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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My girlfriend broke up with me because she's sick

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend left me by e-mail. I thought the relationship was perfect, we never fought, never argued, and when there was a disagreement, we worked it out immediately. We showed and expressed our love for each other on a daily basis. We both had our own problems, and ... (332 words)

Why are white people more promiscuous? Don't mean to offend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I am about to ask a question and its going to sound really awkward and I honestly don't mean to offend anyone i'm just curious.... I am african american and lately I've been noticing that white people are different then black people. I work @ starbucks, and I de... (293 words)

Afraid to tell my mom I want birth control

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, so i have a boyfriend. we lost our virginity to each other a while ago. i know we're young and it's illegal blah blah but we were ready.. we're in love and we have sex quite a lot.. well every time we spend the night with each other at least. and we use condoms. we're safe. ... (251 words)

Online situation has become confusing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been talking to this guy online and on the phone for about 2 months now. We get along really well and have done from the start. From all our previous conversations i took it he wanted something serious as he has spoken about kids and asked if i would have anymore, as i ... (168 words)

Frenulum breve, should I have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am uncircumcised and i have a frenulum breve, when i am erected it doesn't let me pull my foreskin behind the head because it hurts. When i am not erected i can retract the foreskin alot. I am not sure what will happen if i will have sex because i am virgin. Should i... (103 words)

I'm 30 and never had a girlfriend

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 30 (just) and I have never had a girlfriend. In fact, I have never even kissed a girl or lost my virginity. It is not something I like to broadcast as everyone I know is in a relationship or has been in one, and it makes me feel inadequate. I still live at home as it is ... (191 words)

We like each other but he's my boss

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have like this guy for a while we work together and soon he found out. i was ok when he didn't know because the only thing i knew is that i like him but now i know he likes me too. when some one tells you that or you hear that from someone you expect one or the other party ... (205 words)

How can I stop these negative thoughts and just be happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I keep feeling a bit depressed.. my bf and I have been together nearly 2 years, I love him and I know how he feels about me but he seems to treat me like one of his mates rather than a gf. I'm not sure how I'm supposed to be treated technically but I feel like I'm second to ... (174 words)

Friends with benefits but looking for something more serious now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Just curious, especially want to hear what guys think. I've been friends with benefits with this guy now for a couple of months. We'll typically meet up like twice a month to hang out and go out (or stay in) for dinner together or watch a movie or go out for a couple of drinks ... (310 words)

Want to speak to my boyfriend but can't...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age - My partner has been fairly supportive for a number of years but I am angry with him as are relationship is not moving on. I have two children for a previous and one for him. I am very independent with my own property and job. My mother died just before xmas and I told... (408 words)

My mother died and I am not mourning...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age - I was not brought up by my white scottish mother. I was abandoned as a baby as she left me with my Jamaican father. I met my mother when I was about 30. We had 15 years but she lived 120 miles away so I did not see her often. From what she told me she had two othe... (352 words)

Should I ask her out even although she's a bit younger than me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok I'm 15 (grade10) and there's this girl that's 13 (grade7) and I like her a lot, like every day we talk on aim for hours and every morning she texts me at 6 and we talk for an hour before school but we go to schools in different citys, she lives right down the street from me ... (103 words)

Do you think I am awkward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem most of the days people don't tell me I am awkward but I have the feeling I am. What do you think?? I am 14 years old and I always laugh at anything even though it isn't funny and people just look at me like I need medication or something, it makes me feel... (127 words)

Jealousy wrecked my last relationship, I don't want it to wreck this one too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, my gf is Bi. She's still a virgin and so am I, cause of the simple fact that she is adament about not losing her virginity till she's 18. Nothing I'm goanna push though. She just recently broke up with her gf, I guess it was a relationship of sorts, mainly they just ... (269 words)

Facebook question.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - HI:) My boyfriend and I are friends on facebook. When I look at his profile it says that he has been tagged in 17 pictures but when I click to see them I am only able to see 11. Has he prevented me somehow from seeing the rest? how and why? He knows I hate dishonesty.... (60 words)

