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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How close can friends of the opposite sex be?

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2 January 2009 (F)

- Guys please, My best friend is a man in his mid-forties (I am in my mid-fifties and a trained nurse), we are not romantically involved (even though I would like to be), but my friend talks to me about everything, I mean everything. He has a few health issues right now and is... (230 words)

I really don't know what to do there's 3 years of a difference between us and now I feel folk will talk about us for the year gap

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy who has a child but I used to go with him a couple of years ago and when we split he got into a relationship a couple of weeks later which he was unhappy in but within a few weeks his girlfriend announced she was pregnant what made him want to stay with ... (144 words)

Lost re period problems...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I last had my period in November and it is now January. My period hasn't come in December and it still hasn't come in January and I'm a virgin. I haven't had sex but this has to do with finger popping... should I be worried? What should I do?... (53 words)

My guy is obsessed with anal! - Aunts... I need your thoughts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello My boyfriend is obsessed with anal sex. Any naughty texts I receive are always about how excited he is about "being in my ass later". I don't mind anal sex but it seems like it's all I know these days. He does have sex with me the normal way but only almost as a ... (125 words)

My husband said to me today that he expects he will have a commode and a colostomy bag in 10 years time, and probably Alzheimer's as well.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24, and my new husband's 25. We've been married for 3 months now. My husband said to me today that he expects he will have a commode and a colostomy bag in 10 years time, and probably Alzheimer's as well. He said he doesn't want to be this way, but he thinks it's just... (257 words)

Am I a weird sex freak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

2 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old boy and started having gay feelings a few years ago but no one knows. I'm still a virgin and want 2 shag a girl but recently I've been watching loads of shemale porn. I don't know why but a hot girl with a dick really does do it for me. Am I gay or confused? ... (82 words)

How can I make my boobs bigger???

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - How to make your boobs bigger ??? I'm 13 and my boobs aren't very small they are actually not bad and my bf everything was gud he is one year older and a lot of girls like him but he always loved me cause he knows me well and we were together 8 months but now this high school ... (334 words)

Any information about making the experience of sex beautiful, satisfying, and pleasing for her?

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2 January 2009 (M) age 36-40 - Ladies, Can you reply? I have been seeing a woman who is more than years older than I am. I really like her and would really like to experience sex with a more mature and experienced woman. And in particular I would like to experience sex with her. Any advice about letting he... (133 words)

My husband's sons are thieves!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 25 year old woman and am married, my husband is 46 years old and he has 2 boys. I love my husband and I want to have a kid from him but he doesn't want to me to have kids because he wants his boys grown up first. Okay here is my problem his boys are thieves, they ... (108 words)

I'm mid-thirties and newly single and feel that all my friends have everything I want.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello I'm new to this and am typing this because I feel so down and like life is passing me by and I have no purpose. My relationship has just ended as I didn't think he could make me really happy and I'm mid-thirties and newly single and feel that all my friends have eve... (239 words)

What is the difference between silent treatment and no contact after breakup ?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I often hear giving your ex the silent treatment. Is that the same as n/c ? My b/f broke up with me 3 months ago and we have no contact completely for 8 weeks. He did not acknowledge my birthday, when I sent him email and text to wish him Merry Xmas, he did not respond.... (180 words)

I need help from the girls!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey this question is short and to the point for girls... why do you guys wear the kind of underwear you do??? I'm wondering because my girlfriend is really plain with her underwear so I don't know how I can change that or even if I can!... (47 words)

Help! I am totally addicted to sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am totally addicted to sex and am trying to figure out how to stop but I just can't get a way to go about it, somebody please help!... (29 words)

Did I end up becoming a good friend and not girlfriend material?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there! Ok, I've gone out with this guy a few times. We have lots to talk about and joke around, talk sports, and have driven out for late, late night food cravings. I'm a little tomboyish.. guys love it! But this guy I'm soooo into... he text, calls me, gone out on date... (71 words)

Background and getting on better in life.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do the people form the housing estates get on better than people who are from a better background? Most I like are from housing estates or trailer trash(underclass) and they are a lot better than me in life, they have everything and I have nothing, The guys I like from thes... (101 words)

I'm shy when it comes to sex even though I desperately don't want to be.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having sex for about 5 months now with my boyfriend who I love more than anything and don't regret one minute with, but when we do have sex, he's always on top, he desperatley wants me to go on top and try other positions but I feel completley stupid when we try, he's ... (163 words)

My best friend's brother has cancer...

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice.... my best friend's brother has just been diagnosed with cancer and I want to be able to support her as long as she needs me. How do I let her know that I am here for her, she will put up a facade and act like everything is all right but it will be really ... (107 words)

I can’t just be friends because I’ll always want more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend split with me 3 months ago because she says I couldn’t talk to her and that made her worry about what future we would have. We’d been together for over a year, been through some hard times with exs and stood by each other no matter what was thrown at us. W... (389 words)

Should I really feel bad about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl I have always liked right from childhood days at school. As we grew up everybody thought we looked good together and I thought so too. Just that she never gave me the chance. I knew she liked me too but just won't let it happen between us. We eventually split to ... (307 words)

End it or not?

