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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How to keep it interesting

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help!!!! ok well im in a relationship with this guy 7 years older than me and he's great but im just afraid that it will go bad because my relationships usually do, im way younger, and im afraid it'll get boring because we're both shy and our phone conversations get kind ... (66 words)

I'm sick of being in tears over this guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello!! Simply put I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. He has 2 kids from his first marriage and another kid from a 9 year relationship. The issue I am having is with the boundaries he keeps with his ex-with with his youngest kids. In the beginning ... (474 words)

Sex as a weapon?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) age 41-50 - Just to let the ladies know, this DOES NOT AMOUNT TO ANYTHING POSITIVE! Yes, women and men can enjoy sex just as much as the other, but men in general 'do' want it more than women and our feelings towards it are different. Men view sex as 'essential', physically we feel ... (436 words)

He can't stay erect but looks at porn every day

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i have been together for five years. We really love each other and we want to have children. The only problem is that we can't have sex. He finds it difficult staying erect. What really hurts me though is that he will look at porn almost every day - i know this ... (142 words)

Did I lose a buddy? Or a love interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm sooo confused! I've known this guy since like May 2008. We hit it off pretty good..talked and text for a long, long time before we even met, just recently. We went out on two dates and it was cool. I started to like him a whole lot but noticed he would call me "Buddy" every ... (266 words)

She wants space so I gave it to her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So basically , me and my girlfriend , are on a break, meaning break up w/e, but yah we went out for 2 months and it was good but then she started to realize the feeling she had for her ex were getting in the way , they went out for 3 years and she never had that point in her ... (241 words)

How do you know if its "the one"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so in love with the most beautiful man I have ever met. He makes my heart sing and I am the happiest person alive. I am so scared though that this will not last and am having serious doubts about comitting in case it doesn't work. We get on well, we laugh, we talk, ... (105 words)

What makes the guy change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do most guys always distant themselves as soon as they girl gives in and starts liking him? At first they will ring you text you all these sweet things no stop and then when you give in bang..they stop all they sweet things.. the phone calls, texts and are at the door nex... (97 words)

I've never felt this way about anyone before..I'm really hurt

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

16 January 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Please help me. I really need someone's help. I feel very depressed and frustrated. How do I get over someone I think stole my heart. I'm just hurt. How do I overcome this "rejection" and go on with my life? I think about him constantly. He's been on my mind less now, but time ... (406 words)

I want to call her, but I also think if she really cared she would have called by now...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

16 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello Everyone, Thanks for taking the time to read this as I am completely lost right now and could really use some advice from an outside party other than my friends and family. I know this is a long post but please, if you have the time, read this and offer me your thoughts, ... (1580 words)

Is confidence ultimately the most important quality women are looking for in a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. I'm a little low on self-esteem at the moment. There's a woman at work who I thought was sending me indicators of interest so I asked her out via e-mail and was rejected. Since then she has barely made eye contact with me. This has gone on for months. We don't talk ... (138 words)

Should I be making an exit strategy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

16 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - So I have been dating this girl for almost 2 years now and we have a lot of problems. It seemed to start out good and then she confessed to a major lie. She told me that her brother's wife died and he is unable to take care of his kids so she took them in. It turns out tha... (527 words)

I'm the one for him..not her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How can i tell my ex bf that im the one for him, we split nearly 7 months ago, and hes just started meeting people on line to meet including this girl hes meet from our home town, hes meet her 4 times and sleept with her already, Anyway all his family still like me and i see or... (212 words)

Is it just my age? Or more going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and for the past few years, all i feel inside is complete emptyness, lonlyness and sadness, i havn't had much luck throughout the years with divorces, friends, family etc. Everyone at home is starting to get sick and tired of my behaviour, bt its something i can't help, ... (263 words)

