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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Husband left me-family knows where he is but won't tell me!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age - My husband left me 5 months ago.I came home from work and my husband was gone,I haven't heard a word from him.His family knows where he is at but they won't let me contact him.What do I do.... (39 words)

I couldn't see myself moving across the country to be with her but I miss her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm extremely confused about a decision I made regarding an important relationship of mine. My girlfriend had to move across the country, and I was extremely hesitant to follow her because she had an incredible amount of difficulty opening up to me. She couldn't tell me... (133 words)

Sex ??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I've been dating this guy for a year now, I'm in love with him. Please do not give me the bullshit about how 'You don't know what love is' because both of us have been through hell and are mature enough to know the difference. I'm not like regular 15 year olds so bac... (250 words)

How do entertain myself?

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 14 year old guy who really want to do it with a chick, but dont have a girl friend and live 50kilometers from me school. Anyone got idea's how to entertain meself untill i get to do it?... (40 words)

Its almost exhausting to be with him & all the joking

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok this may be a long one..First, let me start with background. We have been seeing each other 9 months. 6 of those he was away playing ball but he lives here. He is a nice guy, very intuitive and sweet. Raised by a single mom and definitely has respect for women. He does hav... (452 words)

He's obsessed with the computer, and I'm neglected!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - 23 January 2009: Im in a relationship and seem to be unable to get my mans attention. He is always on the computer and messing around and I feel neglected in many areas.I am at my ropes end and dont know what to do.........All I want is to feel loved and needed ...I do alot for ... (148 words)

INSANELY attracted to hot neighbor

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17 yr old female and have this damn fine neighbor (about to be 18) who I've been hot for the moment I first saw him almost 4 years ago. I've never tried to make a move on him because though I have pretty high self esteem, this guy is just so fine I feel like he is way out ... (130 words)

Which direction do I go here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

23 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, well, heres a major problem I have, and I would just like some opinions and views. About 3 years ago, me and my wife started having problems in our marriage. We continued to live together for another year. Eventually she started not coming home from work till the morning... (1118 words)

Are there people who have the "whole package"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm the type that has always read love, romance stories. In all the stories there is always a man or a woman who just seems to have it ALL; Drop dead gorgeous, highly intelligent, charming/sweet, witty, down to earth, the powerful presence, money, and just the best ... (127 words)

I've never said how I really feel about him in 3 years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About 2 years ago I saw this guy and I liked him a lot, but I was really shy and couldn't tell him, or anyone. So he never knew. Then last year we were in a lot of the same classes and I got talking with him, and we became friends, we flirted a bit but I didn't really think ... (241 words)

He shows no signs of caring anymore, how do I stop being in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I live with him. Well, He lives with me. I am young independent and have a lot going for me. I never hold it over his head that I give him a lot.. food shelter clothing love cell phone car ect... all the things i've done have been because I love him and to better help him in ... (235 words)

How do you terminate a toxic friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

- Hoping someone can help here. I have a friend who I am trying to end the friendship with as I have had enough. There are plenty of articles on how to end a relationship but not much on terminating a friendship. This girl tends to be really rude to me, often in front of others ... (207 words)

My sister's daughter had sex and I think her reaction is too harsh...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age - My sister is the mother of a 14 yr old girl, who she recently found out that she snuck her boyfriend in the bedroom window and had sex with him! The mother went bananas and told her daughter that she had to quit basketball and all other activities, took her cell phone, no ... (208 words)

Guys, what do you like in a girl?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys, what do you like in a girl? I'm not going to try to change myself or anything, but what specific personality and physical traits do you, personally, find attractive?... (30 words)

How can I build my guy-confidence?

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever I have crushes on guys, I'm always crushing from far way... i.e. I'm hardly conversing with them, if I am at all. How can I build up my guy-confidence? And all that giggley flirting isn't my style...... (38 words)

Love my BF, but so attracted to this guy! What to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi!Well, today I woke up, and a stupid dream turned out to change me a little,just a little.... I am dating this guy almost for a year ,and I love him, I care about him, we´re friends and sex is really great. We work together, which is really fun. We work with more 20 or 30 pe... (253 words)

In love with my best friend who denies it, has anyone been in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in love with my best friend for about 4 years, and its getting too much to bare, and I need some advice! We're both 18 and single, and have known each other for about 15 years, since playschool really, but only best friends for about 8 years. When I was about 13-14,... (220 words)

How can he say that he loves me and then let me down so bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am new to this so please bear with me. My problem is i was going out with a man for a few months and we have just broke up and i am heartbroken. I have known this man for 20 years or so we dated a bit when we were younger. We meet again last year i was already suffering ... (387 words)

How do I tell my Mom that I'm bi?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi! In a moment my moms gonna come and check me Im now ready to come out and tell her that im bi.. My question is.. How do i tell her slowly? I dont want her to freak out! Plz help... Im really nervous ryt now..... (51 words)

