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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm a 20 year old virgin and my friend said I should just sleep with one of my friends! Is this good advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6396 days ago

3 May 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Last week I finally to open up to my buddy about being a 20 year old virgin. He asked me what I was waiting for and I told him at this stage of my life I want it to be with someone who I trust. Well his advice to me was to just ask one of my friends. I am questioning this ... (100 words)

She keeps saying 'no not now' when I ask her out - should I just give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am really confused about this girl. I have asked her out three times, seeing as she has never said no, just not now. Whenever i say anything about a relationship, she always says something about this day and time. For example, she said "stay friends for now" and "here life ... (121 words)

I am worried that if I apply for this job I won't have time to dote on my BF anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

- I have worried myself sick over this -- am thinking of applying for a job, but the job specification includes much more time, etc. than originally perceived. I fear the impact on my relationship with my bf will be ultimately negative. I dote upon my bf, and things have bee... (97 words)

I want to teach overseas for 6 months but will my 3 year marriage suffer as a result even though my husband supports me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6400 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 3 years. We are relatively young (late 20s). I really hate where we live (a developing country) and am making plans to go to teach in Asia for 6 months. Is this crazy? Will our marriage last such a separation? An acquintance tells me ... (128 words)

I'm starting to get addicted on laughing gas!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (M)

- This isn't a love or relationship question, but i dont know where to turn to, I'm starting to get addicted on laughing gas (nitrous oxide), last week i brought 240 canasters, and did them in 2 days, i brought another 240 today and did them all, my lungs are hurting but i would ... (88 words)

Why does he feel the need to "compare" or do you think this is just a lame excuse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend recently got back together after splitting up. Wehave a special relationship but getting back together has been very hard. One problem that seems to stand in our way is that he is always looking at other girls when we go out in public and I wouldn't care ... (172 words)

I have left my daughter's father last November. He's been verbally putting me down and he doesn't see that it's really hurting me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have left my daughter's father last November. He's been verbally putting me down and he doesn't see that it's really hurting me. When we were together, every so often, we were argue. About his whereabouts, who he's talking to on the phone or on line. The reasons to these ... (372 words)

I'm dating a boy over pity but he spends too much time holding me and not backing off.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm dating a boy over pity but he spends too much time holding me and not backing off. My friend who's probly my best friend is trying to help me get over my conscience but it won't work for me please give me some advice... (46 words)

I do not want to have sex with my husband. We have been married for 7 years. I actually dread it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6397 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I do not want to have sex with my husband. We have been married for 7 years. I actually dread it. I wait until he is asleep b4 i go to bed and try to get up b4 him. The sex is good, he always waits for me so we can climax together. What am I going to do?... (59 words)

I have been seeing this man who is 21 and i am 14 and he is doing some stuff to me that i dont understand and i dont want him to do!!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this man who is 21 and i am 14 and he is doing some stuff to me that i dont understand and i dont want him to do, 1st he said i like u will u meet me and because ive liked him for ages i meet him, and got in his car because i trust him, then he came into the ... (254 words)

What is flirting and how do you flirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What is flirting? How do you flirt? I hear my friends going on about flirting with guys and i hate not understanding exactly what the word means.... (27 words)

I slept with my boyfriend a few days ago and we didnt use a condom, could I be pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I slept with my boyfriend a few days ago and we didnt use a condom, he didnt come close to cuming inside me, but since then i have been having pains in my tummy as if i have been in the gym. could i be pregnant?... (49 words)

Why would he want to end it so suddenly to be with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a long distance relationship for nearly 4 years. It was an off and on affair, I never met his family or friends but he met mine as he stayed with me regularly. There was never any mention of commitment or settling down, we enjoyed being with each other. He only told me ... (238 words)

I don't know if what happened at the party would be classed as cheating because of what preceded it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some help. i have been in love with my best friend's boyfriend for nearly a year (i consider him to be one of my best friends too) and last night we went to a party together. his girlfriend and a male work friend of mine were supposed to come with us but couldn't mak... (444 words)

I don't know whether to tell him how I'm feeling or not, because if he didnt feel the same way it would then make it really akward to see him every day.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, im a member of a sports club that i go to every day, theres a guy who works in the shop there that i like so much, the only problem is im 16, hes 24+. I talk to him everyday and it sort of seems to me that theres playful flirty banter between us. The other day i went in ... (179 words)

Would you kiss a girl that does oral sex with a guy 3 months before you meet her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am asking a weird question. Would you kiss a girl that does oral sex with a guy 3 months before you meet her. Second question If she did it with the guy and don`t want to do it on you what do you think. Is it that she was force or didn`t like oral sex.... (56 words)