Where can I meet some curvy latinas on the internet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Where can I meet some curvy latinas on the internet? =P... (11 words)

Should I pay off the $1500 she is after?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - About a month ago my long term partner of two years told me she "loved me but was not in love with me" and called the whole thing off. This was the day after thanksgiving where we had been planning next years christmas trip and also firming up future plans with family and ... (425 words)

Masturbation, not as good as it was.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello All Well, I started Masturbating a few months ago. The First time I did it, was GREAT, one of the best feelings I'd ever felt. But now it's just not as good. The first bunch of times, my legs would feel weak, and I felt great. But now I get no such feeling anymore.... (70 words)

He bit my tits and now I have red specks all over my nipples. Is this dangerous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't care if this may be stupid, but I really want an answer to calm my nerves. My boyfriend and I had some fun today and he bit my tits, that was about 6 hours ago and I checked and there are red specks like all over my nipples, should I worry? It's like it's bleeding but ... (64 words)

Can having anal sex get me pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I need a little help. I'm 16 and have tried anal sex with my boyfriend. He got it in a little and we did it for a couple minutes but it hurt too bad so we stopped and gave up. He never came... my question is could I get pregnant from this since we didn't use a condom? I am ... (115 words)

How do I get beyond this and feel attractive to him again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age - I have been married to the same man for 25 years and a year ago after many months of suspecting, I walked into his girlfriend's home and found him in bed with her. I can't seem to forget or forgive. I feel like I'll never be as attractive as she was to him. He won't talk to me ... (90 words)

Help finding a non traditional engagement ring

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, and thanks in advance for any help. I recently have been discussing marriage with my girlfriend of a year. After talking about it with her and finding out that she has been thinking about it also and has the same feelings about it that I have, I spontaneously pr... (426 words)

Do guys make passes at girls who wear glasses?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do guys makes passes at girls who wear glasses and have plaits in their hair? needy type girls... (19 words)

She's still in love with her ex but wants things to work out with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So my relationship is basically classified as rebound, because my girlfriend is still in love with her ex, but she is not using me for emotional stool , and already has told me she doesn't want to hurt me and she wants to make this work out, she cares for me and i beleive in a ... (177 words)

Why is my b/f acting like this?Gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Before my boyfriend and I went out, we were friends, not good friends though. I noticed that he had a lot of friends, most of whom were girls. Then we started small talk and he was always "chasing" me, texting me, writing on my myspace and I noticed that he was different, a ... (229 words)

Is she joking around or does she like me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i like this girl in my class but we have only been friends and i dont want to ruin that. But all of my friends say stuff like "you 2 would make a good couple,she asked me out for u" but i dont know if they are joking around. Also she is always doing things like jumping on my ... (103 words)

I don't want to give up before I know but...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with this guy about... 6 months now I think. I'd known him from school but we got talking online, realised we knew eachother, had a lot in common and exchanged phone numbers. We'd been texting a lot then met up. Things have been going well. The last few months have ... (449 words)

I love her, she's still in love with her ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So im in a situation with this girl i love, she got out of a 3 year relationship over summer, and about 6 months later i started talking to her, ( i used to go out with her but we broke up since i went to high school) anyways, so when we started talking we talked, figured we ... (239 words)

Because of my ex I quit on a committee that I enjoyed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

- I thank in advance anyone who replies here. I was working on a committee with my ex for the last year and it has not gone well. In my eyes( maybe not his) he has been rude and arrogant. A short time ago he told me that he did not think we should communicate at all except in the ... (161 words)

Should I tell her that I can't promise her forever!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with my GF. she has never told me this outright, but i know she wants to marry me and has envisioned a future of forever with me. how i know doesn't matter but this is the truth. my problem is this: i cannot promise her forever, mainly for two reasons.... 1... (370 words)

I'm 14, he's 18--parents hate him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well ive been seing this guy for a bit now but were not dating.......weve had sex 4 times already and we text each other alot and hes 18 he texted me the other night saying that i was an angel and that he loves me.......i mean i know its wrong but it feels so right to be with ... (99 words)

