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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I was used by a guy..how do I get over the fact my judgment was so wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age - I am feeling bad about my incorrect judgement. I befriended a guy who came across genuine and caring. We knew each other for about 3 weeks...talking and texting regularly. Then we became intimate. After that time he has not contacted me, even though he said he would. When i ... (107 words)

Do I believe my sister and my friend that he still likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6389 days ago

4 May 2007 (F) age 30-35 - hiya ... I'm so confused because Ive béen out with a boy i used to really like and we went out for 6 months and then i dumped him because i was afraid of what one of my closest friend would of thought if i told her. I then went back out with him for bout 2 weeks but i dumped ... (106 words)

Her BF now only shows affection towards his friends, not towards her anymore! How does she talk to him about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6389 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

- this question is for my friend as she doesnt have an account on here. Shes 15 and her boyfriend is 16. Sheloves him alot and they've been together since she was 13 and he was 14. In the beginning of their relationship he would appreciate her, he always told her he loved her... (171 words)

My ex says he will leave his current GF for me...how do I know if he's being sincere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently got in contact with an old flame. We dated many years ago and both never really got over each other. He lives in a different city with his girlfriend. Im single. He says he loves me and wants us to be together but not right now. He says he wants to get everything ... (88 words)

Her parents hate me even though they have never met me; they have only seen my school record!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6389 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Im in love with a girl who is already going out with a guy. When she wanted 2 break up with him for me her parents said that even if they did break up we still couldnt go out! About 3 days later her parents said that we couldnt even be friends and told people around the scho... (133 words)

I'm stuck in the middle of an affair with my best friend and my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with a guy for a year and a half about 2 years ago and i was completely in love with him. He broke up with me and we tried to stay friends. It was very hard for me to be friends with him because i had such strong feelings for him and he made it seem as though we would get ... (137 words)

I'm starting to resent my husband... is our 13 year age gap to blame?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - There is a 13 year age gap between my husband and I and when we married first it was ok. We now have 2 young children 4 and 7 and he is 50 - I am 36. The age gap is more noticable now and he doesnt really get involved in the upbringing of the kids or the house or anything. ... (215 words)

Should I lose my virginity to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and all my mates have lost their virginity to their long term boyfriends. I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over three years. I love and i know that he loves me back. We haven't gone any further than kissing. Should i lose my virginity to him and have sex ... (57 words)

My friend just started jerking me off even though he knows I'm a hetrosexual male!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

4 May 2007 (M) age 30-35 - I stayed around a mates house the other week and we all stopped in the same room and some of us shared a double bed but made sure we had our own space. Well not long after that the lad lying near me moved very close to me and decided to put his hand on my penis. I had an ... (323 words)

I need to understand the male psyche... why is he suddenly hanging out with his mates more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6389 days ago

4 May 2007 (F) - Am I overreacting about my BF hanging out with his friends more lately? My BF and I have been dating for 3 years. He has been hanging with his buddies alot more lately because he just bought a house. I would appreciate guys opinions on this. What are the annoying things t... (100 words)

I don't want to screw up my date to the school prom - please, I need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Well my high school is ending and prom is coming up. I was really nervous about asking a girl, but I did eventually and got a yes! I today near end asked for her number incase anything goes wrong, and I got the answer: "sure can we deal with it later." I don't know if I ... (94 words)

My relationships only last a few weeks....I need advice on HOW to love someone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been having problems with almost all the girls i have met, the relationships just won't last, plz is there something i have to do to keep girls more closer to me?, we start having problems in a couple of weeks and thats how it ends. plz i need advice on how to love ... (59 words)

My GF has 3 male friends and one of them I'm not all that comfortable with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6389 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age - I had originally posted this in response to someone else's question and realized I wanted some input from others too. My gf has 3 male friends that she thought would be good mentors for her children with no father around. She told me they were apparently using her kids to get t... (470 words)

I just wondered the feelings someone goes through when they have cheated on there partners and if this kind of relationship ever last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My partner split up after 17 years together. She moved on within a week of the split. I didn't get any closure and I suspect some form of cheating. I just wondered the feelings someone goes through when they have cheated on there partners and if this kind of relationship ever ... (52 words)

