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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is the age gap ok??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I've fallen for this 14 year old girl. I'm 16. i'm not too sure about the age gap, what you guys think? How can i ask her out or meet her without embarrassing myself coz if she rejects me she will tell her friends which will be hell for me as they are a bunch of loud mouths! ... (62 words)

I want to ask this girl out but avoid friends making a fuss. What do i do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I fancy this girl. The only problem is i dont want my friends to know they make a big fuss out of it! I want to ask this girl out to date etc but her best mate is my best mates sister! So, if her best mate knows than so will my mate which i want to highly avoid! Anyone got any... (70 words)

Is she just being friendly or does she like me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - A girl a year younger than me added me on msn and started talkin to me. She goes to my school. The next day for the first time we made eye contact and smiled. she smiled and was kinda shy which made her look even more cute! Anyway i than didn't go school the next day so i ask... (114 words)

Could we be back together someday??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'll try to keep this short but it is very difficult to explain (aren't they all..) My ex and I were together 10.5 months in all. After visiting me for my bday - around 9 months - he confessed that he'd kissed another girl, meant nothing, alcohol was involved, she has a boyfri... (1109 words)

I am athletic, kind and smart! so why doesn't anyone like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I was checking out my crush's myspace... and I found out that he has a girlfriend. I was disappointed, but actually, I'm always disappointed because I never get ANY guys. I'm not sure why no one likes me... I'm smart, kind, and athletic. Help?!?... (44 words)

Why did he arrange a date and then bail on me? Can anyone explain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently am divorced and have been asked out by a guy that has been friends and worked with me for about 10 years. We had a date planned, but he never called to confirmed pick-up time, etc. He was acting really into me before this and called me several times. The day before ... (102 words)

I have spots on my scrotum--will they clear up and what causes this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. Well, basically...I've got this problem...where I have got spots on my scrot. I have had these for a number of months...and had never even been near anyone else sexually when they started to appear. I spoke to my mate who says its pretty normal for stuff like thi... (106 words)

No kissing, no hugs and no sex since she got pregnant 4 years ago. She says she still wants a relationship, but...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - been goin out with my gf for 6 years now.had baby boy 4 years ago.since than(and duringshe just doesn't want it 9 months of pregnancy)there has been no sex in our relationship.she just doesn't want.not just sex,no kissing or hugs.this as you can guess cause big problems.she ... (58 words)

We hardly make love and when we do, it feels like it's a job for him... is this relationship falling apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I are going through a very difficult time financially. We have NO relationship with each other whatsoever. He blames it on stress. We sleep in seperate bedrooms (aparently, that way he can "stretch out" much better). We hardly talk and when we do, it's about work. ... (136 words)

He's been having a sex-text relationship with an old work friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i feel betrayed as i found out my parnter had been having a sexual text relationship with an old work friend that lasted a few months,i discovered this only a month ago however this relationship started last october few weeks after our sons birthday. i also found out that he ... (141 words)

Do teen girls like 'beefy' boys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Do you think there are any teenage girls that find beefy teenagers a turn on ? ... (16 words)

He doesn't reply to my text messages fast enough and I think I should dump him! What do you think?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been dating a bloke for around a month now, he is ok with me a part from the fact that he has done all the initiating, ie texting me and asking me out, which obviously i dont mind at all but the problem i have is that when he texts me to see how i am, i always reply ... (250 words)

How can I lose weight? Everything I try is just not working!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 18, i have been on a diet for about 3 months now! i eat under a 1000 calories a day! run about an hour each day and do light weights, sit up etc..(well not eveyday i do miss a few) but i dont seem to have lost any weight!!..i realy would like to be able 2 wear a bikki on ... (83 words)

Will he go off me because I lack sexual experience?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - right i really like this lad i have known him 3 years now and we meet like every month somtimes not for a few cause we live like 3 hour drive away from each other any wayss..eevn thou i have had sex before i somehow dont think i could have sex with him cuase im to worried he ... (77 words)

