divorced 62 ,we meet on net. after a good start he wanted to be friends,did not love me.after 2 year now sleeps in spare room. I went along at first but we row about it .he is good to me looking after garden and brings food in,but he says he ... (127 words)

What's wrong? I miss our sex life so much!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have two kids,a four yr old and a 7 month old child. my boyfriend never wanted to have sex as soon as i got pregnant cause he said it isn't right for the baby and i agreed.Now (7 months after my baby is born) we still dont have sex as he says its not righ0t for the baby ... (224 words)

He keeps promising to change but then goes back to not trusting me!

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I will try to keep this brief. I have been with this guy for almost 8 months. Things are either better than I ever imagined a relationship to be or I feel worse than I have ever felt in my Life. He went through a bout of depression a few months ago and he was horribly ver... (941 words)

Do I let the ex win?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - the problem i have is my boyfreinds ex!! he has a little girl with her and has her on a weekend but i am never allowed when he goes to pick her up or drop her off he says he doesnt want anything to kick off otherwise she will stop him seeing the little one.i dont beleive that ... (141 words)

Running out of ideas of how to help my overweight brother before he ends up in hospital.

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,i really need some help here urgently. My younger brother who is 21 is overweight-he weighs just over 18 stone and is about 5ft 10. He is quite shy, never had a girlfriend and doesn’t have many friends he just watches TV and plays on his play station. He eats big po... (301 words)

This guy told my bf that he could see our future--so my bf broke up with me!

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy kept claiming for 6 yrs that he loved me and what not. And I never paid any attention to him. So last yr he gets in a relationship or almost did with a girl 4 yrs older than him. And then she moved on. [it was bound to happen -age-] So now when we got together we ... (474 words)

I'm gay and want to tell one of my best friends but just don't know how to tell her. Please help!!!!

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5 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I'm just gonna say it all at I de so bare with me. I 15 and I'm an the closet gay. I have a really really good friend who live across the road from me. We hang out all the time and go to the service station for slurpees all the time together. I really want to tell her that I ... (125 words)

Do I tell her that I am a lesbian?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We are best friends, and I have pretty much fallen head over for her (and have liked her for like the last 3 years...) She is ridiculously cuddly with me, we act like a couple in many ways already. She has no idea that I am a lesbian, I was wondering how/if I should tell her? ... (66 words)

He keeps asking me if I had an orgasm, and it bothers me!

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The other night when me and my boyfriend were having sex he asked me 5 times if i had an orgasm. It really bothered me because i was trying to focus on him and us together all he was worried about was if i came.I got upset and i told him to stop asking me that. He wasn't happy ... (181 words)

I can't tell my husband-to-be that I am not a virgin! Help!

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - actually im getting married next year so im not a virgin.....but i cant tell my husband that im a virgin..so what i can i do now....i cant tell him coz that will ruin my relationship......so is it possible that can i hide this reality from my husband.....plz do reply to ... (89 words)

I don't want to get sucked back into this situation... but what do I do about this?

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5 January 2009 (M)

- Susan(32) is a woman that I dated for a while last summer. I tried to form a relationship with her but she was indecisive and ultimately, nothing happened (You can see my other questions for the situation). [moderator note: it would be helpful if you included the links so that ... (475 words)

I know he's going to propose, how do I let him down gently? But still keep him with me?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have been seeing my bf since feb (2008) i live with him and am in complete love with him. Im 19 and hes 30 and he makes me happier than ive ever been before.But he is talking about marriage We are going away to Rome and i know for a fact that is where he plans on asking... (105 words)

Strengthening the PC muscle?

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5 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I want to strengthen my PC muscle. I'm a guy and i really cannot last any more than 10 seconds when having sex. All i want to know is whether this would help to strengthen my PC muscle. If i hang a small back on my penis and put some small weights in it and then lift it u... (108 words)

Most of our relationship is good, except for his friends!

