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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We're always fighting over the chores!

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a young mother of a3 month old baby and my boyfreind and I always fight now over everything but mostly chores. He runs away to his parents house for a couple days and leaves me here to take care of her. Than he says he wants to work things out and only comes home for a ... (199 words)

I cannot take my husband any more. I am trying, but it gets harder every day.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I cannot take my husband any more. I am trying, but it gets harder every day. He works between 50 and 60 hours a week, which I understand and respect. Although I have been unemployed for about 2 months, I have, throughout or 14 year marriage, worked both full time (40+ ... (359 words)

Bullied in college, what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - recently in college a girl has began bullying me, making comments about things i have posted on myspace and saying awful things about me i had talked to her a couple of times before and we seemed to get on quite well but now shes just attacking me every chance she gets for... (82 words)

Our first year anniversary and she went back to work! I'm so angry at this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, my girlfriend and I just had our first year anniversary, before that she was in Japan for three weeks and I had to make the plans for our first year which I did even though I had exams on. 2 days before our first year she got a call to come into work and she accepted! So on ... (88 words)

Sex and regrets

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, i am a roman catholic. I have been with my boyfriend for about 1 year, 2 and a half months. And today, yes, we had sex. (He is also roman catholic) And now im feeling guilty :/ and a bit .. confused. I always told my self i would wait and now .. iv just gone and done... (165 words)

Too old for sport!

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31 January 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Is being 35 years old too old for sport because I think I am too old for sport because I'm not as young as I used to be...... (28 words)

In love with my boyfriend and my best friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys...I don't really know what to do...yet sometimes it seems so obvious... I've had this boyfriend for almost 3 years (we'll call him Rob for this)...he himself broke up with me after a year and 5 months..then we got back together...i could deal with it...then a year lat... (379 words)

My partner is a kind hearted compulsive liar!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 8 years to a good hearted guy with a compulsive lying problem. He has lied about everything, his age, his interests, his credit card debt, his salary, his taking care of errands, his losing something, even to hiding a letter my sister wrote me because he ... (273 words)

How can I be as hot as a porn star?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) age 30-35 - How can I be as hot as a porn star? I'm really adventurous in bed, but how can I be really hot? Equally hot as a porn star? I'm not trying to make my bf stop watching (he's not addicted and he's offered to stop, but I don't want to control him). But I want to know what can ... (283 words)

My boyfriend's penis smells!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this is really embarrassing but I have a sex problem. I've been going out with my man for close to four years and the sex is good, when we do have it. I want to please him and stuff, I love to give oral sex and have been told I'm very very good at it, thing is, god this is ... (182 words)

I'm scared shitless in case I don't come up to her standards re sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Ok this is the problem I'm in, I've been with a girl for 1 year since I was 15. Well now I'm 16 and gonna join the army etc. Well my girlfriend wants to take our relationship up to he next level by having intercourse. I've done the minor stuff with her but might be stupid to ... (104 words)

What are some things we could try to bring the romance and spark back into our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 3 years. When we first got together I was absolutely smitten by this man. I had found text messages from another girl on one occasion and he had actually cheated on me on another occasion. After he had cheated on me that ... (176 words)

What would YOU have done???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was sitting in homeroom and this girl was talking to my homeroom teacher at his desk. Suddenly, she dropped her backpack, ran to the garbage can, and started throwing up. No joke! It was a very strange start to my day (and quite disgusting). When she was done, she tried to ... (111 words)

Explicit!! Guys: how much do you notice when a girl clenches her abs really hard during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I can never tell the difference when I do kegels during intercourse, but I notice a TREMENDOUS difference when I clench my abs as hard as I can. There is a huge increase in sensitivity and pleasure for me, the female. So, I spend 60%+ of my time with my abs clenched, taking a ... (171 words)