We f*ck, we s*ag, we s*rew each other senseless... but we don't "make love" - is there something wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I think i have a problem. My husband and i were discussing our sex life and he said that we have NEVER "made love". Come to think of it...i have never been able to make love to anyone? Is there something wrong with me? i Love having sex- don't get me wrong. I'm just more into ... (67 words)

I care about him but don't love him... how can I let him down gently?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age - I am involved with a man whom I have had a child with. I care about him but do not love him. I am concerned about hurting him if I tell him I would like to be friends but I don't want a future with him. How can I end this without feeling guilty?... (59 words)

He wears this unusual ring on his wedding ring finger. Does this mean he's married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, ive just started a new hobby which i enjoy, there one thing bugging me when the leader talks to the group he tends to look directly at me all the time, i also caught him glancing at me from the other side of the room. hes quite yummy and i wouldnt say no (if you get my ... (80 words)

My friend puts down my looks. How do I get her to stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

- My best friend is constantly putting me down, about my looks. She's quite short, about a size 14 and hasn't been kissed in about 3 years. I'm going to sound big headed here. But I'm 5'7'', size 8/10, and although i'm single i have a couple of interested boys. My mum say's s... (171 words)

Concerned what his family will think when they find out I'm dating their son...he's 14..I'm 17! Any views?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and just started going out a few with one of my friend's brothers - Who is 14. He hasn't told anyone as far as I know, and I've just told two very close friends, (neither his sister) but it's not really because we're ashamed of each other or anything - It's because a... (497 words)

Can anyone suggest fixes for acne?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My sister is 15 years old and has acne breakouts. I was wondering if anyone has any at home remedies or advise on clearing it. She is always embarrassed about it and she also has the marks the acne leaves. I would like to find out a few things just so I could give her some ... (97 words)

She dumped me and ran back to her loser ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - can someone please help me? I met my ex g/f via internet dating. we met and the sparks flew immediately. we didnt rush into anything and were always together. our kids loved each other and we loved them. she left her ex because he used to get drunk all the time,never be there ... (240 words)

I miss the passion in my affair with the bad boy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 8 yrs.24 months ago we were having a rocky relationship and were having counselling. I was emotionally down and depressed during this time and wrongly turned to a friend of mine for comfort. We ended up having an affair and I fell in love with him. I ... (203 words)

The handcuffs are stuck on me because I lost the key... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age - I ended up fooling around with my friend last night. He happens to be my neighbor, we're both the same age and we're both in the middle of weird breakup situations so I personally feel it's nothing serious. However, what's even kind of more embarressing is that he handcuffed ... (132 words)

How do I show her that I want to fix and will fix everything that was wrong in our relationship so we can still be together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - So I need some help and advice. I have been with the same girl for three years. I met her online, and moved from Ohio to Las Vegas to be with her back in 2005 (we started dating and had a successful long term relationship at the beginning). Back in February of 2006, we moved in ... (745 words)

I'm having trouble getting over him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid My best guy friend Tanner always used to grab my butt, or side. he never tried to make me do something that i didn't want to do. he'd putt his arms around me and pull me close to him. i loved the way he made me feel loved and protected. we're only 15 but i th... (242 words)

Is the lad I like acting jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is a silly question but i've liked this lad for ages and a while back I was texting a completley different lad. But every time I see the lad I like he always asks me if I am still texting this other lad which i'm not. Is the lad i like jealous, do you think he likes ... (64 words)

Why is this relationship making feel like a wreck?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I think I'm expressing symptoms of codependency, and they have really damaged my relationship of 8 months. Everything in my relationship seemed peachy--I really feel like I made her genuinely happy. But recently, I've been probing for validations of her affection, and it really ... (399 words)

I like him, he likes me, so why aren't we together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i just found out that my best guy friend, also my crush for two years, likes me. he already knows that i like him, so why is he not making a move? when we first became friends he asked me for my number. i gave it to him, and he called the same day and every ot... (188 words)

