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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm worried we'll look weird if I grow taller than my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a new boyfriend, we are currently the same height but im 16 and still growing and he is 18, im worried we will look strange if i get any taller, help?! ... (33 words)

My wife has big problems! Can you change someone's behaviour and personality?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

3 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Can you change someones behaviour and personality? My wife of six years is changing, all aspects of her behaviour and personality are different to when i first met her. To give you some background I knew her for about 4 years before we were married and we met at university... (746 words)

He kissed my Mom--should I ever trust him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all,this my first time here and i hope that you help me with my problem,i found this site using google cuz i really don't now what to do? my problem is that i recntly cut down my boyfriend because he did something very terrible. see,my parents are divorced and im liv... (458 words)

I'm angry...she is being over friendly to this other guy! What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

3 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. I've just had an argument with my ladyfriend over this guy in the office. Both she and I have worked at the same company for about 3 years . We started dating about a year ago - but kept the matter secret. I used to have an office right next to where she works in the open ... (254 words)

Questions about pubic hair....

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

3 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How do women prefer their man's pubic hair?Completely shaved/Trimmed/Etc? Also why do men like a woman's pubic hair completely shaved? I haven't seen a Vagina or a girl naked in person,but I know I'd prefer for her to have some form of hair other wise she would look extre... (81 words)

I'm 13, he's 19--does he just want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well theres a boy i knoww that i chat to often he really likes me but theres one problem im 13 and hes 19 my mates say that he just wants one thing but hes not like that hes very sweet and looks out for me im not sure if i wanna be with him though but i cant find a way to te... (118 words)

Is a girl not a virgin if the tip of the penis is in her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - if a boy sticks the tip of his penis inside a girls vagina does that mean she lost her virginity?... (20 words)

Why are they so obsessed with size?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why are guys so obsessed with the size of their penis, despite what women say in response (i.e. size doesn't matter - it's what you do with it that counts)?... (30 words)

When is the right time to have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey.. just a random question. When is it the right time to have sex? people say its when you feel ready But is it okay to do it when you feel ready after just a day or so?? or wrong to do it when your not with someone?? i personally think people should wait until they have a ... (81 words)

How do I get him to realize I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i recently found out one of my best friends was dating a boy that i liked however he ended it and is now with his ex again i really like him and he said he liked me back but im to shy to ask him out what would be the best way to get him to realize how mich i like him ??... (63 words)

My husband calls me a fat cow bitch

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age - I live with a husband that drinks lives in the bar does not work much does drugs has got me to do what he does and i hate every minute of it. here recently i stopped being a part of what he does and life has been hell, i was told to never divorce and to take the bad with the ... (152 words)

Why do I suck?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Why do I suck? I can't seem to find anything positive about me. A microdick, no gf, no sex or love in my life, and OAB. Please help me rebuilt my confidence.... (32 words)

Just walk away, right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I was dumped by my girlfriend last year which really took me by suprize and upset me quite a lot. The thing that really hurt was that she dumped me by text and then cut off all communication for months. I have dated quite a lot since then but not found anyone i really like ... (275 words)

My g/f said "you're tiny!"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend had recently progressed our relationship to taking off our clothes.But when I was gaping at her,she laughed at me. She said "Your tiny".I'm a virgin but she isn't. I measured myself and I am a little over 4.5 Inches. I have been extremely insecure eve... (137 words)

Small and no hair

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I am 13 and have a small penis and no hair down there what should I do to help me out... (22 words)

My ex and I are very much platonic friends, how much would be too much re me calling him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey guys, if you and your ex still hang out from time to time and you call each other whenever you feel like it... How much would you consider too much calling from the girl? Sometimes I miss him and want to hang out. I don't ask very often and a lot of times he says no but t... (166 words)

Met up with my ex but he looks soooo different now and I find it hard to handle.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I had been with my boyfriend for six years and had a great relationship. Then my family suffered multiple devastating losses, the family members we lost were the glue of our family and everyone left behind seemed to be fumbling around in the dark as no one knew their place any ... (547 words)

When he blows up, it's so much hard work to get him to lighten up and accept that a lot of the problems are the ones he's causing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is so gorgeous to look at, absolutely stunning, so I was gobsmacked when we got together. After a few months together I have realised that he is always always right. We fall out over the most ridiculous things and until I apologise he doesn't want to know, even ... (148 words)

I have concerns whether he is now trying to control me, what I do, and who I see.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. In getting to know each other we became good friends. When he gets upset he tends to tell me the only thing I know better than him is my job and religion. He knows everything and what I say has no value. When he is uptight ... (377 words)

I keep getting teased because I suffer from OAB (Over Active Bladder).