Please help, I'm so sick of being messed around by this guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Im trying to figure out something with this guy I've been sort of on and off with for a while, a good few years to be exact. I dunno if anyone can help me but I'm so confused. See, I've been hanging out with this guy, lets call him Jack, and we're just friends. But a couple... (374 words)

Dysfunctional Friendship/Romance

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I live with my best friend in the whole world, but in the past we were a bit more than friends. I regret it now, but we've slept together many times - but it never felt like just sex, it was always really... loving. I started to fall in love with him, and felt he was feeling ... (350 words)

Am I her shameful secret?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been seeing a girl for around four months. She works with me, but not closely. At work we always take breaks together and mostly have lunch together. We sort of started to see each other outside of work, we have slept together, and talk every day. We send lit... (233 words)

Is he ashamed to take me out and be seen with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi folks... look at me the bore sitting in on a Saturday night!!... Okay, so I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 3 months now. We dated loads before we said we were 'official.' And in any respect, we've done the whole relationship thing quite traditionally. I... (297 words)

We're very close and act like a couple but he has a girlfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, me and a guy are very close. But the thing is he has a g/f for about 2 years. We both know each other for about a year and a half. Me and him talk every day, and do everything as a couple. We are practially like a couple, but he has a g/f. When the topic of "us" and "what ... (84 words)

Too much bitch!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5750 days ago

31 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have a normal relationship. We get along and we get on each others' nerves from time-to-time. Usually - again just recently - my wife starts getting REALLY bitchy with me. Not PMS related - maybe stress? In any event, I try to be supportive for a time period, ... (111 words)

I am looking for hair extensions.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been trying to look for hair extensions in the UK but I can't find any. I live in London now I was wondering if anyone knows where I could get them from? I want clip on hair extensions and how much would they be? Many people have said for say 16 inches it would be ... (69 words)

I feel like sometimes I am more of a annoyance than a friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I were together for 5 years and split up for 3. We were best friends going into the relationship. Now it's definitely not the same. I've moved on and so has he. Which we both are totally comfortable with. He always says he wants to hang out and when I try he never ... (143 words)

I always end up giving my friend oral sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some help. For the past year there is this guy that I used to work with. When working together we would run off after work and fool around. Now that I don't work there any more we still talk and I'll go see him on his lunch hour and I always end up giving him ... (97 words)

I am very confused at the moment, I seem to lack any kind of emotion...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (M)

age - Hi, I am very confused at the moment, I seem to lack any kind of emotion, I have completely gone off sex (with my wife only) I feel a great urge to have sex in massage parlours, on sex chat lines and I seem to want to live out fantasies of the woman dominating me sexually, I ... (91 words)

I'm much better looking than she is, why did he dump me for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya I still have contact with my ex bf, we speak everyday and see eachother still, Anyway basically he tells me about all these girls hes been sleeping with and how this one girl he sleept with her 7 times in one nite, then again, the other nite twice, he says now she is t... (298 words)

Will I bleed the first time we have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time, but I am scared I'm going to bleed. He has fingered me 2 times, and I use my fingers when I masturbate too. I haven't seen any blood yet. Will I bleed the first time we have sex?... (50 words)

Infections in having anal sex???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I lost my anal virginity to my boyfriend of 7 months but what I didn't actually know [until today] was that you can't use the same condom/finger/whatever in the anus and vagina.. Is there a chance I could get some sort of infection??? and if so, what sort and how can you ... (67 words)

Irish catholic?????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy described himself once as "Irish catholic." obviously, this means he's Irish, but does it mean he's also of the catholic religion? Sorry, this is probably a stupid question.... (30 words)

I was planning on giving my boyfriend a saucy striptease of some kind as a little surprise for valentine's day.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiyaaa :) As we all know, valentines day is coming up and I was planning on giving my boyfriend a saucy striptease of some kind as a little surprise. I was hoping to get some tips and stuff - as I've never given a strip off the tease variety before. I've got the ... (107 words)