I have been with my boyfriend for a year and I'm confused about our relationship. He says he doesn't want to get married or have kids with me and he doesnt see our relaationship anywhere in the future.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and I'm confused about our relationship. He says he doesn't want to get married or have kids with me and he doesnt see our relaationship anywhere in the future. When i asked him if he still loves me hs says he does and he still wants to ... (149 words)

How can I make it easier for my partner to find out how to take me to that big "O"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm VERY new to sex... But all my life I was told that "our kind", being my mom and me, are not "easy to please". I've noticed that what is apparently "pleasurable" to most girls, barely affects me. How can I make it easier for my partner to find out how to take me to that ... (115 words)

I was warned that losing one's virginity, in the case of a female, can be very painful.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was warned that losing one's virginity, in the case of a female, can be very painful. I wasn't prepared for how intense the pain would be!! It was awful, even my boyfriend was surprised (he is more experienced than me, but bygones are bygones) at my reaction. Now I'm a... (88 words)

Could my "bits" have shrivelled through smoking weed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been smoking weed 4 about a year and resently i have noticed that my penis and balls get all shrivaled up could this do with smoking weed... (29 words)

She smiled then looked at me again and again. Could she like me or fancy me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - The other day caught this girl looking at me several times. She smiled then looked at me again and again. Could she like me or fancy me? I'm unsure of what these signs were. ... (36 words)

My friend is addicted to glue sniffing, but doesn't want any help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi my friend has recently told me hes becoming addicted to glue sniffing and doesnt know how to stop or what to do. how can i help him without being pushy and tellin him to go to the doctors or help groups - hes made that clear that he doesnt want me to help him in that way. ... (80 words)

My bf is asking me about this other woman at my work.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My BF was asking me alot of questions about a woman I work with (who is divorced and attractive). I was just wondering why this was because he claims that he doesn't think much of her although he doesn't know her well. He was asking what she was like, hobbies, if she ... (96 words)

If she thought they were just friends keeping in touch she would have understood that it wasn't appropriate to call him all the time and she wouldn't have gotten so upset.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My BF finally told his old girlfriend to stop calling him because it was upsetting me. She was very upset and starting saying that he would have never tolerated that from her (not being able to call an old girlfriend) and i must be controlling and she'll never speak to him ... (104 words)

I feel otherwise about my family whom has been created around an illusion

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My parents seem to have made considerable efforts in creating a so-called ideal family. But it is like a false illusion to display to the outside world. In reality there are lot of internal problems in my family, no one respects the other, no one cares much for the other, and ... (111 words)

SITE NEWS: Articles section now live :-)))

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

- Hi everyone I've finished a large update to the site today which allows you to add your own articles to the site and have them appear on your own column page, as well as in the articles section. Hopefully this will expand into a valuable resource! Click on the "articl... (183 words)

I'm 22 but attract older guys... how can I attract guys more my own age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys.. i've got a problem because im 22 and single but i always seem to attract guys who are way older than me. like an example of this was on the weekend i went to a firends wedding party and there were these two guys who were chattin me up, but they were in their mid 30's ... (156 words)

My friend keeps having dreams about her ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

- My friend has been having dreams of her ex (non sexual dreams) for the last few months and is quie worried by them. She has been with her current partner for 3 years and married him 3 months ago. As far as I know and what she has said to me things are good between her and her ... (167 words)

I am not his priority..his band and his friends are...what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, i am really sad and brokenhearted by the fact that my boyfriend, the love of my life doesn't have time for me. He always promise me to visit me and he keeps me waiting in vain.. I know he's not cheating with me yet i know that i am not his priority, he said he ... (116 words)

She can take four fingers so am I satisfying her with my penis when we have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf and I have been together for 3 years. last night while we were fooling around, i added a finger...then another one...and another one. I'm under the impression that not alot of girls can take 4, so i have to wonder if im satisfying her during intercourse. i have an ... (56 words)

I lost my Father...Does anyone have any advice for how I can step out of this cycle of regret I seem to be in, since he died?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