I love both wife and married lover!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My situation is pretty complicated so i'll start in the beginning. I have been married for 17 years. I have an 11 year old son and a 17 year old daughter. I feel i have been in love with my wife since we were married but a recent relationship with a lover has brought to the ... (722 words)

She's not what she seems but can't shake it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Not too long ago I took an interest in a young woman attending my college, at first she appeared to be ideal; funny, athletic, attractive, terribly intelligent, and best of all modest. I admit I beat around the bush for a while, I tried to be a friend first, spending time with ... (204 words)

B/f of 5 years doesn't want me anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i think this is it my boyfriend and best friend for nearing 5 years doesn't really want anything to do with me anymore. some my fault some his but he's now decided he doesn't want me. i don't know what to do. i am such a mess right now and i want him so bad. how do you deal... (64 words)

I'm confused..like both colleague and my boss!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've written before about a colleague at work, she's gorgeous and I am seriously attracted to her I'm not sure if she feels anything for me or even if she is straight or not. Since then she has been off work with depression following a number of events. The thing is I miss ... (136 words)

Should I wait for him? Or go on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i dated this guy for a month and two days after our one month he was over at my house when his dad called. he asked where he was and my boyfriend said he was on his way home. so he left my house and went home. he texted me a little later and said we had to break up!! i ... (375 words)

Can people like him change? He cheated and put me down in the past.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend of almost two years had cheated on me and also persued other women which led nowhere.in the past he put me down with the things he said to me, ( he would say things such as "i dont look as good off camera as i do on it") it ate away at my self esteem and i do not ... (281 words)

Should I take him back after all of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - first of all me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year. and all i wanna know is should i consider taking him back even though i know he is cheating on me, and when i confront him about it he says he isnt cheating and he love me, and he make me fill guilty for ... (106 words)

How often to have contact with g/f & b/f?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

- I am wondering, how often do people have contact with their bf/gf? And by contact, I don't just mean seeing them face to face, but talking on the phone, sms/text messages, email, instant messages online etc... I liek to have contact with my bf every day. I understand hes bu... (168 words)

They call me fat, will I ever have a boyfriend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - just wana ask if a girl that is fat..., well they call me chubby, flat nose, w/ big legs...can possibly have a chance to have a boyfriend?... (27 words)

How should I tell him I'm happy that he's going to be visiting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here goes... I like this guy, he is really the first guy i've liked in a long time... It just started out as a little crush since he lives a few states away but travels for work, we met when he was here a year ago and have just been chatting ever since! So I get this mes... (123 words)

My b/f got 20 women pregnant and never paid child support to any of them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was round at my friend's house, and we were having a good chat, socialising and having fun and talking about what's in the news. The conversation went well until my friend said "Have you heard about this man who got TWENTY WOMEN pregnant and who's not paid child support to ... (320 words)

Hairy chest--what do you do with it?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - For guys and girls... This is the first time I have dated a guy who has a really hairy chest. When getting intimate with him, besides just running my fingers through it, what else can I do? Girls, what kinds of things do you do? and Guys, what kinds of things do you like ... (60 words)

She's not the way I remember her but I love her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age - I am a 55 year old woman, who recently met up with my grade 3 teacher of 47 years ago. I've loved her dearly all my life, and told her so at the restaurant recently. She realizes I want to get close to her again and she says that scares her, and that I don't love her... (192 words)

Inexpensive dating ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So quick question for everybody, i was wondering on some ideas for dates for me n my gf of a year and a couple months??? We are both 19 so i mean we cant really go out to the bars and we have alrady done the dining thing a decent amount. Ummm im from illinois so idk if that ... (104 words)

What to do for easier labor

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, again... im just chilling out in my room and i cant sleep! everytime i get settled down the bby kickes, or moves or idk, i just cant seem to fall asleep. and it really got me thinking about birth and labor. i know its going to hurt, thats like common sense, but is ... (195 words)

I'm 21 want to date a 15 y/o afraid of what people will say

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

- I'm a 21 year old male.... and I found a girl whom I have feelings for.... the thing is she's 15 years old... I'm afraid to date her because of what people might think. Shes a great girl but the age difference is the only problem... Anything anyone has to say on this matt... (62 words)