How long should I wait and should I just ask her if she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I've had a crush on this girl for 2 years but never brought myself to asking her out. She has two kids, as I do, and she recently broke up with her boyfriend because he didn't like her kids. We've been to lunch, movies, and we talk at the gym but i haven't tried to kiss her ... (90 words)

Do you think this guy is for real?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - is he for real? am 24years old and my bf is 34. we have known each other for about 4years. the problem we have always had is distance, but more to that now is that he proposed to me some months back which i accepted and he promised to see my parents before i come back from the... (150 words)

Why do all these guys take me for granted?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Right then here goes, what I want to know is this-why is it that the guys I have relationships with always seem to take me for granted then after we've split up they (and it can be a few years after we've split) they say I was the love of their life/no-one ever treated them as ... (179 words)

Should I be worried about the "nasty", hardcore, pissing porn?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think it's a serious problem if my boyfriend of two years looks at " nasty" porn , like with women drinking piss while getting f@cked? I don't have a problem with him looking at "regular" porn, but what scares me about this is that it seems to be extra degrading to ... (152 words)

Could I still be pregnant or is this just normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a long distance relationship but everytime we meet up we have sex. We met up and decided to not use a condom. He didn't "cum" inside me but could i still be pregnant as i have missed a period or is this just normal?... (47 words)

Is my ejaculation normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a healthy 24 year old guy, but I'm concerned with my ejaculation. Whether it's masturbation or sex, it is always very liquid - not much different at all from the viscosity of urine. It doesn't in any way resemble what I would typically think of as cum - white, thick, ... (71 words)

Are my fiance's bizarre behaviors something to be concerned about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age - I'm going to try to keep this brief, but I do tend to be wordy. So please, forgive me if I start rambling. I am a 47-year-old female and have been with my fiance for a little more than 2 years now. We have been engaged for a little more than a year, and he moved in to my p... (1618 words)

I'm 14 and can't get over the loss of my baby.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 14 and cant get over the fact i lossed my baby its been a year now and every time i seem to get better i see some one with a baby or my friends will talk about it what should i do please help it is efecting my school work ... (51 words)

5 years later, suddenly we've been sexless for 5 months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am looking for advice, I do not know what to do, my girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years now, we HAD the most incredible sex life up until 5 months ago, then nothing, literally nothing. I think I am fed up, I can't live like this anymore. I have tried talking to... (330 words)

He called me his "f*ck buddy", what did he mean by that?!?!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age - me and my boyfriend (who's immature and only 15!) were talking the other night and he said im his "fuck buddy" and laughed then knew he fucked up so he went completely silent and i hung up on him. should i call him? what did he mean by that!... (49 words)

I really want to know how he feels without making it obvious that I like him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I've seen a lot of questions like this and none of the answers have really helped, and I really do need advice on this one. I'm in Year 9 and recently, I've got to know a boy in Year 12 and now I'm starting to fall for him. He really is a lovely person, and an absolute ... (218 words)

I really want to have a baby with my BF but my family will freak out.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend have only had sex once. And yes, we had protection he had already came in the condom and it broke, i had to have emergency contraception aka the plan b pill but i want a baby soooo bad. im only 13 tho... i will be 14 in june, i always watch bringing home ... (220 words)

I'm curious about BDSM. Does this mean I'm gay or being selfish towards my wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I wnat to know if I want to explore anal stimulation and penetration for my wife and myself. Does it really mean I have homosexual tendencies. I am very curious about the BDSM lifestyle and the femdom practices. I really would like to get my wife to open up. Am i just being ... (54 words)

Is my Dad interefering with my children?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i grew up in a house where my father was very controlling, violent at times and me and my brothers and sisters were scared of him. we have all left home now, (including my mother who left him almost 6 years ago), none of them bother with him which is understa... (290 words)

A birthday threesome, good idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 27 year old female that has been in a relationship with a male for two and a half years. He is the man I have seen in my dreams and I adore him and he the same (at least I hope..lol) Seriously, his birthday is coming up and he made a joke about a threesome. I told him ... (279 words)

Do I wait for my ex to come back or get with the new guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! Right, 8 days ago me and my long term boyf split up. Upsetting? Much. Im 16 btw. This guy in the special class im in, is 14 and he has shown a massive interest. He holds my hand, kisses me and defends me all the time. Hes a bit crackers and doesnt have a steady home life, ... (129 words)

Is he playing hard to get? Does he want me to ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - He liked me a lot for more than 1 year, it was extremely obvious, but when he showed his true feelings i strongly rejected him in different ways, 'cause i was kinda shy.. but he never insulted me and he's the type who would do it. now he knows for sure that i like him. a few ... (249 words)