- My father died last October and I'm feeling quite upset and regretful for not having enjoyed my life more for him to see while he was alive. He was a beautiful, lovely man and died at 60, well before his time. I am 32 and although I know he was proud of my many achievements, ... (308 words)

Caught my husband watching gay porn on the internet!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi all,well dont know what to do i caught my husband watching gay porn on internet,he says he is not gay just likes watching it .cant understand please help... (29 words)

She's a fantastic woman..but I just can't get into loving her in a physical way! What is wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have recently met a fantastic woman who ticks every box that I could possibly think of. She is loving, not at all clingy, makes me laugh, is considerate, loved by all my friends (already), and is someone who I feel that I can open up to about anything at all. And she adores ... (198 words)

Met the most amazing guy... until I saw him and his girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (F) age 36-40 - good god!!i have had the weirdest couple of weeks ever!!!i met the most amazing amazing guy ever. i thought he was the one for me, he bought me flowers, drove 60 miles to see me at uni three times in 3 days,came to my house at 7 every morning to make me a cup of tea, text me ... (191 words)

I think Blake is her secret internet romance..am I just a 2nd banana here, in her life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - The woman I've been dating steadily for over a year asked me to help her set up a web page for her family. I said sure. Well, last week, she invited me over to download some photos, etc., while she worked around her house. She had left her email screen up and I became curious. ... (470 words)

I am confused as to why her friends and mom say I am violent. I was doing it out of self defence.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My gilfriend of a year posted a problem on here 30 April 07 about me throwing cushions at her, buying a house and that I did not trust her etc.. In my defence she firstly has given me reason not too trust her 100% as I have seen her obtaining numbers off other guys right in ... (421 words)

I haven't met anyone for a while and feel my life is at a standstill.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey. I've been single for coming up to a year now. Its insane! I've had a few on off flings but nothing serious. It's annoying because the amount of times I go out clubbing every week and I also go to college, u would of thought i would have found someone surely?! But its weird ... (119 words)

My ex emailed me after a long time, I don't know if I feel pity for him or I still like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my ex emailed me after a long time. We just had a closure. We now have our own love life but I know that he's still unhappy since he's experiencing problems with his family. And I'm kinda confused with how I'm feeling right now because first... I have given him problems ... (115 words)

I fear I will never get over HIS ex...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - There seem to be a lot of women who share this problem: the EX. I met my boyfriend and the relationship became intense right away and we completely fell in love with each other within a month. But soon after he left for a trip for several months. We agreed to stay together. ... (259 words)

How do you ask your girl to show some care and please you by nurturing your ego without going for sex directly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (M) age 41-50 - How do you ask your girl to show some care and please you by nurturing your ego without going for sex directly? ... (24 words)

I can't feel safe having sex with a girl i don't trust.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (M) age 36-40 - I can't feel safe having sex with a girl i don't trust. Unfortunately, the girl i trusted got married to someone else and i am not sure if i could find someone who is even close to her in understanding me. Will i ever find someone who will understand me better or somewhere near ... (61 words)

How do I confront my father about his affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - alright everyone... so i need a bit of advice. I would like to begin by giving you a bit of information... I am an adult in his early 20s. At the present time, I really have not talked to my family (specifically my father) for a bit over a year now as his emotional abuse was ... (148 words)

My mum absolutely hates my boyfriend and won't let me talk to him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for 8 months. He has cheated on me with the same girl three times in the first 3 months of us talking. Some how I forgave him and he made me fall in love with him. He loves me too and would do anything in the world for me. The problem is my mother. ... (109 words)

Is it okay to be in love with each other even when we have our respective families?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age - I am a 46 year old man married for 16 years now with two kids aged 15 and 10.Very recently I reconnected after a 26 year gap, with my childhood sweetheart who is 45 and also married for 25 years and has two daughters aged 21 and 17.Ever since we reconnected we have been in ... (144 words)

Did I go too far too quickly? Now he won't talk to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - recently i had an encounter with a guy same age as me, i took it pretty far. It was both our 1st time, we did not have sex but we got very intimate. since then he barely talks to me. did i go to far in that moment? ... (51 words)