I might as well be invisible

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - He never notice how nice i look.. only the 1st time we met. He told me i look good and that i look after myself.. we i go to see him.. i look my best.. but he doesn’t say i look good or anything... WHY IS THAT? I feel like he doesn’t like how i look and stuff.. the othe... (169 words)

Boyfriend likes it rough

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hi guys its Bailey again with some other questions about that rough sex i've been having with my boyfriend. these are just simple opinon questions and i need an honest oppion. 1. Do you think its because he's really buff and i have very little muscle tone? 2. do you think ... (129 words)

I don't want to do the chasing

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

- Ok, about a year ago I met someone, Rob, through my friends. I really liked him and he liked me too. We flirted alot and kissed but he never got with me, he said I was too "full-on" and he wasnt ready. He was still in love with his ex as well. Then the other day he sent me an ... (185 words)

I'm his 10! How do I show him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy, and from talking to him and overhearing his conversations, i have determined that we're so much alike that it's almost weird. how can i show him that i'm perfect for him?... (35 words)

Do I bitch slap my bitchy friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im really pissed of at the moment.heres the deal: a week ago a friend(#1) and i were in my friend #2's house and when it came the time to leave #1 asked me that wen i phoned home cud i ask my mum to leave her the extra few miles to her house.i asked and my mum said yes bt a ... (369 words)

1st b/f any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are 17 (well I will be in a couple of weeks.) We started seeing each other 5/6 months ago and continued dating until November when he asked me out. The problem is we're both really quiet people who have never had a boy/girl friend or 'experimented' l... (408 words)

Don't have sex with the ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear everyone Why,oh why is it that me ex bf, tells me about the girls hes met and how he sleeps with them after only meeting twice, We split up 5 months ago but i still like him, i now i shouldnt but the thing is he knows i do have feelings for him, and he wont do anything... (127 words)

How do I stop being too nice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive had 4 failed relationships and all of them didn’t turn out well at all.. in the beginning it would be soo nice.. but then after a while all the phone calls would stop and it seem like am the only one tryng to make it work. trying to force them to talk about their feelings... (264 words)

He's so nervous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - he says he likes me..he gets really really nerves around me.. he hardly talks i always ask questions and when am not looking he would just stare at me till i catch him staring and then he would turn his head.. he gets so nervous even on the phone i can feel that hes nervous. ... (61 words)

Greatest age difference where it can work?

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In your opinion, what is the greatest age difference in a relationship that can work out?... (16 words)

Cheating by text X 5

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for about one year and 5 months. Everything would be ok, except i have caught him cheating on of by texting 5 times. I feel like i cant trust him anymore. I get so much anxiety over it i get sick. Hes says he wont do it anymore but thats what ... (89 words)

Was it sexy what I said?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi ive been fooling around with one of my friends for a while, we couldnt go home together today, so before last lesson as i wouldnt see him after i whispered in his ear ""shame you cant walk, im wearing that bra today"" [[its one he finds really sexy ((i hope, he seemed t... (108 words)

Is he using me as his sex doll?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm the person who wrote "Getting hurt/bruised durring sex" and thanks for the answers but right after i posted that my boyfriend walked in the door with a new tatoo on his back. He had my name(Bailey) tatooed on his back and i really dont know if he's trying to make me feel ... (134 words)

I'm falling for my driving instructor

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16 January 2009 (F) age 41-50 - hi all, im falling for my driving instructor.He's in his early 40's and im 25.We both flirt and he often compliments me and touches my hand or taps my knee and we get on really well. He has never attempted to kiss me or made me feel uncomfortable.Sometimes when im concentr... (212 words)

Is he just really nice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I will try to make this as short as possible, but I apologize in advance if this turns into a small essay. It is going to sound all over the place because I'm going to mention certain things that have happened. This is also my first question on here so here goes: Last summ... (653 words)

Need handjob advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey people, Right, i'm really scared to give a guy a handjob because iv'e never gave one before. And I kind of know what to do but i don't at the same time, if you get me. Do i go on my knees and do it? And what happens when he cums? Please give advise :) ... (67 words)

