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I was on his myspace and in his trash was mail with his ex girlfriend saying he still liked her and she likes him and they said he might dump me for her...

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm worried! My boyfriend says he loves me, he always has and he still does but I was on his myspace and in his trash was mail with his ex girlfriend saying he still liked her and she likes him and they said he might dump me for her but this was a week ago and he's back from ... (75 words

Why do I keep bleeding like this?

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I keep on bleeding each time my boyfriend pokes me.I thought it would be my hymen breaking, but does blood come out every time after that? It's pretty embarassing... but I need help!... (33 words

What can I do to make him more relaxed and comfortable about sex?

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm 16 and me and my boyfriend have been sleeping together for the past month and everything's been fine apart from one big problem, he hasn't cum and I told him I had but in fact I hadn't. I dunno what to do cos he's getting really worried about him not cumming and saying it ... (106 words

Can anyone give me ideas about how not to screw things up when I'm dating a woman?

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16 August 2007 (M - I was at a party at the weekend and I saw this girl I fancied. I was so close to asking her out but my mind kept saying "no don't do it." The reason for this is that, last March, I had my one and only girlfriend (well a date) and we went out on three dates and then she dumped m... (184 words

In love with my best friend's girlfriend, what do I do?

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16 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - I'm in love with my best friend's girlfriend, what do I do? This is probably the worst situation I have ever been in, at least in the terms of love. Let's start out with this, my best friend and his girlfriend have been going out for 3 years now and since then I ended up ... (160 words

I'm scared to have sex when sober!

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - hey...im scared to have sex sober so im 18 n lets jus say ive made a few mistakes with guys wen ive had a few too many to drink. but the problem is that im actually terrified of takin that next step with a guy i do like-without alcohol to soften the blow! what happens if ... (215 words

When women get urine infections is it normal that when they go to the toilet blood comes out when they urinate as well as it hurting as well?

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - When women get urine infections is it normal that when they go to the toilet blood comes out when they urinate as well as it hurting as well? I know this qestion my sound of putting.... (36 words

I know a boy who thinks that I am nasty and I have no idea why.

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - dear agony aunts, I know a boy who thinks that I am nasty and I have no idea why. We recently went out with each other but it was a short relationship and did not get serious. However I still really like him as a friend and want the situation to work out but what can I do if ... (96 words

Before leaving for school he hit and killed a little boy in a car accident...

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have a big relationship problem. I have known this guy for several years and we have dated on and off... Last summer it got very serious and then he went away to college. Before leaving for school he hit and killed a little boy in a car accident. He went to school and then a ... (119 words

I used to be such a strong willed person and this situation is just draining me.

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16 August 2007 (F age - I've been having the worst time of my life over the past year. I was made redundant last July 06 and haven't found a permanent job yet! I've just finished a 6 month fixed term job; had 4 interviews last months and still no job. I'm also in the middle of a unfullfilling ... (530 words

She doesn't ever flirt with me but my girlfriend thinks she will make a move on me. Am I wrong to talk to her? What should I do as I like her as a friend?

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16 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hi, I'm new here so be kind! Well, I'm 20 years old and have had a girlfriend for almost a year! We're really close, still both live with our parents but spend most of our time together. We do virtually everything together and share only a few mates. We work at the same ... (229 words

I feel that is my fault and I should probably cut all ties no matter how much I love her and miss her. What do you guys think...?

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16 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi all.. I'm very new here. I have an issue with relationships. They all end the same way. I just recently was engaged and I have always treated my women like gold. I am very loving, caring, romantic, affectionate and down to earth. My woman was very much in love with m... (1144 words

I'm 14 with inverted nipples.... will I grow out of this?

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm 14 with inverted nipples.... will I grow out of this! I hate it as I have so many other problems as well so this just makes me feel more bad about myself... and do guys hate them?... (38 words

She's paying for dates and he's not initiating sex... what does it all mean?

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16 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - My friend would like me to find out if it is good sign that she has been going out with this man for a month, and she nearly always pays for him and her, or just her portion of what they do on a date? In other words he rarely pays for his share or her's when she is on a date ... (173 words

What does it mean to be in a commited relationship?

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - What does it mean to be in a committed rlationship?... (10 words

He lied about kissing another girl! Now I feel like I can't trust him.