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I suffer from OAB (Over Active Bladder) and have done all my life - a urinal disorder which stimulates my bladder and causes the urge for release almost all the time. This, not only prevents me from having a decent life and a substantial amount of friends - but always stubs my ... (230 words)

Now I just feel used and like he never intended to get with me. I feel so hurt.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been friends with this guy for a few months and have liked him since I first met him. He said he liked me too but he has depression so I didn't want to rush into things and hurt him. A week ago we kissed and texted each other a lot over christmas. Last night we slept ... (137 words)

Could lovesickness and obsession eventually lead to mental health disorders...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Could lovesickness and obsession eventually lead to mental health disorders such as multiple personality disorder, axiety, or depression? I'm very concerned about this - so please provide me with an answer ASAP. I'm finding it very difficult to move on and forget about Matthew ... (77 words)

My boyfriend keeps spelling my name wrong and it's so embarrassing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone...! I have a problem, it might seem slightly small and silly, but in the long-term it could turn out to be a bigger problem lol I'm 16 and have been going out with my boyfriend for just over 2 months. The problem is that he used to just call me by a short-hand ... (358 words)

Am I really starting to fall in love with my brother?

This question has 117 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

3 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My older brother and I have been sexually active with each other for some years now. I know this started as him abusing me but I no longer see it that way and I think I might be falling in love with him. He is 4 years older then me and started uni 2 years ago and I miss him so ... (110 words)

Am I in denial? Is he really gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with this guy on and off for 9 months, the last I seen him was around the middle part October, the guy is strange to make a long story short which there is so much talk about. Today is my birthday. He called me to wish me a happy birthday, I didn't get the call ... (591 words)

How can I get him to lighten up and feel more comfortable during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Been going out with my boyfriend for the last couple of months and we started sleeping together just before Christmas. Everything has been going fine but I'm finding my boyfriend is a bit reserved sexually. He doesn't want to try new things. It's not as if I'm asking him to ... (81 words)

I feel so miserable all the time because I haven't been with anyone for going on 3 years now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please can someone point me in the right direction, I feel so miserable all the time because I haven't been with anyone for going on 3 years now. I'm on several social networking sites and people are always leaving comments about how I look but I'm thinking they must just be ... (97 words)

How can I show her I can be faithful and loving?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 17 and I recently had questions about phone sex. As you know, my girlfriend had given me a chance after having phone sex with another girl. I've stopped doing it and looked up stuff to just make sure if I don't know any other reasons I did it but me and her are talking ... (137 words)

I think I might be gay... in love with a straight man! Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

3 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! First of all before I even begin I would like to thank you for reading this and for any responses as well. I'll start at the beginning I'm a 24 year old guy, whose life has recently been turned upside down! All my life I've thought I was straight but at the back ... (1052 words)

How can I knock that smirk of the cheeky mare's face so that he at least thinks I have moved on.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

3 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I split up with my ex over 2 years ago, and I still have major feelings for him but would never go back as he has done too much. We were together for years and had some fantastic times and many laughs. When he sees me out he is all over me and I have to stop myself from ... (138 words)

I fancy my dermatologist... is she too old for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

3 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay this is an add on to a earlier question I have asked! Once again I am an almost 18 year old virgin who hasn't kissed a girl. My Dermatologist who is also my regular doctor is quite beautiful. I know she is divorced and she has children. She is around 40 years old. On... (155 words)

My world is over because of him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been in love with a girl for a long time and yesturday I saw her kissing another boy who I really hate and there has been rumours that they have been dating but I haven't believed them as the kiss was only for a recent play but now I just want to hide away and cry because ... (114 words)

Am I making a big deal out of nothing? Or am I right in having doubts about what he said?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all, When I first started a relationship with my boyfriend, he told me that he had dated before. Like any other couple starting out, we tried to be honest about what happened in the past. Of course, being younger then, we didn't really do much, so there's not much... (913 words)

I'm a 32A and could never give a titwank... what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriends sometimes jokes around about titwanks to his friends - Im only a 32A and theres no way I can give a sexy titwank. I feel sad that I cant do this.... (34 words)

Why is he choosing drinking over me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently brokeup with my ex husband because of his drinking and now he doesn't answer my text or calls when I try to contact him. We were married, divorced, and then got back together. Finally, I choose to end it again because he ultimately chose drinking over me. I am very ... (75 words)

Will my girlfriend forgive me for accidentally standing up her parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend got really pissed off at me because I stood up her at her parents (I suppose met them) and I made her look stupid (that what she says). For some reason I thought it was next week. Shes also mad because she call me like 20 times that day and I didn't pick up. ... (139 words)

UK 1st cousin love...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - what are the uk laws with being with your 1st cousins... (11 words)

How can we control our obsessed neice so she doesn't get her feelings hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my niece is 15 she told my dad she was obsessed with a girl that she was friends with for a long time.. so she wants to be with her that bad.. she lives with her mom.. so how do we control her with out getting her feelings hurt by this person? ... (58 words)