Getting hurt/bruised during sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so my boyfriend and i just moved in together and on the second night i come home and he's standing there naked and wanted to have sex. I really not the kind of person who has sex with a person that fast(we've only known each other six months) and i was so affraid of turning ... (191 words)

Bareback sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Riiight. I've always been curious about having sex bare back - (of course whilst using some form of contraceptive) whilst in a serious relationship... I'm tempted because I've heard the stories of it being much more pleasurable. But I'm so paranoid - even if he pulls out ... (79 words)

Do most men wake up "ready to go"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever I spend the night at my boyfriends house, we end up having sex that night and as soon as he wakes up he wants to do it again because he says he's already hard. Do a lot of men do this too or is he just using this as an excuse to have sex?... (55 words)

Can't seem to "get it" no matter what!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We started having sex 4 months into our relationship. We endure sexual intercourse weekly, and i just cant have an orgasm. We have tried different positions and instruments , etc. I have also asked... (136 words)

My sister confessed she is in love with me & I don't know what to do

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

16 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My sister is in love with me. I am 3 years older than her at 20. I never expected this to happen although we've always been very close. Recently she has been cold towards me and ignores me a lot. Even when I asked her what was wrong she wouldn't respond properly. She locks ... (171 words)

Boyfriend will not stop talking to her! Is he cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am dealing with so much confusion and heartbreak with my current boyfriend, I don't know what to do. My boyfriend lives about 4 hours away, I am on the main coast and he is on the Island. When we met, he was everything I had been looking for. I was prev... (687 words)

I've got a crush on a boy 3 years older than me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I've recently become friends with a boy and now I'm developing a crush on him. He's 3 school years older than me, but I've pushed that beside me, he's not extremely attractive but he's got the most loveliest personality. I've told my friends and they all think that the ... (130 words)

What is this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having alot of sexual urges lately. sometimes when i would feel a rush come out of my pepe(vagina) i would think that i was just getting my period. but it wasnt. i would look at my underwerar because somehow it would be wet. like the subsstance was sticky and clearish ... (76 words)

10 days ago had sex, now maybe pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - about 10 days ago, me and my boyfriend had sex and i think im pregnant. My boobs are sore, there is thick white discharge from my vagina, my period is due around the 1st of the month please help me as im really scared... (45 words)

My breasts keep getting larger

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hellow people.. m kinda shy asking this to you all but its urgent..my stats are 34-28-30. I have heard that due to some hormones released during sex, breast grow big..etc. The point is mine seem to grow yearly..my body frame is thin so doesnt get bigger than 34 but so... (149 words)

Cervical cancer injection

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) age 30-35 - my girlfreind got the cervical cancer injection and was wondering how long you had to wait till sex ... (18 words)

Involved with married man & I'm really messed up

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I need some advice. I am a 25 year old young woman who fell in love with an MM a year ago. It all started when he made a pass at me unexpectedly. Because I trusted him, and he is a leader at my church, I did the wrong thing because I was vulnerable after... (354 words)

No blood--no virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i want to ask that is that all men before doing sex has in their mind that if the women bleeds than she is a virgin and otherwise she is not...a virgin if she does not bleed... (37 words)

Would I cave in with fear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I always come across as loud, confident and sometimes bossy around work because I work with a lot of guys (building company) and its the only way to get them to do things, one of the guys recently approached me and said it turns him on that I am so confident, the truth is I am ... (133 words)

I'm a virgin & pregnant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well in order for people not to think I'm nuts I have to explain Myself. I am a 19 year old female and I have been in a relationship with my 27 year old boyfriend for 2 years. We always try to be intimate and I try to loose my virginity to him but I'm such a punk and it hurts ... (328 words)

