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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What do you think... Is he trying to make me jealous?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I live in a small town where everybody knows each other and there’s not a lot of people your own age. There’s this boy (I’ll pretend his name is Aiden) and he lives on a farm outside a close town. We both go to the same church. There isn’t a good church in his town and so he ... (1139 words)

My wife and me have been married for 3 weeks now. But a little problem I never saw her breasts.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My wife and me have been married for 3 weeks now. But a little problem I never saw her breasts. Even when we were dating she wouldn't let let me see them. She said they'll gross me out (she has a long scar one of them) and also she thinks she didn't deserve me. I try make her ... (102 words)

Am I Considered A Whore?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, so here is the thing. i am questioning myself "if i am a whore?" well okay, a little while back i went somewhere with these two guys. i took a pill (not sure what it was but my friend said it would make me feel relaxed) and i started to make out with this dude i just met ... (135 words)

Mom too judgemental - don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

18 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Ok my problem has to do with my mom. I have been seeing this guy and I want him to meet my parents my dad is totally ok with it, but my mom is very judgmental, she has this ideal guy in her head and if a guy I'm interested in doesn't meet her standards she starts talking badly ... (93 words)

A question abut transexuals!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I know transexuals have penises, but I was wondering if they have testicles and do they cum? or do they just not have everything a guy does down there?... (29 words)

Big argument!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, the other day me and my best mate were in the park chatting to her boyfriend and his mates and somehow my boyfriend saw us and later that day me and my mate where at my house and my boyfriend came round and started shouting at me and then he grabbed me by my arm and threw ... (106 words)

Should I tell my partner I cheated a year ago?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we are both in our mid-late twenties. He put me in a very vulnerable position early in relationship which I forgave him for and we worked through it. Last year I made a stupid mistake and cheated on him. I couldn't tell him,a s I know ... (163 words)

I have thoughts on a regular basis that the two of us should probably go our separate ways.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for just over 4 years, we met at university and have been together ever since. However I can remember as little as 6 months had passed before I started to have doubts; the doubts were usually pushed aside by long periods of feeling pretty happy. ... (231 words)

I've never done this before! How do I let him down easy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out my boyfriend of 3 months has full custody of his 2 small children from a previous marriage. How he kept this from me I have no idea. I have chosen not to have children of my own because I simply do not want to deal with them. I also do not want to take car... (147 words)

Is there a difference in northern men in the U.S. compared to southern men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there a difference in Northern men in the U.S. compared to southern men? Well here is the question, since I'm attracted to someone that's from Alabama, and I happen to be from Michigan, I was only wondering if there is a difference in Northern men compared to the southern... (75 words)

I need some advice with my mother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - For the longest time I can't even remember when it started, I had a strong sexual attraction to my mother and I still do till this day. I have a girlfriend, she knows about this and sometimes she tells me to think of her when we have sex but for some reason the urges will not ... (73 words)

Discussing difficult situation from past with new girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17, and a junior in high school. Last summer, an ex girlfriend of mine falsely accused me of attempted rape. The case didn't get very far, the police dropped it almost immediately, and another organization that specializes in sex abuse cases for minors found me innocent ... (313 words)

He says if I don't stop being so jealous and insecure it's not going to work, But I can't help it, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years. We have had good times and bad. This my first relationship, well real relationship. Every other guy in my life has hurt me. I feel like I'm not good enough for him. He looks at porn a lot and it makes me feel even worse. I feel ... (131 words)

I'm sure permanent lovesickness can cause damage - and I need some motivational tips.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm a common 18 year old girl that has been plunged into the depths of lovesickness! I'm in desperate need of love advice - so please help me if you can! Here's my question... Ever since I was 7, I've really REALLY liked this guy that was 4 years older than me (i.e. at... (1558 words)

I'll use her this time, what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age - Male x gf who's 46 left me 13 years ago but still calls me and talks about moving back... she's married and it's her 2nd marriage since leaving me. She has bipolar and used to drink where she didn't know what she was doing. Sometimes that was a turn on for me because sex is ... (115 words)