She dumped me to get back together with her controlling ex...will she come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hey all...need some advice. about a year ago i started dating this girl and things began wonderfully. she had just come out of a 7 year on/off relationship with a guy that was controlling, jealous and had cheated on her in the past...really had messed with her trust issues. i ... (651 words)

What is fingering?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey.... what is fingering?... (4 words)

Why is he still talking to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my ex boyfriend for 6 months on and off. He had commitment issues and couldnt handle our relationship and ended up breaking up with me. He insisted that we still be friends as he didnmt wat to lose me. We've hung out once since our break up and he started acting like ... (237 words)

My ex cheated on me all the time and now I can't trust my new girl.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically since my ex-girlfriend cheated on me repeatedly its hard for me to trust my girlfriend Im with now. My girlfriend now of five months is having an old friend of hers who she had sex with before come up to our job to see her. This is really bothering me, for one she ... (114 words)

My half family makes my life very hard!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My half families never like me since I was a baby. I am the black sheep of my entire family. Whenever we are together I have to put up very unkind humiliations and verbal abuses etc. No one in my family has ever given me supports of any kind. When things go wrong with me they ... (323 words)

Why can't I meet a funny, supportive man that wants me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 35 and single. I have no children and am scared I wont ever have them. I dont want to go it alone and I dont feel desperate I just feel like my clock is ticking was too fast now. I rarely fancy anyone and most men in my area are taken. I have given up online datin... (115 words)

I'm in love with him but if I wait around for him he might decide it's not me he wants.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, this is quite confusing, right. I have been pacing around the house all day driving myself mad, going over and over this situation in my head a million times, I swear i'm driving myself crazy analysing every last detail, so I finally stopped, sat down with a glass of... (216 words)

How to tell her I'm not in the mood without pissing her off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I used to rarely be sexual because she would be so stresed / depressed that it would take that drive away from her. Now that shes less stressed she is probably more in the mood, but I have talked to her about when shes not been stressed how it is unfair for me ... (201 words)

I still want to focus on college, but should I give him a chance?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - its a long story. This guy started liking me during our freshmen year in high school, and back then, I wasn't interested in a relationship, I wanted to focus on finishing high school and my studies. During the first few months of this, he started dropping off love notes in my... (508 words)

How can I make my penis get bigger and longer without pills?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i am about 6in right now. how do i make my penis bigger and longer without taking pills? ... (18 words)

Why is my ex playing these games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - right so, me and my boyfriend of like a year broke up about 5 weeks ago. it was my decision because he always promised he would change but he never did! he was perfect to begin with, always made me happy but then gradually after about 8 months he just changed suddenly one ... (252 words)

Am I being stupid for feeling angry about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im really fuming here and i need someones opinion and advice. Here goes... My manager is on maternity leave and we have another temporary manger in to cover. She is ok-we all just put our head down and get on. Now on 1 day in december i was working half a day as i was meeting... (243 words)

Am I normal? Is any other guy experiencing the same thing as me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so im a virgin, and when im watching porn (not masturbating) my penis gets hard. And after a while when im not watching anymore, i found in my underwear a liquid... it's not precum, it's just liquid and it does not smell or anything... i can say maybe a little bit sticky.. ... (83 words)

What should I do about my colleague and managers sketchy relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello guys. Our new manager at work has got very close to one of my colleagues - by close i mean they go to lunch together, saturdays they go to town and clubbing etc.. I know theres no law about a manager and a colleague being friends out of work but i always get the fee... (178 words)

I have a problem with telling lies to my boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i are in kind of a hard palace right now. I have a problem with telling lies to him because i have lied so much in my life they sometimes just slip out and then they come back to bite me in the butt. Right now we are inbetween things right now we aren't just ... (135 words)

How do I get my bloke to dress smarter because when we go out he embarasses me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Afternoon All! Im hoping to get some advice. I've been seeing this guy for a few months-we met at a theatre group and got on really well.He's 19 im 21. The problem i have is with his dress sense. For work he wears nice suits but when we go out he is always in combat trouser... (216 words)

Should I call him back and see if everything is okay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am not looking for serious relationship. however i am getting used to hang around this guy and i think we click. friends adviced to me is not to get to know him any further because he will end up hurting me. i not sure whether i had put in real feelings not. he told me he wi... (89 words)

Husband has new male friend - what are his intentions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Husband has new male friend - what's his intentions? My husband of five years has a male friend (he is married also) that he met at his new job. We recently moved to a new area and he says he is his only friend. They talk at least once a day, calling each other on their c... (424 words)

Is he doing this out of pity?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy 2 years back in a radio delivery. He left a week later, but I contacted him a month later to see if he recalled me. He did and we began keeping in contact since. We became "friends", I say it like that b/c I notice he never added me as a friend in face book or ... (202 words)

I'm going back to my ex, but my Mom disapproves...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 19 turning 20 and i was with my bf for a year and a half before we decided to call it quits. Our relationship was a little complicated. We met at college and didnt live too far from eachother while being at home. My bf always respected my parents but my mom just didnt like ... (334 words)

