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I've become nervous, paranoid and jealous in our relationship...

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 17 and Me and my boyfriend of two and a half years dont have the "perfect magazine" relationship, we argue a fair bit, mostly over useless crap that we then forget about the next day, or the fact he lives two hours away, but not that long ago, he broke up with me and we ... (366 words

How can I make webcam sex better for my girlfriend?

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5 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - My gf and I live apart because of my job. She has suggested sex over webcam. We tried it and it was good fun but each time she wants to I get the impression she gets less and less turned on by it. What can i do to make this more fun for her and for me?... (57 words

Why was I the only one my 'friend' didn't invite to her party?

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5 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - today there was a birthday party, everyone got an invitation but me. this person is supposedly...was supposedly a friend of mine. what do i do about it...mind u, i have never been invited to a birthday party, apart from when i was 10. now i'm 17, the total number of parties ... (92 words

Can anyone help me get over my fear of being close to him?

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5 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - I need help approaching a boy. I recently asked help for why he wasn't touching me and was told that i was giving mixed signals but im not sure how to act around him to tell him im interested without pushing anything or bothering him. Im scared to go right up to him and touc... (79 words

Can you stay friends with someone you were in a relationship with?

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5 July 2008 (M age 41-50 - Can I still be a friend? Hello everyone. I have asked this before, but the question remains. I was in a very long relationship with this woman. We still talk/see each other on occasion. I guess what I am asking is: If you say yes-How did you do it? If you say no- Why did you ... (65 words

Unusual looking men frighten me so much that I feel they want to harm me in some way.

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5 July 2008 (F age 26-29 - Lately I have felt wiered around unusual looking men and i keep thinking they are going to come and rape me of course i am scared about this. please help i just need some advise to get over my fear!!!... (42 words

He seemed so totally into me, then when I suggested we get together, he freaked! Why?!

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey im in a little tricky situation and was wondering to get some help... anything.... so here goes Ive been hanging around with this guy for about 6 months and we become really close to each other. when i first started chatting to him it was just casual and then suddenly be... (197 words

I just can't get over this guy, it's been a few years, is something wrong with me?

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - (( Sorry for the legnth)) I was friends with this boy through primary school ( although he is a year older than me) and when i started high school i started to fall for him. In my 1st year of high school i started to realise how much i liked him. When i entered 2nd year... (276 words

I'm scared that I should be slowing things down. Any advice appreciated.

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5 July 2008 (F - Hey everyone, I've just started a new college and last week was the 'induction' visit where we went for a week and had trial lessons, got to know eachother etc. I met this guy there, it wasn't quite 'love at first sight' but it was pretty close. We hit it off straight away an... (134 words

I'm scared I'm going to lose him if I don't act now. What should I do?

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi. at the moment i am really stuck. after talking to my ex boyfriend who i was with for 2 years on the internet the other day i haven't been able to get him out of my head. i love him so much and i've known him 4 3 years. hes one of the nicest guys i've ever met but there is ... (155 words

Does a "read receipt" mean that my friend has definitely viewed my e-card?

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5 July 2008 (F age - I have sent electronic cards to a friend of mine whom I recently split up with jsut asw an apolgy for my part. It says the card has been viewed by him so does this definitely mean it has been viewed because if he had changed his e mail address surely it wouldnt have got ... (140 words

The woman I'm seeing wants me to tell my partner about our relationship.

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5 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for 8 years and we have small children. I met someone else 8 months ago and have been seeing them. I told my partner I had feelings for the other person but she does not know how much. The other woman has asked for me to leave my partner so I have ... (197 words

Was it my period or did he break my hymen?

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - please someone help. ok today my bf poked me he has done it various times in the past.. but i am still a virgin well i hope. he sed he used four fingers today and he hasnt ever done that. i am due my period in about 5 days and i am really worried if a broke the hymen or ... (76 words

I've lost 12lbs in two weeks. I'm still overweight and I need to lose more. What's the best way?