Is what we're doing considered dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I would really appreciate it if I can get another point of view about how people define dates. I've met this guy under platonic circumstances, he made it clear that he is currently busy with graduate school and not looking for casual sex. In any case, we've known each ot... (156 words)

My GF wants me to masturbate for her, but I don't want to!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hey, my gf wants me to masturbate in front of her..but the thing is, ive never masturbated (i dont like it) and she doesnt know that. shes coming over and i dont know what i should do. i cant tell her and i dont want to masturbate in front of her, help :S... (53 words)

How do I cure my premature ejaculation naturally???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How do i cure my premature ejaculation naturally??? I don't want to spend money on a guide or hypnosis track. Is there anything free i can use? I ejaculated in the first 3 seconds of having sex with my girlfriend today and this has happened for over a year now!!! ... (96 words)

Guys: How long until you ask her to be your girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Question for guys! How long would you wait to ask her to be your girlfriend? I mean guys still do that right, or do you just know. I would want a guy to ask me...Lol. Anyways, I've been dating this guy for about (2) weeks now. We've gone out on (2) great dates. And there... (136 words)

Why has the sexual spark completely died for my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) age - Please help me out with this sexual question.. I'm at my wit ends, I really don't get this. My husband and me, are living in a very strange place. So he says. I love you, you are my love. But we are together naked in bed, and he does not get an erection. I can stimulat... (189 words)

How do I get COMPLETELY over my ex boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey there , i broke up with my bf 4 months ago but i met another guy right after my breakup .this new guy admitted that he loved me in about a week .i hesitated a lot at first but then a friend of mine told me that if i wanted to forget my ex , i should be in a relationship ... (175 words)

How do I tell him I was really, really kidding and still show I'm very, very much into him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now. Let's just say (2) weeks. We've been loooong talking about going out to the casino. Yeah, we joked around about a weekend get-away. I was only kidding..it's too soon, I'm not ready to spend the night with him! He knows ... (125 words)

Help me get him away from her - or me away from him!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age - Pleeeease help me, what should I do? I really like this guy who has a girlfriend who is giving him sex, and I've totally backed out of the picture but he keeps trying to draw me back in. He seems to need my attention by flirting with me which includes touching, smiling, ... (130 words)

The husband wants a threesome with the neighbor...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age - help, my husband was talking about us having a threesome with our neighbor, what do i do?... (17 words)

I can't trust my wife's and her male cousins relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I can’t trust my wife w/her male cousin’s relationship. Here’s the story. I know I have some deep insecurity issues I need to deal with. These have led to intense forms of jealousy. I have been married for 16 years. My wife is an ultra-friendly person and wears ... (686 words)

GF hanging out with exboyfriend - when is the line crossed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

23 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some input on this matter. I've been with this girl for 3 years. We live together, we love each other very much, and I am very committed to her. From the beginning of our relationship she has always maintained a friendly communication with her exboyfriend (her... (438 words)

I like him but I don't know how to talk to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please Help! Im 17 btw. Ok, so there is a guy that i really like, but i just dont know how to talk to him. i notice him staring at me a lot, and when i am not facing in his direction, i notice that he walks by me a lot more, and talks to my friends in front of me; just not to ... (195 words)

I love my boyfriend but I like his best mate too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help! I have a boyfriend, and i love him dearly, but the thing is, i sort of have feelings for his best mate, it weird though because i liked his mate way before i got with my boyfriend. we will call my boyfriend B and his mate D. Well as i said i liked D before i... (282 words)

He wants to get it on, but I'm a virgin and he doesn't know! What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help, I am a twenty six year old virgin, there is a guy at work whom I have been flirting with for about a year, he has said to me that on the next night out we should get it on back at his. I am thinking wow because he is gorgeous and I have liked him for ages, ... (170 words)

How do I get him to make the first move without getting humiliated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy, and i think he likes me too. But there is always a possibility that he doesn't. So I don't want to make the first move and suggest meeting up outside of school, in case he rejects me. Also I have this thing where the guy has to make the first move. It's ... (90 words)

How should my boyfriend and I deal with a girl who is trying ot get between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello aunts and uncles, I have a question and the answer may be obvious to some, but I have never dealt with a situation like this before and I don't want to do the wrong thing and blow things out of proportion, I want to deal with this correctly. Well my boyfriend starte... (694 words)

Why does it ruin it over stupid little things? Or am I taking it too seriously?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well me and my bf have been together about a year and 2 months or so .. but lately things have started to go wrong.. we've just been having STUPID arguments, i wont go into to details but they are petty. Latest one was he got annoyed with me cos im ill. Yes he actuallyy ... (242 words)

There is this womanizer at work who seems to really like me, but also my ex who does to. Who to be with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel so confused. I don't know what to do. There are 2 guys in my life right now. The first one is actually my ex-boyfriend. My feelings for him are completely confused. I ended things with him because I didn't feel I loved him anymore. We still talk, he wants to be wit... (626 words)