I feel so lost in life...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need advice as I feel I cannot see straight. I am in my mid-20' but I feel so lost in life. I live at home with my loving, but strict parents. I can't really invite ppl over bc my family is so dysfunctional. But I can't stay out late or anything like that, bc it invo... (317 words)

How should I prepare for my first, real high school kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had my first kiss a while ago, and it was barely anything. just a peck, so I have virtually no experience. How should I prepare for my first, real high school kiss (tongue, etc.)? I don't want to be bad at it, you know?... (45 words)

I am in a cycle of disappointment. How do I get out of this cycle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have never gotten what I wanted in terms of love. I've always jumped for the stars, but landed even harder for it. I continually go for the girl who is my dream, rather than reality. I am in a cycle of disappointment. How do I get out of this cycle?... (52 words)

How can I experience sex for the first time without thinking about the pain???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half and we're both really wanting to have sex but I'm always so scared to. I'll decide that I really want to try and then when it comes down to it I get so scared about the pain that I'm getting ready to experience and I ... (76 words)

Seeing Michael... need advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing Michael for two years. Things were good.. we had a huge fall out and were apart for a few months, because he had told me that he didn't want to be in a relationship, etc., we talked here and there... then he pursued me again and told me that he just didn't ... (113 words)

Should I assume its never going to happen, or should I wait a little longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've had an emontional relationship with a guy at work for nearly a year. We've never been too physical with each other because I was married and he had a gf. We've been good friends for almost tow years. But within the last year things have been more than friends should be. ... (209 words)

I am soooooo unhappy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hiyya everyone, I'm 11 and i am soooooo unhappy. At school there's this girl who thinks we're like best friends, and i just hate her i only have say 2 half close friends, i feel like i have no friends, like i don;'t WANT an of the girls in my class to be mt friend, i just h... (103 words)

Abusive husband and started divorce proceedings, is he making me jealous on purpose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - if you finally had enough of your abusive husband and started divorce proceedings to which he never answered back to the petition and then you saw him with another woman but still continued with the divorce and got your divorce and never had any further contact with him after ... (88 words)

I'm trying to get pregnant -- help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, My husband and I just started trying to get pregnant and a friend keeps telling me that it is going to take a long time as it took her about 9 months. Iwent online and printed my ovulation calendar and practiced before and during my ovulation period. I am due for ... (141 words)

What's the best way to get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, theres this guy I really really love and I know we wont work and it's best to get over him :( But whats the best way to do it ? Should I delete his number and msn and bebo ? Its far to hard to remain friends with him :( please help ! xxx... (56 words)

Every day we get a "run-down" of pregnant co-worker's condition!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i need some advice on how to deal with my colleague.She is 7 months pregnant and all she goes on about all day at work is her baby!!! Its her 1st and i know she is excited but honestly from the moment she gets in work at 9am until 4.45pm when she goes home all she doe... (271 words)

When should I tell him about my past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'd like your advice and i'd be grateful if any male could also give me advice and women :). i'm curently chattin with a guy hes 24 i'm 18. its been nearly a month and we have had lots of arguments mostly my fault and we always make up....but its because of this i think he is ... (552 words)

I'm scared when its time to have sex I'm going to get sick!

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - In a couple of months i'm due to get married to my faince, we've been together for a long time, haven't had sex justed kissed, (i prefered to get married and have sex so i stuck to my oath) and then he proposed to me so i said yes. But the problem is i haven't told him that i ... (284 words)

To shave? Or leave it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi...im a 14 year old girl and i have my first boyfriend now and we have been going out for a couple of months and i think he wants to have sex! i dont know what to do,do i shave off all my pubic hair?? please help...:)x ... (47 words)

My b/f didn't call me because he said he was emotionally drained

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Yesterday, my boyfriend and i made tentative plans to get together. His parents were in town so he was not sure if he would actually get a chance to see me but he told me he would call me when he knew for sure if he could. well, he ends up not calling me and i finally get in ... (203 words)