I have issues with trust

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel really silly asking this, because I know it is probably really silly! But I just need some advice on how to handle this situation. In my previous relationships, every time just as I think I am so happy, and the relationship is going great, they either leave me or cheat ... (191 words)

Best way to end this relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with a man for just over 2 years. We live together and have talked about getting married. About a year ago, we got into a huge fight and he broke up with me. I have a feeling that he starting messing around with other people even though we still ... (452 words)

He doesn't even know I exist

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im in love with a guy who is 5 years older dan me and im in love with him but he lives in a different country and he dosent even know i exsist HELP ME!!... (35 words)

A part of my life has ended

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I added this to my last letter but i thought i would do it was a separate piece as i am finding hard to love my wife. as my last post explained. anyway the below is a add on and a better picture A long story, when i was 21 i met a girl 18 and she was my first love extremly st... (842 words)

She's become so stong..I don't know what happened

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi erica i am nikhil thanks 4 ur answer.... erica i will explain u my complete problem......please guide me.... I have been into relationship with my girlfriend for the last four years. I never knew( neither she told me ) that indirectly i told her to do stuff she doesn't... (957 words)

Wrong to be in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I want to find out that it is wrong for a 26 yrs old man to be in love with a 36 yrs old woman, and why?... (27 words)

Baby & Marriage..not sure if I can handle it all

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - alright, so. i know i posted a question before about the baby daddy and my boyfriend issues, but incase you didnt read that one here is my position: i had a boyfriend (cris) -- not real name i got pregnant (now 7 months) when my bf found out about the baby he was fin... (249 words)

G-spot ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My Girlfriend pretty much always has an orgasm when i go down on her or we have sex, the problem is after one orgasm she gets over sensitive or it doesnt feel as nice for her is there something I can do or is this alright. Also she feels uncomfortable whenever i rub her g-spot ... (64 words)

I've lost respect for my wife

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10 January 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have been married for 5 years now and i feel im losing respect for my wife and i don't know how i feel towards her. I feel like im flirting with other women, My wife is a really good woman but i don't feel like i am a good husband, we have no kids, we have tried but to no ... (266 words)

Wrong signal to put xo or xx??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you put "xo" or "xx" (kiss/hug) (or similar) at the end of text messages (SMS) to someone you WERE seeing? Do you think it sends the wrong signal? i only mean it in sending it to an ex or someone you were seeing..... to anyone else i think its fine....... (98 words)

Rough crazy sex!! Now I'm torn & in pain

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had crazy/rough sex and I ripped really bad two days ago. The worst thing is that where I ripped is directly under the urine flow. It hurts so bad and it is ripped in about three spots. I have delivered two girls vaginally and one without any medication. The ... (140 words)

Why do I feel like I'm just an accessory?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner does the list of things below and will not break the habit despite many 'talks' (one sided discussions that end in me crying and him rolling over). Yet he still plans romantic and wonderful trips for us and gets me lavish presents. And hasn't left. Why does he ne... (210 words)

Sick of being alone!

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10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello fello aunts and uncles! Im 19 years old, really attractive, smart and outgoing. I have only had 3 boyfriends in my life but never anything serious. 2 of these boyfriends turned out to be players and jerks who only wanted sex and I was heartbroken. Then I tried dating a ... (183 words)

I don't know what size condoms to buy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I know what size condoms to buy? Since the ones we have been using for over a year are too tight for him, Im not sure what size to get.. i didnt even know they sold different sizes! Thanks!... (43 words)

Stepfather exposed himself to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this is Long, but I need some advice.. I've been knowing my stepfather since I was 11. He was always the "cool" parent. We developed a close relationship, talking about all facts of life. He was the first one to know when I loss my virginity. I never saw him as a tru... (645 words)

She's lost all interest in sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, here is my story. I have been dating my girlfriend for close to three years. For the first year, year and a half, we had sex a healthy number of times and she was very into it and so was I. For the past, I would say, 10, 11 months or so the sex has been completely a... (262 words)