Does he like me? He's passing by my class to see me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I really want to know whether this guy likes me. Well this guy began to flirt with me. Staring, smiling. Coming close. Always a smile on his face whenever he would see me. I could notice all these things from my side vision. He would pass by my class with a smile to... (464 words)

Do men experience a sore penis after or during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3701 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Do guys experience a sore penis after a couple of sexual exercises as well? I've had that a couple of times before and my bf's thing would be fine but this time he told me his penis was sore when we had to continue sex! I was also feeling some pain, not extremly and surely not ... (106 words)

Love at first sight - do you believe?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - do you guys believe in love at first sight? ... (9 words)

How can I confront my step brother about me and him needing to stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) age 30-35 - im am nerly 16 and ma step brother is 17 but when i was 10 he did sexual things to me and i thought i was ok...it stoped when i went to live with my mum which was wen i was 12 but now i know it was wrong but im with my dad alot and everytime im there alone with him he does ... (200 words)

What do I do? Does this seem logical? Is he just pulling my leg?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and his mother just passed away in august very suddenly and her death has taken its toll on him. We're both only 20 years old but we care for each other very deeply and are like two puzzle pieces that kinda just mesh. Yesterday he ... (146 words)

How do I get more comfortable with making noise during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are settling down to having regular sex. It's getting more and more pleasurable and I now feel the need to call out/cry out a bit with the sensations. I'm very shy and self conscious though when it's so quiet at night. My boyfriend says its my ... (81 words)

She's insecure because of her abusive ex, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - This is a two part question so might be a bit confessing. My girlfriend (of 2 years) had a very abusive ex-boyfriend (he physically and emotionally abused her) and she's afraid I hit her as well. I honestly wouldn't because it isn't right. I think shes insecure about h... (99 words)

How can I be more confident instead of getting quiet on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, theres this boy i really really really really really really really really like. and he likes me too. when i usually hang about with my group of people i'm not shy or too loud and i have loads of fun with them but then the boy i like comes over and i go all quiet. how can i ... (70 words)

Half of me wants him back and half of me wants to just stay friends, what's wrong with me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Yesterday down are local my friend said to my ex bf that why dont we get bk together, he replyed saying we get on better as friends but half of me wants him bk and the other wants a friendship, he nows how i feel about him, but then he replyed with that, and i felt really low, ... (107 words)

I don't want to have sex now because it hurts!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is slightly embarasing to ask but i really dont know whats wrong with me... me and my bf have been having sex quite regularly and it never used to hurt, but the past two times it was extremely painful, not because i was tensed up or i wasnt wet enough, nor does it hurt whe... (119 words)

He's upset because I took the morning after pill!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I took some emergency contraception pills yesterday after unprotected sex with my boyfriend. I told him that i need to take them and he sounded like he understood. Last night when i was talking to him again, he mentioned that he didn't really like what i did... Because he feels ... (142 words)

Spot pregnancy in 3rd day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear readers! Is it possible to spot pregnancy in the first to third day? Yesterday i was close to being unfortunate as most doctors i could go to were still closed, the clinic was opened, so i went there. And was given two emergency birth control pills to take then and two to ... (138 words)

I want him back but won't be his game

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Exboyfriend came back from vacation and wanted to talk. I met him and conversation was light and I asked for my apartment key back he would not give. He asked if I worked Saturday and I said yes he said you get your key then. He went to kiss me goodbye as always but I have him ... (120 words)

His parents don't like me because of my race

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so basically im seeing this guy and weve been together for a long time now so i really like him alot and the only problem is that his parents dont want him dating outside of his race ( which is white) how do i deal with the fact that they will never accept me as someone who t... (135 words)

Should I tell him how much I miss him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I got back from staying with a friend who I really like, when we're together we act like we're a couple, hug, kiss and hold hands. Although we aren't together at the moment as I'm scared to ask him as we currently live nearly 3 hours away by car and we don't see each ... (275 words)

Worried I won't be able to perform!

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3 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i've never masturbated because i can't climax. i just get bored (and sore). When i was about 8-9, i had an operation where they cut the foreskin away from the head (because i was unable to pull it back). i think this may have something to do with it because i've heard that a ... (134 words)

Although I enjoyed his interest I'm not sure I want to meet him, as I am committed, so what should I answer him?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear aunts and uncles I'm with my boyfriend for 4 years. We had some problems the last few month, but know, we want to stay together and may go further. At the beginning of our problems in October, I went to a advanced training course, where I met a lot of nice people (never m... (440 words)

I can't find that special person and won't waste a kiss on someone else, am I normal?