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi there, i was wondering if i could have some advice about my current relationship. Basically, my boyfriend almost kissed a girl with whom he works with a few weeks ago. He said that they become very good friends and that he regreted what happened, felt quite bad about it and ... (221 words

I'm not attracted to my bf of 6 years and now my ex says he wants me! My head is a mess - help!

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16 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I really don't know what to do. I am 25 and I have been with my b/f for 6 years and I thought I was in love with him but now I dont think I am. But Im not sure- I think all the problems we have been having are because it boils down to the fact that im not sexually attracted ... (244 words

Are we too young to be engaged?

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16 August 2007 (F - Im 16 my boyfriend is 17 we have been together a while now and are very much in love. We are considering moving in together at the start of next year. We were talking last night and he said next time we go shopping he wants me to point out some engagement rings i like as he ... (139 words

He thinks I'm cheating and had the nerve to ask if our daughters were even his!

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have had a boyfriend/fiance for almost 4 years now and we ahve two small children together. He is a very jealous type. we went to counsleing over it but now im about to start school its starting up again. He has been accussing me of cheating cuz i dont want to have sex with ... (96 words

Do I wait to tell my mum that I'm moving in w/ my guy after he has the flat?

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16 August 2007 (F - any idea how i can break it to my mum i wanna move in with my boyfriend. In a few months i can legally move out. Im almost 16 and my boyfriend is 17. we can aford it and everything. Do i tell her now or wait till he's got the flat? and what am i meant to say, HELP? i'd rather ... (81 words

He said that he doesn't want to have sex b/c we're around each other too often. Is this normal?

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16 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for almost two years. We were instantly attracted to each other and bonded so well. The first two months in our relationship we were intimate every evening and twice in the morning. It was great. Besides everything else that was ... (476 words

Is a long period a symptom of chlamydia?

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I've been on my period for just over two weeks now, I was told this could be a symptom of chlamydia, is that true?... (24 words

How do I give a wonderful BJ?

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - guys in the world out there tell me how to give a wonderful blow job when i've never done it before.... (21 words

My girlfriend is an alcoholic who never has time for me

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16 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - my girlfriend is an alcholic and says she loves me and wants to spend time with me but always uninvites me to events she's asked me to go with her , won't let me come with her to do things an will only spend time with me for maybe 3hours per week i feel like she 'really ... (110 words

People say size doesnt matter if you use it the right way. So what is the right way?

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16 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - what is the "right way" to use a small penis. I'm talking like 5.5 inches. I was looking at some of the other articles and people always say size dosent matter if you use it the right way. So whats the right way?... (43 words

I want to feel loved and when we just get right to the sex I dont, so I end up crying

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ok here it goes. For the last few months now, I notice that if I go to my boyfriend's place and he just tells me to get naked and lay down because he wants to play with me, I end up crying during sex. If we make out and work into touching, foreplay, and sex..etc, I don'... (139 words

He was texting a 24-year-old co-worker and finally confessed, what should I do?

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16 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Am I over reacting? I noticed my husband was being a bit strange with me and couldn't sleep, went downstairs and found dating sites on the internet that he had joined. It was then that I noticed his phone was always in his pocket whereas before it had always been kept in ... (261 words

I dont want my relationship ruined over alcohal, and I am not sure she would be willing to stop dirnking for me...

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi there. i have a girlfriend, whom i've been dating for 7 months. just recently we had both, quit drinking for two months and it was wonderful. last night she had decided to drink seven beers, and now im afraid that all the raging alcoholism is going to come back to haunt ... (144 words

My girlfriend has a drink problem!

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi, My girlfriend whom I've been dating for 7 months now has a drinking problem. Everytime she drinks, I will feel obligated to drink because I can deal with the drunken issues so much better when I am a little buzzed myself. Just recently, we had quit drinking for two months, ... (99 words

My boyfriend wants to have a baby with me but I'm only 15!

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I am 15 and my boyfriend is 19 and he wants to have a baby with me, I also want one but I feel that I am too young. please help me. ... (33 words

Should I let the past go in order to experience the best relationship I have ever had, or do I have a right to be worried?

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16 August 2007 (F age - Should I stay or go?? I have been with boyfriend for a year now and it is the greatest relationship I have ever had. To me, he is a caring, beautiful person who generally always considers me. However, we have been honest with each other about our past, some of what he has told ... (203 words

Do I try to ignore her hoping she'll come when she sees sense and has to make decisions?

