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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

This infatuation is driving me nuts, and not assessing these emotions and repressing it could cause serious psychological damage.

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2 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to ask my friend out, I actualy think she likes me (though I can't be sure) though I don't have a car or a job and live in an urban area so i feel a relationship would seem empty. But this infatuation is driving me nuts, and not assessing these emotions and repressing it ... (67 words)

should I just let him go and move on or should I deal with it because I do love him?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am in a crazy relationship with my boyfreind of almost 4 years but about a year ago I found out that he had another girl on the side who he has been with on and off for 9 years. And true to form that was not it, she also got pregnant but she lost it or what ever but now ... (97 words)

I seem to lack confidence when it comes to anything to do with attraction/sexual attraction or talking to women I seem to have the "hots" for.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6391 days ago

2 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, ill start with the good stuff :) Well, im a 19 year old lad, 5'7 tall, Part white and part asian (If that makes sense) and most people say im a good looking lad. Personality wise, im a cheery and fun type of guy, always up for a laugh. I get on with the lads, and also w... (388 words)

I have been hurt over and over again by my boyfriend...

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been hurt over and over by my boyfriend, he has cheated on me several times with people who I am close to, I am depressed I don't know what to do.... (33 words)

How can I get my ex out of my head and move on?

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2 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm still in love with my ex. She broke up with me almost a year ago. We were together for just under six months, although we've been friends for much longer. I don't see her very often - it was a long distance relationship - but we still keep in touch. I think I should b... (222 words)

I have been dating my 36 year old boss for 2 months now, I am only 20. Do you think this is a good idea?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my 36 year old boss for 2 months now, I am only 20. We keep things very seperate from our business and personal relationships. I just don't know if what I am doing is right. Do you think this is a bad idea? ... (48 words)

He called it off after only 2 dates saying that he wasn't ready, now he is ignoring me. What does this mean?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have recently met a man and we got on extremely well. He pursued me through a friend for several months before asking me out. I am divorced with a child, he is divorced (relatively recently) He called it off after only 2 dates saying that he wasn't ready, now he is ... (61 words)

He came inside me this time but I still got my period. How could that happen?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so he came INSIDE me this time but i still got my period and im fine... HOW COULD THAT HAPPEN? im soo confused... (24 words)

How can I tell my boyfriend to be more affectionate with me?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I really am being to think its me. I am with someone who bends over backwards to make sure I'm comfortable but isn't very passionate when it comes to being affectionate. When I ask him to be, he reacts in disbelief and says I get all this attention etc etc. I guess its more ... (175 words)

I'm still in love with my ex, will I ever get over her?

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2 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm still in love with my ex. We were together for about 6 months, although we'd been friends for much longer. She broke up with me almost a year ago. I think I should be over her by now, but I still miss her just as much as I always have. I don't see her much - it was a long ... (245 words)

I feel so alone now that I'd take anybody.

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2 May 2007 (F)

- My grandma died and my boyfriend dumped me in the same week. I use to be in a long distance relationship i didn't see my friends much i don't have any close friends and i can't speak to my family. The closest person i had was my boyfriend he dumped because of distance. Now i ... (70 words)

Are all women with "tramp stamps" aka tattoos on the small of the back, sleep-arounds or is this a label put on them?

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2 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Are all women with "tramp stamps" aka tattoos on the small of the back, sleep-arounds or is this a label put on them?... (23 words)

Am I still in love with my ex girlfriend?

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2 May 2007 (M)

- Question: My ex and I broke up a year and a half ago because I cheated on her and she in turn cheated on me, all of this after being together for 7 years. I met a interesting woman who I find attractive and she is everything I want in a woman. Then, my ex calls out of the ... (185 words)

She gets mad at me because she thinks I dont listen to her on the phone.

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2 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a 5 month relationship with a beautiful woman inside and out. She is all i have ever wanted, but she gets mad at me because she thinks i dont listen to her on the phone. I have told her many times that the phone is the problem, sometimes the words she says just dont ... (131 words)

Help!!! I'm torn between my boyfriend and his best friend.

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with a guy for a year and a half, but a few months ago i started to fancy another guy, my boyfriends best friend! i thought if i left it my feelings for this other guy would go away but now i think i am in love with him. i think he likes me a lot too, but ... (131 words)

I want sex constantly and have only gone without sex for two months the longest. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

2 May 2007 (F)

- I am a 18 year old girl who keeps on getting in and out of relationships, when i am in the relationship i think that everything is great for a week maybe two and then i get BORED i dont know why this happens. I have been cheated on lots of times by the same person and sometimes ... (100 words)

The ex is making impossible threats....What do I do???