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3 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been told I'm romantic and an amazing catch,but no girls ever take interest in me. I'm 5'8 and weight around 160 pounds.I'm not interested in random hookups to which I've been called gay because of it. I want my first kiss as well as everything else such as virginit... (312 words)

He is asking me for no strings sex, what should I answer him?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy is with me since 2 years ago. We have kissed and caressed each other. He is asking me for sex, but without love and emotions. On New year eve he called me up and again asked me for sexual relations. I said him that i love him, and i also want a loving man and respect. ... (115 words)

Does watching lesbian porn means I'm lesbian? I've never been attracted to girls!

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear ppl, Lately I've been thinking about my sexual orientation. I used to watch porn and I stopped because I hated it and I felt disgusted every time I do it. I watched lesbian porn and I felt sth during watching it but I HATED it afterwards and I stopped watching that an... (185 words)

Do men like virgins?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Do men like virgins?... (4 words)

I'd do anything to find a girlfriend, what should I do?

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3 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi here is my question I'll do anything to get a girlfriend, iv run 18 miles with flowers to see them, for them to turn me down and not even talk to me. I take 3 hours on a train just to see them, i take them for nice walks, i hold there hand, i walk on the out side of the p... (89 words)

My "boyfriend" is still seeing someone else, how can I approach the subject of my pregnancy without him freaking out again?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I know this question has been asked a couple of times b4 but thought I Would put it in my own way. I Found Out I was 11 weeks Pregnant with My Second Child last week. Its Kind Of a difficult situation as my "boyfriend" Is still with someone else. His plannin on leavi... (260 words)

I am pregnant and my partner masturbates to teen porn, what do you think?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am pregnant and my husband has been telling me to go have sleeps coz I am so tired (which I thought was sweet) but Ive just found out he has been jacking off to teenage porn on line and just trying to get rid of me! I feel so disgusting its happening in the next room! He say... (73 words)

My b/f now wants to be FWB

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend of 1 and half years, told me that he wanted to be just friends with benefits, i agreed as i still love him, and it was a way for me still to see him. i cannot bare the thought of not seeing him, and i am hoping that he realizes somewhere that he wants to be with me ... (96 words)

He wants me to change my PROFESSIONAL name after marriage and I don't want to

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I have been in a relationship my boyfriend for 2 years and have run into some problems. We have discussed our future many times, trying to sort things to make our relationship work into a marriage, but I have some issues with what he wants. I'll be the first to... (638 words)

I"m afraid to trust men and I keep sabotaging budding relationships

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3 January 2009 (F)

age - I'm a 56 year old woman, divorced with 3 grown up children. I've been single for 15 years, having been married for nearly 20. I'm slim, attractive and look much younger than my years. I look after myself, dress fashionably, go to the gym regularly, and am lucky enough to ... (582 words)

After betrayal is there a light at the end of the tunnel?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband has recently started going off the rails after 6 months of marriage and a two year old son. he says he feels trapped and has a lack of freedom, i have never stopped him from doing anything if anything he has had a free reign! i found two text messages on new years ... (171 words)

Is he just messing with me or still cares in a weird way?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey i recently got dumped by the love of my life he was my everything he made me feel like i was his everything he told me i was the one and stuff .. throughout our year and a half relationship i felt really close and trusted him with my life .. he knew that .... over course ... (402 words)

How do you know when its over?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - how do you know when your relationship is over? my partner and I are always argueing! and I just dont know what to do anymore! Iam pregnant, and love him but everything else in life just seems to get in the way of us actually enjoying each other anymore! when do you know that ... (59 words)

I don't want to get too close

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - a good friend told me that he is attracted to me. i like him a lot as a friend and he is a great human being. in general i am afraid of relationships/getting close because im insecure about my many faults and hide some big emotional problems. i really want to continue being ... (108 words)

I always lose! Bullies win!

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - why is life so unfair fomr some of us and not others. im sorry the bullies always and i always lose. and don,t say the bullies get their came ups on because they don,t . The bullies always win always always always win.... (52 words)

I don't want to cheat--how do I stay faithful!

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3 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so ths is kind of hard to explain. im 22 and is engaged with two kids. One daughter adopted who is 18 months and my newborn son who is 8 weeks old. I love my fiance and my family to bits but we have had troubles and low points in the past especially when she was pregnant and ... (153 words)

She said "I didn't know what to say" when I expressed my feelings! Now what?

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3 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so here is my problem. I really like this girl, and I have liked her for awhile. I felt like she had been flirting back, and my buddy told me she had as well. So I had been really struggling with whether or not to tell her I like her/ask her out. Anyway, push came to ... (227 words)

Should I wreck the couple so I can have her?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - quick question: im gay. im in love with a woman who already with someone else. should i not wreck the couple.. or should i give it a try because i think she might love me back?... (36 words)

My wife & I don't talk anymore

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3 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I live in a relationship where my wife and i dont talk anymore . We have a beautiful 3 and a half year old girl and she is the reason we are still together . We have'nt made love for over 10 months and i cant handle it anymore . I am the type of person that likes being cuddled ... (282 words)

I'm pregnant my husband has bad depression and making it so hard to live with him

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i found out that i am pregnant ,my husband and i have not been getting along for 8-9 months now. he has bad depression at times and is not easy to live with. i think that i have stayed with him because i love him and feel sorry for him , he has talked of suicide a few ... (225 words)

First kiss advice

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3 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am approaching my 18th birthday and I have yet to kiss a girl. When I was in 7th grade my Uncle who was essentially my father passed away suddenly due to a stroke.I went to see a doctor for depression and am fine now. A year after his death I met a girl and we got al... (277 words)

Is it ok that I'm pissed off at her about this?