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16 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - Please help. I'm a little confused. Have just shut off contact with a girl who I had an affir with (I'm single she's in an unhappy relationship, no kids don't live together etc but feels trapped by everone elses expectations). Thing is I love her and am pretty sure she has ... (612 words

Am I first in his life or is his ex more important to him?

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16 August 2007 (F - Hey Everyone, Just wanted to write to you and probably get it off my chest and ask for a little advice from a wide range of people! It's probably gonna be a long one, so mind me! first off, my family hasn't been so good lately, just lots of Ii used to... I think it's ju... (351 words

I've now changed my views about marriage and would like to get married some day, how do I tell him?

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16 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years, and, on the whole, we have a great relationship. We both love each other, respect each other and mainly want the same things out of life. We have lived together for 3 years and just bought our first home together. I am 26 and ... (517 words

I discovered pictures of an ex, over 4 years ago I believe which were all of her in posing in underwear.

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16 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi There I am writing as in a new relationship - 4 months ish. I am totally infatuated with this guy and he seems just as keen but something is still niggling at me all the time telling me I couldn’t be as lucky to get someone I like this much like me back. So acting crazy... (195 words

I don't find sex fulfilling with my boyfriend.

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - First I want to apologize for my English.. Here is my problem - I have a boyfriend, who loves me very much, he is very kind and handsome but unfortunately I can't take pleasure in sex. Why is that?! In fact I'm really scared of a serious relationship but I don't think th... (79 words

I'm terrified I won't be able to have a baby in the future!

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm 17, I don't want a baby yet but I just want to ask a question. I've always worried that when I decide to start a family with my boyfriend [in about 7 years or something] that I won't be able to have children. I don't know why I worry so much it's because I don't feel I d... (205 words

I'm unhappy in my marriage and am seeing my ex!

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16 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone, here goes a complicated story. Posted before about meeting up with an ex boyfriend from years ago, I explained that I was unhappy in my marriage before I met this guy again, anyway, marriage has gotten much worse and I'm still having contact with this ex, he also ... (242 words

How can we be more discreet with our lovemaking?

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16 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi, Me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly a year and a half. I moved in with her a few months back due to situations at home. Her mum lets us slep together because she trusts us and she's known me all my life and me and her daughter have always been close ... (363 words

I'm probably asking the most unaswerable question! Why are guys so hard to understand????

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16 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I'm probably asking the most unaswerable question! Why are guys so hard to understand???? I've been seeing a guy for a few months and we have a great time together. But he is moving away soon for a job opportunity. I didn't realise how much I like him until he... (177 words

I am torn between the 2 loves of my life...

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi guys, I have a question, I am torn between the 2 loves of my life, I am deeply in love with my girl (let's call her J) and then I dumped her and now I am with another girl (let's call her S) but I want my old girl friend (J) back but don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. ... (65 words

What does it mean when you have suddenly started having dreams about a teacher that taught you back in junior school...?

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - What does it mean when you have suddenly started having dreams about a teacher that taught you back in junior school because I have, although we mever got on, she was my favourite teacher out of them all. The dreams aren't sexual just general life. I can't figure out why and ... (65 words

We've done most things, "sexually" together, except actual intercourse. I'm a virgin and he's only had sex once, through peer pressure.

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my current boyfriend for 5 months but I've known him a few years. We're both completely comfortable with each other and we feel that we love each other and we actually want a future together. We've done most things, "sexually" together, except actual i... (176 words

We're always arguing over stupid little things and it gets to the point where I slap him and I hate doing it but he gets me so angry.

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend love each other loads but the problem is we're always arguing over stupid little things and it gets to the point where I slap him and I hate doing it but he gets me so angry. He blames everything on me but I hate the arguing, it puts me down loads. After we ... (90 words

I'm really confused about this guy I like... I can't read his signals.

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16 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I'm really confused about this guy I like. I think he likes me, he is always trying to make me laugh, I catch him staring at me loads. If we are out in a group he always looks over at me but when we are on our own he gets nervous and seems to get fidgety. He has never actually... (96 words

Should I apologise to her for worrying too much about her not returning my messages, or should I just wait until she sends me a message?