I have never felt so emotionally obliterated since our break up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my ex for 2 years and I was doing fine after we broke up. I felt that after he moved 2 hours away and I couldn't get a job to be with him. Our odds of feelings changing and fights increasing from lack of time to see eachother and the long commute, were high. We ended ... (277 words)

I'm very unconfident about my genitals

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm so unconfident about my body especially my genitals. I can't bring myself to get undressed in front of my new girlfriend as i have never properly been intimate with someone and i can't stand the way i look. Without trying to be too crude- my testicles are very small and ... (129 words)

My husband is cheating--do you think it will work out with him and the other woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i need help i've been married since may 2008, but we have been together for 5 1/2 years we have a daughter together who is 2yrs almost 3. My husband has been cheating on me for the past 5 months, well the girl hes with is 21yrs and he is 34yrs. well i did speak to the girl... (325 words)

We broke up because of sex and I want her back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my gf had been going out foe 5 months ok? We were each other's first make out partner all the way to oral sex in this time. All of the people in school said we were a beautiful couple and we were perfect for each other. Even some teachers told me this! However one night ... (395 words)

My b/f & I just can't communicate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

- I don't understand why my b/f and I cannot communicate. He can be so patient and kind when talking to other family members or friends, as they ramble on and on about endless details on things I know he couldn't care less about but the minute I try to share something with him, ... (157 words)

Fiance doesn't want sex-treats me like a room mate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 years old, have been dating the same guy for 3 years and engaged for 2. We have a 1 year old little girl together. He is a great father, but lately he is not such a great partner. He is not interested in having sex with me at all. I asked him why and he said he ... (199 words)

Circumcized vs not circumcized

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

18 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hi im curious..im 14 and uncercumsized i juss wanted to no from all you girls out there??? does it feel better circumsized to you?? do you like iot better that way and to all my fellas that are uncercumsized, have you ever had a problem with a girl becauz of that ... (69 words)

I think my parents are hiding things from me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I am worried my parents are hiding something from me. I don't know what it is, but I have asked my mum before but she said no, however that was when i was 10. I think I am older now and she might tell me if there is anything. I have this horrible gut feeling, every night ... (108 words)

It just seems like he doesn't care

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are having problems at the minute. We keep arguing about stupid little things, and I always get upset and start crying. When I do this, it's like he doesn't care. He won't hug me, or anything like that, he just blanks it out. It feels as if he doesn't ... (179 words)

Possible to catch chamydia without sex?

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18 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I had i previous question if you look me up but i have another question regarding the last one....Is it possible to catch chlamydia without having sex?..My partner caught chlamydia from an ex but that has been over a year now..she got treated ..but is there a possiblity of her ... (55 words)

I don't trust my army guy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i went out with this boy for 2years and i loved him soo much we broke up beacuse i kept acussig him of cheating we then didnt talk for about a year and then he contacted me said how he still loves me and has not stoped loving me and he said he would love me to consider to go ... (204 words)

Afraid to ask a girl out for numerous reasons

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - i dont no what to do... i need some advice.. o.k there's this grl i really like..we get along great we're really close..she's like an angel, i dont stop thinking about her, but im afriad to ask her out, for multiple reasons 1st- if she says no, i dont want the friendsh... (234 words)

I've been wearing my g/f's knickers and fantasizing about being a woman

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a pretty down to Earth lad. Sporty and popular without ever standing out from the crowd. However lately i have been wearing my girlfriends nickers and have fantisied about being her and being a women. Am i a "freak" for this?... (42 words)

Go to Singapore w b/f? Or stay for friends/family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, i have a dilemma!! I have been with my boyfriend 6 years and he might be going to uni to study in singapore! it wont be before summer, but im trying to figure out whether to go with him or not. Its hard coz my sister is pregnant and so is my best friend and ... (136 words)

I'm a bedroom sissy that fantasizes about being dominated by a man. Am I gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'll get straight to it. I think I'm straight, I've only ever fancied girls and fallen in love with girls. Even now, I would never enter a proper relationship with a man. But...I want to have sex with a man. I'm a bedroom sissy that fantasies about being dominated ... (249 words)

A bit too much, too soon

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I’m involved with this really amazing boy, we met on an internet dating site and we have tonnes in common etc. the problem is I feel he is getting very quickly emotionally involved. On the first night we slept together he had to go to work super early but left me in his house ... (330 words)