I told a 'white lie' and now it's come back to haunt me. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't actually know what to do. About a week ago, my friend persuaded me, on msn, to ask my crush's best friend if he had a girlfriend. I did it. He doesn't. However. There's a backstory. The girl who I asked wouldn't tell me unless there was a reason. So I told a ... (263 words)

Could we simply remain friends after having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently started a friends with benefits relationship. We both argreed it would be physical only and that we would remain friends after. We both care about each other but do not love one another.I was wondering if people can actually remain just friends after being so ... (69 words)

Do I stay with the one I love or go solo to experience life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for 5 and a half years, yet we are drifting apart, we love each other so much, he treats me like a princess, does everything for me and I know he will never cheat on me and I completely trust him. However I am the sole provider in our relationship as ... (209 words)

He insists he isn't playing mind games but I think he is!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my friends playing mind games although he says he isnt and ''respects me'' he flirts one minute, (when we are drunk he tries to kiss me nearly every time we go out. we came close to having sex one night but we stopped)..then the next week he acts distant and the next... (158 words)

Help my family or study for my career?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am writting to u to seek advice. My name is nawel and I am in secondary school pupil. I’ll sit for my BAC exam soon. I’ll certainly succed, but my parents are old and are in need of financial help.I4d really like to help them .however, if I do, i’ll have to give up my dream ... (111 words)

Should I stop being his mate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy on my University course a few years ago and have been friends with him since. He's not in all my classes but when we are, we often work together and chat alot. And it didnt take long before I got his number so we can arrange meetings out of lectures. I have enjoyed ... (131 words)

Are these signs that he doesn't want me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me n ma bf have been getting along fine but this last week he has been himself. I met him on Sundaii he ifngered n i pleasured him but then on Mondaii he promised me to wotch a film with me he dint so he sed tuesdaii he dint he sed thursdaii he dint n he sed tonight but i doubt ... (422 words)

I want to get married next year but I know he isn't ready

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been in a relationship with a guy for 5 years now and we love each order but the problem is that he is 23years old while am 26. This has been bothering me for a long time now cos i want to get married by next year and looking at him he is not yet ready to settle down that ... (84 words)

What do I do now after massive fall out?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

23 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've just had a huge falling out with a close friend who's female, basically we argued because she wanted me to admit my true feelings for her and yeah I do like her, but she has a boyfriend. Now we ain't talking and she doesn't want any contact because she's too upset and ... (128 words)

I'd like her to reduce her "game time" when I'm around..should I have said something sooner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a girl whom I met whilst in my last year of sixth form and have been friends with ever since. We get on fairly well and have recently been in each other's company more. Unfortunately, she is a big fan of computer games and plays it all the time, especially when I went ... (129 words)

How do I get her to leave her b/f?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a female friend who is close to me. I told her that i love her and wanted her to be my gf but she said she was not ready for a relationship. Later she told me she had a boyfriend. How do i get her to leave her boyfriend or should i leave her bcos i feel she betrayed me. ... (67 words)

Shes angry because I told a friend I love her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I told my friend that i love her and she became angry with me,what should i do because i dont want to break up with her. ... (26 words)

Why is she lying about knowing him, he's on her facebook!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I have this dilemma that is just eating at me. Im with this girl, she says we're more then friends and she "thinks" of me like a b/f. Well i was messaging her through MSN one night... and she wouldn't answer, then after awhile... Some guy answered, he asked who i was an... (569 words)

Do people lie about their age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) age 41-50 - do people lie about their age? If so, why?... (9 words)

What would be an acceptable time frame for responding to friendly emails?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am seeing this guy who has a busy schedule as a graduate student. We usually communicate by email but recently I begin to feel that his speed of reply does not match my expectation. I would like to know what is the usual acceptable time for email replies, especiall... (64 words)

I'm suffering from depression-can anyone please give some advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

23 January 2009 (F)

age - Can anyone help. I suffer from depression. Have been bullied at work, reported it to my bosses, nothing happened, reported it to HR and still nothing happened. I collapsed with stress on 31.10.08 and been off work ever since. Not a card from work, no contact, no one cares. I ... (84 words)

I sometimes get the feeling that I am sometimes over bearing. I always want to show my love and affection.

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been in my relationship for nearly a year. I sometimes get the feeling that I am sometimes over bearing. I always want to show my love and affection. I don't know whether it's because of the person I am I'm just scared that I may push her away. I think that I say n... (138 words)

I am afraid that I will never get the chance to go out with him once I go back to school.

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a guy who I see at the at the local health club I go to. I really, really like him and I think he likes me, too. But I start school soon so I won't get to see him any more because he goes at the health club when I am at school (and only then because he's got work after.) ... (135 words)

Were on a break, am I being played for a Fool?