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27 years old and I've been married now for 17 months. We have a son whose a year. We've known each other over 10 years nad ad several attempts at a relationship before. I guess he was my first love and when we were dating in 2007 I got pregnant and we married. Most of our ... (159 words)

I've really blown it this time! Now he knows I'm not as cool as I pretend!

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Oh holy cr*p I'm an idiot. Been broken up with the ex for nearly two months (his choice). He wanted me back after a week, but I said we'll wait and see after he comes back from his month and a half trip to Europe. Ok so I'd been doing really well. All contact came from him. ... (399 words)

I'm pregnant after a one-night stand and I don't know what to do!

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 29 and just found out i am pegnant after having a one night stand with a guy. We used protection but the condom broke. I dont know how to tell him or what to say as he wont take my calls. I already have a child aged 9 that i have raised on my own, i dont want to do it on ... (86 words)

How do I find out if he has feelings for me?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok theres this guy i like we havent known each other long but i really like him the thing is week coach together but thats the only time i see him which is like once a week and i want to hang out more but im not sure if he likes me in the same way. i scared that if i ask him to ... (113 words)

How can I get through a day without worrying about his cheating on me?

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5 January 2009 (?) age 36-40 - how can i get through a day without imangining my partner cheating on me, why can i not get through a day without checking his phone. why do i assume that he will at some point cheat on me and why do i think that he will cheat ion me?... (50 words)

I'm going on holiday in 2 weeks and don't want my period coming on!

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there i just need a small bit of advice. Im going on holiday with my boyfriend for 2 weeks to canada but its the time that my period is due and i really dont wana be on my period. I am currently on the pill and ive heard that people sometimes just carry on their pill so they ... (105 words)

Why does he mention about his exes? Could I just be his rebound girl?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I met this guy online and we live in different states, we've been talking on the phone for about 6 months and he says he really likes me, and I really like him too, sometimes we get into arguments about little stuff, then usually i would just stop talking to him and then ... (625 words)

I want to call him before his operation, he's not my boyfriend but he could be. Help me with the right words!

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey..a very good friend of mine who stays in a different city will be undergoing a small appendix operation and since i am not there with him i have decided to call him before the operation and calm him down..but i am not finding the right words..he is not my boyfriend although ... (81 words)

Everything is great in our marriage, except the sex! What do I do?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married to my husband for 4 years now. I am 23 and he is 40. I am very happy in every aspect of my marriage except for sex. It was great until our 2nd wedding anniversary when he was diagnosed with M.E. (chronic fatigue syndrome). Unfortunatly ever since he has had ... (192 words)

He knows I love him and wants to have sex with me... but it would be "just sex" for him!

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey i am a virgin.. One of my friends wants to have sex with me. He loves another girl, but he knows that i love him. He says clearly to me that he can have just sex with me, no attachment. As i love him since 3 years, i am also tempted to have sex with him. Please give me ... (70 words)

So I took a pregnancy test this morning (negative) but then why am I feeling these symptoms?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i posted a question the other day. i had unproctected sex with my boss on dec 27. he didnt cum inside of me and he was only in me for about 5 mins. my period is due on the 10th and i counted back and the day b4 we had sex i was at my most fertile. iv been feeling really s... (111 words)

I'm scared I'll do something stupid like make a pass at him!

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5 January 2009 (F)

age - Hello I am a married woman, I have a wonderful husband who loves me to bits. Unfortunately he has a low sexual libido ( he is 47) and the spark seems to have gone from our relationship. I have tried numerous ways to arouse his interest but very little works and we only mak... (318 words)

How do other people cope with the end of the honeymoon period, depression and/or erectile dysfunction?

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5 January 2009 (F)

- The honeymoon period is over. He used to buy flowers every week, that stopped about three months ago. Our sex life has gone down from being sizzling hot. He always had erectile dysfunction but it was helped by the newness of the relationship and supported with Cialis. Then ... (394 words)

I don't have a clue what would feel good for him!

