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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

both me and my 2 friends says she sounds like 19 or even in their 20's tops..and my b.f told me she is in her 50's...am i being too paranoid here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6343 days ago

19 June 2007 (F) - my boyfriend fixes things for a living--i dont wanna get too specific..i recently checked the contacts in his phone and saw a girls name(and i actually havent looked in a few weeks and before that it was a long time)..a new girl..which i thought was odd..so i tried to bring it ... (422 words)

Should I try to pursue a friendship? What does his odd behavior mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I started dating this guy and things were going well for a while, but then he asked me not to leave him. The problem is that I knew that I was going to move, and I didn't want to not tell him. I felt that that would be too deceitful. We broke up shortly after, he told me that ... (110 words)

I've been really unlike myself for the past couple of days and I'm not sure why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for a week now and things were going really well for about 4 days. But for some reason I've been really unlike myself for the past couple of days and I'm not sure why. It may have something to do with the fact that we've spent so much time together ... (198 words)

What do I do... tell my lover how I feel and risk him ending our relationship... or carry on trying to hide the fact I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Relationship advice wanted.... i'm in a sexless marriage with a 12 year old child...... there has been no intimacy within the marriage for 8 years but I stay for the sake of the child and because frankly it seems like too much upheaval and upset to up and leave. I've been ... (147 words)

I told him I needed my space. Did I do the right thing or did I over react?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry its so long...Just so hurt still, im not a perfect person at all BUT I went above and beyond in giving of myself in this relationship. We have been together for 5 1/2 years. I have been their for him emotionally, financially, maintained a very healthy daily sex life t... (408 words)

I am a 12 year old girl and I really want to have sex with my boyfriend who is 14. Should I do it with him?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a 12 year old girl and I really want to have sex with my boyfriend who is 14. He wants me to come over to night and have sex with him. Should I do it with him?... (39 words)

I'm not sexually attracted to my husband! Any advice?

This question has 99 answers - newest was posted 3451 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - When I was in highschool, I fell in love with a guy who broke my heart 6 mon.after we started seeing each other. His younger brother started coming over to my house after the break up and we'd hang out, sometimes go for pizza or a movie. Then one night, he leaned over and ... (511 words)

Am I just being paranoid or is there a chance this is more than a gut feeling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend lives in a different town to me but i travel to stay with her quite often. However when im not with her ive got a gut feeling she is cheating on me. Firstly her mother and sister had informed me not to trust her and that she had 3 guys on the go at once a while ... (359 words)

G spot location??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - where is the g spot actually located, i cant tel if my girl is really ccumming or not... (18 words)

Problems with thoughts of the ex and the current boyfriend! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - So. I had a ridiculous crush on this guy I knew from school who then moved fairly far away, we got intimately involved, considered getting into a relationship. I visited him later, to talk about it, and found out after two days he'd found someone else. I was heartbroken,... (284 words)

I have a fairytale, perfect life. But not the man of my dreams to complete! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im 21 years old i have got the job of my dreams and soon to be having my own little cottage, but the only thing im missing is the man of my dreams.. sometimes i think is that just it a dream, i know which type of partner ide like but no one seems to fit the bill, tall dark ... (127 words)

So many problems in this relationship. Trust, his family and I'm not seeing him enough! What can I do? I love him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been in this relationship for five years. Last year I found out that he cheated on me. When I asked about it he lied then he came clean. The thing is he said that he dont feel like he is making me happy in bed. We use to have sex three times a ... (195 words)

I'm dating a guy online. How do I know it's not going to be a "pedo's trap" when I finally meet him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok here goes... I am going out with this guy i met online, thing is i havnet met him face 2 face and we have made plans for the future! am i crazy? is this guy for real? or am i falling for a peados trap? plz help me!!!... (51 words)

I know he doesn't fancy me so why is he meeting up with me all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 14 and im really in love with this boy we've been meeting up for a thew months now and hes the first boy that ive really fallen for. most weekend nights i sneak out of my house at 11 and go down his till about 3 in the morning. but it seems like hes using me he keeps ... (160 words)

I don't know how to get my g/f of 2 years to feel more secure about herself. Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (M)

age - I don't know how to get my g/f of 2 years to feel more secure about herself. She's really quite attractive, intelligent, and has a good job. I guess I'm not very good and doling out praise or compliments but she always looks nice. We get along well most of the time, except ... (461 words)

Am I trying to hold out for the 100% perfect relationship that probably doesn't exist ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Everyone. I've had loads of advice from you over the last few months. I split with my partner after being together for over 4 years. That was a couple of months ago. We didn't live together or anything - I have a son of 12 from a previous marriage and he has two sons ... (310 words)

Got asked out while at the library and said "no" even though I wanted to say yes... !