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Let me know what you guys think. I've been going out with a girl for 9 months yesterday. When we had been together for 3 months we feel pregnant, we decided to abort it due to certain issues one of them being money. She then started to become really insecure about h... (580 words)

I'm not sure I will ever fit into my boyfriend's life.

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm not sure I will ever fit into my BF's life. We have been together for 7 months now, he is recently divorced and his family and friends invite his ex-wife to everything. He has never brought me and I know its because he knows I'll be uncomfortable, so we just don't go. He ... (281 words)

How do you know if you're going too far with a guy?

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so the basic details are, I'm in a long distance relationship here for 6 months now... long story as to why we live so far apart but it's going soo well... I really have been thinking about sending him a picture of me, not in lingerie, but a little bit of a "sexual" picture ... (209 words)

My husband won't put me above beer and doesn't want to have sex EVER.

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well basically my husband is an alcoholic which I didnt know when I met him and didnt know for a while after we started dating. Anyways, I fell in love with him, and eventually relized he drinks a lot (everyday). I told him that i didnt want to be with an alcoholic because of a ... (612 words)

What causes menstrual cramps?

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when you cramp a lot during your period? but is not just a cramp that comes and goes it stays the whole day and it hurts bad. What is it?... (34 words)

I miss my ex so much, is there still a chance of us getting back together?

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hey all! my gf split up with me nearly 3 months now and we'd been together for 4 years, I know that she is still missing me, I'm making the most of what I can, going out with freinds starting a new career and generally geting on with my life except I still miss my ex so much! I ... (332 words)

Wanting more than what he will give

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy since September. We're not boyfriend/girlfriend we're friends and it tears me up inside because I have deep feelings for him. We have had sex a couple of times and it's like the way he treats me, no other boyfriend I had has treated me this way. He ... (159 words)

He's on my mind every second of the day but we've split up. How can I get over him?

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Mine is a long story...... I was with my partner for 5 years and we lived together for 4 of them. Everything was great until we moved into our second house, money was really tight and we had no life together, we were practically living in each others pockets. In D... (636 words)

My boyfriend left me after 11 years for a younger woman.

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23 January 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend left me after 11 years for a woman who has a young boy of about 7-8 years, he 30 this year I'm 47 and she's 31, he's only been with her for 5 weeks. I found out last night she is a big girl size 16 and non atractive (I know there's nothing against her bein... (150 words)

He's been cheating on me with his ex!

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys can anyone help me please I'm so desperate at the moment. I've been with a guy for well a year however the first 6 months were unoffical and now it's offical... however throughout the whole time he was always still talking to his ex... I always told him that I was u... (156 words)

I'm trying to get back with my ex, last night I slept with her best friend!

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - last night i slept with my ex gf's best friend, ive been trying to get back together with my ex but this f*cked everything up, what do i do!... (29 words)

Scared stiff of turning 30 anyone have any stories?

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - can any one tell there stores dealing with fact hobbible fact being the dreading how did you cope with it.i,d love to stay in 20s becasue i never really had chance no freinds ,no social life,no boyfreind i eveny people just strating out in there 20s. any reader from irel... (78 words)

Xoxo--I think he likes me what do I do?

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok well yesterday my friend slept over my house. We got bored so we decided to go on the computer. After awhile this boy started talking to us on msn. I thought he looked fimilar in his display pic. Well she asked him his named and as I thought it was. It was my good friend ... (98 words)

I don't want to run into the ex

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Earlier this week, a friend of mine at university suggested that all the guys go on a trip to Preston, a city in the North west of England. According to him, there are 4 women to every 1 man. I'm not sure I believe that, but that doesn't bother me. What does bother me is tha... (200 words)

Breaking free from a married man

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I fell in love with a married man and something happened (long story) and he disappeared without telling me. I was heartbroken, cried and went into extreme depression. I was in trying to get over him and move on and then he reappeared and explained to me what happened. When he ... (351 words)

Afraid to get my hopes up but are these possibly signs that I'm pregnant?

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been trying for a child with my husband for the past 10 months. We havent had any luck at all. I have had sore breasts for the past two weeks and my period is due on tomorrow. The last period i had, was very light and was slight for one day then nothing then two days ... (127 words)

Where is the sweetest part of a girl?

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - where is the sweeties part of a girl?... (8 words)

I'm always seeing him with another man

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a problem with my bf,who i belived is a gay and he is keep on denying it,but i always see him with a another man and pretended that he is just a friend but i can feel something that its not right,when this is around,how can i be sure that he really loves me and that he ... (64 words)

He's confusing me so much! I don't know what to do anymore!