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we're really happy together. We've started taking the relationship to a higher level over the past few weeks and he has started putting his hand down my pants etc. I'd like to be able to do the same to him however i don't ... (115 words)

First time sex worries, please help!

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am 16 years old an i have a boyfriend who is 17 we been going out for five months an i love him alot an he says he does to we are both virgins we see each other everyday and we are so close we makeout alot also an we get turn on real quick but i want to lose it to him an ... (213 words)

Good idea? I put condom on a banana and used it

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, Am i a freak? I was sitting in my room bored with nothing to do. It was a guy friend texting me telling me all these freaky toughts he was having about me. While later on that night I was kind of horny. So i went and got a banana and put a condom on it. I used tha... (81 words)

How do I get school to remove bad record?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When i was in grade 7, I made out wit my bf and the principal caught us. [looool. xD] NOW im worried if it'll b in my permanent record, im a straight A student and bcuz im asian my parents r strict, im not allowed bf's. (until im 20 =.=) im scared! people in my school ar... (111 words)

Separate households no quality time for sex!

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5 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - If you start a relationship by spend lots time together everyday and then one of you move into their own place . And then you spend barely no time with that person you love can that have a negative effect on your relationship, due to lack of quality time to be close sexually? ... (53 words)

Am I a friend? more? He calls me buddy

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is he just being polite or is just taking things slow and is interested in me? We go out, we call each other back and forth just to talk, and text. He never mentions his past relationships, nor do I ask. But on these (2) dates he hasn't made a move..we have lots of fun, but... (157 words)

Broke up, wants my things back, afraid of him getting abusive

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So after a 5 year relationship, Ive decided to call it quits with my B/f. I'm really confused and feeling very nervous. After a horrible NYE party by now x-bf became very verbally and borderline phy. abusive. He doesent remember a thing and what he does remember he instist it ... (137 words)

He's having trouble keeping erections

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now. We have a 7 month daughter and are living together, have been for a year. Everything is wonderful except for the sex. I consider myself an extremely sexual person, him not as much. In the begnining thing... (230 words)

I cheated, wife found out and now wants to call everything off

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5 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married eleven years and have cheated on my wife 6 months ago and she found out. She has been depressed since the birth of my son (9 years ago) and for the last three years basically stop having sex with me and telling me she hated me. Not to excuse myself, but it ... (168 words)

I'm too clingy and I'm really missing him

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! am i going insane? It all started exactly about a year and a half. I went to argentina and met a wonderful boy. We became best friends and are now dating. However, as a young teenager i suffered from some bad relationships and it made me very defensive (I was cheated on, ... (334 words)

Having sex with the ex, he has a girlfriend!

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey good people i screw up, i had sex with my ex who's been begging me to get back together with him, the relationship we had wasn't really top of the notch, lots of heartache breakups and etc, thou i loved him still, the problem now is he's got a girlfriend whom he met... (179 words)

Husband has heart problems and our sex life stinks

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - dear cupid i am 40 years old and me and my husband have been married for 5 yearsi love him very much. he has heart problems and they have been bad for the last few years. he still gets around and is doing good now and i feel bad for saying this but our sex life stinks we havent ... (91 words)

What do his intentions mean?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have not seen my friend in 7 months in person since we left for college. He talked to me on facebook aim 20 days go saying I'm sorry for not keepin in contact and I miss you I wanna give a big bear hug and all of that stuff. So on Saturday I decided to go to a friends b-day ... (142 words)

My dad won't let me be an auto mechanic

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5 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Im really into cars (and sports) and I think might be a auto mechanic when I finish high school but my dad and most of my family (mainly guys) thinks its not "lady like" (thats a nice way to put it). My dad won't let me a auto mechanic course at my school. I'm starting think it ... (117 words)

Another girl kissed my b/f now my mind is filled with doubt

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend went back to his hometown for christmas break and while he was there some girl kissed him. he swears that he didn't kiss her back and that he left right afterwards but i don't know what to do or think about this. I want to completely trust him when he tells me that ... (143 words)

My guy is distant and I don't know why

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing a guy for 14 months who has started being more and more distant towards me over the past few months. He's 34 and I'm 38, so we're not kids. We started out so great. Until a few months ago, we chatted every single day, then he got distant and cool towards me ... (305 words)

Restless anxious about relationship and its bothering me wondering if he'll go bald?

