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Do I be selfish and end it now or wait until he is on his feet and can make something of his life?????

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11 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am stuck in a marriage of 12 years with 2 children, my husband has always put me and my children 2nd to everybody else, only now I feel so stupid that I have put up with it so long. I have just changed my career and have met loads of lovely people who appreciate me fo... (279 words

I used to be smitten with him but these days all we seem to be doing is fighting and when we're not fighting he's spending all his time lying to me.

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11 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, but lately he has been treating me horribly. Every weekend he goes out, and never comes home until the next morning, it has changed the way I feel about him too. I used to be smitten with him but these days all we seem to be doing is ... (92 words

How can I tell my boyfriend I didn't make it to his party?

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11 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have a new boyfriend and he invited me to his house for his birthday today and we are about 2 hours away and my mom said she would drive me but she didn't. He called but I'm afarid to answer or talk to him cause I don't know if he will be mad, what should I do? We are like ... (97 words

What should a wife do when her husband is going to prostitutes?

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11 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - What should a wife do when her husband is going to prostitutes?... (12 words

I'm a female 16 and I'm bisexual.

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11 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a female 16 and I'm bisexual. 2 years ago a new girl came to my high school. We became quite close friends straight away and I know I was young but I developed a crush on her quickly. When I came out to her, we became even closer and we kissed a few times. She made it ... (228 words

My husband won't make a decision on our adoption plan, when do I give up on him?

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11 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - My husband won't make a decision on our adoption plan, when do I give up on him? Some of his concerns are legitimate some are crazy. He says he needs to make more money (true), I'm not healthy enough (crazy). I'm 36, he's 39 We have a 12 year old child. We've been marri... (227 words

How can I make my mum feel better when my father is dying from cancer...?

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11 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi, My problem I think is a bit deeper then the rest and I hope you can help me. My father got cancer in his face and the local hospital has sent him now 500 km away now for help. The problem is geting worse by the cancer spreading further. I get the feeling he is on the end of ... (171 words

My mum is about to find out I smoke and will go mental. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

11 August 2007 (? age 30-35 - I really dont know what to do!!! It's not a relationship question but I'm proper panicking. I started smoking a few week ago with my friends when out and about and hanging out and I think I have become addicted. I am trying to stop and for it not to become a habit but one of m... (167 words

Do I choose Bob or Jim?

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11 August 2007 (F age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend and we live REALLY far away. And the magic is fading away. We will refer to him as Bob. I have a friend, that is a boy, and I really really really really really like him. He likes me too. He seeemed SO disappointed when he found out I had a boyfriend. He ... (130 words

My son is 24 and his dad has never taken anything to do with him, now I here he's asking after us, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6287 days ago

11 August 2007 (F age - hi, Just want advice on what to do. I have 2 sons, 24 and 15, the eldest one's dad has never acknowledged him since he was born. Now he's asking my friend to tell us he's sorry and asking after us. I don't want anything to do with him whatsoever. Please help.... (53 words

Should I trust my instincts and wait or should I just move on?

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11 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I met this guy about 2 days ago on the net and he's like my dream guy and he's made me do something I never thought I'd do.... I said I'd wait 4 him. He is funny, sweet, charming, sensitive and amazingly hot but he said because I live on the Isle of Wight and he lives on the ... (125 words

When he comes with a condom on, should you feel it? Worried it broke!

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11 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - when having sex with a condom should u feel the man cuming because i did and worrying incase it split but i seen the cum in it afterwords and he said it didnt please help ... (37 words

My boyfriend can't make me orgasm! It's really annoying, no matter how turned on I am when we're together, nothing seems to work!

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11 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend can't make me orgasm! It's really annoying, no matter how turned on I am when we're together, nothing seems to work! When I'm doing it to myself I can do it easily, like, within a matter of less than 15 minutes. I take careful note of how I manage to come, but ... (128 words

how can he know what he wants if she is trying to entice him away and how long should I wait for him to come to a decision?

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11 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi, really need some advice, my husband had been acting strangely, distant, etc etc and I suspected he was seeing someone else. I constantly confronted him and he denied everything. After one of these episodes he packed his suitcase and left, only to return the next day, we ... (389 words

How can I be there for her more and how can I help her through this?