Marriend and looking for extramarital sex with no strings

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age - How do I find a discreet sensual partner without ties? I am a mature man with longstanding domestic committments but with a still strong sexual interest. My partner has had no interest in lovemaking for a long time and I am very frustrated. I have no intention of dis... (78 words)

Married for 27 years, stale for 15 years...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age - i have been married for 27 years and its become very stale in the last 15 years and my husband has lost his sex drive. i know medication is causing this but he won't do anything about it. we haven't kissed properly in all this time as he doesn't like kissing. I feel like I have ... (215 words)

He gets hard during O but can't keep it up when it comes to full on sex... he cries after each attempt... should I dump him now and get this over with!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend suffers from erectile dysfunction. He becomes erect with oral sex, but as soon as we try the other his erection disappears. He says he wants to do it, and has been to his doctor who has ruled out physical causes, and has referred him to a psychologist (though not a ... (188 words)

How do two women have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Hi! My friends laugh at me and I don't know who else to ask... I just discoverd that my older sister has a girlfriend (well, I was wondering before, it is not a shock) and they will somehow get married to eachother. I don't mind, but it just makes me think. But she is happy an... (102 words)

Do you think we might get back together... and how could I make it happen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend were together for three years when out of he blue this summer he says he's not feeling the relationship like he used to since August. It was sudden to me because there were no changes in the relation ship but he says he loves me but is not in love with me. ... (94 words)

How do I lose weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

13 June 2007 (?) age 30-35 - how do i lose weight? well you see i am 15 years old and i am over weight i am a size 14/16 clothes and weigh 12 stone. it is really embarrasing but i cant seem to get rid of the weight! i eat at least 4 pieces of fruit a day. i get up have breakfast n an apple n orange juice ... (202 words)

My boyfriend doesn't masturbate - is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - When I first met my boyfriend he was 18 and a virgin, after we started dating I found out he hasnt masturbated in all his life...After 2 years of dating and he still doesnt, could this be affecting our sex life? ?_?... (43 words)

She's been excessively distant, and is obviously being thrown by the constant need for approval and reassurance... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey people, I was just hoping for an opinion here. I met my current gf about 6 or 7 wekks ago, and she lives in a different city so I only get to see her some weekends. I've recetly come to the realisation that I have some underlying personality issues that I'm hopi... (285 words)

I think my boyfriend wants to end it but doesn't have the balls to say so

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriends sex life have been a bit awkward lately, for diffrent reasons which i think can be over come. But when he was dropping me home on sunday, after a sex session gone wrong, he got a call from a work mate and he pulled in to phone him back even though the call ... (244 words)

My 17 year old friend is going out with a 28 year old and I don't approve

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My mate who's 17 is going out with a 28 year old... She says they are very much in love. Should I accept it coz if I tell her to stop seeing him I know she'll just carry on. What can I do?... (44 words)

Her boyfriend is a jerk and I'm looking for a reason to make the moves on her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I've know a girl for about 6 months. For most of that time she's been going out with someone else. Just before she and him got together I was trying to get up the courage to ask her out (generally speaking, I'm not very shy socially but when it comes to girls I'm very timid). ... (224 words)

She broke up with me but still uses me as a security blanket

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hey... i recently got the dear jon letter from my ex... i love her but everytime i try and walk away and move on ...she starts smsing and calling me like crazy...what should i do..? is there hope?... (38 words)

Oh how I wish he could be sweet like before and make me feel wanted

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I know that people change over time. So,my boyfriend changed over the years. At first, he was so romantic -he wouldn't buy stuff, but, only write lil sticky love notes saying something sweet. He would leave notes like this under the pillow or someplace where I would find it. It ... (219 words)

I'm too wet and not tight enough (he says) and it takes him forever to cum... what are we doing wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid..i don't understand when me and my husband have sex he takes too long to reach his orgasm he says it's because my vigina is not tight i have so much discharge when having sex that i hardly feel anything because of my problem he doesn't feel like having sex.they is no ... (58 words)