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a man for 4 years and he has 2 children with his ex-wife. We have lived together for 1 year. She doesn't want them to know that we are dating and have a one year old child of our own together. I have met the children when they were very young and didn't know ... (129 words)

How can I tell him I really can't wait?

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2 May 2007 (F)

- hi there, the guy im seeing or was seeing has said he needs us to be friends for the moment cos he is dealing with too much we have only been seeing each other for two months and i know he is being genuine because we have spoken since etc but the thing is i cant wait i am only ... (143 words)

Although we broke up we still continued to have sex, now I'm pregnant with his baby.

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - just need some advise....my ex partner finished with me last august.ever since we broke up he has been coming back to me for sex. we are still good friends though. i found out that i was pregnant in january this year with his child. he was shocked at first but has come to ... (137 words)

I've fallen for someone of the same sex, and I'm falling in love with him

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2 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I've fallen for someone of the same sex, and I'm falling in love with him, he knows, but he's straight, and i like him that much... Someone.. please..... help me.... (32 words)

I have recently had sex with my boyfriend, we used a condom, but it came off half way through

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

2 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey, I have recently had sex with my boyfriend, we used a condom, but it came off half way through. i am now 2 weeks late on, and been gettin headaches and really bad pains in my tummy. i dont want to take a test because i am scared of what it will tell me. i really dont want ... (133 words)

His last proper girlfriend slept with him after three weeks which makes me feel like I'm a prude or a tease by comparison.

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have recently started dating a boy i love very much. he's also one of my best friends and two years ago he used to date a friend of mine. their relationship ended peaceably and she's quite happy for us to date. we've been going out for a month now and everything is so perfe... (216 words)

I'm really really interested and attracted to this guy but can't help to think that he might just be using me to get his jollies off

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2 May 2007 (F) - Ive known this guy for almost 7 years now, about 3 years ago we noticed an attraction towards each other but I never acted on it because at the time I had a boyfriend. Well about a month ago he had rented an apt in the house of a close relative of mine. The attraction is still ... (230 words)

He keeps texting this other girl at work, we have been together 20 years and I don't want to lose him. How do I handle this?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hiya everyone!! i wrote on here for some advice a couple of months ago and it was really helpful and now im having a few problems again, about the same thing really. The problems started about 6 months ago when my boyfriend was ringing and texting a girl from work, he tried ... (494 words)

Why do I have such a problem with him living with this girl?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is at a different university to me and next year he is living in a group of 6 with a girl that I do not like and do not trust. This girl can be deliberately nasty and has offended most people at some point. People seem to just accept that this is the way she is b... (171 words)

How can I help him get over his insecurities and be proud of the person he is?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been having some problems lately due to his insecurities. I think he had a pretty bad relationship in the past, but he will not open up and talk about it. Everytime I ask how he feels or what is wrong, he just gets in a bad mood and shuts down. He is ... (331 words)

He really likes this girl who is the same age as him, now I feel he'll like her more as I'm 3 years younger.

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2 May 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, The boy I like is nearly 3 years older than me (I'm 15, he's 18 in August). We've been friends for about a year and flirt loads. I was almost certain he liked me back and was getting close to telling him, when a few days ago he told me about this girl he likes wh... (101 words)

When girls giggle at you when you first have a conversation with them, does that mean they fancy you?

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2 May 2007 (M)

- When girls giggle at you when you first have a conversation with them, does that mean they fancy you?... (19 words)

I just don't know how I can trust anyone again. This was the woman I had planned to spend the rest of my life with, start a family with and all she can give me in return is betrayal.

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2 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - On Monday night I kicked my Fiance out after discovering she was seeing another guy behind my back. We've been together over two years and engaged for the last year. About a month ago she dropped a bombshell about sleeping with another guy when we first starting seeing ... (231 words)

She lost a close family member last week and seems to be inconsolable. How can I help her through this?

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2 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok me and my best friend are very close, we are always together and tell each other everything. She lost a close family member about a week ago and shes just the worst i've ever seen her. Although she doesn't really cry a lot, she holds it in and tries to be strong but i think ... (311 words)

In porn the guy's cum is pure white, but mine is kinda white but has a definite hint of yellow in it.