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - *He stares at me all the time with a small smile on his face. *When I catch him staring, he keeps on staring till I look away. *Walks across me sometimes for no reason. *Walks by me so close that our shoulders touch. *Shows-off sometimes. *Hugs me for no reason. *Touches... (214 words)

Sort of caught in the middle with 2 girls

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I got a teansy problem, okay theres this girl i relaly am starting to like, My friend is her best friend so obviousl she knows that i like her, but isnt really interested in me, but i do have a chance, she told me well theres tis other girl i know(not really) and i started fl... (173 words)

What do I do now that I've told her I like her?

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well i finall got the courage to tell this one girl tat i liked her. so Now what do i do? this is the very first time i ever done something like this and she told me that she didnt expect it since i never treated her like if i ever did like her. so i stil dont know what she ... (174 words)

He has a g/f but gives off signals he's interested

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! :) I hope you lot can help me with this... There is a guy in my class who I really liked, (but never spoke to for a whole year) but upon hearing he had a girlfriend, I decided to forget about him. Lately (for about the past 4 months) I've caught him...looking at me,... (411 words)

I hate my love life!

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have two conflicting issues: I am the member of a sorority at Penn but during my 2nd and 3rd year I realized that things made me grow apart and sometimes it seemed like I wasn't a fit, although I was still friends with quite a few of the girls. I have been missing them ... (622 words)

His friends say he likes me but he hasn't said so

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - There are a group of boys in my p.e. class and for the three days they keep on insisting that I should date one of there friends. They say he likes me, the way I voice, and that he likes my eyes. But they say it in front of him and he says that he doesn't like me. I have ... (86 words)

I have experienced clitoridean orgasms but not vaginal. How can I achieve those?

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have two childern and im on my thrid and ive never had an orgasim inside me yes ive had one on my clit manytimes but i want to know how i have one inside someone must please help me thanks for you answeres... (44 words)

Am I crazy for this love

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I kind of feel confused about this so called "relantionship". Im 16 and in 11th grade but it all started when i was in 8th. Theirs this boy who use to like me and would make passes at me all the time asking me to marry him and everything, he even tried to finger me in the ... (237 words)

Actions speak louder than words and I'm the one always making the 1st move

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well ive been talkin 2 this guy for about a month n change. He is 21 and im 18 the problem is im not 2 sure if he likes me as much as he says he does.We talk on the phone but thats only if i call him 1st bcuz he doesnt call me.For the time we have been talkin we only been out ... (129 words)

Should I leave because of her vagina size or tell her it bothers me?

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend vagina is much looser than any other women i have been in a serious relationship with, what really bothers me is that i dont have a small penis im actually well over average, so i kno its not me, I really like the person that she is, but the size of her vagina ... (118 words)

What would she do without me?

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - To make a long story short...... I ordered ''The Magic of Making Up'' by TW Jackson. Its a step by step guide to win back the one you love. I read completely through the book, ready to follow the steps (one of them which is to not contact your ex) and what does she do? She... (370 words)

My sister is paranoid about me sleeping with her husband!

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23 January 2009 (?) age 41-50 - My sister is paranoid about me sleeping with her husband. I would never do that and I already have a (hot) boyfriend. Ever since my sis's best friend slept with her ex bf she been constantly worrying her husband is cheating on her with me. Its really annoying and quite sad too. ... (59 words)

Its always up to me to make the first move

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a little over a year now. It seems that I always have to make the first move every single time to call her or even ask her out, and when she is feeling moody due to work, she doesn't talk to me about it. Al... (100 words)

We want to have a baby but he had a vasectomy

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some answers I just got married in Dec and we are wantin to have a baby but he has had a vasectomy so what are the chances of that happening or will he have to get that reversed before we can have a baby?? please help me with this thank you... (53 words)

Any suggestions on what my next move should be?

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, it would be nice to get some advice on this shit, I like this girl, really like her not some stupid girl like the usual, I care deeply for her and I want to ask her out, I talked to her and did the normal thing, I told her I TOOK A LIKING TO HER AND I want to keep ... (128 words)

I thought she was the one but now I don't think she's the one

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been dating her for over two years. we lived together for 1 and a half of those. she has a beautiful daughter i love to death. i have three boys also whom live with their mom most of the time. all young. ranging from 6-13 years old. i moved out because of the arguing. ... (190 words)

Comments on his facebook have got me wondering what he feels towards me

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've just split up from a long term relationship. I like this new guy. We've met twice, the first time I chatted to him briefly, I knew that I liked him but thought he didn't like me as he didn't seem that responsive so I left as I didn't want to make a fool of myself and ... (465 words)

Am I just someone for him to talk to?

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23 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Ok so I have been talking to this guy(getting to know him)for about 2 months. We have hung out a couple of times,he has told me he has a crush on me, we text and talk on the phone almost every day. He calls me sweetheart, hun, gorgeous, sweetie and beautiful ect.. But my only ... (172 words)

Why do people cheat and then regret it?