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3 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf and I have been going out for 5 months but lately weve become distant and Ive talked to her about breaking up but she desperatley wants to keep going with it. So a couple of days ago her mom dropped her off at my house to stay for about 12 hours of that day and for the ... (208 words)

I always fake it!

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When my boyfriend fingers me I never let him finish, I always fake it. So after awhile it gets really boring on my part. He likes it so I let him do it, but it doesn't really feel good anymore. I don't want to tell him because I'm afraid it will make him feel bad that he has ... (66 words)

What should I do about her jealousy?

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3 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been in a relationship for about a year and a half. Generally, we get along well and of course there are bumps in the road every once in a while like any relationship, but one bump that comes up a lot is my interaction with other women. She doesn't seem ... (466 words)

Why does he keep texting and calling and emailing me?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i need your help. robert and i have been best friends for about three years i mean this boy would kill over me and he doesn't do that for everyone.about a year ago i told him i wanted to be more. hes had it bad for me since he met me but when i fell for him back he ... (278 words)

Six months and I'm still not over him

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First note; Usually when I ask about my problem online, I tend to lie about my age (I am 16), making myself older. Why? When I am truthful about it, it seems that my experience or feelings are invalid, that I'm too young, or something of that nature. So, my best friend and ... (810 words)

Ok to cum inside doing anal?

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3 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi friends, I have very nice experience with my GF ,I just tried anal with my GF it was going good I always released outside but last time when I has I was not able to take it out I don’t y? can any one tell is there any problem if I cummed inside while doing anal. hope u gu... (72 words)

Am I doing something wrong dating him I'm 17, he's 27

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I am a 17 year old girl soon turning into 18 and the guy whom I am in a relation is 27 year old. And only thing that strikes in my mind is that am I doing anything wrong? As the matter of fact love is blind. But still I think there is too long age gap. Talking about him he ... (101 words)

Nasty feeling after an orgasm

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3 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend an i have been along the lines of 2nd base for a bit(touching below and above waist) i have made her orgasm by fingering several times, she has tried to jack me off but were getting to that. Thats not my question though, when i do finger her once i get in side ... (140 words)

Do I accept that its over?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance broke off our engagement on NYE after spending that evening with me on a date. Prior to this we had been arguing for about a week about some personal problems he was going through and his need to seek some professional help. He decided on NYE (of all times) that he ... (227 words)

I'M STILL IN HIGHSCHOOL & HE WANTS TO TRY FOR A BABY..

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for a year now. im just about to grad highschool...and i was preg back in nov but i lost my baby. we're both happy, but now i really feel like it was my fault that i lost the baby. because i had told a friend and he didnt want me to be pregnant. he ... (142 words)

I'M ATTRACTED TO TRANSEXUALS. AM I GAY?

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3 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem! I am a 17 year old lad who really likes girls but for some weird reason i am really into transexuals. I only like the transexuals who really look like girls though and i find myself watching more transexual porn these days. I feel if i have sex with a ... (83 words)

How do I help this funny guy?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how best to explain this, but I'll do my best... I have this acquaintance/friend that I've known for quite some time now (about three years) and he's known to all of his friends and the entire high school we graduated from as the "Funny Fat Guy". Only recently di... (251 words)

WE'VE ONLY BEEN DATING A FEW MONTHS..SHOULD I BE CRYING WHEN HE LEAVES?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my boyfriend live about 30-45 minutes away from each other. I've been dating him since October(2008) and I love him to death, I know its only been a short time that we've been dating but he means the world to me and I don't know what I would do without him. We ... (181 words)

Does anyone know how a spouse's debt collection, affects the other person financially?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone know about how debt in collections will affect a marriage? My fiancee and I plan on getting married in about two years. But one thing I am concerned about is he owes a few thousand to collections. He has made a plan to pay it off over the next year. But Im con... (87 words)

How do I get over my former teacher, I really like him, but don't know what to do, please help??