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I havent really been on a diet or anything ive just cut down on how much ive ate and ive lost 12lb in about 2 weeks im not sure if thats good or bad?! but i defintley need to lose somemore weight! As im still overweight. I've cut down to one meal a day and havent ate much ... (95 words

What's the best way to get to meet a girl I've seen on a social networking website?

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5 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - i seen this girl on a social networking website. She's local, but how can evolve from a few messages to actually getting her number and meeting her. She is good looking. All advise welcome please... (35 words

I broke up with both of them but I love both of them. What do I do?

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - okay i need some help w/ this. to start with i went out w/ a guy named jordan for a year a while ago, then we broke up. i went out w/ a guy named nick for 8 months after jordan and i broke up. in january, nicks life went really bad and crazy and we broke up so that i would not ... (142 words

Can you be in a relationship without desire or attraction? Should I finish my first relationship?

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5 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm 23 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years. I came from a overly protected background and therefore did not have a boyfriend till I was 18-19 at uni. I have been with him since and we have overcome a lot: i.e my parents (different race issues etc) and we have ... (301 words

I don't think he really wants a relationship, but I need someone to talk to and so... What do you think?

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - HI, I've just come home from a school residential trip to Cambridge University with other schools in my area. I got told by my friend that an old friend of mine was coming too. We use to be really good close friends but just stop talking when we started different schools.... (280 words

We're far apart. He gave me a teddy bear with his aftershave on it! What can I give him to help him remember me?

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend of 7 mouths who I met at University. We are both really happy and have a good strong relationship together. We are both on holiday from university for the summer (four months long). The hard thing is we both live very far apart and are working most of the ... (205 words

His ex had his baby and he didn't tell me. I feel tricked.

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5 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - This is a bit confusing, but i'm sure its probabley happened to somebody out there. I met somebody, and we began a sexual relationship. When we met i asked him if he was single, he said "i'm not ENTIRELY single" i asked what does that mean....meaning hes with somebody but the... (716 words

I'm furious at what I found on his Facebook account. Am I over reacting?

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5 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - I need advice. I have been married for 15 years and we have 4 children. My husband recently got a facebook account. He has added old friends and even an old girlfriend. I didnt like that much but she also added me as a friend so I did not let that bother me too much. I ... (443 words

My boyfriend is lying and hiding something from me. Do I confront him?

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5 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I will be together for 4 years this August, and we have been living together for 2. Prior to dating we had been close friends for almost four years. I thought I knew him pretty well. Recently I went into his phone to text myself (couldn't find my phone) a... (283 words

Can you have a relationship with someone from your past?

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5 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - Can you have a future relationship with someone you dated in the past? Did not part on bad terms. They say it's just bad timing.... (25 words

I'm coming on my period early, after sex... anyone else had this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

5 July 2008 (F - ive started seeing this guy who i really like. I stay over his place alot and on 2 occasions now I have bled after sex with him. This is because I come on my period when I didnt realise I was about to come on. The first time, it was ok. The sheets had blood on I just said sorry ... (157 words

I feel drained all the time, but my mum won't take me to the doctor

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5 July 2008 (? age 30-35 - could there be a reason why im totally drained out? im only 16, all my friends are out partying and with friends, yeh i do go out but i just cant be arsed, up until like the middle of may i was really energetic. played rugby, swimming, badminton, was out every night with ... (239 words

I want to change my life. I'm free! What can I do?

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5 July 2008 (F age - I am aged 54 divorced with no children and would LOVE to change my life. I live in the Uk and want to get out and do other things. I dont seem to have much luck with finding dates or anyone in my life. Luckily I have no financial worries (I am not wealthy but have... (166 words

My boyfriend is travelling the world, and I kissed another man. Should I just put that moment of weakness behind me?

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5 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend has been away travelling the world for three months now. We've been together for 18 months and thought we would be strong enough to get through the seperation. I love him very much but it has of course put a strain on the relationship. Very recently I went out ... (105 words

I've fallen for my best friend who is also a girl

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5 July 2008 (F age 26-29 - Dear cupid, Wel my problem is that im in love wid my best m8 - lets cal her alex. iv only nown her 4 under 2 yrs but wer ded close and i tell her stuff i wudnt dream of tellin other people...... Last yr i met this girl, amy, hu was a le... (718 words

Have his feelings for me faded?