I think he will get tired of all the drama

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My problem is that i feel like i have become a bad girlfriend and i dont deserve my boyfriend anymore. We been together for 7 months and up until the 5th months things were wonderful, but majority of the problems stems from my side of the relationship, my parents don't... (301 words)

Should I ask him if he's single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy I like flirts with me all the time and I flirt back because he is cute, funny and brainy, he has asked me round to his flat next weekend to watch a DVD, kiss and a cuddle he says, the problem is I thnk he has a girlfriend and she is out of town next weekend, should I ... (133 words)

How do I ask him to come back for a part-time relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a lengthy relationship with a man who turned out to have a double life. When I found out I gave him an ultimatum to commit to me or walk away and he went. We had a child together who is now 3, but the other woman couldnt have children, which is the reason he strayed. I... (238 words)

I act confident, but I'm shy and he wants to sleep with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Heres the story - me and this guy from work have known each other for about three years we are always flirting, he was ill for a while and we started to text each other a lot - just general stuff - now he is back at work we have been like mega flirting he wants to come to my ... (188 words)

He doesn't seem to be able to cum. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together now for 4 months, we have an active sex life and really enjoy each other. We always turn each other on and have lots of fun. However whilst he can always get an erection, he hardly ever comes. It doesnt matter whether it is oral or ... (142 words)

Boyfriend wants me to use mouthwash after doing the deed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf wants me to use mouthwash after doing the "deed" LOL is this normal? like he doesnt let me kiss him until ive used it :/ i dont mind it im just wondering if you guys or gals have the same problem o.o... (44 words)

Should I have called him about the morning after pill ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I would really appreciate some male advice as I am pretty confused at the moment. I met someone over the holidays - very attractive, successful and we had great fun. Although we were abroad he comes from London too. One thing led to another on New Year and we had sex. He was ... (564 words)

Is this going to be a 'Train Crash'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) age 51-59 - I'm in a new relationship, it has been eight years. I met a woman we had sex four times early in the relationship. I found out her ex-boyfriend was a lot bigger then i and we haven't had sex since then, three and a half months now. I like her and i'm plannning to move in with ... (108 words)

Should I have sex at the age of 14?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im for years old i go to shaw high and my bf is well i really dnt kno how old he is but i kno he is in the 10th and go to shaw he respect the fact that i was not ready to have sex with him when i went over his house so we just kissed and just talked...i love him and i been ... (115 words)

I feel she's crossing the line of respect in our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone, Im sure my subject line gives you all a good idea of what my post is about, but let me give a couple details. My gf and I have been together about a year and a half now and are living together now about 8 months. Our relationship is both very good, ... (1001 words)

How do I tell my friend I've got my period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I don't know what to do. I have this friend that yea she's nice and i can talk to her about anything...except periods, anything sex related, or anything dealing with body parts. She absolutely terrified to say one word. If she asks me what's wrong all i can say is "it's a ... (200 words)

He cheated - should I divorce him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, would be great if you could share your thoughts and possibly give some advice. I'm 36 years old, married my husband 39 for 3 years and half. we've known for 6 years and have a wonderful daughter who is 19month. I thought l had a great husband and family even th... (585 words)

Anyone have any information about tiba program?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I play tibia and was needing a little help. I have seen where people have a program and clone objects in the game! I need help finding how to get this program and where to get it, any help plz msg me.... (43 words)

Will I always be on the outside looking in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my bf went to court to finalize his divorce recently, which he initiated, no kids involved, and then after the court hearing - they went out to eat. I was a little surprised I guess and admittedly a little upset. Not sure why but I think because he didn't offer this info on ... (193 words)

Age difference is causing problems with sexual compatability

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

16 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been an absolute idiot and don't know what to do. I have been so stressed out I can barely sleep. I am in a relationship with a much older man and have been for four years. It has been my only serious relationship. I have no issues or anything like that or not even... (447 words)