Is it time for me to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my partner when I was just 18 years old we have now been together 10 years and got engaged a couple of years ago. Our relationship has always been content, hardly argued and been very comfortable. We would allow each other to go out with own friends and have individual ... (327 words)

I don't know why he left... someone please set me straight

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was with someone for two years who told me that he saw himself having babies with me and we just seemed to have an instant deep connection. He had a girlfriend that he lived with when we met but even though we agreed we wanted to be together, nothing happened until... (748 words)

I don't trust my fiance because he doesn't report his location with 100% accuracy 100% of the time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - im having trust issues with my fiancee. he broke my trust by telling me that he'll be as a certain place but he landed up somewhere else, and so, i have problems now when he tells me that he will be here or there because of that previous lie...at times, i just really want to ... (119 words)

I'm bored with my marriage, and there's this old flame...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Having a dilemma, i have been married for sometime now, but feeling like i've lost all love that i had b4, feeling like this for quite sometime now. Recently i met an ex(from a long time ago) and having spent some time txting and talking i really feel like i've come a... (141 words)

I want to finish with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6346 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know where to start really... My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years now and sinse i was 16. He was my first boyfriend, love and evrything even though we are both young recently we have started looking to move into our on place, but i'm scared because i have ... (140 words)

The girl used me as a rebound but I am in full denial

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi problem started on the 02.02.06 the girl i like got with someone else. we were close at this point and she was torn between two of us. i slightly messed around with her making my feelings unclear . She was having a party it was my chance to tell her and show her how i felt. ... (334 words)

Her ex-boyfriend is back on the scene, offering a house and stability, all things I cannot give to her now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I wonder if someone could offer me good advice? Deep breath, as I don't know where to start with this one :). I'm 26 and have been having a rather hard time of it for the last nine months. I met a girl on the first day of a university course we were both on. She is 22. The ... (347 words)

The garage is his domain and he insists the rest of us can't use the space in there! What should Ido?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - All the issues my husband has with me surround my kids who he says basically just lives here, they have no rights in his eyes, this is our house not the kids.We have a 3 car garage, which my husband wants to keep like a living room. He has a tv, a rocking chair, work bench and ... (253 words)

He's depressed! How do I apologise and get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi what am i to do??? he is so depressed and is pretty much staying indoors or working only not seeing his mates or anybody.... yet i want him back... i apologise.... how do i convince him i mean it??... (41 words)

Is my husband making a mountain out of a molehill by complaining about these things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Been married for 5 years together for 7, I have a 19 1/2 year old son and a 171/2 year old daughter, their real dad (a lowlife but they love him) only lives 20 minutes away. My current husband, I feel targets my 20 year old constantly with tedious issues. For instance, he is ... (598 words)

My deep concerns for her safety, got me read the 'riot act' from her! Was I wrong to do what I did?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - heading for co-dependence? me 41 male, she 48. My first substantial significant other. she recently divorced, started drinking very later in life, became dependent, and has a hard time staying stopped for more than i think nine months @ one point. we share similar social u... (806 words)

He's 10 years older than me-should i see how it goes with him or find someone I am truly attracted too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6342 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i normally choose guys the same age as me, that i am attracted to and can make me laugh.... these never seem to work out too well as they dont really care deep down....... i have now met a guy 10 yrs older, he's kinda my type, but cant really make me laugh too much!!SO THE ... (108 words)

Bf works all the time..and I feel he's doing it to avoid me! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ill make this as easy and to the point as I can. Me and my boyfriend have been datin for over 10 months. I love him very much but lately Ive been getting very down and upset becuase he doesnt treat me as he used to. He has a full time job now and it takes up most of his time... (487 words)

We slept together..so how do I find out, if he wants to take this further?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've had a crush on one of my best friends brother and he also had a crush on me for the last year. About a month ago we slept togheter, and he told me he had fallen in love with me. Both of us carry a lot of hurt for different reseans due to previous relationships, but ... (186 words)