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in love but the thing is I have suspicions on my girl. I think she goes and sees her ex, you see she did that to one of my close friends but says it was payback for something. I find it hard to trust her at times but at other times my trust for her is unbreakable, I just ... (229 words)

Attitude change

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm an 18 year old girl that has never spent a lot of time thinking about boys. I have had a few short relationships and I know what love feels like, but I'm the type of girl that puts school first. To give you an idea. Now, some months ago I happened to cross p... (360 words)

Why is he playing games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have this friend I've known for a few years. We're constantly in and out of one another's lives and most of our relationship is on the phone. I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend but we do a lot of flirting and seem to love tlking about having sex with one another.... (235 words)

How do you know when a relationship is over???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

- Hay guys, advise please. I found out 2 months ago that I was pregnant (5 months to date) and I'm not entirely sure if I want to be a mum. Don't get me wrong I don't want to get rid of the baby it's just that I'm not sure if I want to be a mum - have I mentioned that im 21? ... (293 words)

I want to ask if I should keep being friends of if I should try and say that I like him?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I really fancy this boy who I've been friends with for a while now. He's 17 and I'm 14 and we have really intimate open conversations and I don't know if this is his way of flirting with me or if he's just really open with his conversations. He's sent me drunk texts and ... (155 words)

Should I give things more time, if so how long?

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I'm a gay guy in my mid thirties I dated a guy in Aug (also in his mid thirties) the relationship lasted about 2 months after which he said it's not working for him. I was not particularly happy with the relationship as I felt there was very little passion there from him. He ... (234 words)

I am worried about my relationship, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys, i have a girl i love so much. she is muslim and am chirstian so it took a long time for us to get along. i gave her all the time she needed to think about it when i told her i wanted a relationship. she eventually agreed. after almost 2 months of our relationship, i ... (255 words)

I don't know who to choose now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

2 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I went to see a girl called Lucy, we said we loved each other and we talked about doing many sexual things however, we had a part at hers and I got with her best friend. It was the first time me and her friend met up. When she made the first move I said I loved Lucy howev... (80 words)

Do all the signs point to him liking me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i like this boy for about a month and a half, and i really like him and he likes me back too, i think. He always comes to speak to me at lunch, told me to take the 'shortcut' home when really it took longer, and he tells his friends he likes me but my friends says he ... (138 words)

My husband has an addiction to strippers & lap dances.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has spent over $90K on lap dances in the past 4 - 5 years, exhausting any savings we might have had. Since getting caught, he's quit, but I can't believe the addiction isn't still there. Stay or divorce? ... (44 words)

What can I do or take to lessen my chance of getting pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - yesterday me and my bf ended up having unprotected sex. i know it was really stupid so in not looking for thoses comments saying "well u shouldnt have had sex in the first place u stupid girl" caz i know it was stupid. ok i was stying the night at his house caz it was new year ... (191 words)

Did I do something wrong here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - after speaking to him how i feel about the fact that he still had a photo of his ex wife on their wedding done, and her number under sweetheart. I told him how feel and hurt i was. To make a long story sort, he said i am special to him and i mean a lot to him, the photo was ... (183 words)

Guys, girls, I need your insight on my situation with my longtime crush.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm a common 18 year old girl that has been plunged into the depths of lovesickness! I'm in desperate need of love advice - so please help me if you can! Here's my question... Ever since I was 7, I've really REALLY liked this guy that was 4 years older than me (I.e. ... (1557 words)

He treats me more like a slut than his GF.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i really love my boyfriend, but he doesnt treat me the way i want to be treated. the way he talks 2 me is always dirty (sexual) and i want him to b more romantic and chivalrous towards me. he says that he is romantic cos he gives me presents, but i dont think givin... (110 words)

My 9 y/o son is taking pictures of his privates, should I be concerned?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My son who is 9 received a digital camera for christmas. when i looked at it to day he has taken pictures of his privates on it. should i be concerned or is he just curious etc? please help!... (40 words)

Should I worry that my period is so early?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - erm ok, well... im 'on' and its come on really early normally it starts towards the end of each month and ive had my periods for like nearly a year now and im unsure about this. i know that at the start its all iffy and stuff but for the past few months its always been towards ... (103 words)

Should I just stay out of my neighbors drama?

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2 January 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I have neighbors that live in the same duplex building. They were divorced when I met them. I started out as friends with the man because he has a son a couple years older then my daughter. Then when his ex moved in we became friends and I don't talk to him anymore. For a while ... (205 words)

Should I call him or his friend???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I broke up on the 28th after a really happy day together full of cuddling, laughing, and watching tv...but that night he said "lets just be friends" I was so confused and upset...he says he still likes me...and I really like him. Well we havnt really... (359 words)

He calls me "Buddy". Did we wait too long and now we're in the friend zone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I've known this guy since May 2008. We talked, and talked thru email. Then, we finally exchanged #'s in July! After that..I was starting a new relationship. We still kept in touch, but not so much at the end. I ended things with my ex..and he was the first one who knew. ... (154 words)

What could this guy be thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - We were good friends for a long time. then we got involved. We still hang out from time to time. I think he might be seeing someone now, though he's only seeing random people and no girlfriend that I can think or know of. he says he wants to go do things but when we do it's ... (292 words)

How do I deal with my girlfriend moving out? Is it the right choice?

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - How to deal with my girlfriend moving out? Is it the right choice? I am 21 years old and have been with a girl for 2.5 years. We still go to college and work full time jobs. We are both very bright, intelligent, and "too mature for our age." She studies literature and p... (688 words)

She tells me she wants sex, but freaks out when we get there!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - OK my girlfriend and i have been dating for 7 months!!! its great, we have talked about sex and almost had sex but she freaks out, her ex and her did and it ended up disastrous, i dont press the issue cause i really do love her but she tells me she wants sex and then freaks ... (111 words)

I'm terrified of talking to guys - how do I start interesting conversations?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need a kick start here in terms of my non-existant social life. Basically... I have always been shy, its just in my nature, but have made a few good, close friends. But now we're at the stage where everyone wants to go out and party. I'd love to, but, the thing i... (135 words)

My girlfriend and cousin don't get along, how can I fix this?