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - A guy introduced himself at the library and asked me out. He asked me in front of the librarian and I turned him down out of sheer embarrassment. Now that I think the encounter over, I want to see him again just to talk to him. Is it possible that he would be at the library ... (96 words)

We had a fling and now everyone knows about it and is being nasty! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i had a fling with a guy i knew through work, it was supposed to be descrete, now i find he has told people things we did and its got back to some relatives and people at work who are being unpleasant, i said its lies but they're being really nasty saying no smoke without fire, ... (86 words)

What does it mean if your boyfriend went from calling you everyday to every other day to every 5 days???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean if your boyfriend went from calling you everyday to every other day to every 5 days??? I really miss talking to him and it's even harder since it's a long distance relationship. I cant call him because I don't have his # he doesn't have a cell phone and he d... (77 words)

I only see him 3 nights a week and do want more but get the feeling he doesn't. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - been seeing a guy for a year on and of,he is just about divorced and i would like to know where i stand with him? his kids are the same age as mine and get on great at school but he doesnt really involve them too much with me.i only see him 3 nites a week and do want more but ... (110 words)

I know she reads my texts but she's choosing not to answer me right away for some reason! can someone explain why this may be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

19 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend dumped me last sunday and this sunday just gone we talked about starting fresh and 2 take things slow by just dating again and meeting up every week or so and to slow down on all the calls and texts, i was fine with that and still am but i still feel she is doing ... (235 words)

Why would he do all these nice things with me when he's interacting with another married woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - why would a man introduce you to his kids, mother tell you he loves you every single day, spend time with you every night and all weekend, make plans for the future and the whole time he's decieving you by interacting with a married woman he works with? Is it to get ahead? ... (100 words)

Will birth control for cramps stop my gf from becoming pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a question about birth control. My girl friend uses birth control to stop the cramps and such but we have been having sex lately and she wants me to come inside her. Says it feels good. But on birth control for cramps, does this still prevent her from becoming pregnant... (71 words)

Both women are lovely and are in love with me...so what should I do??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

19 June 2007 (M)

age - Hi, I have been single for a couple of years and meeting women on dating sites. Ultimately have been looking for a serious relationship. 6 weeks ago met a wonderful woman and we really hit it off and feel we are in love. We are going as slowly as we can but after the first 2 ... (202 words)

I have a massive crush on my maybe married teacher!!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a MASSIVE crush on a male teacher at my school, he's like the fittest person ever, however this is the cause of uncontrollable consequences... For starters, recently i've noticed that whenever i stare at him he looks back - I love this eye contact i often have with him... (361 words)

I have a milky discharge from my breast

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

- Hi im 14 years old and when i squeeze 1 of my breats white liquid comes out. Is this normal????? its kinda like milk but im not pregnant or anything. Discharge it could be? help. ... (35 words)

My life is in a rut. I want to settle down but dont know how to find my lifemate

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

19 June 2007 (M)

- I'm 32 and feel my life's in a rut. I'd like to settle down, get married and have a family. In fact, that's what I've wanted since I was about 17. I'm starting to think the reason I haven't settled is that I've still got a lot of growing up and roaming to do, a lot of risks ... (207 words)

How do I know if I am gay and how can I become straight again?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

19 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am so worried. I think, I really do not know, but I think that I might be gay. It scares the hell out of me, I don't want to be gay!! I've got a girlfriend and I love her but I am so confused. I cannot talk to ANYONE about this. How can I become straight without telling ... (63 words)

I made my boyfriend mad by being so clingy and now he wont talk to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok..I did something to make my boyfriend mad...I couldn't get a hold of him so I went to his work and he wasn't working, he was there hanging with friends and he was more or less blowing me off, telling me he didn't want to be bothered, kept wanting me to leave, then he ended ... (265 words)

My lazy alcoholic wife is making me nuts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

19 June 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, Been married for 14 years now, 3 three lovely preteen/teen girls who are my life. My wife and I have had lots of ups and downs - in the past, mostly down to me I think. I had lots of issues lying to her about things (mostly money stuff,no cheating at all) so she has major ... (267 words)

About to give birth but have no worries. Shouldnt I be freaked?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Heya :) This sounds a little silly but shouldn't I be worried about going in to labour for the first time, or any worries at all..... I'm 21 weeks pregnant and feel a little odd as I'm not panicking as much as other pregnant women I know and this is my first pregnancy. ... (104 words)