She wants to rebrand us as friends... will our 2 month travelling over summer be able to fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I had been going out with my girlfriend for 10 months. I am 26 and she has just turned 22. She had been on a university placement in a nearby country for most of this time and we made a point of seeing each other every 2-3 weeks. In addition, we communicated at least once a day ... (399 words)

What are the dating rules for belching and farting?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age - I need your help. I have started the process of dating after being widowed. I am now in my mid 40's and dating has changed significantly... I recently met a man online and we have been seeing each other for 2 months now. Things are going relatively well -- but we don't ... (146 words)

Should a guy go back to his pregnant ex, even if he loves someone else?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Tell me something, if a man breaks up with someone, decides to move on, finds a new girlfriend and they are both happy, and then suddenly the ex says that she is pregnant with his child does he have to leave this new love and go back to the other because he wants the child to ... (146 words)

I liked her and hoped for a relationship! Now she's dropped contact..what can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6340 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, a year ago, I lived in Australia. I went to a nice school. I had a crush on a chick there. I would have asked her out, but she had already shut down about 12 guys. So, in order to stand a better, chance, I became her friend for 2 years. But then I had to move to America, ... (191 words)

I'm 46 and have got together with my highschool sweetheart... but worry he's not the same man he was 25 years ago!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age - I am 46 years old and in the process of having my marriage annulled. I met my high school boyfriend after our 25th reunion. His marriage is he claims on the rocks. We have been inseparable since 3 months ago. I had asked him where our relationship is leading to as I do not ... (121 words)

She and her child went back to the abusive ex bf! But.. did she really mean what she said to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I wrote a few weeks ago about a workmate who I'd been seeing for a couple of weeks. She has a child and had a turbulent, sometimes abusive time with her ex. I've been apprehensive about moving things forward too quickly as I wanted her to be sure that she was ready to move ... (362 words)

Hooked up sex-wise with a guy on myspace... but it turns out he is married and has kids (his wife called me)!!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - OKK, please dont label me as a homewrecker or a slut.. I recently got out of the army and i met this guy on myspace, i know pathetic, but he seemed really nice. In fact, he is better than nice, i think hes perfect(besides the whole cheating thing) So we hung out and i knew my ... (278 words)

Periods have gotten erratic...should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, this is quite a personal woman problem. Well, i usually have my period about the 26th of every month and usually on for 4 days. Last month i was on for 7 days. And i have came on today (13th), i am usually good as clock work. It is getting me a bit worried. Can an... (70 words)

How do I deal with my chubby face cheeks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My body is average looking. I wouldn't consider myself skinny, but I look rather healthy. Is there any way of how I could lose fat on my cheeks? My face looks chubby, and whenever I start to walk my cheeks shakes. This makes me feel that I need to lose weight, and it shows that ... (61 words)

Are all women are like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiance would only only accept me if i was nice to her all the time or no complaining to her, get angry on her and keep entertaining her with talking interesting things. Are these unrealistic expectations on her part or all women are like this?... (46 words)

Other people's views on marriage being burdensome is overwhelming me! How do I get through this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

13 June 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I feel that i am anxious about my marriage mainly because there is an overwhelming burdensome feeling that marriage is doomed to lead to miseries especially in the region where is live.. I sometimes get overwhelmed by this popular sentiment and give in to the pressure, even if ... (87 words)

Are relationships are all about being nice to others, no matter what you think about them or how nasty they may be? Any views?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Pressure to be nice to others to gain a sense of acceptance gets on to my mind and i become impulsive and take some steps that may not be justified, like quitting a job, disowning a family member / friend etc. It's like relationships are all about being nice to others, no matte... (95 words)

Does this guy like me, or am I just wasting my time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. So, I met this guy at a grad party a couple of weeks ago, and we started talking for a good hour or so, and I thought he was flirting with me--he had a good many friends at this party and he spent his time there talking with me--he got me a chair when we went to sit on ... (327 words)

He says he loves me, he wants to marry me but--he needs time to think about us! What is going on with him?