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, My girlfriend is so amazing and i messed up. My cousin doesnt like her and told me she saw my girl friend with her ex, well it was a lie and i found that out after i chewed her out. What do i do? yesterday the 1st made 7 months, its been rough coming but its s... (117 words)

A husband who was planning to cheat... what would you do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out that my husband of almost 6 years was planning to cheat on me while I was away for 2 weeks. The person he planned to cheat on me with was supposedly a friend. I found all their messages (which he stupidly archived on Yahoo Messenger) stating that they wanted ... (590 words)

Too many guys, what do I do? Who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I started seeing a married man (S)from work four years ago. I don't want to go into details, but when we got together I was suffering from post traumatic stress. He was a good friend and there for me and I guess even though I was only 24 and him 44 one thing led to another. ... (960 words)

Grief from loss of my daughter and pain from husbands confession to an old affair - how do I handle it all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age - Reading who am I? I walk alone 31th dec. prompted me to write to say how I feel at the moment. I have been married 38 years and blessed with 3 daughters. Sadly my daughter of 35 years died after a very sudden heart problem. The pain of losing her has been unbearable for my ... (369 words)

Since losing my virginity, I'm constantly craving sex... is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i first had sex a few months back with my boyfriend, but sinse we did, i've been craving it constantly afterwards, its not an issue for him as he's obviously not going to say no as a teenager, but is this normal/natural to happen or is it just me? i'm just curious 'cause its ... (59 words)

My parents refuse to accept my boyfriend!

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help i dont know what to do.. come from a strict greek family who dont accept my boyfriend - even though he is greek too. i have known him for years and are perfect together but my parents wont accept it, they wont even let me see him. i have tried speaking to them and ... (119 words)

If I leave him alone like he's asked, will he just end up with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im 22 years old and my ex boyfriend is 33 years old we were together 4yrs before he broke up with me past november because he needed time for himself. we stayed in touch afterwards and on christmas eve i found out he stayed over his ex girls house. we broke it off but after all ... (289 words)

I've always had a higher sex drive than my husband, so why would he go and cheat?

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2 January 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I am confused! I have and always have had a higher sex drive than my husband. The problem is, lack of intimacy is causing my sex drive to dwindle! I am confused because I am 9 years older than my husband! I don't look my age and have never felt it until the last couple of years ... (140 words)

I have a foot fetish and my guy hates his feet touched! What should I do?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a gay man with a serious foot fetish. I started dating this really great guy and I really like him. Unfortunately, he can't stand having his feet touched because they're too ticklish. The only time I got to rub his feet, he kept jerking his foot away and made me stop ... (104 words)

Does it sound like he geniunely likes me? What are your views on my situation?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last week I stayed round my friends in San Fransisco (3 hours away from me) who I had met off the internet 3 years ago, and have always been really flirty and sweet with eachother (we have met up 4 times before) but he's had 2 girlfriends in this period and still flirts with me ... (565 words)

Need real advice, we are on a break from our relationship!

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We also have lived together for 8 months currently in a one bedroom apartment. Whenever we get into a small argument, he never wants to talk about. He gets up goes to the bedroom and gets dressed, At least five times ... (303 words)

First date gone wrong - forget him or give him a second chance?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I met this guy for the first time..yeah our first date! I noticed a few things about him that I thought were rude, weird, hmmm I dunno you tell me. I go out of my way to cook a nice dinner since everything is closed late NYE. I figured it was a nice way to end 2008 and ... (343 words)

How do I find direction in my life?

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2 January 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I feel like my life ended a few years ago but I haven't fallen down yet. I have a job in the security field that I sort of like but it doesn't pay much and I don't work often. I still live at home and I've never had a girlfriend. I'm also really shy. How do I find out what I ... (76 words)

I'm a younger girl who is constantly attracted to older men.

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I've always found older guys more interesting than the ones my own age. I'm 16, and I always seem to find myself looking and thinking about 20-40 year olds. I find myself being, well, more myself around older guys than the ones my age. I was adopted and I only have a ... (115 words)

Should it be allowed for teacher's to date students?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been searching google and stuff, about the laws and reasons of teacher's not being able to date students. I was just wondering what people's views on the law was.... Because, I understand that teacher's are in high authority position and in a position of professional tru... (230 words)

Am I making a move on a man or a statue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm always the one making the first move, he just sits there, makes me feel so unattractive. He says hes no good at this, just wish i could get him to touch me, kiss me. I feel as though i'm kissing and feeling a statue what can i do?... (50 words)

I accidentally kissed my GF's flirty Mom, and now she's mad - how do I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my name is nick and am 22 years old i have a girlfriend jolie and she is 19 we were both so in love until something happened jolie's parents are divorced since she was 11,and she is living with her mom ever since her mom is 43 and she is the reason why am writing this i... (348 words)

Should I tell him what I feel about him or should I just forget everything?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - 2 years ago, I broke up with someone..Well we actually weren't official lovers but we date and talk often and are intimate. You know, that part in a relationship that is complicated and you're somewhere between going up the next level or remaining as special friends. We've been ... (605 words)