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16 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hi everyone! Last month I met this girl in a restaurant in which we were both working (at that time) and we had a great time, she said she'd never had this much fun in her life. So, a few weeks ago, we exchanged phone numbers and expressed how we really feel about each other... (323 words

My girlfriend is worried about her friendship with her best friend (who just happens to be my ex) and I'm stuck in the middle!

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16 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - Okay, this one's complicated I went out with this girl and it didn't work and she dumped me, now I'm going out with her best friend. My ex has gone weird and told my girlfriend she doesn't want to have anything to do with her. I'm worried that this could cause us to break ... (82 words

I want to know whether you think he has strong feelings about me or is just messing me around?

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunt, I am so stressed and confused I don't know what to do the problem is I've fallen in love with someone who unfortunately is my third cousin who is also 6 years older than me and lives abroad. I really love him I am so mad about him the thing is when I went on ... (254 words

I really love this guy and I keep thinking when he comes to his senses he will come back.

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16 August 2007 (F age - I'm really down, I know I need to move on, but I really love this guy and I keep thinking when he comes to his senses he will come back. I met this guy just before Christmas 2006, we talked on the phone a few times then I said about meeting for a drink, he didn't seem keen of ... (791 words

Why can't we let go of each other, is it because we had en emotional affair before we had a sexual one?

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16 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - This started about a year ago, me and my girlfriend met with another lesbian couple. We were friends right away. As time went by I realised I started to have feelings for my friend which I tried to hide. Then I found out my girlfriend was cheating on me. We split up and me ... (176 words

I think he is great and we could be perfect for each other, but I'm afraid to show my true colors, and shy that he might think I'm a nutter!?!

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16 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - I have a huge crush on a guy I'm pretty sure he has a girlfriend. We met at work place where he is a counsellor and I'm the receptionist. He is quite flirty, always smiling, attentive, is funny and thoughtful. Everytime he speaks to me, my heart skips a beat, and I avoid ... (379 words

I'm 16 and I just want to ask if it's okay to have a crush with an 11 year old?

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16 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 and I just want to ask if it's okay to have a crush with an 11 year old... I'm not sexually attracted to her... maybe it's something else I'm infatuated about... maybe her attitude, happy disposition or whatever... anyway if this is sexual attraction then ... (159 words

My periods are literally ruining my life!

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - My periods are literally ruining my life! I have about 5 days (if i'm lucky) each month where I feel 'okay'. My periods are so painful I have to miss work, I get all hot and sweaty I feel so sick, and even wretch sometimes, the pain is just so bad. Then from about cycle day 7 I ... (149 words

I'm at my wits end over this... WHO DO I CHOOSE???

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16 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - My marriage of 12 years broke down and as soon as I was financially stable enough I moved out to give our relationship complete space. I had never lived on my own before and found it quite a struggle emotionally. I met up with my husband once a week over a cup of tea but these ... (474 words

I met up with my ex again and all the feelings came back but I haven't heard from him...

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago but I still felt really strongly about him and I'm pretty sure he still felt the same about me. We broke up over something stupid and we were both idiots for not dealing with it. Anyway he has been texting me and stuff over the ... (250 words

I'm dating 2 girls just now, one very good looking and one NOT good looking. Who should I choose?

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16 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - I'm 13 and I'm stuck between two girls. I am dating one and she is beautiful and nice but her dad hates me and the other one is sweet and one of the nicest girls I've met but she isn't good looking at all I like both of them but I don't know what to do? I am also getting ... (82 words

I've just had the biggest outbreak of zits and I need them gone for my date on Sunday!

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Normally I have good skin, but all of a sudden I've just had the BIGGEST OUTBREAK of spots! I have a date on Sunday and really really want them to be gone by then..... does anyone know anything that may help??? Thankyou x... (46 words

He said my counselling is bad for me...

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Months ago, I hit rock bottom. I was depressed and was dumped over MSN by my ex of 2 years. I always take things to heart what people say about me or think about me. I recently celebrated my 6 months anniversery with my boyfriend of 6 months and he makes me happy and I Love him ... (114 words

He was talking emotionless and in a very formal way. Does this mean he no longer cares?

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Dear all, Yesterday I was really shocked and I thought of sharing it with you, maybe I'm wrong? I'm 23 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and we're planning to get engaged by year end. My boyfriend joined the military and this means he's away from ... (111 words

He's changed since he came back from his 40 day vacation!