Why am I still single? I don't get it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why am I still single? I have loads of friends, accept every invitation going, meet men when I go out and do not sleep with them straight away, I dont go out looking for a relationship and the ones I have had I've given it a chance and they end up dumping me the last two tim... (133 words)

How can I collect my things and have closure with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all, thanks for reading. I've posted two messages before on here, I'm sure you can find them through my profile name if you want any background. I've decided to leave Uni and will be leaving to go home (overseas from where I am now) in 2 weeks. My recent exams wen... (428 words)

It feels like he just wants to do it and get it over with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year and we used to have a very active sex life, we used to have sex practically everyday sometimes more than once a day. but in the past month we have hardly had sex at all, i think it's been about 5 or 6 times in the last ... (153 words)

She's winning people over..especially him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right ok this may sound confusing but really it is quite simple. Basically this last that aprently used to like me n i liked him, we had some awkwardnes last eyar between us. But we sorted it all out n we've been like the best of friends for these past 2- 3 months. Honestly ... (836 words)

Should I go for it? Or just stay friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There’s this boy he’s 18 and I am, we met a long time back, and we really got on. Gradually we became friends, and he took me out to restaurants, and movies etc…. We had a great time, and I always did with him for some reason. Then a feeling grew inside me and it was I liked ... (637 words)

Did I just experience an orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need your help girls. I need to know if this was an orgasm or not... when my bf would finger me on my clitoris I would start getting short breaths and making noises and breathing heavily and very very fast and I would grasp him very very tight... it actually feels good, a ... (112 words)

Lonely because I'm insecure and don't trust men.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a 39 year old single woman and have been treated badly by men all my life either been lied to or cheated on but now I'm so insecure and can't trust anyone that I drive men away, I just met this lovely guy but within 3 days I managed to lose him by accusing him of lying and ... (97 words)

I want to continue this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my sister were drunk and horny and had consensual sex. How do I tell her I want to continue having sex with her?... (25 words)

Should I go out with him on Valentine's day? Any advice about us?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - You've probably heard this a thousand times. But I'm going to spill it anyway. I'm 13 and the guy I am in love with is 17. He told me he feels the same way too. But I'm not sure if I should continue this... It's gonna be a heck of a long story but I would appreciate it if you r... (917 words)

What do you think about this dare? I am upset!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy in my school who i really really like. Lets call him Mark*. He's really friendly, nice and has a very warm personality. I think he likes me too because he hugs me for no reasons, compliments me, always stares at me and one time he gave me a really long hug when ... (125 words)

Typical dating timeline?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been talking with a guy for a few weeks now. Having never been in a real relationship before I am unaware of the “typical dating timeline.” So far we have made out and done a bit clothes-on fondling, but nothing else. I really want him to take me seriously, but I also ... (125 words)

I offered to have sex with my gay friend to "turn him straight"! What now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going to be 16 soon. I've known this gay friend for years now and we're really good friends. I tell him everything and vice versa. A while ago, he was really depressed because the guy he likes for a long time finally decided to tell him the truth that he isn't into guys. My ... (463 words)

Why would my bf lie about being in a relationship with a girl for 3 years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

- Why would my bf lie about being in a relationship with a girl for 3 years? We were discussing past relationships and he said he had been in a relationship with this girl for 3 years. He told me her full name. And a few months after we talked about this, I got curious and had a ... (146 words)

Hockey game w/co-worker--husband says its a date!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am going to hockey game with a male co- worker. He knows that I am married and we are just friends. My husband is really bothered by it because he said that men and women can not be just friends.My husband said that I am going on a date and that this guy just wants to get ... (103 words)

Crush for 3 years is free! Should I go for it?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've had a crush on this guy for three years. They say he likes me too. It turns out he broke up with his girlfriend. Should I give it a shot or should I wait until he makes the move? ... (40 words)