His "thing is thickly fearsome" - how can first time sex be easier?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am still unmarried and have a month long relation with a neighborhood boy much younger. he is around 17. he becomes intimate with me almost everyday. first I tried to resist him but nowadays I feel lots of pleasure from the activities. he now demands my first time with him. I ... (72 words)

He's married - is it still possible for me to have a friendship with him?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a (married) guy quite some time ago, and he was recently working in the town where I live in. I stopped by to see him while he was working (he asked me to). When I saw him, he seemed quite flustered when we were chatting. We were planning on meeting to get coffee the ... (160 words)

I read his e-mail to another woman and now I think he'd rather have her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i read an email which my boyfriend had sent to a work colleague on new years eve, saying how he is upset she is being distant, and how he wishes that she thought of him in a different way. he goes on to say that he is older, they do the same job, and he gets along with her ... (161 words)

Could I be pregnant? Please help me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i had unproctected sex with my boss on dec 27. he was only inside me for about 5 mins, but before he went inside me i noticed the tip of his penis was very wet and i think i might have ovaleted the day before. could i be pregnant? and what are the chances?. im not due my perio... (68 words)

Torn between two boys - how do I break a heart?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - help i am torn between two boys and im only a teenager. i have known this boy a while and he`s my best friend. he helps me out all the time and recently he told me he loved me and wanted to be more than friends. then the other boy came in and swept me off my feet. he`s gorgeous ... (79 words)

How do I get him to be more passionate with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm with a man i adore but our sex life is not so good. I'm the one who always makes the first move, i touch him but he dosn't touch me back. theres no foreplay, don't think hes had much experiance. I try and move my hands to where i want to be touched, but he dosn't seem to ... (81 words)

Is she having a text message affair with this guy or is it all innocent like she says?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

2 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hey guys iam new to this site and want your advice. I have a girlfriend i have been seeing for quite some few months and things have really been going well with us until recently when i went through her phone and found text msgs from a guy i had confronted her about who she has ... (708 words)

Cousin chasing her and he molested her years ago

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, i need some advice.um 16, Well i m wid dis gal for 18months,she s 15.she was molested by her cousin when she was 11.that cousin apologized to her after some day. Now da boy is back.i hate him like anything.now he s doing things to impress my gf, he s 19 n ugly. He said ... (131 words)

Spice up the sex life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

2 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How can i spice up our sex life if he won't even touch me, it seems i'm the one doing all the touching. How do i get him to do more foreplay... (32 words)

Too much hair!

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well here goes this is inbarassing but oh well im 14 and have alot of hair down below every time i shave it , it grows back evan more i hate it i cant evan go swimming i havnt been in ages and i just want to get rid of it all completely please help any advice ....x signed ... (67 words)

Mixed signals after first date

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2 January 2009 (M) age 41-50 - ok here goes..went out on somewhat of a blind date that was set up by a mutal friend..it wasn't so much blind b/c we exchanged pics and there was a mutal attraction. the date went great..we laughed and really hit it off..when i got home, she texted me and said that i was an ... (275 words)

I have higher sex drive!

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Recently told my boyfriend how i feel regarding our releatiionship. I have a higher sex drive than him and said we were lacking intamacy and passion, his reply was he has never been any good in that department. He's a good guy and i love him to bits but i feel i'm not getting ... (66 words)

Should we let a relative impregnate her?

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2 January 2009 (M)

age - Here's a question for you.... I'm soon to be 46 divorced father of 3, remarried for 9 years now (Happily). My wife is 35 and has 1 child from previous marriage (16 yrs old). I had a vasectomy done after my 3rd child in 1994, my wife wants to have another child and feels ... (176 words)

I love him but confused!

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this would be really complicated if I didn't start from the beginning so it's going to be long.... When I was in one of my classes the first day of school my sophmore year and everyone was coming in I first noticed him and immediately began crushing on him. He walked in ... (682 words)

I like guy who doesn't talk to me anymore

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 14 and there is this guy who i have known for ages,we have been out before but i dumped him because i over reacted about something, but halloween 2007 i fell out with another friend and now neither of them are talking to me but i want to make friends but i want to go out ... (85 words)

What is wrong with me? I've got wedding jitters??

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I'm glad I found this website. I have something I need to get off my chest, and would really appreciate any comments. I'm sorry this is going to be a little verbose. I've been with my g/f over 12 years. One year ago, I finally took the plunge and we got engag... (938 words)

2 years and I'm not over my ex

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2 January 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I split up with someone almost two years ago and I can't seem to get over him. Everyday I think about him and feel sad. I don't know what to do, I miss him so much and feel there is a big hole in my life since we split. I know I have to move on, life just feels so meaningless ... (166 words)

Have a partner but in love with my ex-brother-in-law

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what should i do? hi im 18 and have been in a relationship for nearly two years, we are engaged and i have a baby girl with my partner. but all we do is argue with each other. i love him but, i have had a crush on my ex brother-inlaw since i was 8 years of age and now i ha... (101 words)

I still love my ex-wife and can't get closure

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2 January 2009 (M)

age - I've been divorced two years now from Rose (we were married for 20 years, 2 wonderful and beautiful daughters . I am still deeply in love with Rose. She was the one who wanted the divorce, even though for 5 years I pleaded for us to get counseling, but she would not. Nev... (464 words)