I have sores on my vagina but I don't know what's causing them, any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i recently noticed that i had sores on my vagina and i went to the doctor to get it checked out, the doctor thought it might've been herpes and tested it and the results came back negative. The doctor told me that the only thing i can do is wait till the sores comes back ... (100 words)

I need to know why I stay with my husband who has been so horrible to me and my kids over the last 20 years...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have had a very turbulent relationship with my husband for nearly 20 years. in this time he has been emotionally and sometimes physically violent towards me. We have had 3 children but 2 were adopted at a young age and 1 remained with us. They were adopted because of his ... (480 words)

We are both married but having an affair together and I think he is falling in love with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - About 4 months ago i started working at a strip club as an exotic dancer. This guy that works there started flirting with me like he did with all the other girls. I liked the attention so i flirted back. A few weeks into working there we started to fool around, problem ... (343 words)

We are having sex but no officially 'going out' because he doesn't want a relationship! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been seeing this guy who i have very strong feelings for and i dont know where i fit into in his life. I have known him for a year now through college and he is absolutly lovely. He makes me laugh and feel secure. However, even though we have both explained to e... (166 words)

We are both young and considering a long-distance relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6391 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so my girlfriend is going to highschool next year but I still have one more year of middle school left. We really love each other, and are going to stay together. What do you think will happen, although it is a long distance relationship?... (45 words)

We got engaged after he had an affair, I forgive him but I am so scared he will hurt me again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age - I have been in a relationship with a man for 6 years. We were engaged a year and a half ago after he told me about an affair he had with another woman. He knew my past history of being cheated on by my ex husband and promised he would never hurt me like that but did anyway. ... (321 words)

I've fallen in love with a man who has committment issues!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6391 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have fallen in love with a man who has commitment issues and i know he loves me to. How can i make him feel more secure? ... (27 words)

I'm getting married this summer but I think I'm in love with a work colleague!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm engaged. The wedding is this summer. My fiance and I have been physically separated due to circumstances beyond our control for the past year. In that time, I have become good friends with a woman I work with. We have both often joked that if I were not engaged, we woul... (273 words)

I'm 18 dating a 15 year old and her parents can't stand me! I don't know why!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm an 18 year old guy dating a 15 year old and her parents can't stand me (I don't know why). I'm a nice guy. I respect her and I love her with all my heart. What are your thoughts on the 3 year difference and if I could go to jail for having sex with her when she turns 16... (63 words)

My friend is going through a hard time and I think my motives the other night were sexual! I don't want our friendship to be ruined! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6391 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a long term friend who has been going through a rough time lately (since November). His father is fatally ill, and my friend has been spending almost all his spare time at the hospital. I've been trying to do what I can to help, and to take care of him by having him over ... (340 words)

My GF flirts with one of my long-time friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6391 days ago

4 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My Gf is kinda flirty. She has flirted with one of my friends i've known since forever. I don't know what to do cuz i love her to death and would do anything for her!... (35 words)

My gay partner was sexually abused as a child, she is in therapy, but we never have sex anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6305 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a queer 25 year old female and I have been in a relationship with another female (whose name for the sake of this post will be "Karen") for about two and a half years. For the first 6 months to a year or so, the sex was great. We were both really into each other, lots... (370 words)

He contacted me again after 7 months saying he wants to meet up but he's in a relationship! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

4 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m really confused, nearly two years ago I dated this guy and he really hurt me. He messed me about and he stood me up and never contacted me until seven months later. He apologised and explained he lost my contact number etc. I didn’t want anything to do with him. Re... (234 words)

How do I get rid of a home made tatoo?

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4 May 2007 (?) - last year i was very upset over this girl i was crazy over. over some event i couldn't take it so i cut my skin sayin i love! now one year on it's still there. the skin is coloured with it clearly written. how do i get it off? it's seems impossible!... (53 words)

How can I get closer to this girl, even as friends?

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4 May 2007 (?) - i really like this girl. she doesn't want a boyfriend. i want to go out with her somewhere as friends but that's hard enough. i see her at school. we're 16. any ideas? thanks... (34 words)