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've read a lot of columns involving how much people regret cheating on their spouses. Some of these people cheat and wonder why their spouses leave them? Why do it when the consequences are known to be the obvious results of the other person leaving? ... (56 words)

If I walk away now I'm afraid I'll lose her

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex girlfriend and i went out for about a year and a half before we broke up about 2 months ago. we broke up because she said she didnt want a relationship anymore. we were really close to getting back together until she read a text that i sent my friend after we broke up. ... (244 words)

Is it unrealistic to tell her to stop having contact with this guy?

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't usually do this but I got to summarise this and get an unbiased opinion. I will try my best not to be biased and favour myself. Ok, where do I begin? I hooked up with this girl about 3 years ago when I was about 19 at a pub, we saw each other for a while, then drif... (1615 words)

Should I tell him how I feel? Is this relationship possible?

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have graduated from college and have known one of my profs for about five years now. We've really hit it off and become good friends, but now I think it's becoming something more. When I was his student, he would pick on me in front of the class, call me names, every now... (490 words)

I can't seem to let go of my ex

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My story is long and I really hope someone can help with it because it's been tearing at me ever since it's happened. In my first year university I met a boy and he asked me out, we started out great, he seemed to be everything I asked for. My parents liked him, my friends ... (707 words)

My ex best friend's brother is hot, but he's not part of my fantasy life I have planned

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex best friend and I became best friends the second day of sophomore year (about 3.5 years ago). And a year and a half after we established our great friendship, I met my ex (who was a sophomore at the time). We started dating and then this highly annoying and obnoxious guy ... (522 words)

Why doesn't he call me now?

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy last year around November at a gathering. He facebooked me afterwards and we started talking. He seems like an interesting guy and kind too. We exchanged long messages for days for about two weeks and he decided to ask me to go see a basketball game with him. I went ... (384 words)

If my presence makes her so uncomfortable, why is she going out of her way to treat me like crap?

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a follow up to my previous question. I no longer hang out at the coffee shop when my ex is working. But now, when she knows I am here, comes in and hangs out (something she did not really do before). She totally ignores me, and I guess I do the same, although I would ... (82 words)

My angel is Grieving

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I got married last year in October unfortunately a week before our wedding day my wife's father died due to a long 3 month sickness. As all things were paid for and unable to delay the wedding we got married. One month later My wife applied for a job in another s... (225 words)

I am so so paranoid for no reason.

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and so is my boyfriend.. I have a problem... seriously! I'm an over thinker about everything (paranoid in other words), when it comes to my relationship with my boyfriend. I have been with him for 2 years and we are very close. He is an amazing guy and has been very ... (283 words)

He's in the back of my head like 24/7 and it's really annoying.

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend has been going out with this girl for about a month and I really don't see it going anywhere. I sort of have an on-off crush type thing going on. I don't know what to do about it. Maybe I should ignore it? I thought the girlfriend would take care of my problem and ... (89 words)

Why can't he open up to me?

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it hard for some guys to be open and upfront about their feelings? I'm asking because the guy I have been interested in a shy guy. I'm wondering why it seems as if he likes me yet he hasn't made a move. I'm a nice girl in no way am i stuck up are unpleasant. Why is it ... (67 words)

Is this normal after masturbation?

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, this was my first time masturbating. Not really, just the first time I spent long enough on it to get a feeling. I didn't even go deep, just the surface. It's hard to describe. This feeling, but I'm sure you know what it is. Anyway... I was wondering, is it normal to keep ... (121 words)

Married virgins!

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Are their any married virgins? I am working on a project and looking to hear some of their stories. Please post your stories. Thank you... (26 words)

Would stomach growling turn you off?

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a bit of an embarrassing question but it's something I deal with personally. Would it turn you off if the person you were interested in had a stomach that growled loudly all the time? My tummy always seem to growl and it's really embarrassing especially in the classes I ... (55 words)

Is he interested in me? (All comments are appreciated)

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had a crush on a classmate of mine for a while. At my lunch one of his buddies yelled out "hey (his name) likes you." For a while he was always staring at me in class and asking me to borrow my pens and always sat near me. Despite all of this he never really talked to me ... (233 words)

She doesn't care about me at all, and now I think I HATE her; but I'm still upset that I lost her as a friend.

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was best friends with this girl since I was in the 3rd grade, were almost done high school now and I feel like she's become a totally different person. She ignores me, expects me to work around her schedule and basically does nothing to prove to me that she is a considerate ... (234 words)

What does it mean when a guy has condoms?

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - He has condoms at his place.. when I go to see him he's got condoms when we are going to have sex.. basically he has condoms in his room.. does this mean he's ******* other girls as well and that girls comes over to have sex..?? Please is he sleeping around??? What does it mean ... (60 words)

I'm really mad at him and I rather not talk to him. What do I do?