My boyfriends best friend wants to date me, now what?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so here is the thing. i date my current boyfriend. well his used to be best friend called me and left me a message saying he wanted to go out with me, the thing is i've known him for 5 years and i used to be in love with him in 3rd grade! i've only known my boyfriend for 6 ... (175 words)

14 dating a 23 year old with kids

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 and my boyfirend is 23. i have know him since i was 5 and we started dating 3 mounths ago. but he has a girlfriend and 2 kids. i am bi and so is his girlfriend and we have had a three some. he says he loves me but i don't know what im getting myself into. please help.... (61 words)

I feel ignored by my friends, should I leave them and find new mates?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - recently my so called mates don't ask me if im coming out, or want to stay and they are always together that doesn't bother me it just annoys me that they don't ask me anymore, and because im being excluded. also recently i asked one of them if they wanted to hang out, they ... (165 words)

Says he loves me but won't break up with his girlfriend

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 and he is 21. That isn't the problem though. He has a girlfriend. I have spoken to him about it and the only thing he says is you know how i feel about the situation. He claims to love me but then he doesnt want to break up with his girlfriend or hurt her. How does this ... (75 words)

Wife cheated while wearing her wedding dress

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife cheated on me. The guy she did it with wanted her to wear her wedding dress while she sucked him off and while he fucked her. She did this for him, and let him cum all over her dress. I'm not sure what i should be feeling here, but its not anger??? ... (54 words)

Why don't women appreciate a good guy?

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my gf hasnt been giving me respect as her man, lover. we became a couple in may, but she dumped me in july n we got back together same month.i found out in that time she had sex with another man. i also found out by going through her emails that i was just a rebound bf to her ... (299 words)

He dumped me for another girl and lives next door!

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have just been dumped after a relationship of 17 months. I met him just as he hit on a very difficult time in his life financially and was very reticent to get involved at first. But i did. i stuck with him through the hard times and fell head over heals. I was all ready to ... (182 words)

He wants to leave his girlfriend for me but I'm scared in case he hurts me again, help!

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi pips, i've been in a relationship with pat(2003) and broke up (2005) it hasnt always been easy,cheats lies and everything i guess we were both young then, we recently got together we both have kids with different partners, the thing is we still love each other. the probl... (134 words)

Having an affair with a married man, what do I do?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age - i've been married for 20 years and fell out of love with my husband and now having an affair with a married man which i know he loves his wife and probably will never leave her.I've know him for a couple of months but whenever were together there's a special bond between ... (61 words)

Will I always wonder - what could have been?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Cutest story ever. A guy I knew freshman year of high school set me up with his best friend, a sophomore. We "dated" for a month. By "dated," I mean we talked on the phone and went to homecoming together. We never held hands, we never kissed, etc. We were each other's first ... (280 words)

We agreed that the only way to stay together is to have a baby... should we do it??

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - ok ummm im 13 and my gf is 17 weve been together for nearly a year and i love her with all my heart ........do you think that its a big age diffrence for us? also her parents hate me so much! i cant talk to her anymore kuz they caught us having sex!? we both are christians and ... (110 words)

I know I need a new boyfriend. I am just never attracted to anyone. Am I depressed?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have dated off and on for twenty years. At some point, he married a woman and had more kids with her while having one with me. Needless to say, this has caused some rocky times. Basically, he has been juggling both of us this whole time. The interesting ... (445 words)

What are some good erogenous zones?

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everone I have a question. I am wondering on how best to pleasure my gf when I go down on her. She insists on staying a virgin till she's 18 and I respect that but we do have our fun. And I'm wondering how best I can pleasure her when I go to eat her out. And what ar... (71 words)

Telling someone how you feel - say it? Or write it?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - f you were going to tell someone how you feel - they've been confusing you so much and you dont know whats going on and you need to explain something about whats been happening with you. is it better to say it to them? or is it better to write it down and have them ... (193 words)

If a guy was just trying to "score a virgin"... would he...?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This question is more for the guys (lol) (this is a girl that is asking tho) If a guy was just trying to 'Score a virgin', get a 'v-card' or whatever - not nice but there are guys like that!!! lol 1. Would you still keep the girl around ? 2. Or ditch her? 3. How long ... (119 words)

Does this mean he still cares?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my ex broke up with me a few months ago 4 some 1 he claims he's in love with. And we agreed 2 stop talking he Instant messaged me saying happy new year should I talk 2 him? Does this mean hee still cares? ... (50 words)

Do I tell him I regret him being my first?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Everything is a bit of a mess really lol.im going to tell him how i feel, how he's making me feel etc etc. I dont know what we are. Seeing each other, the next friends - with him saying 'for now/not ruling it out' and then theres been a few things that make me think 'what ... (289 words)

I am told I'm a failure and a stalker, what can I do to change their opinions?