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11 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi, Both me and my girlfriend are 17 and have been going out for about 1 year and 5 months. I have recently moved in with her and her mum, dad and brother as i didn't get on with my mum. About a week ago she was in a car crash with her auntie, it wasn't too serious, they are ... (342 words

Do I try to get him to forgive me or do I just give up on him?

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11 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I promised one of my best friends that I wouldn't talk to this guy for two months because she wanted me to get over him. Well after about a week I caved in and started talking to him again. Word got around and he found out about the promise and how I lied to her. Now he's ... (162 words

I'm 18 and he's 27. How do I tell my mom I really like him?

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11 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - i have been talking to this lad lately and i really like him and he likes me to, we have been texting secretly because i can let my mam find out because he is 27, when i am 18 i am hoping to tell my mam and getting with this lad i need to know how to tell her i don't know what ... (87 words

How do i slim down my puffy cheeks?

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11 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - how do i slim down my puffy cheeks? are there any certain foods i should eat or drink to make it slim down?... (23 words

My boyfriend told me I was superficial, have no personality, hide my emotions and so many other negative things... could he be right?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

11 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Today, my new boyfriend, told me what he thought about my personality. He told me I was superficial, have no personality, hide my emotions and so many other negative things. It hurt and now I can't stop thinking about it. Six months ago I ended a very bad and mentally and ... (199 words

I feel obese and unattractive. How do I control my weight?

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11 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - ok here it goes ive been up and down with my weight im a very large built women and only 5'4 in height and my ideal weight is 11 stone..im very muscly too although ive done diets came down to 11 1/2 stone but i went right back to 16 stone and now im back to 13 stone but i cant ... (179 words

What is this discharge I have..it's scaring me!

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11 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - well Since i was 7 or 8 i have had this clear stuff come out my vagina and now its turned brownish and i havnt started my peroid yet and im getting really scared about it what is it please help and quick ... (49 words

Slept with my co-worker when he was drunk! How do act when I see him at work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6291 days ago

11 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I really don't know where to start. I've been working with this guy for over a year. First he started as a bartender and a couple of months later,he was my new manager. I've always been attracted to him and we've been out for coffee a couple of times. Now last night he was out ... (118 words

He's cheated on me and now they are official. So why is he still living with me?

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11 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - At the start of this year i found out my partner of 6 years had been cheating on me! It's now August and now he's "officially" in a relationship with this other woman. The thing is he's still with me too! She thinks he moved out months ago but he's still with me. I just don't ... (123 words

My friends don't have time to hang out with me!

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11 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - you know what? i think im depressed, guys! So apart from the fact that I was searching for a summer romance and found nothing...I havent even had a summer with my friends! =[ Why am i the one who has to plan the date, or even just ask someone to hang out? Why cant th... (138 words

How can I start to think for myself and stop being so influenced by my mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6291 days ago

11 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi - I wonder if anyone could help. My mother recently told me that she got very hurt in her teens (she is now 62) because she found out her mother (my grandmother who is no longer alive) had an affair. Her father never found out and she never told her Mum she knew. She ... (427 words

What can be done about my teeth???

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11 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Right, my teeth are quite awful. They stick out and by the orthondontic, have been told that I have a gummy smile! Well that soon is going to be sorted out... I'm getting braces this year and in about 2 years shall be getting an operation on my jaw. However, on top of these ... (258 words

He has been offered a great job in London, England and plans to move there in a few weeks....

