I'm male and wear women's panties. Do you out there think I'm an effeminate wimp?
Q. I've already sent this in but no reply. My problem is I've been wearing womens panties since I was 14, I wear a full brief panty mostly nylon plain no lace. I'm 5ft-7ins and small framed, I weigh 10st-7lb my chest is 34ins my waist is 28ins but my ...
A. 4 June 2008: Hell man how can WE tell whether you are effeminate or not, and why are you asking?... (read in full...)
He has to work at getting an erection with me yet he gets one no problem when he looks at other women. Should I be worried?
Q. Most of the time my boyfriend has to work at getting an erection so we can have sex. He tells me that I turn him on but he has also told me that if he checks out another woman and is turned on by what he sees, he gets an erection quickly. Is this ...
A. 12 March 2008: Okay from your last posting my advice is to dump the stupid jerk.... (read in full...)
Meeting with my ex's friend for the first time in nearly a year.
Q. Hi everyone. Tomorrow I am going to a university for an interview. This university is located about 50 miles from where I first met my long distance (240 miles) first love at a train station in her home town 3 years ago this summer. She brok...
A. 12 March 2008: Good news. I always knew you were a survivor, Buddy. Stay in control.... (read in full...)
I can't stand my husband touching me or kissing me...and the thought of sex makes me sick.
Q. I don't know what it is. the thought of making love to my husband makes me sick. I can't stand him touching me or kissing me. In the past and currently he has some anger problems and he says hurtful things to me and about my family and its a turnof...
A. 11 March 2008: Wowie, there's some major issues here. You guys need a mediator, try and see if you can get your husband to go with you to a marriage counselor. If he won't go perhaps you two should try a trial separation to get your thoughts together. You ... (read in full...)
''Crabit Old Woman''
Q. "Crabbit Old Woman" What do you see, what do you see? Are you thinking, when you look at me- A crabbit old woman, not very wise, Uncertain of habit, with far-away eyes, Who dribbles her food and makes no reply When you say in a loud...
A. 11 March 2008: Grandmas rule!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
Women and stretch marks.
Q. I had a baby and now I have stretch marks. Are men turned off by stretch marks?...
A. 11 March 2008: My husband calls them my "battle scars" and since he is responsible for them as well he damn well better not be turned off by them. Besides they represent that wonderful bundle of joy. They will fade and be less noticeable in time anyway. Don't ... (read in full...)
It bothers me that I haven't told my current boyfriend that I lost my virginity to my ex...
Q. I lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend who I later caught cheating on me.. I am now in a new relationship and I haven't told him about sleeping with my ex... He is quite orthodox and I don't think he can live with that... I have been open to him ...
A. 11 March 2008: All I can tell you is that we get a lot of people, mostly guys, that have a hard time dealing with their partners' pasts. While I believe in total honesty in a relationship that means from the moment it BEGINS and everyday after. Whatever happened ... (read in full...)
He has to work at getting an erection with me yet he gets one no problem when he looks at other women. Should I be worried?
Q. Most of the time my boyfriend has to work at getting an erection so we can have sex. He tells me that I turn him on but he has also told me that if he checks out another woman and is turned on by what he sees, he gets an erection quickly. Is this ...
A. 11 March 2008: You don't say how old your boyfriend is but if e is in your age group it's pretty strange that he has erectile problems. He should be checked out medically. As far as his insensitive and stupid comment about other women, the oldersister is right on.... (read in full...)
Please help! I don't want to lose him.
Q. I have had sex with my ex-boyfriend but not intercourse. Sometimes in his room sometimes in mines. We have done it at least 21 times. Once he tried to f*** me but due to pain I was not able to do it. We seperated after 3 years of long relation...
A. 11 March 2008: Besides the confusion over what exactly you mean by having sex, I'm also confused over what you are actually asking. You are in a relationship but are still doing stuff with your EX? Which guy don't you want to lose?... (read in full...)
''Crabit Old Woman''
Q. "Crabbit Old Woman" What do you see, what do you see? Are you thinking, when you look at me- A crabbit old woman, not very wise, Uncertain of habit, with far-away eyes, Who dribbles her food and makes no reply When you say in a loud...
A. 11 March 2008: Great, you have my mascara running! If I visit this site at work, I'm going to have to invest in some waterproof stuff.... (read in full...)
Not to do at your new job!...
Q. I had just started work at a new place and the girl showing me around had the most amazing long wavy blonde hair, fantastic. I followed her up the stairs to where my desk was, but before we got there i tripped up the first step. Oh god, i just ...