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, heres the story, my whole high school life so far, ive gotten no where in regards to relationships. I am constantly rejected, constantly told that im a failure, and constantly told that i am a creeper and a stalker. I have eased up on it a lot recently, and havent ran ... (90 words)

Why would you tell a girl that you still smile at her pictures?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - if you told a girl (that you were seeing, now friends) that you still smile at her pictures and they are very cute.... - what would be your reasons for saying it? just for the sake of it? for a nice comment? telling her you still feel more? no reason at all?... (57 words)

I like the younger brother, but the older one is into me. Help?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 14 years old and i don't have the best past with older boys. The situation that Im in right now is difficult for me to figure out what to do. First off the guy that likes me is a senior and I am a freshman. I like this boy who is a freshman and i have slept at his hou... (381 words)

Husband is always cheating, should I start a relationship with my brother-in-law?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am married and recently have fallen in love with my husbands younger brother. he is also attracted towards me coz every chance he gets he stays near me, holds my hand but we don't have the courage to tell each other directly wat we feel. my husband and I are not in good ... (80 words)

I'm in love and he's a druggie - did he take advantage of me?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 14 years old and no im not exactly sure what love feels like but if i had to guess im pretty sure it would feel the way im feeling about this guy. My best guy friend introduced me to his best friend (the guy i like) and ever since I cant get my mind off of him. I slept ... (376 words)

Any ideas on how to start a cash business?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont have a relationship question, i would just like to know would it be possible to start a cash business and earn 10K a month from that? Also what kind of a cash business would be the best start? Anything right now will be worth the effort!... (48 words)

She wants to move to second base but I get nervous!

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, im a 16 year old guy and me and my girlfriend want to move to 2nd base but i dont really know how to start it off, and on top of that i sometimes get nervouse around her even though we have been dating for 4 months. What can i do to get less nervous and what can i do to ... (73 words)

Help with anal, oral and videotaping it all?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey my bf wants to try anal and he wants me to swallow his cum and videotape it all im cool with the videotaping part though. i just need to know how to give him the most pleasure in anal and how to recieve anal, also i need to know how to give a blowjob? help plz lol... (58 words)

Am I overreacting? He slapped me.

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My Best friend is a guy and we have been best friends for almost 4 and a half years. A year ago we were at work,and I said out loud how much money he had,even though nobody had heard me, he got mad and lightly slapped me across my face.I got so mad,and he promised he wouldn't ... (483 words)

I'm so tired of living with this curse, what have I done to deserve this?

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - dear cupid : my life is like hell . i am from a very respectful family "Muslim family" working in a respectful job as an engineer, the problem is that I am gay and I have known it long time ago... but as per my religion and traditions as a middle eastern that is totally forbi... (481 words)

What should I do about her not talking to me?

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2 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend is to allergic nuts. One day randomly bumped into her. She lean in to kiss me but I couldn't let her because I had nuts that day and not being aure what her reaction would be. She got upset and before I could explain, she got out of my car slam the door behind ... (76 words)

Should I try to wait on him to come around??

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 21 year old female who is feeling real lost and confused. I have been dating this man for about 3 months now. At first we spent so much time together and went out with each other all the time.I met his family and everything. Then I started to notice him acting a bit ... (317 words)

Part of me wonders if he's playing games with me...

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I meet this guy online six years ago!!!! and i do care about him with all my heart, but there is a part of me that wonders is he playing games with me!!!! because he never says anything only that i repeat myself over and over and he hates it.I told him good bye!!! but i wrote ... (128 words)

I see how my lying has pushed my wife away- is it too late?

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - please help. I am about to loose my wife of nine years due to my constant lying. the lying wasn't malicious . we have 3 kids and i want to to get this fixed she has not made up her mind. i have hurt her and she says she does not know if she can trust me anymore? i start... (70 words)

How do I break it to her?

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - can men change their minds in one night about love beetween two diffrent girls? cause one night when i went to bed i loved emily but the next morning i loved rowan. so i tolled my mom and she said i talk more about rowan than emily when we were going out. and befor las... (105 words)

Is there a difference between having spark and having passion?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there a difference between having sparks and having passion if so what? Thanks in advance... (16 words)

My best guy friend beat me up - am I overreacting to what he did to me?

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2 January 2009 (F)

I'm 14 and really want a baby, I'm just nervous about the pregnancy part.

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, im 14 and my boyfriend is 15. We both are really ready for a baby and actually have been wanting one ever since summer of 2008. I know for fact i am ready for the taking care part of it, but not so sure about the pregnancy part. I love kids and have always wanted to become ... (101 words)

Should I continue to pursue this online relationship, or is it a waste of my time?

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Here it is, one of the most oft-used opening statements in any relationship question asked on any site like this one; I met a girl online. Yeah, there it is. Just to get it out of the way (because I see stupid comments like this in any question similar), she's definitely... (499 words)

Are my friends cutting me out?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 years old and I feel like all my friendships are falling apart. I was diagnosed with anxiety when I was 15, I decided to stay home after graduating high school and go to a community college here, while my friends went off to other schools. One of my friends I have known ... (134 words)

I'm in love with a friend that doesn't feel that way about me!

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So theres this girl that I have been friends with for atleast 3 years and we r best friends. All my other friends know I like her and they are always messin' with me about it. So one day, word got around our little group of friends and she found out, so I flipped. I called ... (128 words)

Should a married person hug their ex?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i feel really annoyed with my husband because he hugged his exgirlfriend and did'nt come over and say this is my wife her name is**** but turned and hugged her back just like they're old friends. Question should a married person go up and hug their ex... (47 words)

What can I do to be happy again?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy who used to live in the same town as me. Now he has moved half way across the country. I know i am a bit young, being still in highschool but there is something about him that after two years i still haven't gotten over him. Sometimes we will talk, and just over ... (157 words)

Why am I falling for him and when will he ask me out?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - whats wrong with me? why do i like this guy so much. all hes done is ruin my reputation, and stuff. he told his friends he slept with me, and one of them comes up to me and say" you did it for____, why dont u do it for me" i just laughed and walked away....am i o.k?? i swear he ... (150 words)

Will health insurance cover the costs of an abortion?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll just cut to the chase here because I need answers. Fast. I've (I'm almost 19 and a college freshman) been pretty stupid with my ex (whom is 18 and still in high school) lately: we had unprotected sex three times in the last month and I'm mainly trying to get over him but ... (323 words)

The thought of him moving on makes me physically sick...