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5 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am good friends with this guy. He had feelings for me before but I think they've faded but we still talk lots and see each other. Anyways, he always touches (hugs, pats) other people, mostly girls, but he wont do that with me! Specifically one girl who he is around hanging ... (88 words

"Love. but not in love." What does it mean?

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5 July 2008 (F age - WHAT do men mean when they say They love you but arent IN love with you? This sounds very confusing and have had it recdently said to me. What is the difference please and why say it and what is the meaning? Thanks... (51 words

I saw my 44 yearold mother having sex - surely she is too old?

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5 July 2008 (M age 36-40 - I am 24. My mom is 44 she had a divorce after long married life of 28years.She was shattered and had lived a lonely life all alone for a year in her small parental town. When I got setelled with good job in a bigger town she came to live with me in my two bedroom-hall flat.She ... (211 words

I woke up to find him having sex with me. Am I still a virgin?

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5 July 2008 (? age 30-35 - i need to know if im still a virgin!! i have been with my boyfriend for 4 months and he stopped at mine on thursday and we both fell asleep but then when i woke up he was in me, ive never had sex before and i didnt feel him on me but he was actually inside me! i was just so ... (108 words

How do I win him back? He says there is no chance.

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5 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - Alright..my ex and I have been broken up for 1yr and 2 months now..our breakup ended badly..we continued to talk afterwards but that got pretty ugly and stopped talking..anywho..we just started talking this April (which was my doing..it had been 7 months)..we talk and hang out ... (213 words

How do I find a girl to marry?

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5 July 2008 (M age 41-50 - I am having hard time to find a girl for marriage. As of now i am not able find a girl whom i can get marrige. I really dont know how to contact with girls. I am working in a company and most of the time i spend in my company and at home. As i am in new city i really dont know ... (126 words

I can't cope with this relationship but I love him. What do I do?

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm in desperate need of help here everyone. I think my bf gives me anxiety problems. I know this sounds very crazy but its the only solution I could come up with. You see, we have been dating off and on since august. At one time we reached a point where we stopped talking for ... (263 words

Who do I pick?

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey im 15 years old and i have a big problem. I had a boyfriend for just over a month but we broke up recently because of his mate saying all this stuff and we just kept argueing all the time. There is something he doesnt no aswell. :( im not proud of this but when i was going ... (195 words

He doesn't want me as part of his social life!

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5 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi. I dont know what to do with my relationship. I've been living with my partner for 7 months now and he wont involve me in his personal live. He says its because he has always been private but I want our relationship to be more open. He doesnt involve me socially either and ... (65 words

Should I stay in this marriage?

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5 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for six years and have a beautiful son who is four. My husband and I looked like we had it all. However, there were some things going on behind closed doors that I never allowed anyone to know including my family, friends and co-workers. My husband the ... (376 words

Should I have sex with this guy?

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have an issue i fell in love with this guy and or well at least i think i did and he wants to have sex but i havent had sex in years and im scared and i dont know waht to do about it. and he took one of my bffs virginty then lied about it so idk if hes gunna lie or tell ... (82 words

I don't do anything any more and think it's my boyfriend's fault.

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5 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - im confused i've been with my boyfriend for about two years and i feel ive missed out having fun. im 21 and lately my friends are going on girlie holidays, weekends away, parties, drinks in bars midweek and here i am sitting in my boyfriends house with all his family watching ... (125 words

I want a boyfriend and sex

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5 July 2008 (F age 26-29 - i am only 11 and i am single. wich im not happy about. also recently i have wanted sex loads. ihave been thinking that i will find a boyfriend, go to his house one day and he will ask me for sex with comdoms and i will say yes.... ..in my dreams. and i havnt started my perio... (105 words

I've heard he has a girlfriend but he says he doesn't!

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, ive started fancying this guy *****. Recently i've chosen to get really close to him, i liked him ages ago but never really felt like i wanted anything more, just a crush or something. Anyways, he always flirts with me, saying sexual comments-tryin to get a reaction o... (216 words

How to deal with girls with the 'roving eye' sydrome?