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11 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating a great guy for a few months. I have had many relationships in the past and been hurt a lot but I have known this guy for almost 3 years and we are like best friends so when we started dating it was perfect, very easy, relaxed and honest. We really care about ... (136 words

Am I losing feelings for him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

11 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hey all, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 7 months now, it's both our longest relationship to date. I am particularly proud of that achievement but things have ground to a halt. I hardly ever see him now, what was once 2 or 3 times a week is now 2 or 3 times a month... (258 words

I certainly don't want to lose his friendship but how can I find out diplomatically if he is gay or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6291 days ago

11 August 2007 (M age - I need some good advice! I'm a gay 58 year old male who is quite attracted to a young 23 year old guy. We've been friends ever since he was a little fellow. I believe he is gay but I'm not 100% positive about it. We're planning to take a trip together in December (he ... (167 words

I am terrified of the thought of her being with someone else, whenever this thought crosses my mind I begin to cry.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6291 days ago

11 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hello I am writing to see if someone can help me, me and my girlfriend recently broke up and I still am very much in love with her. We talk as friends on a daily basis and I have told her that I wanted to be with her again and that I still love her. She tells me that she ... (128 words

I'm fed up of having casual sex, I want a boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6291 days ago

11 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I think i'm falling for this guy... He told me the other night that he was into me and also said he would love to "have fun" with me. The thing is, this guy is gay...(I'm a girl). He said although he's gay he likes a very select few girls. I'm very confused though because I ... (79 words

I don't understand why he could do this and I'm heart broken all over again!

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11 August 2007 (F age 51-59 - I need some advice - split from my ex 12 months ago due to him cheating and drinking! He has kept in touch with me every day even! I tried changing my phone number so he then just turned up at my house. Last weekend I gave in and slept with him on the Friday and Saturday... (115 words

Is he deliberately trying to make our marriage a sham?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6287 days ago

11 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - hi, please help me, I have been married to my husband for 8 years we have two children. For the last two years my husband's behaviour has dramatically changed. My hubby isn't axactly the ideal man of my dreams he isn't helpful (he was a bit before) he isn't romantic he does ... (596 words

Can you imagine feeling this way for someone for the past 9-10 years and not being able to be with this person.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

11 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am in love with a married man. He is my ex-boyfriend who I kept in contact with for the past 10 years. He got married 4 years ago. I had a baby 5 years ago. We kept in contact before he met his wife and always had deep hidden feelings for one another. He was very immature ... (832 words

How do I handle this jealousy problem?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

11 August 2007 (M age 41-50 - I'm 30 a year old male and in a relationship with a wonderful attractive 25 year old female who adores me and I adore her. I've always had jealousy issues with ex's liking other people/celebrities and I've never managed to get rid of it. My girlfriend and I have been seeing... (224 words

Should I try and be in a relationship with him, or should I just keep it on a friends only level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6291 days ago

11 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have had this friend for 3 years. A year ago I moved, and he was one of the few friends to stay in contact with me. We started having feelings for each other and when a month before I moved back he asked me out. So... we were together for 2 months, before he flips because ... (171 words

SITE NEWS: Anti-spam technology now live :-)

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

11 August 2007 (M - Hi everyone After the recent spate of "spammings" I've introduced some anti-spam measures. I don't want to go into them all in detail here but there are numerous systems in place now to help stop, mitigate and allow you to report spam. The chances of any large spammi... (213 words

My future mother in law criticises me and is very tactile with her son... should I worry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6291 days ago

11 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am getting concerned over my future mother in laws behaviour. My boyfriend is 20 and his mother is 40. She is generally ok but makes a lot of personal remarks about the way I look which are not very nice - like my hair is frizzy or my clothes are not quite right. However ... (350 words

Am I being messed around????

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11 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've been seeing this bloke for about 5 weeks now and really like him, he works a lot and has to travel quite a bit but am having trouble with the fact that I never know where he is from one day to the next and always contact him when he is busy, I haven't seen him for a week ... (153 words

I must add that there is guilt in the aftermath and I am not sure about this whole situation/relationship anymore and I am going crazy!!!

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11 August 2007 (M age 51-59 - My current girlfriend was met whilst I was dating her close friend. At that time she was in a break-up situation with her boyfriend and I didn't take much notice of her. As time went by I grew fond of her but was not attracted to her. She admitted she cared for me and could not ... (762 words

Why does he act so childish sometimes and blow things all out of proportion?

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11 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship right now (7 months to be exact) and he's a great guy. However, he acts really childish sometimes, and I don't mean immature as in farting in front of me or making lame jokes. He acts very "high school/puppy love" (no offense!), always asking me to call ... (178 words

She knows I love her and told me that I'm not her type and that she can't go out with fat dudes!