How can I ask her without offending her in case I am wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6397 days ago

3 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a virgin and want to lose my virginity. I think a girl I know wants to do the same but i am not sure. How can I ask her without offending her in case I am wrong? ... (40 words)

Whenever I see him I just feel a massive wave of fondness over him, why do I get this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 16 and have been with my bf for about 4 and a half months now. I am so happy when im with him and i feel safe. whenever I see him I just feel a massive wave of fondness over him. why do i get this?... (53 words)

Later that night, he was drunk and looked at me and called me her name. His excuse was that he was drunk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age - I went on a works trip with my partner (his work)and i noticed he flirted a lot with his younger work colleague and she flirted with him. He texted her when she wasn't with us to see what she was doing, and she even rang our room to arrange us all going out (I have to say her ... (377 words)

I don't have a problem with pornography per se, but it has been quite excessive with him in the past.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age - He says I Live in cloud cuckoo land because he hides pornography in his car and I say its not right. I don't have a problem with pornography per se, but it has been quite excessive with him in the past. Some time back I noticed the carpet in front of the drivers seat of the car ... (163 words)

We have forbidden this 23 year old man to see our 17 year old daughter but he won't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband and i have a 17 yr. old beautiful daughter that claims to be in-love with a 23 yr old male. we have tried to keep this relationship from happening, but the more we fought it the more they were determined to be together. we both told the guy that he can't date our ... (155 words)

I'm only 16 years old and already fallen in love with the wrong man.... wrong man because he is already married!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm only 16 years old and already fallen in love with the wrong man.... wrong man because he is already married! from the start i know that.... but still i can help falling with him! and having sexual intercourse with him! he's name is aljohn! i love him so much! and i cant ... (125 words)

He is obsessed with his sport and spends most of his free time playing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age - Hi all. I'm 43, hubby 42, married 17yrs, together 23yrs. I'm at the end of my tether. He is obsessed with his sport and spends most of his free time playing. if he's not playing it, he's watching it or surfing in on the net. He doesn't help out much at home. We have 2 ... (207 words)

I know how she feels but I don't know how to tell her or when or how to do it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6400 days ago

3 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i wrote a question on here on may 1st. Thanks for the reply i got i was wondering if any of you out there could give me afew more replies to suggest what i should do. Hope you can,thanks. Here is my original question. Hi me and this girl have been best friends since we were ... (407 words)

"I need you to be like her." Those are the words she said to me. I'm posting again as I only got two responses.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - "I need you to be like her." Those are the words she said to me. I'm posting again as I only got two responses. I am a lesbian. Recently my ex girlfriend said she wanted to have a relationship with me. She was adamant that I was the person she really wanted to be wit... (734 words)

Can I trust him... is it me he wants and not her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Can I trust him is it me he wants and not her? Hi im engaged to a man i met 7 months ago we had a whirlwind romance and fell in love so quickly he is everything i wanted , we both were out of long term relationships only 3 months and after being together for 2 months he propo... (344 words)

Could I have gotten pregnant the time I had unprotected sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i had unprotected sex with my fiance 2 days before my period was due but my period came a week late but it was quite clotty and usually im on time each month. now 2 weeks later im spotting could i have got pregnant that time i had unprotected sex? or could i be spotting for ... (60 words)

I don't want to feel like I am using him as a form of blackmail in any way.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok here goes. After being apart for just over 12 months my ex and I are starting to get close again. We didn't break up because we didn't love each other but over a silly fight that escalated out of hand. We never really resolved the issue and we have just spent the past 12 ... (291 words)

Is it possible to have a non-sexual relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6137 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I really need someone out there to help me this important decision of my life.....I am 35 years old and has been trying very very hard to go after a guy of 43 years old for the past 2 years. He is a successful businessman, financially stable, handsome, kind, tough and he is ... (513 words)

How do I become a stronger person through all this and become better in the end???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - Hi im 21 and my boyfriend will soon to be 20 in June. I have been with him for about almost 3 months but we been good friends since i saw about...(i meant him when he was in 7th and i was in 8th) But we didnt become good friends til about 11th -12th grade.... Any... (383 words)

She likes this lad but won't tell him. How do I convince her to just go and tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend really likes this lad and she has to much pride to allow herself to go and tell him. ive tried making her but it doesnt work with her and shes a little cautious as hes of a different racial culture to her! what can i do to convince her to take that chance because ... (67 words)