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had this teacher, Senior year, (08') and as the year went on my feelings changed for him and I am pretty sure his changed toward me. He would say he loved me and that I will always have a special place in his heart. Or he would say..I love you, I just want you to know that. I ... (637 words)

Would it be okay to date my mother's half-sister's son?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i was wondering if it would be inappropriate to date my mothers half sisters son ???? we meet once when we were 14 and now again 14 years later??? would nt the blood relation be considered more distant that first cousins because of the half sister factor... (48 words)

I have fallen for a guy who will be released from prison soon, need some advice on this situation, should I be involved or not?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age - Hello, I have 2 boys, and have been in a loveless relationship for 17 years. I only married because I felt sorry for my husband. Thought I could help him. DON'T DO THIS, ladies! Here's my HUGE problem.. BEFORE I married, I was not a Christian, and met a guy in one of my jail t... (278 words)

I am involved sexually with a friend of a very good friend, should I tell the very good friend or keep it a secret?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A few years ago, before I had my son, I was "talking" to this guy .J. but it didnt get to serious because he was in his first year of college and I was in my senior year of high school. We had the arrangement that when he was in town we were together and when he wasn't we ... (192 words)

What he has said still hurts, should I leave things as they are?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband cheat 3x in 11yrs. the last time I woulnt take him back he moved out to our other home and didn't help with any $ or the kids I turned to my older sons father for support my husband found out and started all these rumors about us..he is in jail now 4 breaking a ... (115 words)

How do I move our relationship to second base, without going too fast?

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3 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok me and my girlfriend want to move our relationship to second base but she wants me to be the one who moves us, what do i do to help me move us there, i never did anything passed 1st base befor, i know what second base is and everything, i just need help getting started, what ... (68 words)

He's a friend did I ruin our friendship by telling him to back off?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi... i am a 12 year old gurl... I have a bf who i am REALLY in luv with { i posted a question about him not to long ago} anyway, i also have this friend, he is deeply in luv with me and is always trying to interfere with my relationship. Recently I stood up to him and told him ... (88 words)

We liked each other, we dated, we talked, then he wanted to end it, what happened??

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, so, I liked this boy for ages, and he liked me too, but neither of us could pluck up the courage to ask the other out. We had always been friends, so it's weird how we both started fancying each other after we'd known one another for so long before hand. One day he asked me ... (318 words)

I am love and he loves me but surely the way things are isn't good!?

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3 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a clueless frame of mind as to what to do with my relationship. I am in a relationship with a man (gay) that has become sexually strained, well for me at least. He has decided to tell me after years that he just isn't a very sexual person. This wasn't the case initial... (214 words)

How do I know he is telling the truth about it being a "one time thing"?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 26 and recently i was suspicious of my boyfriend. Before I get to much further into it, our relationship has been great up until the past month. We are best friends and do everything together. We play video games, go fishing, take walks and sometimes just talk for hours. B... (471 words)

Does she want to be friends with benefits?

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3 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and this very close female friend go to different uni's. I went to meet her and was staying the night. There's only one room and was only one bed. I wondered where I would sleep. Later on she said that we can both sleep on the bed, she doesn't mind. I found this quite we... (195 words)

Can you get pregnant while on your period or like within three days after???

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you get pregnant while on your period or like within three days after???... (14 words)

I trust and love him but at times he makes me question us...

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys I have a bit of a problem recently I got married to the love of my life. But before we got married he had told that he had gotten back in contact with his friend whom he thought was the love of his life. He's constantly talking to her even in front of me. We've never ... (172 words)

Is this co-worker interested in my boyfriend?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I know if my boyfriend is interested in one of our co-workers? He started buying her snacks and always smiles at her. He asks questions about when she is working. She knows that we are engaged. She always smiles back. Now when she hears his voice in the hallway she ... (111 words)

Are we moving way too fast here?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity with my boyfriend and I feel terrible. We hadn't even been going out for a two months. And I'd given him head like less than 5 days after our first kiss. I told one of my closest friends and all of my friends are like virgins and have promise rings (not me ... (66 words)

I'm very scared of being hurt again.

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I'm a 22 year old female and I have been seeing a 21 year old guy for around a month now, and a couple of days ago we decided we were pretty much boyfriend/girlfriend and made it official. I really like this guy, I'm really happy! However I do have a small worry. H... (197 words)

Period cramp.

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend has her period and when she usually has it she doesn't usually have cramps but she has been complaining that her stomach has been killing her for the past 3 days. She took pills but it's still killing her.. What should she do?...... (46 words)

Question for guys

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. I would be lying if I said I wasn't in love with him. I get scared cause I think he will leave me all the time. I want to talk to him about my fears, but guys hate girl stuff and emotion and all that. So I hide my feelings... (217 words)

I like 2 guys, I'm so confused...

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i'm 15 and i've liked this guy since the beginning of last year. He knew i liked him and we flirted and hung out a little bit but he started to kinda use me. So anyway i barely talked to him all summer and school started back up and now i'm going with this other dude but i ... (91 words)

Love to hear about the past!

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3 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi There, This is the first time I have done this sort of thing so here goes. I want to know if anybody else feels the same way I do about my wife's sexual past. I have known her since we were in high school. We dated a bit in high school and college and then got serious... (162 words)

I love him to death and I don't want to let go. Help!