We had sex he stopped calling and now he's calling 2X a day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I have a question, I don't understant men. Hi i'm 25 and have just got back into the dating game. I recently got divorced a little over a year now and have never dated anyone except for my ex husband. we got married when I was 18 and he was 27 so i was young and didn't k... (497 words)

I am depressed because I need a man, but really don't want one!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a 4 month old baby. The longest I have ever been single before my pregnancy was maybe 1 week. I wasnt with my daughters dad for very long, in fact, we were only together 18 days. On the last day we were together I found out I was pregnant, and he decided that he didnt ... (618 words)

I kissed her and she freaked! I'm baffled by her behavior..help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

10 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm so Confused!!!!! I recently converted to Islam, and my very best friend was the one who helped me the most with it. She's divorced from her husband...but still living with her in-laws in the U.S. (who are actually distant family)....I spend all day with her. We work at ... (380 words)

Husband is emotionally abusive and visits hookers! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So...allow me to vent and hopefully get some advice. I am 29, my husband 45. I am his third wife, but am the first to give him a son. (Sammy, 3 years old and beautiful) I knew from the beginning that he like sex with prostitutes (thought it was exciting at the time) and that ... (526 words)

Should I tell him that I'm not well, that I'm not myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know when i'll see him. But it will be eventually for certain reasons. Ive been tryin to see him for like a month. Plans are made and he backs out. i rearrange my day for a day he says and then he cancels. I found out that i wasn't well. Its fixable but due to it ... (376 words)

So my leg spasmed about 5 minutes after sex, is that an orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So earlier tonight me and my bf had sex and this time i was on top. So i don't think i've ever had an orgasm but i know its like leg twitched. But after we had sex i got dressed and went out into the living room. As we were sitting there(within 5 minutes after) my leg started ... (66 words)

Which finger does a promise ring go on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend just gave me a promise ring. I am very excited but did have one question. Is there a certain hand or finger to wear it on? Do you wear it on the left hand like an engagement ring? Or is there no etiquette at all? Thanks in advanced for any answers! *Stacey*... (59 words)

Rocky marriage, ready to throw the towel in, depression issues and I can't stop thinking about his uncle!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

10 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 23 year old married woman with 2 little girls under the age of 2. My husband and I have been married for 6 months and together for 3 years. The problem is, I don't think I love him anymore. I am so severly depressed, suffering from severe hair loss and an eating ... (327 words)

Is it ever wise to send the new gf an anonymous message about what a cheat her bf is?

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10 January 2009 (F)

age - Is it ever wise to send the new girlfriend an anonymous message about what a cheat her boyfriend is? I figure I could do it a number of ways without anyone knowing. The old buzzard cheated with me on her, and even called her to say he was tired and going to bed while he was ... (110 words)

What does "friends for now - not ruling it out" mean?

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10 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What does this statement really mean "friends for now / not ruling it out" i was told that (a while ago now), we wernt' a couple, it was more casual i guess. He said he felt we were getting to close and he's scared to get close to anyone as his last relationship e... (352 words)

Is he just .... weird?

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10 January 2009 (F)

age - my teacher is wierd he is always staring at me, on the first day I had his class I was in the hallway and he poked his head out all of a sudden which creeped me out and then he exited the classroom smiled at me waved his hand and left to another room I was glad he left bec... (301 words)

Do you think I will ever have a boyfriend?

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10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well i always wondered about having a boyfriend would be weird fun cool in t.v it loks perfect i know im sounding like a little girl with to much illusions .......well im not desperate to be with a guy that much im just wondering would guys date a girl thats.. 1.cin... (169 words)

Please help! I hate arguing with the girl I love!

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10 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - HELP!!!!!!!!!! i love my girl friend but she and i come from different lifestyles. she is rich and spoiled and i am a poor working class guy? i really want to make it work but her and i argue about the dumbest things. mostly money though? i really love her with all my ... (127 words)

Is us being together going to be a problem because of the age difference?

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10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid... age thats a big problem for love that's what i think but i always hear love has no age you know you don't choose who to fall in love with! my friend shes 16 and shes in love with this guy that's 30 years old is that a big difference for her or what? [mode... (76 words)

My husband is not romantic at all! Not even on our anniversary!