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5 July 2008 (M age 36-40 - Well, this afternoon me and my friend were discussing about the behavior of girls and young women when it comes to dating and relationships. Both of us agreed on and were indignant towards women with the following attitude and behavior: 1). They would request you to be commit... (238 words

I'm scared I'm too old for all the men out there!

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5 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - i keep reading that men prefer younger women and this is starting to panic me as we're all getting older and i haven't yet met the man of my dreams! I'm worried it'll get too late. At which age do women lose their appeal to men?... (46 words

I want astrology advice.

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm a Sagittarian girl, dating an Aquarian boy. I am a huge believer of astrology, Anyone out there wanna tell me what Aquarian men are like? And whether this is a good match or not? I would really appreciate your answers if you also believe in astrology. Thank You x... (57 words

I think we're heading for breakup - is that the right thing to do?

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5 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - This is a bit complicated. I've been with my bf for a year now and am living with him but I am at the end of my tether. We both work full time, I pay two thirds of the bills and do ALL the house work as well as looking after his kid at weekends and walking his dog and looking ... (244 words

How can I stop being horrible to him when I just want to tell him that I love him?

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5 July 2008 (M age 41-50 - I split up with my boyfriend about 12 months ago. We lived together for a while after and was okay but then we moved out. We've been good friends since and been very close. We've both had our problems and been there and supported each other. I think now my feelings for him... (130 words

Is it normal to think about other men?

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Why do I keep fantasizing about other men? I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, and a week or two ago it came out that we had both cheated. We're working through it and are closer and happier than ever, but even so the guy I cheated with often pops into my head during ... (143 words

What's the secret of such a happy marriage all these plain, unsexy women in their 50s seem to have?

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5 July 2008 (F age - Without being bitchy I know of quite a lot of women in their 50's who have been married for years and still happy and they are nothign to look at they are to be blunt quite plain but have good husbands. This of course is nice-but what is the secret? It cant be sex all the t... (151 words

Should I just try and forget these feelings I am having??

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5 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am 24 yrs old and married since 5 yrs quite young and 10yrs with my hubby ,i dont have any kids. We were in love since i was at school ,our married life is very nice its just hubby works a lot so do i and we don't have enought time together but we really love eachother never ... (190 words

Any tips on how to calm down morning sickness??

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5 July 2008 (F - I'm almost 18 and i'm 11 weeks pregnant. I'm getting really bad morning sickness all day and i can't eat anything ive tried all the methods they say in the books to help it but it dosnt work has any one got any advice how to help calm it down.... (50 words

Fooling around with my older cousin...is it bad??

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5 July 2008 (F age 26-29 - Well, first started 2yrs ago i think. i was trying to sleep at my cousin's house, Kristen, but then he came along and went in bed with me and started to sqyeeze my breast. It's hard to explain because it was long ago. One month ago we went to the Philippines, and we had an 8... (277 words

I feel invisible as a sexual being...can our marriage survive??

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5 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - Thanks for listening. This is really an awful question...But I have been struggling a long time with this and can't really ask friends or family. I am married to a lovely man for a few years now. And we have a child. We are both in our late thirties. This is a second marriage ... (848 words

I imagine kissing my best friend's neglected boyfriend!

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5 July 2008 (F age - I am 14 and never been kissed, only had one boyfriend 3 years ago. My best friend has a really nice boyfriend, and he has all these problems at home like with his family and he just had a death in his family, and my best friend has been really insensitive towards him and is ... (171 words

I'm really embarrassed about my nose!

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5 July 2008 (F age - I'm really self conscious about my nose. As soon as I learn to accept it and forget about it, some jerk at school says something mean to me about it that just lowers my self esteem again. I'm 14 and I know that once I'm 18 or older my parents have promised me a nose job, but... (179 words

I just had a baby and now my partner seems unimportant!