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was dating this guy for one year. During the first week or so of that relationship, he cheated on me with his ex. During the last week, I found out he sent a letter to a girl at work telling her he was falling in love with her. She didn't feel the same and that didn't go ... (294 words)

Should I tell him my feelings or am I wasting my time?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy, we met up in the city recently and hung out, had a good time went to the movie and madeout. Its sort of been a little awkward ever since, but i could be looking into it. Then he tells me he hooked up with his Ex over new years and she wanted to get back ... (83 words)

Why am I still thinking about him after all this time?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend nearly 3 years. I was with my ex 2 years. As soon as i seen my ex i fancied him yet it took my a while to feel the same way for my current boyfriend at the begging as i had just stated seeing him. I feel mean but 3 years down the track and i love my ... (170 words)

Deeply in love...

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for about six months,i didn't like when i first met him because felt that he was just too serious,the complete opposite of me according to certain things,so he chased me for more than half a month,before we got together,at first i was angry at a guy ... (561 words)

Does my ex love his new girlfriend?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Does my ex love his new gf if he does not leave me alone after i've told him to? I don't know what to think!!? My ex and i dated for 5 years and were engaged for 2. I called the engagement off this past march because i was so scared and wanted to be 100% sure because i... (728 words)

Need marriage advice!

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband left me when I was three months pregnant and didn't come back home until 2 weeks before I have my first child. He has a drug problem and a hot temper. It is hard work getting along with him. I Recently found out i was pregnant again (my first child is only 6 ... (142 words)

Mean Girls: what do I do?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i am 13 and in 8th grade i am kinda overweight but these girls in my spanish class are always trying to start fights with me cause they think it is easy to hurt me but every time they start agrivating me and arguing with me i start arguing back i just cant help it. but after ... (106 words)

Do guys like girls with small boobs that go braless?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do guys like girls with small boobs and going braless ? Also is it trashy to do so ? I'm asking this question because i started dating a new guy and he is great but he always wants me to go braless and likes to see my hard nipples through my shirts. I have small boobs and ... (149 words)

Has anyone gone to a psychic?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Did anyone ever went to a Psychic .. and how lucky were you???... (13 words)

He broke up with me to be single and focus on himself. What do you guys think?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone Me and my BF broke up about 4 months ago. I had no idea why. He just came one day and said, he wants to be single and he needs to focuse on himself. I was absolutely devastated. Our relationship was great as well as sex. I loved him and I know he loved me very mu... (337 words)

My parents are splitting up...help!!

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My Parents have been married for 21 years...ever since they were teenagers themselves but my dad was offered a job which meant he would be away a lot coming back every 2 weeks but after about 4 months of this he started coming home less often and my mum just thought that it was ... (459 words)

How do I have the 'relationship talk' without seeming 'bitchy'?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My long distance boyfriend of two years flew back home yesterday after a two week visit for Christmas and New Year. Because of the extent of distance involved (try me in Australia and him in Europe) whenever we see each other, it is usually for at least a full month every six ... (735 words)

Does a spark when I kiss him mean we are meant to be together?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - when i kss my boyfriend i always get a spark does that mean we were ment for each other ... (19 words)

Dating a cousin?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating this guy and we fell in love. We have spoken about spending the rest of our lives together. Now we have recently found out that we may be related (although I think it's distant). It has really become our concern since his relatives are talking about it so ... (80 words)

What gives you happiness?

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2 January 2009 (M) age 41-50 - Hello everybody!!! Happy 2009! I was wondering ,what do you think, what is the most important thing in your life ,what gives you happiness? ?Is it something ,what you don't have? Or is it something ,what you think ,you will have one day? So basically , I want to know, what do ... (98 words)

I push him away because I'm afraid of getting hurt.

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really scared...because i just realized when i get close in a relationship i have the tendency to push him away. I am not afraid to be in love or staying committed. i just have fear of getting hurt but it looks like i am the one hurting myself. I can't seem to understand ... (261 words)

What's with the mixed signals?

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2 January 2009 (F)

Silent Treatment: when will it end?

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - got a close friend who i been friends with for 4years. His a bit stubborn and never admitted his fault or i've never heard him say sorry. Anyway we used to talk so much, get along and we now live together at uni, we're flat mates. We both live our own lives have girlfrie... (472 words)

Painful after painful relationship....

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone, I have had 3 painful relationships one after another. The first one lasted nearly 2 years, we were thinking to get married, at least i was, but he cheated on me and left me for another girl. after that i could not overcome this situation for a long time.Because ... (566 words)

Why can't he say "I love you" after 4 years of crazy sex?!

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2 January 2009 (F)

age - Can a man who shows every signs of loving a woman not be able to say "I love you" even after 4 years of crazy sex? I always thought that I could recognize love. I know that many women mistake lust for love...but is it possible that a man may love you and never actually tell ... (73 words)

Is it my fault my girlfriend is throwing up?

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2 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I was at my girlfriend's house (alone). We watching a video and making out. She had to go the washroom. 15 minutes later or so I heard something crash in the bathroom. I got worried and went to the washroom. I found my gf was pass out on the floor and vomit in the toilet. I ... (86 words)

Why can't I get as hard as I used to?