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23 January 2009 (?) age 41-50 - My husband and me had this horrible fight about our money issues (which is the only thing we ever fight about). It got so bad he call me a stupid cow. He got me all upset and I slept at a friend's house. He's calling me nonstop (and it's getting annoying) or texting me. I'm ... (70 words)

Do you have to be a member of Zoosk in order to contact someone?

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am interested in a guy who I am friends with on Facebook. He has added the "Zoosk" singles application to his profile. I clicked in the 'send a message' box to ask him out for a drink but when I pressed send, my screen just went blank. Does this mean the mes... (121 words)

In love, but getting into boring habits!

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - soo..seems petty but..! Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year, and were really good friends before that. Hes lovely, attractive, charming, outgoing and I really genuinely love him. We had sex for the first time about 8months in, as I had some trust issues to ... (134 words)

Is having "break up sex" a good thing?

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently me and my gf broke up, but we had breakup sex. Is that bad/weird? :S... (16 words)

Don't know if I should give her another chance...

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - for what happened the second time this is the link i ended up giving her another chance but im not sure if i should give her another. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-really-dont-understand-her-actions.html well anyway when i first met her she told me she was a... (355 words)

I have had an affair for 3 years with a very sexy, experienced man but, ultimately a cad!

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23 January 2009 (F)

age - Dear Cupid,I have had an affair for 3 years with a very sexy, experienced man but, ultimately a cad... The same age as my husband. It was exciting, great sex, but the novelty is wearing off, on both sides now, but he won't admit it. He wants me to end it, so he'll feel in the ... (81 words)

What can I wear that will make him just say, "Damn she's Hot!"

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Going out on a third date with this guy I'm dating. Not sure what to wear to a club. What will make him just say, "Damn she's Hot!" And make him want to take me back to his apartment, rip my clothes right off, and have his way with me...Ummm not really but still I'd like to ... (72 words)

Gay sex tips appreciated.

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey there guys.. I've got a problem which is a tad sentitive. Well I'm 17 and I've been straight up until about 18 or so months ago.. where this belgian lad captured my heart. I've fallen deeply in love with him and yes I'm now fully gay in the sense that I don't look at wo... (180 words)

Unsure if we're compatible...

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Unsure if we're compatible?!? He's a Gemini and I'm a Virgo. Both born 1981. ... (14 words)

I love my girlfriend and her sister.

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23 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Recently, I asked about what to do with my girlfriend's sister. I love my girlfriend and her sister. We all do things together and recently it's elevated to the point where my girlfriend's sister sleeps over all the time and on a few occasions sleeps in the same bed with us. ... (399 words)

My breasts are shrinking!

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23 January 2009 (F) age 30-35 - My breasts are shrinking. Why? I'm 20, and I developed at age 11. I've always been a 36B. I still am, however, since I lost weight, I've lost some volume. However, my weight has been the same since last year. Exactly the same. However, me and my boyfriend both noticed th... (118 words)

A month ago I found out that I wasn't the only one that he was in love with.

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for two months now. Just about a month ago I found out that I wasn't the only one that he was in love with. I was shocked at first and then found out the other girl started dating another guy. Just recently I've found out that he's still in ... (158 words)

Why is it rare?

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23 January 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Why is being a 24 year old virgin rare? Is it a bad thing or a good thing? I'm almost 25. I'm a catholic. I'm saving myself (in a way). I think? I don't have kids yet. However, I have two cousins and a close family friend with kids and a family before 21. Well, maybe not the ... (64 words)

He could just have been saying he cheated because of the fact that he is bipolar but I can't let go of 4 years.

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend dumped me because he said he cheated on me. He's bipolar but I love him how do I get him back or what should I do, I am so confused, I am lost, I am a mess without him, he could just have been saying he cheated because of the fact that he is bipolar but I can't le... (67 words)

He hasn't text me in 4 weeks!!! What's going on here?

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What is going on here? HELPPPP? We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me everyday..last time i saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... and I told him That hes... (215 words)

We are just sexually connected and not on the right level that we should be connected on.

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My situation is pretty complicated. I'm 16 and this boy that i like is gettin his license on the 2nd. thats less then two weeks and he plans on fucking in the car as soon as he gets it. I know that is all he wants cuz he can't even have a normal conversation with me like ... (241 words)

PLEASE HELP - confused, teacher??

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I am a sophomore in a private high school in NJ. Over the past two years me and one of my teachers (female) have gotten very very close. It was her I went to when I began to question my sexual orientation. I'm sort of in love with her and I'm pretty sure s... (249 words)

I am 16 years old and I'm scared that I'll never find someone good for me.

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23 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old and I'm scared that I'll never find someone good for me. It seems like everytime im with someone, i keep thinking that they can change and believe them, and always giving them chances. Thats my problem because it is like im waiting for them to break up with me ... (151 words)