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5 July 2008 (? - Dear Agony Aunts! Please help me as you've always guided me so well in the past.. I am 23 and my boyfriend of 2 years and I have just had a beautiful baby boy whom I absolutely adore.. The only thing is that now he is 4 months old, he seems to be the best thing in my life... (214 words

I am having sex with someone that's doing someone else!

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5 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - What do I do with myself - I hate the person I have become! I went out with a married man twice and he dumped me. I recovered from it after going for vacation immediately after, and a month and half later we met at a party and sure as hell I acted like nothing happened before ... (238 words

I like this guy but he just came out of a relationship!

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - For a few months now, I have discovered I have very strong feelings towards this guy, who I know vaguely. My friends started to tell him that I like him and then I admitted it to him. His reply was "I've just come out of a relationship after 3 months so its a bit complica... (165 words

I caught new wife having sex for money!

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5 July 2008 (M age 51-59 - This is true. Ive been married since February and Ive recently caught my new wife of 24 (im 39) cheating. The problem is she was cheating with a previous "client" for money. She used to be a dancer at a strip club. She claims there was no emotion involved and it was "easy ... (208 words

I'm in lust with my Aunt!

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5 July 2008 (M age 41-50 - i have lust for my aunt! (my moternal uncle's wife) I want to have sex with her she is 45. She's a Leo. I think she is also interested in me because whenever I talk to her she always looks into my eyes throughout. Please help!... (47 words

I had this strange friendship with a teacher and - nothing!

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5 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - When I was in college back in the 80's and 90s (went part time over a period of years), one of my professors managed to confuse the heck out of me. At first I could not stand him (he was young, a bit dorky, yet arrogant and very bright). I was dealing with stressful familial... (503 words

Is it OK to have no idea what you like about a person?

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5 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hello. About a month ago I broke up with my girlfriend for a few reasons. I really liked her, but she did a lot of things to just add stress to my mind. I always sort of expected a girlfriend to ease the tension rather than create more. This stress included her constant ... (235 words

I'm going to be married and miss having a crush on a guy!

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm sorry this is so long.. but I wanted to get in as much details as possible and PLEASE read it I really want some input. Okay I'm feeling so confused and worried. I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years, and best friends with him for about a year before that. We... (970 words

Spit or swallow? Where should I spit?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5942 days ago

5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - If I want to give my boyfriend head what do I do with the sperm? People say spit or swallow but I don't want to swallow so where do I spit it?... (32 words

I'm in love with my soon-to-be step-brother!

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5 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - My Mom will be getting married to this guy in March of 09. I really like my "soon to be step brother". I think I might be in love with him. I am 13 and my step brother is 14. I REALLY REALLY like him, A LOT. I don't know what to do. I know there's nothing wrong with dating a... (163 words

How can I forget my past and learn to trust my girlfriend?

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5 July 2008 (M age 36-40 - So my problem is like this.. I grew up in a very abusive family. and while growing up alot happened to break my trust. Now im in a relationship and its very hard because i know that she isnt doing anything wrong like cheating but i feel like i always need to hear her say that ... (73 words

I met her at summer camp and she has a boyfriend!

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5 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey there. So I recently attended a summer camp for 4 days, and I met a girl there who I really hit it off with immediately. I instantly felt like I had known her for years, and she was so easy to talk to, and we had so much in common. We spent everyday day together for at ... (212 words

My ex husband wants to come back, but now I can't find him and I don't know what he's up to. Can anyone help me understand?

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5 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - hi everyone, i just dont know what to think or do about the situation im in, after 20 yrs of marrage, my husband decided he wanted to leave, he also decided that he wanted a younger woman, so i decided to file for my divorce, place a restraining order on him and try to move on ... (320 words

Why don't I ever have an orgasm?

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - Everytime i have sex i dont ever experice an orgasm, at least i dont think i do. Dont get me wrong i love having sex and it feels soooooo good. People say that all of you muscles tense up and everyhthing but i never felt that. After we have sex, my right side goes numb ... (97 words

How do you get over someone who wasn't treating you right?

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5 July 2008 (? age 36-40 - How do you get over someone who wasn't treating you right? I just broke up with my boyfriend because he had been very mean with me in the last few weeks, and well overall he had been mean sometimes in the relationship. Like he cared more about other people. I love him to ... (187 words

Why do I bleed when I have sex?