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been going out 8 months, he left for vacation for 40 days. I saw him before he left and now he's back but he doesn't seem to care about when he can see me again. He keeps getting mad at me lately because I say something stupid of the sort but he's also ... (144 words

He says he has "expectations of me" that I NEED to live up to!!!

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16 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I remarried five years ago after a divorce and two year seperation. I came from a very abusive background. Now, I'm a survivor and live my life much happier. I don't think I've changed much, except that I am much happier with myself. I remarried him with the ... (617 words

When is the "right time" to have a baby?

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - This isn't really a problem but more of a question to people who are married and have children. My husband and I have been married for exactly 3 years this past Sunday. We are both only 23 so I know that we don't need to rush anything but we both really want kids. The issue is... (142 words

Why are guys more likely to commit to an average looking girl and just choose to sleep around with the good looking ones?

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16 August 2007 (F - Can someone please explain the theory that guys are more likely to commit to a proper relationship with a less good-looking girl than a very good looking girl and just sleep with the really good looking ones but never have a proper relationship with them?... (45 words

I finished with my boyfriend and have since found out I'm pregnant, how can I get him back?

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago. I left him for his cousin and it wasn't working out, plus I found out that I'm pregnant and that it's most likely his child.(my ex) I want him back. Will he take me back? How can I get him back?... (53 words

How can I get my boyfriend's attention and get him to do his fair share around the house?

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - How can one get their boyfriend's attention? I live with mine, and his attention is always diverted into things he wants to do or watch. I feel enslaved to the house duties thus feel more like a slave than a girlfriend. In what ways can I turn this around that he takes hi... (79 words

Why did he think I was faking my illness?

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16 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am in a relationship of 4 years with this guy. He does what he wants and gets what he wants. When he was sick I took care of him. When I strained my neck one time and couldn't move or get up from the sofa or bed saying that I can't move, he said I was faking because he ... (88 words

I feel very insecure about myself just now and worry when my boyfriend goes out of town with his job...

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16 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi, me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 years and we have a son together. I have gained weight. He has a job that means he works out of town a lot and I know when he is out of town, he goes out with the people he works with. He is a very flirty person and I feel rea... (98 words

Is it okay to have film developed from a disposable camera that you have found hidden in your boyfriend's closet?

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16 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - Is it okay to have film developed from a disposable camera that you have found hidden in your boyfriend's closet?... (20 words

Is it wrong to have a relationship with the same sex?

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16 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Is it wrong to have a relationship with the same sex? I have this relationship... I know it's against everybody's eyes but I can't afford to lose her. I really love her.. She also loves me, I guess.. but she is afraid to show-up because many people will get mad at her. So we ... (76 words

If you have appendicitis and you have an operation will it scar badly?

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - If you have appendicitis and you have an operation will it scar badly?... (13 words

Will my vagina loosen the more I have sex?

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for two years. I lost my virginity to him when I was 13 and we've had sex about. . . . Um let's just say we lost count. But we do it a lot and I'm scared my (thing) will get loose.... and I don't want to stop doing it because I like it ... (68 words

We have so much in common and get along so well but neither of us have a tendancy to date people with more than a 6 or so year difference!!

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone!! I'm in a bit of a dilemma! I'm 19 and I have been working with a guy who I now find out is 38 (OMG) who I thought was a lot younger at first haha!! I have been working with him for a fair while now and have developed feelings for him! I didn't think anything w... (152 words

I recently realized I am in love with my wife's best friend.

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16 August 2007 (M age 51-59 - I recently realized I am in love with my wife's best friend. I do not feel any less in love with my wife. I love her with all my heart, but I also love her best frient with all my heart. Luckily her friend lives clear across the country. How do I stop these feelings?... (59 words

I went out of town to see a girlfriend, and came home a couple of days later to discover that whilst I was away my husband had sex in our home with his best mate's partner!

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16 August 2007 (? age - I need others help. I have been married for 6 years, together for 8 years. Over the last two years we have had a tough time, more me and our life changed dramatically when I got MS. My husband was my best friend in the world until a couple of months ago when I went out of ... (299 words

How much should I shave?