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2 May 2007 (M)

- In porn the guy's cum is pure white, but mine is kinda white but has a definite hint of yellow in it. Is this normal?... (25 words)

I want to know when would be the best time to kiss her or how to tell if she wants to be kissed.

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2 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a really close friend, who i've developed feelings for. I really love her, and I don't want to lose her friendship, but I feel that I should at least try to see where we could go. I know that if we were together and if we ended up breaking up, that I would still want to ... (257 words)

How do I change this and get a life for myself?

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2 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I get a feeling sometimes that i am the only person holding on things at whatever place i am currently, may it be my home, a workplace or a place i visit. Like i own that place and other people are just serving me for the respect they owe me for me worrying for the better of ... (103 words)

Is it possible to remain friends with an ex and even get back together with them?

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2 May 2007 (F)

- Do you think its possible to remain friends with an ex and is it possible to ever get back together again in the future after a couple of break ups?... (30 words)

How does a female get looked upon whether she has sex with a guy on the first day? Is she considered easy?

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2 May 2007 (F) - How does a female get looked upon whether she has sex with a guy on the first day, the first month, or even after six months of dating a guy. Is she considered easy if she sleeps with him on the first day?... (43 words)

Married 7 months and already we have broken up... now he wants to get back with me.

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i had just been married 7 months when my husband turned around and said was confused and needed time to clear his head. He moved out, i was devastated and left my job and moved nearer to home (which he did not expect me to do) he said take this time for me also. Anyhow, ... (120 words)

Why can't he just be with me for now and see how things go? Should I no longer be friends with him? Has he led me on?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I posted this dilemma yesterday, but only got one response and was hoping for more, so I will post again. I'm from Romania, but I am living in Britain while I am at University. I have tried internet dating as I was lonely in the UK and have met several guys, but now I have ... (337 words)

The other night he said he loved me but that he isnt in love with me.Can someone tell me the difference?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing someone for 7 months now and before this we were good friends i have known him for almost 3 years as we lived next door to each other and we get along most of the time. The other night he said he loved me but that he isnt in love with me. Could someone ... (72 words)

Any suggestions to get this guy I used to like...out of my head??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6384 days ago

2 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this has been driving me nuts and I need help with this, theres this guy I use to like but I havent seen him in ages and I don't know he left me on bad terms (he turned in to a jerk) and now he has just poped up in my head and I don't know what I can do to get him out of my ... (100 words)

We broke up, he had debt problems and he left town. Now he's back. Should I contact him?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i will try to keep this short! basically after 4years together my ex decide he wasn't in love with me and broke up then moved away. his mother told me the fact he was in debt was a major factor. for a while things after the breakup were messy between us and we haven't spoken ... (153 words)

I get subjected to social pressure to sleep with women, but I don't want it this way. How do I get this message across to the women I date?

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2 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - For most of the childhood and as an adult, i have been craving for affection from women, as i did not get it from my emotionally closed mother. As a result, i have groomed my personality to be one that is attractive to women. In the process, i get subjected to intense social ... (88 words)

I feel that some girls like their guy to take control of her. Is this true?

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2 May 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I have had difficult forming a stable relationship with a girl, though i have met quite a few wonderful women in my life. My problem is, i can't feel secure about a relationship with her as long as i am not in complete control of her, like what she does, how she talks with ... (154 words)

Been seeing him for 6 months-there's not a lot of passion-so I'm unsure how he really feels about me. What should I do?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age - My boyfirend and i have been seeing each other for 6 months,he says i am a lovely person and to good for him,most of the women he has been with in the past havent been to good.he says i look unapproachable,and attract the wrong men.what he means by this i dont know.i'm 44 and ... (140 words)

My ex wont stop pestering me, I dont want to hurt him, but its endangering my new relationship!

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my ex 2 months ago.The problem is that I lived with my ex for one year and we also jointly owned a house. I decided to break up with him after 4 years because emotionally he was not giving me what I needed. It was not a clean break-up in the sense that we had ... (163 words)

My partner has secretly been texting a 16 yr old, but he says its because she in a mess and needs help!!!!