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5 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - Why do I bleed when I have sexual intercourse?... (9 words

My ex won't talk to me ever again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

5 July 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hello everyone, There is a girl I had a relationship with, but for the most part we've stayed good friends. We broke up because she liked another guy, and i got pretty angry at her, but then apologized, and we went back to being friends. However, recently we have had fights ... (366 words

My self-esteen is out the window - everything's falling apart!

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5 July 2008 (F age 41-50 - Good day, all! I hope all is well in your neck of the woods. I have been feeling a little out of place due to feelings of everything all compiled all in one. I am very unhappy with my job. I have been screwed over and over jobs because either a friend of the boss got the... (339 words

I need some serious help with my current bf and ex.....

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship with this one guy and I do have feelings for him. They are not as strong as his. He always moves too fast for me. I still have feelings for my ex. I care for them both. What do i do!!!!!!?????????... (48 words

I feel self-conscious about my belly!

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5 July 2008 (M age 26-29 - I have a issue thats beginning too ruin my life. I am so self conscious about my belly being a little pudgy that the 4 of July party I just came from(like 20 minutes ago)sucked because I was too nervous too go swimming with everyone else. I ended up just sitting on the c... (77 words

Married young and we don't enjoy sex!

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5 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - My question is simply what would you do in my situation and my situation is this.... I am 19 years old about to be 20, last October I married my high school sweetheart of 3 years. We had a long distance relationship for the majority of its existence, he lived 60 miles away fr... (287 words

I'm a guy, Why can't I feel anything during sex?

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5 July 2008 (M age 36-40 - I"m a guy who is 20 years old and been having sex with my gf for about a few months. The only problem is I can never really feel anything during sex, which bums her out because I don't really moan or squirm as she says. She does love sex and doesn't really complain about th... (134 words

Why would he cry over me asking if he's cheated?

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5 July 2008 (F age 36-40 - hello everyone, The other day, i asked my boyfriend, if he has ever cheated on me or even thought about cheating on me. For some odd reason he started crying, and said he would never ever cheat on me. But for some reason i cant help to think that there is something he is hidin... (83 words

Am I being selfish or should I go out and have some fun?

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5 July 2008 (F age 30-35 - im 18 yr old n been seeing a 29 year old for ova a year. ive miscarried a baby by him n i love him with all my heart. the nly problem is i dont feel good enuff in bed for him, since we moved in together he seems really lazy not even cookin for himself and im getting really ... (102 words

Nobody wants to get to know me - Why?

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5 July 2008 (M age 36-40 - I have been out into the city tonight, and haven't managed to find anybody to keep me company. My night started with friends in a pub. They had been in most of the day, but I hadn't been there for very long. After about an hour and a half, they left to go back to one of t... (237 words

Why do I itch and have pinkish discharge?

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5 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - Why do I keep getting an itchy watsit!!! What causes itchy girl bits and a pinkish discharge, I already know he has cheated but what should I tell the doctor next week when I go to see her about itchy bits and pink discharge?... (45 words

The only way I'll be with her is if she's willing to have a healthy relationship but she won't leave me alone!

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5 July 2008 (M age 41-50 - i've been seeing a girl on and off for about 3 years. first it was in a casual format. i first wanted her to be with me but she couldn't decide to let go of her other ongoing relationships she'd had stringing on. there was about 3 months period that we weren't in conta... (548 words

I tell silly lies to try to keep my guy!

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5 July 2008 (F age 51-59 - I found the man of my dreams but I am so afraid of losing him that I lie about little things just so he thinks I am perfect. I hate this and he has caught me in these "little lies" so to speak and now he doubts everything I say. For instance, he has a problem with me weari... (152 words

My guy is losing interest in me!

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5 July 2008 (M age 36-40 - I am 20 and I'm dating a 48 year old man. when we first met we had sex all the time like on command but now that were approaching our year anniversary he's all of a sudden uninterested in sex and getting out the house meeting new friends, or getting out the house for anything ... (95 words

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