She likes my best friend but he hates her. I love her but she doesn't like me! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - how do you know when you are in love or just really happy?? this girl i REALLY like dosent like me in that way i think i love her! =] but she likes my best freind who last time i checked he hated her. =[ what do i do?? peace ... (61 words)

He dating someone else but I can tell..he's not happy! Should I tell him how I feel about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i really like this guy. he's smart, kind and sees me 4 the person i really am. the problem is hes seeing someone and i can tell he's not happy. is it the wrong time to tell him how i feel?... (41 words)

He was visiting gay sites...is he just curious or is he really gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6358 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - my partner of 5 years is everything in a man i have ever wanted, he has very endearing qualities and treats me like a princess.Then 3 weeks ago i found out he was flirting with another women at work and he stated he did not sleep with her and never wanted to it was just an ego ... (276 words)

Is there something I can do to...climax?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm almost 21 years old. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for more than a year and a half now. We are very happy and I believe we are made for each other. The problem is, I can't climax. We sleep together and we've tried so many times, nothing happens. It's not that ... (73 words)

All I want to know is, should I stay and wait a little longer, or should I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a fantastic woman earlier this year. The moment we met, there was instant chemistry. Things were going so well between us, but lately, I'm starting to keep my distance. This really saddens me, but I can't help it. She broke up with her boyfriend of 5 years as things ... (354 words)

She says it's not over but she needs time to sort her head out. We were together 24-7. How can I win her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have just had the best seven months of my life with a woman. I finished with her becos her ex was constantly on the phone. The next day we got back together. Now out of the blue, she wants to slow down. I am absolutely gutted. It hurts so much. She says it's not over but she ... (76 words)

I'm not sure i believe him. I don't know what to do and my heads in a spin thinking what he could be up to.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently found out my husband has lied to me. You will all probably think its a stupid small white lie but to me its a big thing. His mobile phone beeped a text message through the other day and when he looked at it he said it was just a delivery report from a message he had ... (230 words)

There is this girl I like but I cannot do anything for her to make her happy or surprise her. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl I like but I cannot do anything for her to make her happy or surprise her. What can I do? She does not like it when I am spending money in her.... (36 words)

I am giving him his space but I feel that our friendship has been completely ruined. Any advice appreciated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi All, I have a slight problem. There is this guy I have known my whole life-literally (we grew up spending summers and xmas together). We've always been in touch but recently we've gotten even closer-the last 4 months we have spoken to each other everyday and we can talk ... (243 words)

Want to have a break and experience other things... but then get back together. Anyone else feel this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6105 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my partner have been together for 5 years. Recently things haven't been great between us and I asked him for a break. I have been seeing someone else casually (not behind his back, we have both agreed to take this break) but it's not anything serious, we just provide ... (253 words)

I don't know whether to just bite the bullet and just ask him out or if he was interested he would text me and should stay quiet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6399 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy that i have liked for ages but i don't know what to do about it because he sends such mixed signals. When we send time together at a band we are both in together, we are both very flirty and neither of us can stop smiling when we are talking to each other. My ... (157 words)

Hes chatting on the internet to women, he wont give me his password, should I trust him ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hey there my patner and i have been together for 6years.we have just got the internet and i have found out that he has been talking to this"lesbian" who after 2 days of talking went into where he worked and gave him her mobile number.apparently she has a girlfriend but im not ... (141 words)

Shes pregnant with my child but still chats up men on the internet! Am I wrong if I end the relationship ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6402 days ago

3 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My partner is pregnant with my child, we are so close. Yet she still seeks out men on the internet and chats to random men on sex sites online. I am today about to pull the pin on the entire relationship...am I being crazy? If I'm not enough for her why can't she tell me so?... (59 words)

If you really really liked a girl (to the point of thinking about her all the time) would you tell her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

3 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - If you really really liked a girl (to the point of thinking about her all the time) would you tell her?... (21 words)

Happily married for a year to a wonderful man, but I still have feelings for my ex!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been happily married for one year to an absolutely amazing man. I love him so much and don't want to hurt him, but I can't help having feelings for my ex. I don't want to leave my husband so much as I wish I could experience what my life would have been like if it had ... (162 words)

My sister doesnt get on with my husband but insists on invites over!!??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age - Hi problem family My sister does not get on with my husband, But insists that she should be invited to parties at our house,even though she has told me that she will refuse the ivite. What would you do ... (42 words)

Im 13 hes 17, he wants to have sex this weekend, how do I tell him im not ready!!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6397 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well i have this 17 year old boyfriend and im only 13. and he wants to have sex this weekend but i don't know how to say im not ready. i tried to tell him through a text message when we were texting but he thinks we should and i scared if i say no to him face to face he mite ... (74 words)