I still have feelings for my ex b/f?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - let me tell my story here .about 5 years ago , i loved a guy and it happened that he loved me too .we were deeply in love , we used to meet and talk everyday .he understood me well and i did understand him too . 3 years later he popped the question and asked me to marry ... (1052 words)

He cheated, moved out, but I want him back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently found out that my husband had been cheating on me and now he has moved out. We have a little girl together and I want to get him back. What is the best way to do this? He says he still loves me but he is very confused. He is collecting all his stuff this weekend. Is ... (134 words)

He's asking for topless photos of me? Is he using me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, well basically im 18 years old girl and i've never done anything with a guy. Im not allowed boyfriends and when i would get close 2 a boy my own age or older, they would always show their true colors sooner or later making me just feel like giving up on man kind at ... (399 words)

Free weekend--What to do?!

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16 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I dated a girl for a few months until quite recently. A short time before me and her split up I booked off Valentines day off, so that I could stay down at university without having to drive home. I had planned to spend the whole day with her, but now that plan is com... (134 words)

Suspicious of my husbands sexuality

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age - please help! i have been married almost 4 years, and have been together 15 years. in the beginning my husband and i could not get enough of each other. now my husbands behavior is bothersome to me. i have suspicions that he could be bi. i caught him looking up gay sites on the ... (322 words)

Unsure of the girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend love each other, but I'm not really sure im the one for her.So, my question is this, What do you do when you're not sure if you are the one for your girlfriend?... (37 words)

Secret from the past quite unpleasant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 6 years has just admitted to me that he slept with another women over 8 years. at the time he lied to me about it. we now have two beautiful children. But I feel very hurt and angry even though it happened so long ago. What should I do.... (54 words)

Texts at 3-4am from ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i broke up with my boyfriend abut 4 months ago and we haven't spoken for at least 2 months and now he's been texting me every night about 3 or 4 in the morning. i really wanna know whether he still likes me or not cz i still love him ... (51 words)

Should I get braces?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old and im considering getting braces. I recently went to the orthodontist and since i have a very small jaw, i need to remove four teeth. Ive always been afraid of losing my teeth and to have to go through four injections and remove four teeth seems rather ... (163 words)

She says she loves me but she doesn't want sex anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. Me and my girlfriend had been together since I was 16 and she was 15. I am now 24 and she 23. We were very much in love with each other and had a very healthy sexual life until we broke up August 2007. We kept in contact and decided August last year that we would get ... (212 words)

We haven't to contact each other any more and it's killing me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 15 year old..... and my guy is 17 years old and things were going really well as he was studying with me getting two years back. Anyways my parents knew that we were friends but due to some teachers complaining about us now there's no way how we could be in contact.??? I ... (70 words)

Is she keeping her emotions in check and waiting until my divorce is final?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (M)

age - Let me tell my story. I need some insight from someone on this situation. I have written on this forum previously. I am in a long-distance relationship with a single mom, whose son has deployed to Iraq. We are high school classmates and hadn't seen or heard from each other ... (671 words)

Why do so many women want to be in control?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

16 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My relationship is great except for the following: She's a real nag sometimes and it drives me nuts! She's controlling and it effects my self-esteem. Why do so many women want to be in control? Don't they know it makes us feel like less of a man? And then she wonders why ... (228 words)

He smiles at me, but does he like me?

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - plz can u tell . DOES this guy like me, why all he did is look at me, why not approach the girl? A guy flirted with me non verbal for a month. But i didnot give in right a away. he took it as i was not interested in him. so after somedays i did go and speak to him. Aft... (211 words)

Why can't I sleep the night before a date?

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16 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, here i am again, another sleepless night. I dont understand why i can't sleep, just fine the other 6 days of the week, but not on the night before i have a date with my girlfriend, i adore my girlfriend.She is so incredible.. I get this extra energy and i just cant ... (69 words)

Pro life vs Pro choice?