I fell in love with another man, but dont want to hurt my children by dumping their Dad

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for almost nine years now. It has been a rocky nine years due to affairs on both sides. We have two beautiful children together. About three months ago I joined a website just to make friends to chat with when I got bored at work. I ended up... (252 words)

Do men who have georgeous girlfriends still fantasize, look at porn or cheat?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Do men who have drop dead gorgeous girlfriends still fantasize about other women, want to look at porn, or cheat? I am an attractive woman and all my boyfriends have looked at other women or porn at some time or another in our relationship(and some have cheated), but my ... (144 words)

She's all flirty now. Could she like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

19 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - back last year i briefly went out with a girl. we lasted or about a week and a half. and eventually she said she didnt think that it was a good idea and we split. i was devastated and tried everything i could to get her back but she ignored me and didn't speak to me atall. i ... (363 words)

Theres a new girl in school and I want her to join my group of friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi this is quite complicated so if any of you can help that would be great, i wopuld like some different opions on this please+ sorry if its really long. Ok well im 15 and theres this girl that has just moved to the area and my school. I met her when i had to take a note to ... (640 words)

What can I do to make him speak to me more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, Im 13 and theres this boy at school, he's been telling me that he likes me for a while and i thought that he was joking, But the other day we kissed!! And we arranged to meet up on saturday and he couldnt make it. Sometimes he speaks alot on MSN but others, he dont speak ... (72 words)

My wife has just gotten too darn fat to be attractive anymore

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

19 June 2007 (M)

age - I'm in my late 40's and have been married for nearly 26 years, most of which have been happy however my Wife has become increasingly overweight and put simply I no longer fancy her physically. She makes no serious attempt to lose weight and get fit and the result is she's not ... (208 words)

He has a nasty temper and a mouth to match

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

- I could really do with some advice. I'm going out with this guy for nearly 2 years and I'm a bit confused about him. He says he loves me but rarely shows it. He has a nasty temper but he has a nasty mouth on him. He is constantly accusing me of cheating on him. I do everything ... (95 words)

Ready to adopt a baby!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - We want to adopt and I'm broading our chances... My spouse and I have recently started the process for adoption. It's really exciting considering he proposed the idea. I have children from a previous marriage and had to have an emergency hysterectomy so I can no longer have a... (124 words)

How can I get my girl to be the sex kitten she used to be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 3 years now, I absolutly adore her. We've went through our points of no sex and points where we've had sex like crazy. It was a point where she was very aggressive about wanting sex now she isn't as agressive. She says she always wants to ... (89 words)

He is leaving for a year. Should we break up now or later?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is going travelling for a year and he's leaving in 5 months. We will have been together for just over a year by the time he goes. In this time I have grown to like him a lot. I am dreading him going and I realise how hard it is going to be when he leaves. ... (95 words)

I was so wrong to mistreat him. I cant lose him. How can I convince him to give me another chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Aaaargh i desperately need some advice i have been with my guy now 2.5 years and love him to bits even though he is 17 years older than me it has never been a problem. He also has a 14 year old son. On sunday even ing he announced in a pub beer garden that he wanted to... (300 words)

I am suspicious of her even though I am the one that cheated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 and my girlfriend of 3 years just recently told me she has been talking to some guy on the phone. The thing is it started about 5 days after we ran into an ex of mine that made a huge scene and said she's still with me. Then about a week later a couple people told her I ... (250 words)

I want to adopt a baby

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - help please: trying for a baby for ages but looking to adopt. help us if you can. hi im 20 will be 21 in october me and my partner who i have been with nearly 5 years have been trying for a baby for nearly 2 years we are looking to adopt from a single person or a c... (97 words)

Should I leave my mean partner for his sweet blind friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help. I have been seeing my boyfriend for 18mths now and well it has been a up and down relationship. There are times when I have done nothing wrong and get shouted at which then leads to an arguement and something in the house being smashed, Normally its a photo or a ... (280 words)

She has 3 nipples and it is freaking me out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6341 days ago

19 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have just started going out and we recently slept together, but when she took her top off i could clearly see that she has three nipples, two on one breast. i have tried to ignor it, but it is really freaking me out and i dont know how to talk to her about ... (62 words)

Urgh! I slept with my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - For the past six months i have been sleeping with my ex partners cousin on an as and when basis, which suited us both. My ex has a partner and they have been together for almost a year, she is nine years younger than him and dotes on him. I am very good friends with my exs ... (106 words)