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13 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend tells me he loves me and knows I am the girl he wants to marry, we have been together for over 2 1/2 yrs but then he tells me he needs time to think about stuff, but yet doesn't want to break up...this has happened more than once, I am confused. He says he loves ... (81 words)

I think he wants me just for sex..how can I make him want me in a proper way?

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13 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid. There is this guy that I really seem to like. When im not with him, I want to talk to him, and I constantally think about him. The proble is, I know that he doesn't feel the same way. I really think that his whole intentions for coming around me was for sex only... (85 words)

I'm gay. My boyfriend was sleeping with my best friend for the last 12 months of our relationship!

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13 June 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - How do I get through this? Three months ago I broke up with my gay partner of 14 years. We did this because he told me he had been sleeping with my best friend for the last twelve months of our relationship. He said it was "just sex". But it was an indicator that we had grown ... (176 words)

I am 35 and my parents seem to resent my relationship..how do I talk to them about this?

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13 June 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a divorced man for the last 4 years. now I have a Girlfriend and we have been together for a year. We have discussed our relation ship and would like to take it to the next level. But my parents are very against it. I am 35 and I am only getting older. I can not take my ... (132 words)

Should I get my boyfriend a gift for father's day (even though he isn't the daddy)... ?

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13 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know if I should get my boyfriend a gift for father's day. i know he isn't my father. but we just had our 1st baby 2 months ago, and he is a really good daddy to her. He also works and supports us. I just want to let him know he's importnat to us...I got him a card ... (159 words)

My ex boyfriend wants to get back into my life...

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13 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend have been trying to stay in contact with me. I answer his phone calls and I return his phone calls. He wants to get back together, still tells me he loves me and he apologizes for hurting me. I have moved on with my life along with raising my daughter. I have ... (168 words)

Will my right eye vision be back to normal? What's wrong?

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13 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help. I'm not sure what this is but on my right eye I feel that there is something in there but I cannot see it when I look in the mirror. When I woke up this morning I could see but my right eye was a bit blurry. Yesterday my sister talked to me and I think a little of ... (125 words)

We're engaged but it seems like he's lost interest in the wedding... if we ever fix a date!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6341 days ago

13 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, My fiance and I have been together for 5 years and we've been engaged since March of this year. He's 38 and I'm 33. He didn't proposed, but we've just talked about it. We plan to marry on November or at least this year sometime... About 150 people. But just this mon... (251 words)

Self-conscious about being called fat

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13 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently, when I was out in public i've been hearing people calling me fat. That makes me feel awful and ashamed of myself. Why are people so mean? Why do they do this? I am 5 feet 4, and 138 pounds. Is that considered as fat?nSince of this incident its been making me feel ... (70 words)

People give me dirty looks and it bothers me

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13 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help on this situation. When I go out to a restaurant or just walk around some people give me dirty looks or just stare at me like I'm a museum exhibit. This really bothers me and its rude. Is this a sign of hatred or weirdness? Please help! Thanks.... (51 words)

I proposed but I also want to sow some seeds

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13 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I love my fiance very much but thought keep entering my head about cheating on her with my ex or one of her friends. I dont know what to do? I love my fiance very much, we've been together for almost 7 months now and i asked her to marry me a couple of months ago and she said... (213 words)

My midlife crisis is here... and I'm only 33!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

13 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 33 years old, and my girlfriend is 37. We both want to have children, but being the age she is, she has put us on an accelerated timeline. I understand the need for being this process before she's much older, but it means that my plans for going back to school (master's) ... (155 words)

What birthday gift should i give to this guy im seeing?

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13 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What birthday gift should i give to this guy im seeing? Hes turning 30 so its a momental age but heres the thing Its not a serious realitionship and weve only been dating couple months? Any ideas? Hes not into live sports n its not serious a enough realitionship to buy concert ... (89 words)