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5 January 2009 (F) age 41-50 - please help! I've been with my boyfriend now for over three years but I'm incredibly frustrated with our situation. He is the only person I have ever been with. Currently I am not working, after recently graduating from University. I'm trying to figure out who I am and what I ... (198 words)

Anxiety attacks & over analyzing things are making me such a mess

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5 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello friends, m a 20 year old guy n im suffering from severe anxiety problems. i dont know whats wrong with me and im scared of whatever i think. i keep analyzing every situation that i come across and usually end up building more and more anxiety and then i again analyze this ... (392 words)

Should I feel embarrassed by such a speech?

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5 January 2009 (M)

- I’m sad. I recently attended a wedding where I was surprised to find the groom turn towards me during his dinner reception speech and announce that he’d like to spend a few minutes talking about me. What followed was a long speech (or so it seemed) on what he felt were my ... (305 words)

I'm more interested in sex than he is

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 21 year old very slim, very attractive girl. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a lil over a year and as far as the average arguments between couples we seem to be doing Great. The problem ly's within our sex life. I can get him hard for a small period of time but if ... (346 words)

How to stop an attraction with a co-worker

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I stop being attracted to a co-worker? Recently a co-worker and I were out of town on business. Nothing happened, but we discovered that we both have a strong attraction to each other and really enjoy each other's company. We are both married and neither of us want's to ... (83 words)

Throwing in the towel

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hello all! so ive decided to throw in the towel with this guy finally.I have had it with the mixed feelings thing.So my question is do you think it would be to stupid or childish if i wrote him a letter explaining why im doing what im doing ? when i talk to him my mind goes ... (139 words)

Want to drive him wild

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to do something that will really drive him wild. we makeout and im willing to take things further but im not sure if he is just yet. we've been together 6 months and we're both juniors. is there anything i can do to really get him going while we're going at it? like ... (70 words)

Ladies, I need advice on making first dates amazing...

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5 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'd like to think of myself as romantic and sweet! But what do the females think! 1) What would be an amazing date be? (WHERE) Like where would an amazing first date take place? Like your dream date? Haha 2) I'm still young and in School so it's not really asking a girl ou... (92 words)

How can I tell my parents about my White BF when they're so against dating other races?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some help. How can I tell my parents about my bf? I am black and he's white. My parents are totally against dating people of other races and I know they will be mad about this. How should I break the news to them? I am afraid they won't allow it and I really like ... (60 words)

He said I was cute but he likes someone else

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so there is a guy that i really really like. He is a year older than me. I meet him in the beginning of december. And we have been hanging out for a while. Just last friday he asked me if i was cute. I said yea, but i don't think u think i am cute. He said i do think u r cute ... (100 words)

Won't be seeing him for six months!! What can I do to let him know I'm still into a relationship?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy I love over Christmas (I've known him for about four years now) and we really hit it off, flirting wise. I have so much fun when I'm with him and the time flies by so fast. The only problem is that I live in a city that's several states away from where he lives and ... (102 words)

I'm scared I'm pregnant!!