Torn between my best friend and the first girl i've loved in five years!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6340 days ago

19 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Anyone, Well here goes, I'll give you a little background first. I'm 25 and I have only been in love with one girl this was when I was 17, I was with her for 3 years and then we parted separate ways. Since then, I can honestly say that I have been devastated and still to... (1029 words)

I get bored with him as soon as I get the guy I want

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a problem as u may tell. I will say i really like a boy and then one of my mates will tell him then he will ask me out but then after a week or two i get really bored and i dont want to go out no more. I just want a relationship with someone i love and dont get bored of. ... (110 words)

He is going back to his ex! How can he do this when I have been so supportive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

- Iv been with my bf a year I got a feeling over the last couple of days there was something wrong. He has always been honest and said that he never divorced his wife (been seperated three years) and that they had kids I was always supportive of this and even gave him my car when ... (164 words)

He is cheating on me, but only wants her for her money!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in relationship for fifteen years now with my boyfriend.We have two children, but my boyfriend is not satisfied because he is not working. So he is now seeing a another woman who has money. This is killing me. He says everything will be ok, but I don't believe him. ... (82 words)

I want to stay in the 'honeymoon' stage of a relationship forever

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 6309 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I'm 24 and have never got past 5 months in any other relationship because I am insecure and unreasonable and I don't like it when the initial 'honeymoon period' becomes 'comfortable'. At the moment I am in a relationship with a man that I love, and have been for 5... (196 words)

I dont know who the father of my child is so I am alone and scared

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need some help with my problem. Im a 22 year old girl and have just found out I am pregnant. The thing is, I dont know who the father is as I had 2 flings whilst on holiday last month. I know this is quite disgusting so please dont judge me.I had unprotected sex with ... (255 words)

My boyfriend treats me like a maid

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6343 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. my boyfriend and i have been together for one year now even though we have been friends for close to ten years. The problem is that he he feels a woman place is in the kitchen. He does support my career aspiration but bluntly refuses to help around the house even though i ... (163 words)

I was trying to take it slow, but now he's lost interest

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F) - What am I to do? I met a guy in a club over a month ago. We just clicked and talked all night. We have been seeing one another most weekends since. My friends live in the town where we met so I am there quite a lot staying with my friends at weekends. We have slept i... (207 words)

I want to have fun when I go to Greece, but my boyfriend wont trust me not to cheat while I am there

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I'm going to greece with my twin sister and my friend. My boyfriends really worried because he thinks they are going to infuence me to drink and cheat on him. I've told him that i would never do that and i promised i wouldn't drink or go clubbing. I don't do this at ... (138 words)

I want to be friends, he wants 'benifits' He wont talk to me now. Did he just want me for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - If a guy says he's not ready for a relationship but wants to carry on seeing you as a 'friend with benefits'(he didn't use those words exactly but that's how it was), and then that doesn't work out from the girl's point of view as she wants a proper relationship, can you ever ... (142 words)

He'd rather look at porn than have real sex with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do anymore? I am 26 years old i have been with my husband 8 years (married for 2) He has a had a problem with porn, internet, movies, magizines. He would be on the computer for hours at night or when I was at work, but hardly ever want sex with me. I h... (200 words)

He lied and deceived and played with both our hearts

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - OK, sorry but this is a long one. My ex and I were together for 7 years. During that time we had 3 children from previous relationships between us and then in 2004 we had a child of our own. My ex effectively abandoned me and was not there when our son was born tho I did l... (1530 words)

I might have an affair because my wife and I argue so much

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello people, i have a problem that i would like you to help solve.I was recently married and now we are bleby an 11months old boy. for the last 2months my relationship has been having its rocky parts.we been arguing and at times the arguments heat up so much. When it co... (176 words)

I dont want my Mom to date, but I dont want her to be unhappy either

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, my mum was married twice and divroced twice.. ever since it was perfect! now she is dating a new guy.. and i hate him! not that he is bad.. i just dont like him.. or maybe im not used to it.. and he is trying to bribe me into liking him too, but if i tell my mum i dislike ... (74 words)

The pregnancy scare has left me feeling broody! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - in the last month iv had unprotected sex with my bf of a few yrs, we never discussed it, we just ran out of condoms and he went to stop and i said its ok, as we were already very into it. it was stupid but it happened agian 4 or 5 times during my 2nd and 3rd week of my cycle. m... (254 words)

I think all my friends are now judging me because Im still a virgin!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