A. 11 March 2008: Hey you guys ease up I LOVE my fake hair especially when I feel really lazy! A couple of snaps and hairdo done!... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay? Do I test him?
Q. Ok im goin out with a guy who is really sweet and is always hyper.................well a few days ago my friend told me that when they asked him to go out with me he told them he was gay!!!! and so now idk wut to do.......should i test him? cuz i ...
A. 11 March 2008: Hell he's not gay he just said that to avoid getting set up by your friends. And why were your friends finding guys for you anyway. You all are acting like, well like, kids.... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my sister in law, not sure on the signals she has been sending...
Q. I need some input from people out there. Here is my situation. I am married man, happy with all aspects of my marriage expect my wife and I have relations about once a year. Over the last year or so, I have been talking online to a friend who is ...
A. 11 March 2008: Stop this nonsense with the sister and try and concentrate on your marriage. Relations once a YEAR with the wife? That looks like a really good place to start. Time for a nice long chat with your wife, you guys need to sort this out.... (read in full...)
Meeting with my ex's friend for the first time in nearly a year.
Q. Hi everyone. Tomorrow I am going to a university for an interview. This university is located about 50 miles from where I first met my long distance (240 miles) first love at a train station in her home town 3 years ago this summer. She brok...
A. 11 March 2008: Let us know what happened when you get back OK?... (read in full...)
Is he hiding something?
Q. In response to an article i wrote about not knowing my boyfriend's family, it seems hopeless to me. i have asked him about the situation again and his response is that he is not on good terms with his family, i don't know any of his family members, ...
A. 11 March 2008: He sounds either married or just nuts. Or maybe both. I'd drop him like a hot potato.... (read in full...)
Is he attracted to her?
Q. My husband has been secretly flirting with coworker, hugging, texting, posing for pics, late night phone calls, and even a secret handshake only the two of them know. He has never hidden being friends with someone before now, but he said he hid it ...
A. 11 March 2008: I hope you see that big red flag just a wavin' to beat the band on this one honey. Tell him to knock this nonsense off immediately, it's totally unacceptable.... (read in full...)
What is BAD sex to you?
Q. What, to you, constitutes "lackluster" sex?...
A. 10 March 2008: "Brace yourself Effie!"... (read in full...)
Any tips to stop the craving to smoke?
Q. Hello Everyone. I know this is not relationship advice I'm seeking, but please be kind, and help me anyway. I've been a smoker for nearly 14 years. Never really smoked much (only about 5-7 cigarettes a day), until about April of 2007. I st...
A. 10 March 2008: Well hang on doll, the first couple of days are the hardest and you almost have day one under your belt. You go girl!... (read in full...)
Does anyone else agree with me talking about another man's wife's boobs should be off limits?
Q. I'm 25 and just started seeing a new guy. He is 30 and all of his friends are married. We went to a social gathering at a married friend's house. They were nice people and had great kids. I thought it was going great until the wife of the host ...
A. 10 March 2008: Perhaps your guy was embarrassed about the breast feeding and try to alleviate the situation by humor? Has he made any other comments that make you doubt his social sense?... (read in full...)
Save me from the clutches of the widow!!!
Q. I am married and have three children and caring wife. Due to some financial trouble I came across to my relative. She is a young widow and alone, she helped me, but when I had paid the amount I had asked for intrest she said "please satisfy me." I ...
A. 10 March 2008: Tell the black widow to take a hike. Then I guess you best tell your wife what has been going on and take whatever she gives you and take it like a man. There is no fool like an old fool.... (read in full...)
Help! I want a baby soon and my husband wants one way later...
Q. My husband and I have been married for 2 and a half years and we have a wonderful son who is going to turn 2 in april. When my son turned one I started getting this feeling that it was time to have another baby. This feeling grew stronger over time ...
A. 10 March 2008: I don't know about Malaysia, but we sure do have a lot of Welfare mothers here in the states. I think God respects human volition and so mankind is free to make good as well as poor decisions. I think this husband is being very realistic and ... (read in full...)
Any tips to stop the craving to smoke?
Q. Hello Everyone. I know this is not relationship advice I'm seeking, but please be kind, and help me anyway. I've been a smoker for nearly 14 years. Never really smoked much (only about 5-7 cigarettes a day), until about April of 2007. I st...
A. 10 March 2008: You could put a rubber band around your wrist and snap it everytime you get the urge. Or suck on sugar free hard candy. The medications they are very helpful so I wouldn't rule them out completely.... (read in full...)