My sister is being rude and judgemental about my girlfriend, Am I wrong to feel anger towards her ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I met my girlfriend about a year ago. We have a mutual friend that brought us together. I care about her very much. My sister is making unfair assumptions about her. My girlfriend's cousin that lived in our town was very promiscuous, and my sister assumes that my girlfrie... (158 words)

He didnt call, got angry that I wasnt bothered, I ended it and he insulted me, I love him but dont know whats up with him ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6402 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - please!!!! someone!!!! help me!!!! My boyfriend didnt call me at all on friday and when he called me saturday he was acting really strange and asked me if i was mad that he didnt call on fri. i said no and said i didnt care(i did)he acted weird all day saturday.he neve... (279 words)

I didnt shape up, he shipped out, he said no contact, but he conctacts me, we love each other but cant be together.... Confused! Please help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi There, My name is Kristi and I am new. I am having quite the dilemma regarding making contact with my ex. I would so appreciate any help you have to offer. Here is my story: I'll be 28 next month and my ex is 31. We were together over 2 1/2 years and he broke up with m... (1235 words)

I sent a text that read I didnt want him, but it wasnt finished!! I do want him, now hes hurt and doesnt want to know!! Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need help on this, I have been recently seeing this guy, for about two weeks now, but we have known each other for almost ten years, now the other night we slept together for the first time and things were amazing, but i was talking to him on msn today and i told him... (225 words)

Were giving it another go and I'm really making the effort as she asked, but shes always in an aggravated mood!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - So after the fighting and arguing me and my girlfriend decided to give it one more shot to see if things could change, and she asked was that I put more effort into the relationship. So thats what I'm doing but she still seems in a aggravated mood all the time. We barely talk ... (121 words)

Dating 2 months and the feelings are fading, I only tell her I love her as I dont want to hurt her!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and i have been going out for about 2 months now and i thought i loved her but im starting to have second thoughts. I started to lose the feelings i thought i had for her. I tryed fixing it by changing some things like spending more or less time together and doing ... (127 words)

I'm cheating on my husband, but with a really nasty guy, I crave him and I dont feel guilty for it!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 29 years old and have been married to my husband for 7 years. My husband is very good to me, is a hard worker, very physically fit, attractive... About 6 months ago I started seeing a man at work who is 39, divorced, has four children, and has a girlfriend. This man is not ... (167 words)

He says im selfish because I didnt wear the clothes he wanted me too!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6372 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, im having problems with my boyfriend and its to do with him calling me selfish you be the judge. I wore this casual dress to uni the other day and its just above my knees and he was really upset about it. He said im really selfish to have put it on when i knew that he ... (163 words)

I dont love him anymore, but Im scared to leave as he said he would shoot himself and burn my things!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for four years and we currently live together. Problem is i dont think i am in love with him any more. we have serious arguements sometimes that often end in tears (mine) but on the flip side things can be really good. Im scared if i break up with ... (104 words)

Lack of sex in my marriage.. had the urge to fantasise about other men, nothing happend but I have feelings for someone. I'm scared... how safe is my marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - So, I think my marriage is in trouble. I told my husband about 9 months ago that I was tired of living in a sexless marriage. We hadn't had sex for about two and a half years. Things got better for about two months, but since then nothing. That's not actually my question. It's ... (280 words)

I feel very depressed. Can I get back to how it used to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6402 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - One day I just woke up and I wasn't feeling the same, and before i knew it i was caught in a intense depression, it was by far the most confusing months of my life and now im afraid that i have completly forgotten how i used to feel. My emotions are dull now or not even there ... (117 words)

I'm afraid of being rejected because of my bisexuality.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6402 days ago

3 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My friends and I always joke about being lesbian and bi(just little jokes), but we're all for gay marriage, etc. Now, after knowing my friends for years now, I realize that I like two of the same sex. I know one of my friends doesn't care who she falls in love with and I don't ... (103 words)

How can I tell her my cheating was a biggggg mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6402 days ago

3 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i got caught cheating on my fiance i guess i was running away from the commitment of it all. i cheated and i felt horrible after words but i never told her a couple of months later i got caught, now we're still intimate 2 months later i realized i loved her a long time ago but ... (134 words)

I have been having trouble finding her physically attractive. She's not terribly overweight, but she does have a fair stomach to her.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6397 days ago

3 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year, and have been involved a fair bit longer, and I can quite see myself spending a good many years with her. Lately, however, I have been having trouble finding her physically attractive. She's not terribly overweight, but ... (471 words)