I feel like my friend has replaced me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had my friend since we were 3, its been 9 years and now she has a new friend! They hang out all the time, that used to be me! I feel like she replaced me. She doesnt know but I'm really mad...what should I do?... (48 words)

Did I miss my chance to move things to a higher level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Some of my friends from high school decided to have a party to catch up with each other two nights ago. I havent seen a lot of them since we graduated 3 years ago. I probably would not have gone if not for one of my friends expressing how much she wanted me to go. I sh... (423 words)

Gym guy is cute-how do I let him know I'm interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I really like this guy Josh. He works in the gym I go to. He just so happens to be working almost every time I go workout. He's very cute and nice. He comes up to me and asks how I am and hopes I have a good night etc. I ask for help sometimes, so I can talk to him, as well as ... (143 words)

Why do people put their dogs before their own life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - is it normal for someone to give up the chance of a holiday because they have to look after a fudging dog? my friends and i are trying to book a holiday, but one of them is being very difficult because she can't possibly leave her dog with someone else. it's so stupid. does ... (80 words)

Left side hurts during sex

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When I have sex with my boyfriend, my left side hurts. What could it be, besides a cyst?... (18 words)

B/f keeps calling me a bitch

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Every time I play with him and he gets mad, he calls me a bitch. He called me that because I use to have a habit of calling him one, but I stopped, because I hate when he calls me that. He said he doing it to me cause i call him that. I Like i said, i stopped and he k... (80 words)

I overheard my wife & her friend talking about how great an ex's body was--she still has pictures!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My question is about pictures. My wife and I will be married 3 years this summer. Over time, I have discarded pics of ex-girlfriends. I'm sure there may be some still in an envelope or something, but as I find them, I throw them out. My wife still has pics of ex-boyfriend... (313 words)

I'm the one left out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old. I know I am not ugly,or fat, but I am self concious about my looks. I have never really been asked out in my life except once for a joke. It makes me feel lonely and rejected what should I do? At primary school I was always the one left out, the one cal... (135 words)

I'm all mixed up about college

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been at university since september now and at first i really enjoyed it. I settled in suprisingly quickly, making 7 close friends and many others. My course interested me because it was new and i loved the city i'd moved to. I did however really miss my boyfriend and my f... (428 words)

What can make me climax?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i lost my virginity about a few months ago and everytime me and my boyfriend have sex i dont cum! And i really want to, keep in mind i never came before so i think it sucks thats i didnt get to experience the feeling yet. He didn't cum with me either and I'm starting to ... (99 words)

My so called "best friend" tells the guy I like that I"m a slut!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to visit my so called best friend at her university for a few days in october. During that time I had immediately grew rather attached with her boyfriends mate. We clicked, had loads in common and sitting opposite ends of a couch for 5 hours talking non-stop about ... (445 words)

He wasn't in contact, I slept with someone else and turns out they know each other

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was seeing a guy for about a month and a half..over christmas i didnt see him at all. now it has been a month since i have seen him. he never texts me first but he does always reply to my texts and we saw each other about once or twice a week. but recently he has cancelled on ... (256 words)

I'm having memories of sex with my sisters

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - A long time ago when i was about 10-12 and lived at home with my 2 sisters and 1 brother i think i may have done something but cannot be sure if i had dreamed it or not. Basically i have at least 2 very strong memories of either things that happened or dreams about it, i used... (303 words)

Do I tell my straight friend I'm gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I tell my straight friend (Im NOT attracted to her in any way) that Ive known since we were both in the first grade that Im gay? Shes a good friend but we have never discussed r/ships or dating, shes never dated anyone,noone, yes she is straight, she often talk... (105 words)

He accuses me of cheating, now I haven't heard from him in 2 weeks

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We’ve been together for 3months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me everyday..last time i saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him...saying i am not giving him sex then someone else is getting ... (224 words)

Which one would you pursue? Do you have any general advice on dating older women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

- My female peers are, on average, older than me (although they often think I’m older). I’ve dated older women in the past but they always seemed to be three steps ahead of me and it puts a horrible strain on the relationship. At the time, I had just started my university ... (324 words)