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11 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - I'm 15 and I have absolutely never had a girl friend. I am 6'0, 190 pounds and I'm not that attractive. I'm in love with my best friend and me and her are really close, she tells me everything. We're always on the phone and always together. She knows I love her and told me ... (211 words

He choose his wife over his child.

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11 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - my dad kicked me out about a year ago,because he had to choose between me or his wife he choose his wife. all i want is a relationship with my own dad what can i do to convince him?... (39 words

Do you think I'm just a naturally selfish/horrible person???

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11 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Last night, I came home and mum said I need to get some respect. I haven't once hoovered, cooked tea for her etc, I never text my gran or sister/brother or go and see them, she says I use people for what they've got, and am always negative about everything and she's not the ... (236 words

When we got back together I had started smoking again, I just kinda kept it discreet. It's been a year and she still doesn't know.

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11 August 2007 (M age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for like a year. When we first got together I quit smoking for her because she said she would never date a smoker but we broke up for a couple weeks, when we got back together I had started smoking again, I just kinda kept it discreet. ... (119 words

She's also really hyper and active and stuff, and I'm basically the opposite in so many ways. I'm worried about boring her and she's worried about overwhelming me.

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11 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - So, I'm not sure how to start this because there's way too much background maybe. But anyways, after talking to her for a month I dated a girl for about two weeks. After those two weeks a fight over a night we were both feeling terrible on made us realize that our humongou... (470 words

He's never stayed over my appartment, we've never been away together and I've never met his friends (who know nothing about me)... is there something wrong, here?

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11 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Yucky problem.. I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years and love him hugely. I'm in my early 30's with a child who lives with her dad and his wife and he's in his late twenties, we're also from different cultures. He lives with his parents while I live in an apart... (193 words

My dad thinks I'm a failure if I'm not A+ in every class... how can I make him see there are more important things out there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

11 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Parent Trouble. Hey guys, I'm nineteen, first year University and still feeling the strain of my parents - mostly my dad. He lives in another country (divorced parents) and my grades seems like the only thing that is his main concern. If I fail a class, I'm a failure. If... (121 words

Could anybody see you if you have a built in webcam on your laptop or desktop

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11 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - Could anybody see you if you have a built in webcam on your laptop or desktop? I was wondering because my laptop came with a built in webcam that's already automatically active and on. If I'm searching or cruising on the internet could anybody see me? Also if I'm in a chat... (92 words

He annoys me sometimes, is this right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

11 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. I love him more than anything and we have so much fun together. I am starting to worry that I am falling out of love with him though because I go through times when everything about him annoys me. I sometimes feel ... (85 words

I'm getting married and I don't want to! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6291 days ago

11 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - well, I'm so confused and the issue itself has been causing me a depression since it happened that I thought of committing suicide just to escape the scandal. I'm 23 years old and due to circumstances I was pushed into a relationship and I lost my virginity. Not virgin is ... (97 words

How can I let people know that I want to hang out and party with them, without looking needy and lonely????

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11 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - Why is it that whenever I go hang out with people, they always seem like they're having a blast with me and call me to hang out again, then if I say no the first time, they never call me back? How can I let people know that I want to hang out and party with them, without ... (127 words

My boyfriend is wanting sex more, and it's getting rougher - how can I get him to ease up??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

11 August 2007 (M age 51-59 - My boyfriend is starting to get a little rough during sex and when I tell him he's being too rough, he seems to get upset and offended... any advice? My boyfriend is the biggest sweetheart in the world and we've been together for going on 4 years now. I'm 21 and he's 33 year... (201 words

Feel like my boyfriend am I are living like a boring old married couple... already!

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11 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am so mixed up at the moment, I'm at university in England, where I live with my boyfriend, who moved over here with me from N.Ireland. He's wonderful; very loyal, kind and generous and I love him dearly. Ideally I would love us to marry and live happily ever after. However, ... (128 words

I'm very confused about my guy friend. He keeps on giving me mixed signals about what he wants from me...