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10 January 2009 (F)

age - I've been married for 6 years now, and I'm having trouble getting my husband to be romantic. I have to tell him special days and holidays are coming up just to give him hints. This drives me crazy knowing that he's not thoughful at all. Our anniversary was a few months b... (91 words)

Conversations with girlfriend

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10 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ummm...My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months now and for some reason I always have the same problem around her. When I try to talk to her I forget what I wanted to say and end up sounding completely stupid so...How exactly could I find stuff to talk about that I ... (79 words)

Help!!!! What to do for the best...?

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10 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently now 6 months pregnant and 21 yrs old. During the first 3 months of my pregnancy i felt completely alone. When my partner and i found out i was pregnant he thought i would "take care of the problem" but when he approached me about it, i just could not bring myself ... (465 words)

I want know how I can get me and this lad to become better friends and talk more.

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10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok hey, basically I want know how I can get me and this lad to become better friends and talk more. The thing is he dont talk to me much but i dont get why. Its kinda a long story.... Basically last year i thouht he liked me n others did to, he told a m8 of mine he didnt n ... (690 words)

My Grandma is Lonely, Why 60 plus Seniors off the market?

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10 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My Grandma is a single 60+ year old woman and having alittle trouble finding love. Me and Mother is trying to do everything we can to set her up with dates, but they don't go so well. Etheir they are younger and trying to take avantage of her, or they are to old. We are ab... (85 words)

I need to help my son, I've tried but feel like a failure so what should I do?

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10 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a mother of two, my sons are 12 and 15. My 15-year-old son causes a brouhaha wherever he goes, whatever he does. I know teenagers can be a handful, but this goes too far. I've tried everything - cut off pocket money, stopped treats, TV etc. but he still won't stop caus... (102 words)

Is she not sexually attracted to me any more? Please help.

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10 January 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for 1 year and 3 months. I have eaten her out and she has given me a blowjob. We've been doing stuff like this for a while now but for some reason its just now that she decides that she doesn't feel right doing it and she doesn't want to.. I ... (277 words)

I just need some advice about this situation and about relationships and dating in general.

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10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 11 months now. In the beginning we took things really slow, we knew each other for about a month in half before we became a couple. We were doing so well until maybe 3 or 4 months into the relationship. My boyfriend went on ... (1319 words)

Problems with sex.

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10 January 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I had sex with my girlfriend the other day, there was white stuff all over the top of the condom. Is it possible that the girl can still have white come even if she didn't have an orgasm?... (38 words)

I'm starting to feel down because people make me feel like a failure.

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10 January 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm starting to feel down because people make me feel like a failure. I'm single and am hoping to find a partner I can settle with. Everyone always says to me, "you really should think about getting on the property ladder" - when I can't afford to, or "are you worried you ... (151 words)

How does a 23 year old (UK) man go about getting Viagra?

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10 January 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, How does a 23 year old UK man go about getting Viagra? Is it available to buy off the shelf or would I need to see my doctor? Any help would be appreciated. ... (46 words)

Do you think he fancies me and do you think that he said the truth and not just making a joke?

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10 January 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi . I kinda wonder what he's thinking...? Well the thing is, one of my class mates is always asking me how am I and that's all the convisation we make. Just on the day school break up for xmas holiday he asked me do I want to give him a hug!? (I'm so confused, I thought t... (243 words)

Sex Drive

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10 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - If a man has lost his sex drive, is there any way of getting this back? ... (20 words)

I am worried he is going off me as we've been together so long, but I don't know.

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10 January 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all, I have been with my fiance 6 years in June and we have always been close and very intimate, we used to have lots of sex even went 23 times one night. About 7/8 months ago my fiance became all strange and we hardly have sex, the last time we did was September 2008. ... (115 words)

Am I being petty or could I do better?

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10 January 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Any thoughts please... I've been with my guy for about 14 months, and I'm not a money grabber, not in the slightest but I do believe in a little romance. He has only ever taken me out for one meal (the rest we split) and weve never been away for a weekend or even had a holiday ... (190 words)