He has no time for a girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ugh ok... My boyfriend is a great guy and all but he never visits me! He just DOESN'T have the TIME he says. He was in Japan for a while and he came back for a few days. I didn't even know! I had to find out that he had been home by his best friend! He didn't even visit me let ... (170 words)

Should I stay with husband? Or go to lover?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I had an affair for about 7 months, both my lover and I told our spouses.Both of our spouses want to try and work on our marriages.My lover said he told his wife he would give the marriage another chance. So we were stopped visiting and only spoke to each other for work... (346 words)

I love him but I didn't want to have sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im a 22yrs old and i lost my virginity last month to my bf of 11 months. i was saving my self for marriage b\c its part of my religion. my bf pressured me into doing it but i started to cry during it and he stopped. the next day he tried again and i didn't cry so he finished to ... (108 words)

I rushed into marriage and now another guy is looking good

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and i've been married for two years my husband is 24 we've been very happy for the past years but lately he's been treating me like he doesn't love me. i've talked to him about it and he says that he'll try to change but it only lasts about a day and then he's back to ... (416 words)

Why is my brother taking it out on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

31 January 2009 (?) age 26-29 - My brother (he's 19 and I'm 15) has been acting a like a huge jerk lately. He wont talk to me or seen me in weeks. It all started when I told him that I didn't like his very (very) annoying and rude girlfriend because she gave my sister (shes 24) the finger and some lip on her ... (154 words)

Break the clingy habit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I stop being whiny and clingy? My boyfriend and I used to be like best friends. We had the same friends and did everything together. One of our male friends and I used to be really close. We would hug and and hang out all day, it was never going to go anywhere past ... (241 words)

The age difference is freaking me out! How do I forget him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There's been this guy that I had been asking questions about lately. He and I have known each other for about five years; have become really close friends for 2 1/2 to 3 years and have started really flirting back and forth since last summer. He was a former college prof of ... (283 words)

She said sounds good, but maybe anothe time..is she into me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

31 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I asked this girl out twice, once about 3 months ago and another time about a month and a half ago, both times she said it sounds good but maybe another time cos she had stuff to do on those days, so i stopped asking her. Now after a month and a half she texted me asking me ... (101 words)

Did she just make it up that she has a boyfriend? Does she want me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5750 days ago

31 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing a woman that I work with, from Nicaragua, she has 2 children from different men who both abandoned her while pregnant. It took me 3 months for her to agree to see me outside of work, 2 months as friends, and 3 months ago is what felt like our 1st official ... (1302 words)

Had drunk sex with a friend is there still a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok this is a really confusing and complex situation and I need some guys point of view on this but ladies feel free to help ;) I've been friends with this great guy for about a year now and we went to college together. We're both pretty much finished with school but we bo... (1141 words)

I think of my ex and my heart aches for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

31 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with a man for five years now and love him very dearly. I have been with him since my junior year in high school. Before him I was with a man for five years off and on. Well recently I have found myself thinking about my ex and my heart almost aching for him and I ... (101 words)

I looked at porn and feel guilty but haven't told her I did it

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31 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. i have a problem. I'm 17 and in a relationship. When i was 16 (about 5 months into the relationship) my girlfriend went away on vacation for 2 weeks. Idk if it was hormones or what, but i looked at porn. I did this twice and felt like the scum of the earth for it. I know ... (261 words)

In love...could this be my soulmate?

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am very in love and in a wonderful relationship. Actually, the reason I am in love and in such a great relationship is because of some advice I received on this very site a few months back! So here I am again! I have been dating this guy for about two months. By t... (188 words)

Once I get the girl, I don't want the girl!

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31 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I get so excited to meet a girl. to know the girl. to "get" with the girl. everything is great. but than when the day actually comes where we do more than kiss. its like im done with her.. i dont know why. i suddenly get unattracted and lose the feeling. can anyone help me out ... (57 words)

She doesn' t like older guys, if I express my feelings I think she'll cut me off

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31 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 40 year old single male. I live in a duplex. My neighbor is a 21 year old very attractive female. She is sassy, fun, and spontaneous. She doesnt have a washer and dryer, so this is how we started to get acquainted. We have a good friendship. I cook for her do errands w... (215 words)

I have a girlfriend, but I'm tempted to experiment with guys. What should I do?