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11 August 2007 (F - I'm very confused about my guy friend. He keeps on giving me mixed signals about what he wants from me. I've known him for a long time now, about 2 years, and we tell each other everything. I once told him that I had feelings for him, but he didn't at the time, so we moved on ... (167 words

I have to force myself to have sex and don't really enjoy it at all.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6291 days ago

11 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - I really need some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and he is amzing. He treats me like a princess and loves me so much. He is the best boyfriend that I have ever had, the only problem is that lately I haven't really been interested in sex. I have sl... (234 words

I have a couple of concerns about marrying my older internet boyfriend guy!

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11 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I just made my account on this site last night and thus far, I've answered everything I could honestly. So, can I get a little help? I have a boyfriend of almost a year, and I love him more than anything. He's twenty eight years old and completely amazi... (164 words

She is cutting me off from sex until I get my teeth fixed!!!

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11 August 2007 (M age - I am so confused over a statement my wife made to me today telling me basically she is cutting me off from sex until I get my teeth fixed. My teeth are not that bad, I have no oral issues other then crooked teeth. I feel like walking out as this woman is 75 pounds over weight ... (154 words

I feel i can't move on, because he needs me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

11 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've been livign with my ex husbad for the last 2 yrs. we're good friednds now but no other attraction whatsoever. somehow i feel i cant move on cos he needs me as an emotional support. i love him a lot and i understand him, just that because of his cheating on me on the past i ... (105 words

Should I just drop the baby making issue's and go back to the way things were before I wanted a baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

11 August 2007 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together for 7 years, 4 of which we have been married. When we first got together we did not want children. He already has a 17 year old son, and had a bad experience when his son was born. Over the last three years I have changed my mind. I guess ... (145 words

I don't know how i feel anymore.

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11 August 2007 (F age 36-40 - OKay well I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years we have lived together for 1 and a half and we have been fighting alot lately. I dont want to be intimate with him at this moment. But this is so sudden, a couple weeks ago we were fine. Am I fed up? I dont even know how i ... (68 words

I feel i'm being pressured into sex.

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11 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi there, i think im being pressured into sex! i mean im only young! and i have my periods and dont realy want too do it but im scared he will brake up with me i have asked him if he would mind if we didnt do it so soon and he went offline! so im stuck and wether i shoul... (93 words

Was this RAPE?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

11 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Around 10 months ago I was out with an old friend from school and she met 2 of her friends which were 2 lads that I did not really know but had seen around the area a couple of times. They got pretty drunk and at first I didn't touch any drink but then they kept egging me on ... (731 words

My wife has stopped having sex with me and now shows no physical affection at all!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

11 August 2007 (M age - OK, where do I start...well, I appreciate anyone who takes the time to read and reply. I have been married for more than 6 years. We have a fantastic son of nearly 4. Soon after he was born my wife lost interest in sex. Thats how it started. Since then she has progressivel... (421 words

I've got a problem with attention seeking!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

11 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi there, im rebecca and i think i have an attention seeking problem and ive done so much for attention! and i cant stop myself and its getting a little out of control... like pretending to sleep walk! and saying im ill i really dont know what t do please help m... (78 words

I have fallen for a boy, but he keeps saying no.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6291 days ago

11 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have a really big problem. I have fallem for this boy and we have conversations over the internet. He is quite close to me as a friend aswell. he goes to the same school as me and i have asked him if he will go out with me but he keeps saying he will think about it, but i ... (95 words

My boyfriend can't get an erection.... is he not turned on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6291 days ago

11 August 2007 (? age 36-40 - My boyfriend can't get an erection. Does that also mean that he can't get turned on? I mean, is it possible to be turned on and be without an erection? When we're kissing and stuff it sometimes gets really 'hot and heavy' and I get turned on but because he can't get hard doe... (67 words

I don't want to lose my friendship to him as we have always been such close mates.

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11 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey I have an amazing boyfriend, and I love him to pieces. The other night my best friend had a smallish party an we both went, we fell asleep together etc. (nothing happened or was intended to) but now one of my of my other friends has got really shirty about it, I don't kn... (116 words

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