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I've been on the pill for almost 2 months now and I haven't missed a pill. Just last month my boyfriend and I had sex about 4 different times in like 2 weeks... without a condom but he pulled out about 10 seconds before he came. This month I have been spotting for ... (159 words)

How do I earn trust back so we can get our relationship back to how it was?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently cheated on my boyfriend of 3 months and he broke up with me 3 times in 1 day because he was so mad,but thats not my problem because we got back together.my problem happens to be that now that we are back together i still feel that he is still a little upset with me ... (90 words)

Take the lead and ask him out?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear,anyone i really like this guy and i think he likes me to but im not sure.we've been friends for about a year.we both have never been in a relationship and im scared to ask him out and he has not even tried. should i take the lead and ask him out ... (82 words)

How do you masturbate to make it feel good?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do u finger yourself to make it feel "good" i guess? xoxo *thanks* ... (27 words)

Will my friend forget me due to her new friends?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a friend who has limited sight in one eye,which may spread to the other eye. she has had a very hard time adjusting to this, and myself and another friend have been there for her as friends in good and bad times. She has never had a big circle of friends in the past... (226 words)

Dating, Relationships and overprotective parents!

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5 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - heyy, Im 15, an only child and my mum is over protective. I have a 14yr old boyfriend who is trustful, treats me well and knows enough about sex. My boyfriend wants sex with me,, i think im ready too, my mum wont let me have sex, she thinks im to young, not ready and ... (178 words)

My girlfriend likes it rough, but I don't. How do I get her to tone it down?

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5 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing my girlfriend for close to 3 months now. We enjoy being with each other and have now started to be intimate with each other. However, lately I feel she's being a little too sexually agressive for my taste. The kissing, hugging and touching is turning into ... (210 words)

How do I tell my best friend I have feelings for him?

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5 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 21 year old male college student and I have recently become involved in what is easily the strangest romantic predicament of my life. To give you a little background, I am a masculine closeted bisexual guy who has been with a few guys but has dated only girls in the ... (540 words)

What to do when the conversation is awkward

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - So, if someone you used to go out with invited you out but the conversation was awkward what would you do? Like it seemed like he wanted to be around you be really nervous? He asked me again this week but I don't know if i can keep hanging out if it's gonna be weird. I still ... (127 words)

"mistakes" keep happening and I don't know what to do!

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5 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do. Me and my wife of two years have a son who is one year old. We had a few arguments and split up with an intent to get back together if i could change a few things, and are living in different homes. The problem is that not even two weeks after we ... (196 words)

No orgasm during sex

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm very interested in hearing from both females who actually have or have had this issue, or males who have known a female in my situation. I'm 17, have been sexually active for about three years, and have had two partners (within relationships). I really enjoy sex BUT I ... (153 words)

He's so big it hurts to have sex

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 19 and my bf is 30 this a lil embarassing he has a really big penis like 9 and i cant get it all in it really hurts and is so tight. when i finger i tend to just use one or 2 but this feels like 4 or 5 what can we do to stretch it and make it more enjoyable for me as we... (98 words)

We tongue kissed could I be pregnant?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 13 turning 14 but i havnt had my perios 4 a long time...i had it like in october and now it 2009 january 4 and i havnt had sex im still a virgin..im kind of worried bcz i have aboyfriend and all i ever did wuz just kiss him..yea it wuz tounge but noting more than that ... (67 words)

What do I do and who do I chose?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a bit of a dilemma. I am in love with two guys. Guy number 1 I went out with once for a year but we broke up because he cheated on me. After a couple of months he came back to me and kept apologizing. We got back together but we broke up after a week because it felt ... (258 words)

G/f pushing me away

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5 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is beginning to kind of push me away, it started out fine, I called her every day. Then she started answering lesser, and lesser. So now I cant even get her to even go out with me anywhere. Whats wrong here?... (43 words)

Do condoms affect man's performance?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When my boyfriend and I are having sex, he will cum within a few minutes and I am usually left wanting more, whereas he is tired. I'm not sure if his age affects it, but he is 19. Sometimes he wants to try to cum again, after already cumming, but he usually can't if he is we... (186 words)

My g/f worries about my ex so much!

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5 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is my girlfriend being unfair? My ex-fiancee and my current girlfriend are friends, not very close but they talk occasionally (thats how we met), anyhow, i let my girlfriend (ashley) know that im totally over (steph) and that im so much happier with her than i ever was with ... (237 words)

How can I accept men's need to ogle?