19 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a strange problem, awhile ago my girlfriend told one of her friends that i was a virgin when we first started to date. Her friend told all of my friends and to start with they laughed at me. Im now feeling that all my friends are judging me because of this, I really l... (211 words)

Are other couples simply not having sex either ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

- Are other couples simply not having sex either!? Me and my bf of 3 years have sex very very infrequently. I would have it every day, but hes less inclined to and is more practical about everyday things. Its not his sex drive, hes got a relatively high one when he wants to... (317 words)

My partner is very insecure due to past issues, I feel like Im now paying for them! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my partner for almost 4 years and have a wonderfull little boy, but my partner doesn't trust me and i don't know the best way to cope with this. He's very insercure and been hurt many times in the past and mysely may i add> I want my relationship to work, but ... (199 words)

I told him it was casual, but now I cant live without him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and i've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months. At the beginning of our relationship i just thought it would be a casual thing but he was looking for long term. I'ts my first relationship and i've had absolutly no experience with boys so i didin't really know how to ... (270 words)

He told me he has a new baby and I'm not sure if we should be together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

19 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, feeling really confused and full of frustration, let me start at the beginning and maybe someone can shed some light on the situation for me.... I met this guy at my AA meetings and we became pretty good friends, i enjoy doing sweat lodges and spiritual things and he has t... (795 words)

She can't have sex but I crave it constantly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

19 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - She can't have sex yet I crave it. What can I do? I've always been interested in girls and sex. When I first met my girlfriend online it took me a bit aback how she discussed her past sexual experience and sexual experimentation, but I found it intriguing. When we fina... (309 words)

There are so many obstacles in our way but I feel there is still a chance for us; should I tell him?

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19 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - A few days ago my long distance b/f and I decided that our relationanship was not going to work. Everything is against us being together: distance, money, culture. But we still love each other. I was going to go and visit him but we both decided it would be too heart breaking. ... (138 words)

My girlfriend isn't bothered about having orgasms but I really want to give them to her

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19 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i know my girl is able to give me an orgasm, but all i really want is to give her one like really bad and it makes me sad that i always come befor her, but she never wants me to finish her off, is there anything els i can do of can some people give me some suggestions.... (59 words)

I want to leave my husband but there are too many other problems in the way

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19 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and fell out of love a long time ago. 3 years ago, I decided to leave. I started looking for work b/c I had been a stay at home mom for 11 years and I knew we couldn't afford for me to move out b/c we have a lot of medical bills with one of our children as well as ... (403 words)

I was too shy to ask out my crush; how can I manage next time?

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19 June 2007 (M) age 30-35 - OK well this year i really liked a girl and i never really tried to ask her out becuz im shy at times or i couldnt think of anything to say that wasnt cheesy...But next year im going to try to ask this girl out how should i ask her out Im 13 and have had no real girl friends ... (73 words)

What's the difference between using condoms and having sex without them?

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19 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im just curious if its true when my friend tells me that i will enjoy sex much more when my boyfriend and i start not using condoms. we have always used condoms but in about a month i will be on birth control and eventually im sure the opportunity will arise where we want to ... (121 words)

I don't think I love him anymore but I don't want to hurt him

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19 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. He is my first serious boyfriend. Lately I think that my feelings are changing towards him. I still care about him, I just don't think I love him anymore. It's not another man, but I'm 22 and i don't excatly know how to describe what i'm ... (97 words)

My girlfriend has never had an orgasm while we're having sex

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19 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi im joshua19 i have a girlfriend, we have sex often but everytime she never has an orgasm and i feel horrible cause i want that for her. what are some tips that anyone can provide for me to help my situation ... (42 words)

My girlfriend cheated to get revenge; should I stay with her?

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19 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 19 years old, young i know, my girlfriend is going to be 17 in 3 days and about an hour ago i found out that she had cheated on me about 4 days ago. i'm so depressed this is a first for her i have never cheated on her and never will i feel like i need to stay faithful so ... (162 words)

She wants a year apart from me to have fun at college but I'm so depressed about her decision

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19 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Im still in college and my fiance just broke up with me. What's worse is that I saw this coming 6 months ago, but it just kept getting worse and worse until now. We don't go to the same school, so I didn't see her everyday until the summer started so I didn't know how bad the ... (242 words)

How can we pleasure each other without having sex?