I have been married for nearly 6 years and I am so confused as to whether I want to remain in the marriage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for nearly 6 years and I am so confused as to whether I want to remain in the marriage. My husband appears outwardly as a caring man but the longer I know him the more I realise he is actually quite a self centered man who believes it is his god given right ... (356 words)

Has anyone else ever had their heart ripped apart like this, and how did you deal with it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I live some miles aways from each other, and every time he comes to see me (he never lets me come to his) he had to take two buses, which took nearly two hours and cost a lot of money which he barely had. Last night he came into town to split up with me: ... (395 words)

I am having a really hard time getting over her. What's your opinions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Hello I was dating a girl for 2 months and everything was going great, until x-mas when she stopped putting effort into our relationship right after a trip to where she resently moved from. Then she stopped telling me about what was going on and wouldn't talk. Then she c... (144 words)

Attracted to cheating spouse's friend after trying to reconcile..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age - My husband has cheated on me three times, the first two were one night stands, this second time he actually moved out and had a "relationship" with the woman he started cheating with. Our marriage was very dysfunctional for years, I take responsibility for my part in that.... (673 words)

It's almost too much now to keep everything straight at work, home, and even with her. Any advice would be helpful.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age - I've been in this relationship with a single woman for 6 months, I'm unhapply married 30 years. It's getting harder with her when I leave to go home. She keeps saying she wants me to stay, that really makes me mad. Doesn't she realize I that it's hard for me too. How can I ... (191 words)

He's emotionally abusive, and physically as well. He's manipulative, controlling, and a very angry person.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been in a serious relationship with each other for almost four years now. I am 17 and he is almost 18. I do love him, and he says that he loves me. Things have been going sour for awhile now. I'm confused, and would appreciate any advice offered. ... (757 words)

Can you go back to your husband after a separation if you have seen someone else whilst you were away from him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Can you go back to your husband after a separation if you have seen someone else whilst you were away from him. I still see this man but he has a lot of baggage and now i am talking to my husband who just wants me to go back there are no financial problems.... (54 words)

Question of marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been a good relationsship for nearly 20 years. My partner doesn't want to get married or have children (though initially he wanted both and then changed his mind about 3 years into the relationship and then asked me to marry him about 7 years into the relationship ... (221 words)

I am hurt and confused. How should I feel about this?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for five months. This week I was grounded and she was texting him and told him that she likes him but loves me?! He has a girlfriend and she initiated this with him. What should I do about this? I am hurt and confused. How should I feel ... (66 words)

How do I rebuild trust in my partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I rebuild trust in my partner? He was unfaithful to me in the early stages of the relationship with his ex, I was devastated when I found out but thought the relationship was worth saving and so we worked through this. In a previous relationship my partner was ... (233 words)

When we have sex he wants me to talk about him with another man! What is THAT all about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there! I have a Q. When me and my bf are horny/playing/having sex he loves me talking dirty which is fair enough but he always wants me to talk about him with another man every time we do have sex. Whenever i talk about him with another man he comes way quicker, hes loves ... (144 words)

What am I doing wrong? Why am I never the one chosen?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Most of the time I have a crush on somebody, I do some things with them, but I don't want to ask them out too soon as I don't know them that well. For example, last night, I was dancing with a nice young lady, we were dancing real close, she ... (143 words)

My boyfriend slapped me

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I was walking in the mall with my boyfriend and suddenly a girl (stranger) came to me and whispered in my ears, "Check your pants zip". Obviously, I was so embarrassed and so when my boyfriend asked me what she said, I just lied to him that she said nice earring. And he ... (229 words)

I'm having a very difficult time with LDR

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old and have been with my boyfriend who's 22 for nearly 6 months now. We have a great relationship, we're both very affectionate, loving and caring towards one another and we make each other laugh, in fact ive never been so happy in a relationship before. ... (319 words)

I'm so self conscious of my body, I have no confidence in my looks

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My problem is about my body... I'm 19 and I'm not overweight or fat, I'm a size 10 on top and 12 on bottom and no one has ever said anything bad or offensive about my weight that would make me feel self conscious, however, I really am. im in my fourth serious relationshi... (350 words)