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with a guy for the past 3 years. We had our ups and downs, I'm still madly in love with him.. he obviously love me too because he gets jealous, our only problem was trust, I never trusted him because he cheated a lot, I always forgave him because I always think that ... (175 words)

Will sex hurt the first time for me because I'm uncircumcised?

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3 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so.. I am concerned about something and my question will be about sexuality... I will just say a couple things about myself: 17 years old, I have a 5.5 inch penis when hard and is uncircumcised. I am also a virgin, but many girls like me and say I am hot... but I've never ... (99 words)

My fiance is almost always staying over at his sister's house.

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance is almost always staying over at his sister's house. Yes, she's married and has kids. Should I have anything to worry about?... (25 words)

My girlfriend has one inverted nipple and she's paranoid about it...

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3 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has one inverted nipple - it doesn't bother me at all, but she is so paranoid about it that her boobs are a no go area. She has been to the doctor and there are no medical problems. I don't know how we can get over this as I really want to touch her and play wit... (69 words)

If a boyfriend punches a wall when he's mad does that mean he's abusive?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Quick question. If a boyfriend punches a wall when he's mad does that mean he's abusive? I've heard it does but I was wondering if anyone has a boyfriend or is a boyfriend who gets mad and punches something but would never punch a female. Thanks.... (46 words)

I feel he is a bit distant and I think he still love his ex-girlfriend.

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have been dating this guy for 3 months. We met in a online site and things are going really slowly. He says he is serious and wants a long term relationship. His ex-girl friend broke up with him 9 months ago. After 2 months he left the online dating.. I left earlier.... (297 words)

I've always been curious about deep throating. But I can't do it. Ideas?

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3 January 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, I'm always very open to new ideas for bed and I always try to do new moves to surprise my guy. He does as well. Well he says I give great oral, and that makes me feel great. However, I've always been curious about deep throating. But I can't do it. I've talked to him ab... (122 words)

Do guys still get excited when tiny breasts are revealed or would they rather us keep our tops on for sex so they can just use imagination?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My breasts are so small, do guys still get excited when tiny breasts are revealed or would they rather us keep our tops on for sex so they can just use imagination? Once a boyfriend said to me when I was getting dressed "Come on turn round and show me how small your titti... (74 words)

Help... I'm in love with a married woman!

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3 January 2009 (M)

age - I have been dating a married woman for about a year and a half now. We both love each other very much. I don't think love is our trouble. We are Best Friends and would do almost anything for each other. I want this lady to leave her husband but he is 12 years older then her ... (348 words)

In love with my first cousin

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Omg... I'm in a big dilemma, so I fell in love with my first cousin. Yes I know it sounds nasty but it really isnt. I never knew who he was. I knew he existed somewhere in the map but we were never brought up together. One summer he came to visit my family we started spending ... (115 words)

Have you been in a relationship where you were dating someone over 10 years older than you?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Your personal experiences. Please share them, so I can make a conclusion on what I need to do with my own problem.... (22 words)

I'm very confused about my sexuality

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18, female and have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years. when we started sleeping together i didn't know that much about sex and it just kind of happened. as i have talked about sex with my friends more and have seen porn i have realised i'm attracted to women. on ... (160 words)

I know he wants to join the Navy after getting his degree later on this year and this depresses me...

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres a guy who I've liked for ages, but he lives 3 hours away. When we do see each other (which isnt very often) we act like we're a couple, hugging, kissing, holding hands, being sweet with eachother etc. Since seeing him again in November I've fallen for him really hard and ... (215 words)

Me and my bf were having sex yesterday and the condom broke without us realising and he came inside me.

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf were having sex yesterday and the condom broke without us realising and he came inside me. As it was New Year's Day, none of the chemist's were open but we went to the hospital and managed to get the morning after pill and I took it within 3-4 hours of having s... (318 words)

I feel he's more of a friend than a boyfriend...

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend went away for 5 weeks and he will be back in 2 weeks time and since he's been away I haven't missed him and it's made me think about our relationship. We've been together now for over a year and I don't feel like he's my boyfriend, I feel like he's my friend is it ... (63 words)

I was just wondering if I could've caught it off him by doing what we were doing?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, just a quick one. In the summer me and this boy had a bit of a fling. We weren't in a relationship or anything and one night after a couple of drinks we did stuff. Stuff as in I sucked and tossed him off and he fingered me. Now, in January there are rumours that he has c... (91 words)

Are there any places where abortions are free?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Are there any places where abortions are free?... (8 words)

Did he take advantage?

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3 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Background Info: A lad I'm good mates with, questioned me a lot about about the lad I was going with and seemed to flirt with me at school. He's cute and a good friend to me. Whenever I would be out with my bf and he was there he used to look at me and then walk away. He... (283 words)