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31 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 20 year old male with a crossdressing fetish. I have been interested in crossdressing since childhood, and as i hit puberty, it became much more of a sexual thing. I don't get to enjoy this fetish of mine very often however, due to the fact that I have to keep it hidden ... (318 words)

She's inexperienced. How can I teach her?

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31 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so my lover and i are very much in love we make out every time we see each other we have not had sex yet but we are joanzing to! i do alot of things to her like foreplay and oral but she is new at this and doesnt know how to do anything and i dont know how to teach her so i ... (76 words)

I've been seeing my daughter's father's boyfriend for awhile now, and my daughter doesn't approve. What should I do?

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My daughter is 17 years old, her boyfriend is 18 and they have been seeing each other for over a year. I met her boyfriend father 3 months after they met, we went out and one thing lead to another. We tried talking both our children and they forbid that we see one another. We ... (133 words)

Why do you think my husband has a preference for looking at girls with small or no boobs?

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I read on here alot about husbands looking at porn girls with BIG boobs coz their wives have small boobs. Mine is opposite I am medium but all my hub looks at is girls wth no boobs or flat chested..why??? Doesnt he like boobs??? I cant understand it at all...any ideas?... (75 words)

I still give her attention even though she turned me down, but this does not bother her. Why?

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31 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend who is a girl refused to be my girlfriend but we are still friends. But holding her hands does it still signify that i love her because i dont want her to think so. And Although she got a new boyfriend, i still tell her that i love her and want her to be my ... (71 words)

We're always at each other's throats. How do we stop?

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31 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, i have been going out with this girl for a year and four months now and i can say that we're always at each other's throats. All we ever do is fight. It's really starting to get to me. As well as her. I want to know, how can we stop fighting. Stop all the disagreements ... (118 words)

We flirted a LOT, and now he's ignoring me! Is he scared or simply not interested?

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There’s this guy I’ve known for five years; we’ve been good friends for about 2 1/2 to 3 years and we’ve been flirting a lot since over the summer. The last time we saw each other I was home for Christmas and we really flirted; one time he was leaning forward on the table, ... (255 words)

How can I stop myself from going too far with my fantasies of men I work with?

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 39, happily married to a wonderful man who is a couple of years younger than me. I love him very much and we have a young daughter together. For the last 4 years I've found myself highly attracted to older men - at work, at school... anywhere that I work closely wit... (255 words)

Any first kiss advice?

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend of 9 months are about to have our first kiss, do you have any advice, because i'm really worried?... (23 words)

Do guys know if you're a virgin when you have sex for the first time?

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When you have sex for the first time, is there a different feeling for guys like do they feel you a virgin or the feeling is the same to when you are not one? Like how people say I'm tight and you loose? Is that really true?... (48 words)

Is it completely wrong to think a second-cousin is physically attractive?

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all, I'm definitely not going to pursue a damn thing when it comes to this because there are just so many factors against it. I also personally think it would be wrong to actually pursue it. But I do have a question: Is it completely wrong to think a second-cousin is ... (55 words)

I don't want to be the "other girl" in his life...

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone. I am in love with a guy older than me(10 years). I am about to turn 18 in March. Something really weird happened yesterday and I hope y'all would be able to help me out a bit here. Since our families are close together,he called up my mom generally to ask... (317 words)

My husband won't speak to me and does all he can to completely ignore and avoid me.

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband won't speak to me and does all he can to completely ignore and avoid me. He does come home from work every night but goes directly into the garage. Tonight he was carrying a bag, he placed it on the steps, picked it up, took it to the bathroom with him and then took ... (573 words)

I want to help my ex but I'm not sure how?