I know what NOT to say, but don't know WHAT to say

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i am 21 in june and a am a virgen a have never had a girlfriend i am not shy a ask girls out after getting to know them but i always get declined i have signed up to a online dating site but don't know what to say in the messages i have looked on the net but all thats coming ... (74 words)

Since my g/f has been ill she's distanced herself from me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey well i got a bit of a problem and im not sure wat to do.. me and my gf have been goin out for 4 months or so now (long distance) and she has been very very ill for about 2 months and she finds it difficult to have long conversations and she has distanced herself from me ... (192 words)

He likes his ladies thicker

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriends past girlfriends have all been thick and i am the first girlfriend he has had that is thin. He tells me he is unhappy with sex since i am thin but tells me that sex is not everything in a relationship. I still feel like to him it is everything because some days he ... (83 words)

Breaking up is so hard to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I just broke up with my girlfriend of 5 months, she is my batch mate so i see her everyday at school and its really hard for me, i love her so much and this is rally killing me, what should i do? ... (43 words)

How to get pregnant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - have a friend who had to do abortion and she want to get pregnant now it has been 2yrs she went to the doctor and every ting wz ok what else can she do... (35 words)

My girl is missing her ex boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age - i have been dating the girl in the apartment upstairs since early summer. the attraction was unbelievable for months....when the holidays came around...just before thanksgiving she became distant...come to find out...she is missing her former boyfriend....the didn't split on ... (91 words)

Why do they always break my heart??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had 4 failed relationships and all of them didn’t turn out well at all.. in the beginning it would be soo nice.. but then after a while all the phone calls would stop and it seem like am the only one tryng to make it work. trying to force them to talk about their feelings ... (264 words)

Am I being too forgiving??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

18 January 2009 (F)

- I am wondering if I am being too nice by accepting my bf's apology? We are both 20 years old and have been going out for about 3 months. From when I first met him, I had a really good gut feeling about him, I felt he was genuine and the real thing, however lately, things h... (450 words)

Her inconsistencies are driving me up the wall...please help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

18 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I moved in with a girl two years ago after talking on the phone for several months quite extensively about mutual our desires to have a family and and finally meeting in San Francisco. She flew out to meet me from the east coast. We had a great time that weekend and had sex ... (539 words)

Confused about me sexuality and looking at porn.

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My question, i guess, is sort of about porn. Okay, so i'm seventeen, and i a little sexually confused. i thought theat by looking at porn i'd get a better answer about whether i was straight, or a lesbian, or bi, or pan, or WHAT! in fact, i enjoy some male on male anime po... (172 words)

He acted as if he had no responsibility...any encouraging words to help me get closure??

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is an update from a question posted -(Jan 6, I cry most of the time his indecisiveness is driving me insane)Please read so this all makes sense. Well I went ahead and broke up with him last weekend. Found out too he was making all these maybe life changes w/out telling ... (399 words)

What's wrong with him? Please help me.

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - dear all at cupid, Ok I'm not sure if this is correct but my friend said to me last nite that she had a word with my ex bf, saying that he's never actually told me that it's over for good, he says we get on better as friends which is true, he's only said that he never goes bac... (139 words)

Why does my mum keep hitting me?

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my mum, but she has been really stressed at work and my dad has been ill. She has started hitting me almost every night really hard. I'm covered in bruises and don't know what to do. She never hits my twin brother or my sister and I don't know why she hits me. I'm the ... (72 words)

I have sexual feelings towards my own mother since childhood, what to do...?

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18 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Myself 22 year old, I never asked this to anyone coz it's too weird but I want to ask you. I have sexual feeling for my mother since I was very small I use to smell my moms clothes left in the bathroom like her bra and panty I didn't know about masturbating coz I was too smal... (262 words)

We are both crossdressers...

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18 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Here goes, I met a great guy in march 2008 he said he was gay however I saw him on a chat site as a bi cd! questioned him and he denied it! The answer he gave me was very plausible! believed him! had a great relationship with him since until he ran away! He was teaching me to ... (158 words)

He no longer replies to my texts...

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This boy which is my friend's cousin. He laughs with me and we are really close at school. I thought he liked me but now he only answers my texts when he wants to. I hate sending him a text and him not replying any more. Do you think he knows that I like him? Or someone in his ... (80 words)

Cheating fool!