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16 January 2009 (?) age 51-59 - So I've been dating a wonderful woman for about 7 months. We met on a popular dating site back in May. I kept it cool for the first few weeks, as I was casually seeing a couple of other people at the time. I'm in my early 40's, so I've been genuinely searching for a real ... (690 words)

I want to give my boyfriend fellatio, but he has a LOT of pubic hair.

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to give my boyfriend fellatio, but he has a LOT of pubic hair which is a turn off for me. I want to ask him to trim it, but I don't know how to ask him. He's very insecure and I don't want to make him feel bad. How can I suggest it without embarrassing either one of ... (70 words)

Please give me the courage to leave my cheating husband.

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I will be celebrating our 10th Wedding Anniversary in Feb-2009 but I'm not thrilled about it as my husband is having an affair. I found out about it for 7 months already. I've confronted him about it, asked his best friend to talk to him, asked my siblings to ... (306 words)

I need to be reassured and to know where we stand in this relationship.

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I really need some help. I'm pregnant, 7 months and I'm feeling really pushed away but my partner. He says it's the pregnacy but I swear he's bipolar or something, he's nice one minute and being a smart ass the next. I feel like I can't talk to him very much and I am ve... (364 words)

The only Marine who's never had a girlfriend.

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16 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 20 year old United States Marine Corps, I've been in for 1 year and 7 months, I'm an infantryman and I'm shipping out to Afghanistan soon. I have never had a girlfriend, or even kissed a girl. All the other marines I know have all had girlfriends or even have wives ... (155 words)

I feel that the feeling of being forced to have a son will never let him love me the way I want him to love me.

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and have been together for 3 years now. The 1st month we were together of course we were so happy so happy that we got pregnant really quickly we met in December by January I was pregnant. He was happy at 1st was willing to tell everyone I was surprised of course ... (532 words)

How am I to survive the next 9 days...???

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16 January 2009 (M)

age - I'm going thru a bit of an emotional rolleroaster at the moment, my girlfriend of six months has just flown off to vegas to see her ex, she needs to find out if she still has feelings or if he will now commit to her in a way that she wants (marriage, security etc) We have b... (1543 words)

Do dreams connect to the real life? About pregnancy?

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay. (takes deep breath) I've been having a lot of dreams about myself having a child. I've had the first one that showed me taking a pregnancy test and it showing up positive, all the way to me coming home with a new born baby girl. I wrote down every dream I could remember ... (158 words)

Should I tolerate my husband's infedelity so he won't leave us?

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well.. I have been married to my husband for 8 years and together for 13. We began dating early and got married at 19. We have two young children. He has a relationship with another woman, it's just sex and fun. I don't want him to go and he doesn't want to. He wants to have ... (72 words)

My future husband doesn't know I smoke and I'm scared he will hate me for it

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been smoking for three years and dating my man for 2 years. he doesn't know that i smoke. I've tried quitting but its so hard because it's my relaxing point. but i'm in love with him and he hates people who smoke. i don't want to tell him because i don't want that to be ... (78 words)

I'm in love with a man and it is not my boyfriend! What should I do?

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16 January 2009 (F) - I'm in love with a man and it is not my boyfriend. This man makes me feel like I am on the top of the world, he is a amazing person the thing is he is much older than me and has a girlfriend in his hometown; we live in two different states. The thing is that I am in a relation... (321 words)

My ex-boyfriend/teacher is mad I hooked up with another guy in my class

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well... i have a really stressful situation.... ive been going out with my boyfriend for 1.5 years now.. hes 23 and im 18.... im in my last year of school, and he's an english teacher... a few weeks ago, he got a permanant posting at my school!! he told me that we couldnt k... (321 words)

My highschool crush is spreading rumors to get my attention

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OK. so i just found out this senior has been spreading rumors about him screwing me. before he found out that i knew that he would smile at me, and try to talk to me. now that he knows i know he can look me in the eye. now he just looks at me nervously like i know(which i do) ... (198 words)

Attracted to a girl in my class but I think she's straight...