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5 January 2009 (F) age 30-35 - How can I accept men's need to ogle? I'm not ugly, and I'm young, but I can't compete. And guys ogle, and like porn, and porn women. I was just watching TV and the amount of programs directed at men is unbelievable (a lot of programs showing undressed or almost undressed... (206 words)

I can't see my boyfriend!

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey us ee im 13 my bf is 14 nd i love him alot... weve been together 4 a long time...nd well my mom dosnt aprove nd she found us just talking outside...bcuz i would see him witout my parents notice nd well i love him alot nd my mom dosnt let us b together she dosnt let us b tog... (121 words)

How do I get her to be my g/f?

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5 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 and I'm in love with my best friend.we have dated in highschool n broke up when she went to college.we been friends for 10yrs.she is always touchy feely w me.we started having sex a few months ago and bout 2 weeks ago she said she just wants to be friends.she says she ... (97 words)

14 pregnant don't want to tell my mum!

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i'm 14, and i just found out im pregnant. No body knows yet i definatly don't want to get rid of it but i know my mum she will try and make me if i tell her! And i can't tell my boy friend because i don't know how he will react i'm not sayin im the most matture person but ... (90 words)

How do I stay a good godly wife when I'm left out

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I KNOW MY HUSBAND LOVE BUT SOMETIMES I FEEL HE PUT TO MANY PEOPLE BEFORE ME.IM A CHILD OF GOD IM TRYING TO KEEP MY WALK WITH GOD.SO QUESTION IS HOW TO STAY A GOOD GODLY WIFE WHEN I FEEL LEFT OUT SOMETIMES?... (43 words)

We made out, she has a boyfriend and now she's distancing herself from me

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5 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, there is a girl who i have liked for a long time, the issue was she has a long term boyfriend. I was there for her when she was going through any rough patches etc. We get along really well we went places together etc. We would send flirty texts etc and she said to me she ... (199 words)

?? for females about sex

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5 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i have some questions about the sexual feelings of a female. 1. do girls or women maturbate? 2. if yes,why?only for fun or getting sexual satisfaction too? 3. do they feel excited seeing a naked well built guy? 4. do they want to touch or play with the male body ... (126 words)

Why is my half sister so bitchy?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age - I was shunted all over the place as a child as my mother abandoned me and left me with my father. As a result I experienced abuse by my step-mother and others (physical and emotional). I am now 45 and all my life my half sisters on my dad's side have been bitchy and jealo... (455 words)

How can I get erections without drugs?

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5 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - What can I do to help erections without viagra or cialis?... (11 words)

Do women find men drinking beer on a date unattractive?

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5 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'd like some advice from the ladies, please! Very simply - do women generally find it unattractive if a man's drinking beer on a date, or even at a social event? My female friends tell me this is the case, and that I should switch to wine and then only sip it in mod... (96 words)

RE: marriage--how do you know when enough is enough?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - If you know your marriage is no longer working is it possible to continue living together, pretending everything's ok and just doing your own thing to make you happy?? When do you know enough is enough and it's really not working? I've spent years working on a relationship t... (92 words)

Anonymous answers please about lots of ?? about penis!!

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5 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay I know this is another Penis size question and that people are probably sick of it,but for men it's a huge insecurity. Answer anonymously if you please. 1)Would you ever breakup over a lovers size? 2)What do you consider small? 3)What do you consider big? 4)Would y... (118 words)

A way to navigate this problem with dignity?

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts and uncles, I'm hoping you can help me with this dilemma. Let's just say I'm quite handy with the computer and media-related arts. More specifically, I'm very good with photoshop and image manipulation over the years, as it ended up being something I picked up due ... (482 words)

I like him a lot but I'm just not ready for a full blown relationship yet...

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5 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi,i wonder if anyone can help? I have been seeing a guy for 4 mths. We started out casual as i had recently split up from a long term relationship{10yrs}. He is 40 and told me he has never been in love. He has been married and thought he was in love but realised he wasn't and ... (220 words)