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I did something terrible, now it is hurting my feelings. I took my hubby to the airport as he was going back to work. On my way home I pretended to be some other girl and texted him, to my surprise in that short time he promised to come visit and asked if could book a motel so ... (176 words)

What is your opinion??? Is it too late???

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I was going out with a guy for 10 months and we really connected and I know I fell for him. However, out of the blue, he said he did'nt think he could have a loving relationship with me but had also said that I lit his fire and made he feel good....so I was very confused... (279 words)

I came across this and I didn't know what to think and I want to know wether or not I should be concerned..

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18 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - After some snooping which I feel horrible about I came across this and I didn't know what to think and I want to know wether or not I should be concerned... I am trax, and the rest is kind of self explanatory... Look "ex bf", I love you and I miss you and I can't be... (527 words)

He wants to have sex with other girls before he marries me...

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 2 years now. We are both in our early 20's and I've been thinking about our future together. He's told me that he doesn't know if there will be a future with us. He says he loves me and wants to marry me but that he is still ... (134 words)

Do I say yes and have a niggle in the back of my every time we kiss. Or say no and forget him.....

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid. I have a bit of a dilemma. There is a boy who's 16. I went out with him a while ago. But we split because he wanted sex and I wasn't ready. Anyway a few months down the line he has asked me out saying he will go really slow this time. I said no. He has asked me... (121 words)

My wife of 34 years has left me...

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18 January 2009 (M)

age - Yesterday we should have celebrated 34 years of marriage. Unfortunately last Friday 9th, my wife told me that she was unhappy and simply left! It was a very cold conversation, no discussion, no big row, so she'd obviously been thinking about it for some time. She said that ... (569 words)

Did he do something wrong or am I being over-sensitive?

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18 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - A few weeks ago I met a guy and we got along very well. I liked him, he liked me. We hung out a fair bit of the last few weeks. This guy had known my house mate for five years. They had always got along very well and liked each other so often the three of us would hang out. ... (157 words)

How can I get her to understand how I feel without it blowing up into a huge fight like it has been?

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18 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm currently in the middle of an argument with my girlfriend. I think she's being completely unfair. about 6 months ago she asked me to stop talking to my ex girlfriends because it made her uncomfortable. I agreed and it wasn't an issue until recently. She is still in contact ... (190 words)

How to tell if a guy is just nervous or interested?

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - What are the ways a guys actions different when he likes you and is nervous and when he isnt interested? If a guy is interested but nervous how can you reassure him? This is a guy friend that i still see and I hooked up with a long time ago, like a few years. I'm trying to ... (72 words)

Do I wait for her feelings for the ex to cool?

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18 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my gf broke up with me because of someone else, she already dated him 2 years ago and she says she cant forget her past. she says that im just amazing and shes never had someone else care about her more then me, but i might be going somewhere where she'll barely see me. and she ... (84 words)

Married & cheating with a co-worker

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18 January 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I cheated on my wife with a co worker (we made out once). I completely regret and I wish didn't. My wife always has been faithful towards me. She has no I idea what I have done. Should I tell her? The co worker keeps flirting with me and I can't stop flirting back. How can I ... (69 words)

Married with kids and in love with an old lost love

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 12 years and married 6, We have two kids together a son 16 months and a daughter 4. Recently I have found a lost love online that I have been searching for since before I was married. I love my husband but feel I am slowly falling out of love ... (221 words)

How do you know when its love?

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18 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - How do you know when you love someone? Is their a certain way u feel? ... (15 words)

He's going to college, date him? or not?

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well im 15 and my best friendiis 19 .we have be friend for 2 year .i really like .well i think im falling in love with him .well he asked me out but i dont want to go out with him cause he bout to go off to college but then again i do cause i love being around i love ... (74 words)

Breaking up and moving on

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you get over a breakup? Today, me and my boyfriend split up, i'm devostated and can't stop crying, please give me some tips on how to move on!? Thanks so much!... (39 words)

The art of flirting

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm shy how can I flirt with guys? usally they will stare at men but I don't know what to do, I make eye contact but sometimes they stare at me too long and the gaze is too intense, makeing me feel like they want me for a booty call. How can I flirt with guys when I am shy and ... (123 words)

We agreed to be friends but it hurts so much

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18 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone. I have been in a Long distance relationship for 1.5 years. I am a few years older then the girl, shes going into last year of school now. Pretty much We had a GREAT relationship for the whole time, I was in love with her, and she was in love with me. We talked for ... (395 words)

We agreed not to contact our exs, but he's been doing it the whole time!