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey..am 16 and i had "sex" 2 months ago..ive put it on quotes coz it was embarassing..we were at the beach with no clothes..anyway..i got hard but when i got inside her i started to loose the hardness ..it was soo cold that night and i had no clothes on..anyway from that day i ... (95 words)

I need your advice with my "A-hole" husband.

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2 January 2009 (F)

age - My husband only thinks about himself. He truely believes that he is a better and a more important person than I am, because he makes more money than I do. We always have to do what he wants. All of his brothers tells me that he has always been this way, and fear that he will ... (154 words)

Should I keep trying or get out before he does?

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2 January 2009 (F) age - It's a new year big question. I hope there is some good observations. I'm contemplating of divorce, after 23 years. Here are my problems. Luck of affection.,from him ,luck of involvement, luck of trying to fix things in relationship. Luck of communication, about ide... (314 words)

Do all men feel it's okay to cheat if they don't get caught?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age - Do all men feel it's ok to cheat if they knew they wouldn't get caught? And is it true that men are not naturally monogamous? Do every one of them really feel trapped by women who want a monogamous relationship?... (41 words)

Should I break up with him? I don't know if I can keep this a secret.

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of three years got a DUI for the third time so they are keeping him in Jail. I haven't had a close relationship with his brother but because of this situation we had been spending a lot of time together. On Christmas eve he came over and we had already agreed that ... (219 words)

Does it sound like he genuinely likes me?

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2 January 2009 (F)

Should I be worried about my husband running around with his cousin? He's a known cheater.

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband and i have been together for almost 5 years now, we have a 2 year old and another one on the way. i have always had a problem with him running around with his cousin. his cousin is a known cheater, and going through a divorce because of it. my husband has not really ... (91 words)

Will a break fix everything or have we just grown too far apart?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been engaged to my partner for 5 years, and together for 6 1/2 years. We started dating when I was young (17) and I guess you could say it it my first love (same for him he is 27). We had set a date for our marriage over a year ago but recently I have been dreading... (182 words)

Is she totally over this forbidden love?

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I had a girlfriend and we just broke up a week ago.. Our love was so intimate .. She was younger than me though..She's 16 but she thinks maturely..(I guess).. The reason for our break up was because of her mother... Her mother doesn't like me at all..It's because of my dad... M... (193 words)

How do I get through to her and show her this guy isn't good enough?

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, There is this girl who I am crazy about and have been for about 3 years now. We are really close friends and have had loads of chances to ask her out but have always chickened out. Now, she is dating someone. More to the point, the guy she is dating is one of my b... (132 words)

Will he get bored and leave? All we do is snog!

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to be able to have fun with my boyfriend. all we ever seem to do is snog,head to the bedroom and thats the end of that. its oring and im afraid he will get as board as i am and leave. any suggestions??? thanks xxx... (47 words)

I've fallen for the girl I call my best friend!

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been bestfriend with this girl for a while now and I really have fallen for her! I told her how I felt and she said she felt the same way but if anything went wrong in a relationship she didnt want to lose me. I saw what she meant. Its been 3 weeks since I told her and ... (119 words)

How do I get the trust back?

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 28 and been in a serious relationship for the last 2 years, and have been living together for the last year. We have had alot of issues with fighting and i admit i can have a very hot temper. She travels back and forth to see family where she lives on holidays and such and ... (439 words)

Has his flirting increased?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, just giving an update about a previous subject I posted on here: I had mentioned that I'm good friends with a former college prof (I've since graduated). I know he's about twice my age, but I don't care cause we get along so well. Below's my attempt at a quick update on ... (453 words)

I don't understand him at all... can someone please help me?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm sorry this is so long but it's a bit of a long story. My bf of two years and I broke up in mid-November and there's been some weirdness between me and my ex. Let's start with episode 1 (I'm sorry it's so long but I can't figure out how to shorten it and get the whole story ... (1330 words)

Is he worth all this hassle?

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for two years. When we started going out, our relationship was perfect, we spoke on the phone a lot, texted and saw each other regularly. I always thought that when you were in a long distance relationship, the ... (462 words)

How long on average does a guy last in bed?

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2 January 2009 (M)

- Just a quick question, for guys or girls, probably mainly for the guys but, how long on average do you last in bed? I haven't had sex for a while and it's getting to the point I'm avoiding it because I'm afraid I'm going to be premature and get embarrassed about it. Thanks... (53 words)

All about female feet

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2 January 2009 (M)

age - Hi Fade878 Thank you for your suggestion and here I am for all to see what it was about. It called my attention that some women here share with us their appreciation for the beauty of their feet. Unfortunatly the comments are very light or brief. It may be lack of things to say ... (485 words)

How would you go about asking your best friend and the girl of your dreams to senior prom?

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2 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How would you go about asking your best friend and the girl of your dreams to senior prom? We're still a few months away from it, but I've been thinking about this since last Halloween. I like her a lot and I'm thinking she likes me, too. I guess I just a bit of a nudge. Thanks ... (63 words)

Why does my boyfriend treat me like this??

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well where do I start... I'm nearly 19 and i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. When i first met him, i wasn't the one that was keen but the more time i spent with him the more i realised i was falling for him. He was so nice and caring the first year, always put my fe... (426 words)

2 guys dunno who to pick!

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2 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - re posted as wrong info included! 2 guys dunno who to pick! New Year = New Start - - Should I make it a brave one? towards the back end of 2008 i found myself in a right muddle!! Theres this guy at work that i really do like i like him sooo much the problem being he k... (537 words)