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out that my partner of 4 years has secretly been texting a 16 year old girl, behind my back and I'm totally heartbroken, hes 36! all the trust has gone and I dont feel like I know him anymore and I dont know what to do! Background info... We both know this g... (758 words)

I still like him but dont want to make it easy for him to win my attention. Should I try and stay clear?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i was seeing this guy for two months, but then we called it off as i wanted a relationship and he didnt..... since then we have been really good friends and he started seeing someone else. they didnt get on to well. now 3 months since we split he has lost her and it feels as ... (90 words)

He smelt girly, and is suddenly spraying deodarant on his shirt.... is he cheating ?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - suspicious man my husband came home this morning from work and i noticed that his shirt and chest smelled girly and i asked him "why he smells like that?" he said that he doesn't smell anything and that it's probaly his sweat. and i told him that sweat doesn't smell girl... (199 words)

I'm 15 hes 18 maybe 22, we met online, we have intimate feelings, is this right or am I being played ?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 15 year old girl and a couple months ago i met an 18 year old guy (suspected to be 22) online. I've met him in person, talk to him all the time, we meet to chat online at specific times (because he lives very far away from me), i do admit i have inimate feelings for him ... (80 words)

At 17 we had sex but didnt date, 6 years on he tells me he loves me, and wants me to have his baby!!???

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What should I do? I've been friends with this guy since elementary school. When we were 17 we started having sex, but we've never dated. This went on for about 3 years and then he moved away. It has now been 6 years and he is moving back here. He says he's been waiting this ... (174 words)

Im extremely attracted to my girlfriend, so why do I go limp ?

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2 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My Girlfriend is extreamly atractive to me... and yet I'm worried. I can be completely in the mood, and both of us really getting into it... and then suddenly, out of nowhere, I go limp. Either durring sex or before. She say's that's not normal, and I need to seek help... ... (100 words)

My father and brother humiliate and insult me each other and now..I am getting the same treatment. What can I do?

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2 May 2007 (M) age 36-40 - I think my father and my brother are bisexuals / gays. They want to maintain some kind of emotional tie with me, though when i get close to them, they keep humiliating me and insulting me. Moreover, they kind of depend on each other for some kind of reassurance by having a ... (156 words)

I doesnt ejaculate when I perfome oral sex, what am I doing wrong ?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - when I am performing oral sex on my new young boyfriend he never ejaculates even though he says it feels like he will.He says it has been that way with every one else but I feel like I am doimg something wrong or not right.HELP ME PLEASE! ... (54 words)

Hes alot more experienced than me, how do I get confidence!!?

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2 May 2007 (F)

- I'm with this guy, and he's a little.. well ALOT more experienced than me!... I'm not a virgin, but i'm also not that confident!! If anyone could give me any advice!!!! ... (35 words)

How can I get him to realise how much I love him and want him, am I trying too hard ?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - What do i need to do to prove it? My boyfriend an I are in a split up right now, an it has been over a week so far, an all i want to do is prove to him that i want him an i love him. He told me when we broke up that it was not me an that it was him. I love the man an i want... (239 words)

Married 5 years and the sex is a problem...He ejaculates too quickly still, is this something other people have experienced ?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married five years, and our sex life has problems. I worked in Europe for about 9 months and got back just before the wedding. From that time until now, my husband has had some sort of problem with ejaculating too quickly (like, under a minute) - every time. This ... (252 words)

Advice on how to take the pill correctly!

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm on birth control .. and i'm just wondering (this is my first month) the ring in the middle. with the least amount of pills, is that the pills that you take that is suppose to make you start your period? just wondering because i've now taken three. and i sti... (78 words)

Whens the right time to french kiss a girl ?

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2 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - when is the right time to french kiss a girl when i only get to see her at school or school related things?... (23 words)

We kissed, but not infront of people, does this mean he doesnt want to date me ?

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2 May 2007 (?) - I'm a 18 year old girl and I’m fairly shy and wary of guys coz of the way I’ve been treated in the past. I’ve been single for 3 years now and I think its about time I found someone who’ll treat me right. I met this guy Bruce (23) thro one of my closest male friends aroun... (463 words)

Im 18, and have been getting stomach cramps, could I be pregant!?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay im 18 years old. i have been with me boyfriend for awile now. well we have stared haveing sex alittle under two weeks ago but here latly i have been haveing little stumch cramps. and my brest are a little sore. i was reading that thoses are sings of being pregnat? and we ... (97 words)

Do you think that there is a chance for us still, or that it really is over?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m 18, and I understand that I’m young and should not expect to find the one person right now, but I’m still having problems with my recent breakup. My boyfriend and I were together for 2 years. We were an annoyingly perfect couple that never fought, and were never anything ... (579 words)

have never orgasmed before. Is there something wrong with me?

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2 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really love when my boyfriend fingers me, and performs oral sex on me. For some reason, I have never orgasmed before. Is there something wrong with me? How do I achieve orgasm?... (33 words)