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 22. i found out that my boyfriend was email his ex girlfriend this whole year we have been going out after he said that we both shouldn't talk to our exs. what should i do? ... (37 words)

Can dating get us into trouble since we're minors?

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my b/f, 18, and me, 15 r going out in secret, and when were talking to a teacher, while i said things that made it obvious that im in his life alot, like a g/f, so the teacher asked if him if we were going out, and he said to ask me, and by then there were 2 students there, and ... (202 words)

Boyfriend's new friend is getting too close for my liking!

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a guy for 4 years and he cheated on me once. I forgave him and tried to move past it because he said that it would never happen again and it hasn't in two years. But all of a sudden there is a new girl that expressed an interest in him and didn't know we ... (310 words)

I'm in love with my friend who is getting married!

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have known this guy my whole life. i moved away when i was 6 but i go back to where we grew up every year. about 4 years ago, we reconnected as adults when i was in town. there was something romantic between us instantly. over the years, we have had our time together but it's ... (347 words)

Was it wrong of my friend to flirt with the guy I fancied?

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18 January 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I went out clubbing with my friend tonight,and i liked a guy we were talking to in there.At first,it seemed like he liked me,as he was asking how old i was and kept looking at me,and even my friend said she thought he fancied me.After a while though,he sat her on his knee,and ... (487 words)

Was I just a good time to him?

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18 January 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I just recently had sex with this guy that i really liked and i thought he liked me but one night i came over his house and we had sex and now we barely talk at all. Did he use me or what? I need help!!!!!!!!!!... (48 words)

If I don't give him what he wants, will he drop me for someone older?

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey people I'm 13 years old + I'm going out with a 16 year old guy. I know technically it doesn't matter but I've been told by almost everyone I know that it is "immoral", he is "too old", and I should "stick to people my own age". Please don't give me that crap, its not what... (153 words)

Do I give him time? Or just say "see ya"

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I just met this guy who is 18 years older then I and there was an instant chemistry between us. We had only been talking for about two weeks when he expressed finacial issues that he was having with a business he started about two years ago. So me caring about him I put in a ... (220 words)

How worried should I be about being pregnant

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well me and ma boyfriend had sex friday night and i'm worried i might become pregnant because i ovulated the other day. How worried should I be about getting pregnant?... (31 words)

Mom doesn't like me talking to this guy

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What should I do, my mama don't like the boy I talk to, we are just firends n she don't have a reason to be mad, cause we not seeing eachother. We talk on the phone for 4 or 5 hours on the phone sometimes, yes we got close over the last few months but she's driving me ... (135 words)

Uncomfortable about my body

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, um how do i get over this feeling. I'm a bit uncomfortable with my body. I don't like talking about breasts and stuff. I mean i'm mature about it and stuff, but when other people talk about it around me, i get embarrassed. Now i've always had training bras. got when i... (149 words)

I'd like some peace

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18 January 2009 (?) age 36-40 - How do I become a more peaceful person? As in having peace of mind? For most of last year and a little of this year has been stressful on me emotionally and physically as well as mentally. Alot has gone on. Please help me if you have any tips on how to be more happier and ... (57 words)

How to disagree and still be nice

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18 January 2009 (?) age 36-40 - How to be nicer on the internet? Things that annoy me about people: 1-when they are really young and into sex already and trying to grow up too fast 2-dumb people on purpose or to annoy 3-mean and insulting people just because. (It's different if they were to explain... (70 words)

Question about bathroom and period

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just curious. I've come to realize that if you haven't gone to the bathroom for a while (#2) it stops your period from coming. Does anyone know why? It's just been bothering me. My stomach starts hurting and i can't go to the bathroom, but then when i finally do, my ... (60 words)