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I really, really need help .I am a senior in high school; and I think I have a "Different" kind of crush. You see, I sit behind a girl in class, who I consider to be talkative and extremely annoying...But I think I have fallen for her. Recently over my break I randomly ... (483 words)

How do women feel about a foot fetish man?

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16 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 32, male and I have a foot / leg fetish. Not every pair of feet, you'll be relieved to hear, but the first thing I notice in a woman is her feet, shoes, whether she's wearing stockings/tights, etc. I know it sounds weird, but I was wondering - and I'd love to hear... (161 words)

What is with exs??

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - WHY DO EXES ALWAYS....? why do exes always ring you after so long and try to talk to you and wants to get back together?? soo dumb they had their chances and they messed about.. whats up with that? PLEASE ANSWER...??... (42 words)

Spicing it up

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys, im looking for things that will really turn my boyfriend on while we're together or making out. we have some uhm..games i guess you could say and i've tried alot but i want to spice things up. so girls, anything you've done* to yous guy that drives him wild or guys, ... (67 words)

He's a hottie and I want to know him

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i cant stop thinking about this guy. Hes so fit lol, and seems really nice. Well i see him at my bus stop sometimes, not all the time ive seen him about 5/6 times when im waiting to catch the bus to college (we go different colleges though) As soon as i seen him my knees a... (253 words)

If I'm supposed to get pregnant it will happen no matter what

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im not sure if it is just 17 year old logic or what, but my mom is putting me on birth control, because she doesnt want me to get pregnant before I am ready. I have had a pregnancy scare before, but the test said I wasnt pregnant and life went on. She decided that it was time ... (237 words)

20 years old and can't get up for the girl

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16 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, im a 20 year old male that can't get errect while with my girl. Ive tried almost everything, I work out everyday, and do keigel exercises. The exercises have helped the hardness but it doesnt matter because I cant get it up when im actually with her. Another thing is I wake ... (140 words)

My dad says either the family or the boyfriend...

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old and have a bf who is Hindu. I am sikh which can be seen as a problem within my family. However my mum, who is relaxed knows about my boyfriend and has met and spoke with him on several occasions. His parents and grandparents know about me and are asking him to ... (254 words)

How do I win back an ex after 6 months no contact?

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16 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - is it possible to win back a ex girlfriend after six months of no contact .and how do i go about winningher back ?... (24 words)

Should I thank my teacher?

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Today, i had ss class and then two assessments in the two periods following that class so i was kind of stressed. Coincidentally, our teacher started telling us how grades don't matter and that you don't need to go to the most amazing college ever to be successful; he told us ... (135 words)

I want to be friends but not quite sure how to do it?

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this guy that I like(d). I mean, I still like him and he's sort of interested in me, just not interested in a relationship; not with anyone though so I don't feel too bad about it. When we first discussed this, he said he was interested in "just having fun", but I ... (265 words)

Just finished reading a romantic book and now I'm feeling all melancholy...

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi just recently i read this romance book that i can really relate myself to the girl it was the best book ever (twilight) and i finished it in a day but as soon as id finished it it was really weird because i felt so sad and melancholy because the guy in it was sort of someone ... (135 words)

Do you think he might still have some feelings for me or is it only because we have children together?

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16 January 2009 (F)

age - My husband and I were divorced in July 2008. He left me while I was in recovery for an addiction to pain meds. It was a hard break-up and he said he doesn't love me any more. Since then we have become friends and he calls and comes over for lunch and to fix things regularly. ... (94 words)

Wiped myself and saw small bits of blood... have I lost my virginity?

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16 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, I kinda had sex (well I'm a virgin or at least I think I am), my boyfriend and I tried to have sex. It hurt so bad but he didn't fully go all the way inside me but it did hurt. I went home and peed, afterwards when I wiped myself I saw small bits, very small bits of blood. ... (166 words)