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19 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay...me and one of my really close guy friends started talkin bout sex..but i already decided not to...so now how can i pleasure him w/ out having sex w/ him? and how can he pleasure me w/out gettin me pregnant?... (40 words)

My boyfriend said he's impotent but then we successfully had sex; I'm so confused

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19 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, My boyfriend Roger and I have been dating 4 months this Friday. It took us forever for things to get physical. When I gave him oral (for the first time) the other night, I did it for ages and he didn't come. He eventually broke down and told me that he's been dealin... (166 words)

Sometimes it seems he loves me, other times he threatens me; should I end it?

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19 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i have been going out with this guy for almost 9 months. now ately he's been mean towards me saying stuff like "i'm going to push you down the stairs" and i dont know if hes kidding or not. He says he might really do it. And said if i was in a fight he says he wouldn't ... (165 words)

I have a girlfriend but I still love my ex; who can't make up her mind!

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19 June 2007 (M) - so its been about a year since my ex dumped me. never got closure from it. i love her so much but sometimes i really just dont understand her. when we broke up she never gave me a solid reason why she didnt want to be together. it took me a while to even believe we were not ... (374 words)

We still care for each other but the spark is gone; should I end it?

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19 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with a guy for over a year. He treats me very well and I love him, but I'm not happy anymore. Every little thing we do annoys one another, we fight about the stupidest things, and I can't remember the last time I got butterflies and was excited to ... (122 words)

He says he likes me but doesn't act like he does

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19 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - He told me he likes me yet, he doesnt talk to me. We were at our friends watching movies and playing games and everything was awesome, we were holding hands and cuddling and stuff. He said he was gunna call me, but he didnt. Today he was on AIM but he wasnt talking and i think ... (67 words)

I left my unahppy relationship; I love my new man but he only seems to want me for sex!

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19 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - About four months ago me and my boyfriend broke up when we both went to university. He treated me very badly for two months prior to this breakup and all the time i was doing everything i could to make it work. Looking back now i lost alot of self respect putting up with what ... (748 words)

My boyfriend won't open up to me, should I leave him?

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19 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 weeks and all we do is physical things, everytime I ask him about his life we end up arguing. all I know is he doesn't have a good relationship with either of his parents and is in counsuling, I don't know what to do it's like I'm letting a ... (108 words)

My wife and I can't communicate our feelings

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19 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife loves me and i love her but we always wait for eachothr to show that, always hiding our feeling to eachother. what should i do to fix this problem?... (31 words)

Should I have sex even though I am only 14?

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19 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - me and one of my really good guy friends have been talking about having sex..because we feel there is something between us...but i am only 14..should i consider having sex w/ him?... (32 words)

Every guy I meet is a slimeball! Should I just lower my standards?

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19 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am on some on-line dating sites, and there is this guy who has asked me out on a date. However, he came across really slimey by mentioning my breasts rather than anything else about my profile. I sometimes wonder if I have had a complete sense of humour by-pass but I found ... (251 words)

She keeps going back to her rich ex, but I am thinking of proposing anyway.

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19 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am almost 29 and I have been in love with a woman 20 years older than me for the past 3 years. We have dated off and on since we met. She has waivered and gone back to her ex - because he can provide for her financially better than I can - a couple times, but we always seem ... (195 words)

Will a cheater ever change?

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19 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my name is Alicia and i startin goin out with this guy (Trevin)last year in may.We went out for a while but things started to change after the third month. we went out on and off for 7 months.we had lotsof break ups but always got back together.In october i finally became ... (259 words)

Do I confront him about the picture and if he still has feelings for her?

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19 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend says that he loves me. I still have a feeling he still has feelings for his ex. He compares me to her a lot and he still has a picture of her on his myspace calling her is love. Do I confront him about the picture and if he still has feelings for her?... (58 words)

I can't believe he destroyed our friendship all for a fling!!

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19 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex broke our relationship off some 6 months ago. Although I feel heaps better than I did, I genuinely feel that I will never 100% get over the way he treated me. He had been with his ex for 5 years and was having trouble getting over it. Throughout this time, I was the ... (273 words)

I fancy a girl who's two years younger than me. I'm scared of being rejected and I don't know how to find out whether she's taken or not. Any advice?

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19 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm beginning to like this girl 2years younger than me. I'm 16. It really dont know what to do in order to find out if she has boyfriend, or if she'll go out with me? How do i find out this information? What i can say is everyday online she says that she looked at me but i ne... (159 words)

What's up with her and how should I deal with this situation?

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19 June 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My girfriend says she need space for a while but she say she still loves me and does not want to break up. She also says that she does not want to date anybody else, she just wants to do her own thing and can't give me 100% She also said that she felt dependent of me. She does ... (94 words)