I feel like I'm raising 3 children instead of two

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 3 months. i moved in with him a couple months after we were together. he is 30yrs old and lives with his mother. he used to work but got laid off do to work conditions. well now we have a baby girl together and i already ... (458 words)

My b/f hates my past

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18 January 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, I'm very hurt. I've been with my boyfriend for little over two years. In the beginning everything was fantastic. It still is, usually. However he hates my past. I didn't do anything wild. Just normal. But he hates it because this is a small town and some guys I foole... (146 words)

I can't control my dick

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18 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hi everyone.. i need a little advice so im 14 years old and im in the 8th grade and lately ive been having a really- really strong erge to have sex... and its like i cant control my dick.. i get hard so easily and it happens when it wants to is this normal and is it... (71 words)

He's too shy to make a move

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this guy for almost 2 years and can't seem to get over him. He's a little shy, so if anyone would make the first move it would have to be me. I can't do it :(. We're such great friends and I value the friendship. I don't know for sure if he has feelings for me ... (96 words)

I don't want to be with my partner anymore

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my partner for 4 years we have a 15 month old child together. I started a new job recentley and met a guy on my there we were totally friends, but then on a group night out we ended up kissing and i ended up staying at his and having sex. nothing has co... (190 words)

Can I become ill from no masturbation?

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it atall possible for a man to get ill from no masturbation or sex for 40 days?... (18 words)

How do I find a virgin?

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18 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't know how to describe this, exactly, but here goes: it took a long time for me to come to grips with the fact that I, as a man who was raised in such a manner that I could not raise my hand in violence to a woman under any circumstances, was raped by a woman who was used ... (180 words)

Period started but could I be preggers?

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've practicually worried myself to death, I had sex on the 11th of this month, it was unprotected. I started my period today. It's only been 6 days, I read up on some forums that girls can still be pregnant, and get their period. How likey is this situation?... (52 words)

How can I get her to trust me?

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18 January 2009 (?) age 36-40 - So theirs this girl that I like, she's 18.we have been seeing eachtoher for about 3 months. She's great I've never met a girl like her. She's gorgeous (I wish u could she her) theirs just one problem.. The problem is that she's distant with me, she said she has trust issues and ... (118 words)

Old feelings for ex are creeping back

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend -well ex now- thought I was cheating on him with my guy friend because he and I talk a lot an stuff. I told my boyfriend that me and my friend aren't dating. That's when he became distant with me, I knew he was mates with this girl who hated me and vice versa. ... (238 words)

I think shes still attracted to my friend

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18 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for 3 months now, and I have a question for everyone. When we first met, she was interested in a good friend of mine. However, after getting to know eachother, she decided she wanted me. Based on having similar thoughts and goals, plus she ... (283 words)

Why do I feel so sad and empty after I masturbate?

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright well sometimes I masturbate. I'll just want to really want to, so I do. But then right after I'll fee l really sad and empty for some reason. Any idea why?... (32 words)

Male perspective: Haven't spoke to boyfriend since x-mas

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18 January 2009 (F)

age - I have not spoken to my boyfriend since before xmas. I had a death in the family of a close relative. I have three children. Youngest is his. We dont live together. Many years of togetherness and he has been fairly supportive. things just got cold ue to emphasis on my ... (148 words)

Where do guys get advice for girls?

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Just out of curiousity. Where do guys go for advice on girls?... (15 words)

Any books I can read about student/teacher relationship?

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my teacher is totally hot and has all the same views as me! are there any books about a student getting together with her male teacher, so that i can live vicariously through her? i think that's the only option, because i can't just get over it. we don't choose who we fall for.... (54 words)

I hate my stupid boyfriend!

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18 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I hate my boyfriend!!!!! We have been together for coming upto 5 years, we have a 1 year old little girl. He drives me insane, everything he does is totally annoying Im sure half of it he does on purpose surely no human being can possibly be that dumb and irritating!!! The ... (433 words)

Am I just a plaything to her?

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18 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay so i am 17 years old and my girl is 16 it seams like i do everthing for here and she always gets wat she wants i love her alot but it seams like all she wants is a little plaything she gets all pissed about everything i do and she tells me im her world i dont see it as ... (143 words)