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16 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - Okay, this question is much more lighthearted than what you normally see on here, and maybe we all need that considering how heavy some of the topics are, but I am serious none the less. My physical therapist wants to tape my knees because they "ain't been actin' right." ... (168 words

Are there any tips you can give me on seperating the guys at clubs who want just sex and ones who might be looking for more?

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16 August 2007 (F - Ive just come out of a really bad relationship where I was treated really badly. My friends invited me clubbing this weekend with them, which I have only ever done once because my ex boyfriend wouldn't let me go unless he was with me, and he hates clubbing so I only went ... (196 words

How do I deal with the insecurities I have before geting back into another relationship?

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16 August 2007 (F - Ive always had bad insecurities and have depended on other people to make me feel good about myself. This includes my ex bf...but I broke up with him earlier this week and I feel un loved and dont like myself. How do I deal with the insecurities I have before geting back ... (79 words

Am I just allowing my heart to consider running this fool’s errand?

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16 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - I don't like advice on half gnawed information, so this is a longer than most posted questions… I’ve known this girl, “Katie” for nine years now and we have a lot of history together, some romantic, but much not. We parted ways for a couple of years and we got back in touc... (813 words

How do deal with my roommate's girlfriend?

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16 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - How do deal with my roommate's girlfriend? My roommate (male) met an ex-stripper, bipolar, young girl who spends every night at our apartment. I respect my roomamte but he has left her twice alone in my apartment. I have warn him about this situation and I'm a little peeved ... (79 words

Girlfriend is late for her period, please help!

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16 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - my girlfriend and i started having sex about 4 or 5 months ago. we haven't had any problems and i've always used a condom. but now its been about 6 weeks since her last period and she still hasn't started. I used a condom every time and one never broke or anything like that. ... (90 words

Is she over me and should I get over her?

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16 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - The girl i like is actually my colleague. I started working with her in October 2005 till Feb 2006. At that point, there was no attraction, only a professional acquaintance. I rejoined the workplace in September 2006, and then the flirtations started. It was her initiative, but ... (1153 words

What can I do to excite my boyfriend?

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I love it when my boyfriend touches me, we have sex once every week. But I wish I could do it more often. But we live one hour away, I know he loves me because, he comes all the way from were he lives to be with me, when he could have someone else. What can I do for him? That ... (64 words

What can I do about his mates?

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm 18 years old and starting University in a few weeks. My boyfriend lives in Leeds (England) and I am going to Uni quite far from there, but that isn't a problem for either of us. He's not going to college because he's got other plans. The problem is his f... (216 words

He stops when he is about to cum.

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend, and the thing is that I get wet a lot. He stops when he is about to cum, and I want him to cum. But I also don't want to get pregnant, we don't use proctection, but we do everything else. I also enjoy it from the back, but I can't handle it, its good, but I ... (81 words

Should I be concerned by his frequent porno viewing?

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Should I be concerned that my boyfriend of 6 years views porn every time he is by himself (3-5 times a week)??... (22 words

My mate didn't invite me because I'm pregnant. am I over reacting?

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16 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - A friend of mine is having a bachelorette party in 2 days and I just found out about it. Another friend was supposed to invite everyone. I read a bulletin in Myspace from the girl getting married and it said that she needs a head count for the bachelorette party this ... (162 words

Did i cross the line?

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16 August 2007 (F - I feel like I'm going crazy! I was looking at the myspace page of one of my fiance's friends, and he wrote something about having fun dancing with her at a bar and put baby at the end. She is way younger than him, and I know they are just friends, but why did he use the term ... (117 words

Why does he not come and see me?

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - ive just split up with my boyfriend of 4 years im not really too bothered because hes found somebody else so im moving on too, my ex from years ago and i had a steamy night a couple off weeks ago but now hes keeping his distance although he txts me every night he never offers ... (61 words

I haven't had my period yet, but could I still become pregnant?

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16 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - if i had sex when i was 12 before my first period ever can i have a kid? or like a reaction after when i had my first period can i become pregnant even if i did not have sex after that first time when i was 12? and i am 13 and stell did not have my first period... (60 words

I'm pregnant, we still live together, and I want things back the way they were!

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16 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I fell pregnant 6 months ago after me and my ex had "one last" night together, 5 weeks later i discovered i was pregnant. We talk about it and choose to keep the baby, and now the child is due in 3 months. We broke up due to the fact we never saw each other, causing arguments. ... (230 words

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