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was dating my boyfriend for a year before we broke up last week. We have broken up a few times. He has gone through a lot of tough stuff in his life, and he often gets depressed about it and pushes me away when I try to help. I don't know how to get through to him, I told him ... (99 words)

Without A Word

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Okay, my boyfriend felt disappointed and decided to leave for good because I said that I was moving away. I stayed a while before I decided to move away because I thought he would come back and talk to me. I came to find out that he had a new girlfriend, and he left me ... (65 words)

My ex is playing mindgames with me!

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, well me and my boyfriend have ended our 14 month relationship at the end of November last year. He emotionally ended with me while I was the one who actually said "I think we shouldnt be together any more" and he said "well if it makes you feel any better, the feeling was ... (403 words)

Help me to stop hating my dad

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - It's gotten to the point that sometimes I wish he'd get terminally ill and just die. If he did, I'd finally feel free. I am so sick of him putting me down all the time, saying I am pathetic, worthless, he even said that he'd never want a daughter like me again in anothe... (239 words)

I cream my pants randomly!

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I cream my pants randomly for no reason and often. The thing is I'm getting sick of it having to wear long shirts and I'm terribly worried and too embarrassed to ask my mom. So is it normal?... (40 words)

Advise me please. Should I just get over him?

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked this question before in the past about this guy that i've liked but here's a little detail i forgot to add in, okay well just in case some of you don't know my situation, there's this guy who i liked since last year May and before i liked him, he would stare at me all ... (201 words)

My crush on my friend's boyfriend.

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like my friends boyfriend but I liked him before her and she hurt me by going out with him and me and him flirt a lot and she wants me to stop but I don't know when I'm doing it, I'm just being myself. What should I do? She really hurt me and she wants me to just drop all ... (92 words)

What do I do? I badly need advice.

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known a kurdish man for 6 months, I love him very much, he said for me to live in diyarbakir but I want him to come to England. Please help me, what should I do? I have 4 children in England. I'm 23 he's 24 no children, his family are very nice helpppppppppppp I have ... (75 words)

Best friend & I like the same boy!

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my best friend like the same boy. but she is not the type of girl that boys like cuz she is a bit fat and tall. but im good look and he seems like he likes me but i dont want to hurt my best frends feelings by flirting wit him or goin out wit him. wat do i do to solve ... (108 words)

Are my breasts normal? Ladies please advise

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi.. I dont even know if this question is really suitable for this sort of website, but I'm pretty scared, so I need to ask somebody. Im 13 years old, and I have just found a movable lump under my nipple which is quite hard and i think I can move it about, it under both nip... (93 words)

I want him to come home after work!

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am egaged to my son father he is 26 and i am to . we broke up he had nother child with some one else . he always goes out after work with his friend that is 21 and never come straight home. im not sayin he cant hang out with his male friends but i want him to come home after ... (81 words)

My BF's "friend" is too friendly!!

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My BF of one year was seeing other people when we first met. I knew he was sleeping with one friend of his and well as with me, but we weren't together back then and our relationship wasn't serious so I didn't worry about it, just used condoms. A few months after we became B... (340 words)

Can and will my life get better???

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't even know where to begin. 1 - my parents turned against their own daughter. 2 - I was diagnosed with anorexia. 3 - I don't even know how to explain what I'm going through. I just wanna know if things can get better. My life is bad, really really bad. Can it g... (70 words)

Masturbation...

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was reading about masturbation recently and I just wondered how to do it properly because some times I don't reach orgasm. I don't really want a toy yet so I just use my fingers to stimulate my clitoris, but I don't really know how to do it properly. Can you help? ... (54 words)

He's not so quick to say I love you like the others...

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31 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. Usually when I go out with a boy they tend to say "I love you" after like 2 weeks of going out and I usually answer I love you back always thinking that I am in love. Well, with this new bf I wanted to take things ... (205 words)