Should I confess to my wife of my affair, and then move away?
Q. I'm 45, married with 2 kids. A couple of years ago I had an affair with a married woman who is one of a couple who were our friends. We planned to tell our partners, but a year ago, she ended the relationship suddenly, and completely, just after it ...
A. 10 March 2008: If you are sure that your marriage is unfixable and you definitely will be better off divorced then talk to your wife about that. There is no need to mention your affair to her just the fact that you are not happy and want out. She does not deserve ... (read in full...)
I'm trapped by my love for him.
Q. I'm so bored at home, my boyfriend doesn't want me going out places without him, he doesn't let me out of the house, he doesn't let me talk to any guys, we fight over the littlest things. Then after he has a smoke he thinks it's all okay and i give ...
A. 10 March 2008: And again I say to you, YIKES, Yikes, yikes runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn... (read in full...)
We're fighting a lot about my freedom, what should I do?
Q. My life is so confusing, i'm dating a muslim and im obviously auzzie and he has so many rules no talking to guys at ALL!! i have to wear what he says i'm not allowed out of the house unless its with him. we're always fighting over the tiniest ...
A. 10 March 2008: YIKES, Yikes, yikes! Runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn... (read in full...)
Help! I want a baby soon and my husband wants one way later...
Q. My husband and I have been married for 2 and a half years and we have a wonderful son who is going to turn 2 in april. When my son turned one I started getting this feeling that it was time to have another baby. This feeling grew stronger over time ...
A. 10 March 2008: I'd respect your husband's feeling on this for awhile, you have plenty of time to have another baby. Let your husband finish school, after all 21 is still quite young and perhaps he wants to focus on his education and career before taking on the ... (read in full...)
How can I stop my boyfriend from dumping me before my birthday?
Q. Hello. Im 14 in 7 days =] my boyfriend dumped me 2 day b4 valentines day and we got back together on valentinesday i think its coz he ddnt want to get me anything. but now im worried he will do the same for my birthday. we are really close but i...
A. 10 March 2008: Assuming your boyfriend is around your age it is hardly uncommon for guys to be very short on cash. Perhaps this embarrasses him. Why not tell him that all you really, really want for your birthday is a big hug and kiss. Perhaps then he won't feel ... (read in full...)
Annoyed and I need HELP!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months about to go on 5. Well, I never really got annoyed about this before but all the sudden lately I've been just wanting to yell at him to STOP!. He always says "you silly girl"... or just "silly ...
A. 7 March 2008: Hell yes that would annoy me, big time! Go ahead and yell at him to stop next time he says this to you. He's a guy, he's young, hense he needs to be trained. Do yourself and any future women in his life a favor.... (read in full...)
I'm male and wear women's panties. Do you out there think I'm an effeminate wimp?
Q. I've already sent this in but no reply. My problem is I've been wearing womens panties since I was 14, I wear a full brief panty mostly nylon plain no lace. I'm 5ft-7ins and small framed, I weigh 10st-7lb my chest is 34ins my waist is 28ins but my ...
A. 6 March 2008: I think YOU think you are an effeminate wimp. Does that bother you? Do you wish to be different? If you are unhappy about your situation you should look into all the alternatives there are availble to you to change it. Everybody deserves to be happy ... (read in full...)
Allsorts!!!!! not for the faint of heart! READ WITH CAUTION!!!!
Q. Mr Cadbury and Miss Rowntree met on a Double Decker, it was After Eight. She was from Quality Street, he was a Fisherman's Friend. On the way, they stopped at a Yorkie Bar, he had a Rum and Butter, she had a Wine Gum. He asked her her name, ...
A. 6 March 2008: Well I for one don't need an enema after reading this! Ha ha! As always very very funny!... (read in full...)
How can I trust my sister when I tell her stuff?
Q. ok before I ask my question I better start from the beginning.. My mom has 2 daughters me and my sister... my sister lives with her bilogical dad in a different town while I live with my mom. until she passed away now I live with my step dad who ...
A. 6 March 2008: Don't you have any close girl-friends you trust?... (read in full...)
I don't precisely know the cause of death of my close friend, should I rediscuss this with the husband to get closure?
Q. Today I had a long chat with a girlfriend about the loss of a mutual friend of ours over a year and a half ago. Our friend died unexpectedly at home, almost certainly due to an alcohol-related issue, as she had been struggling with alcoholism for ...
A. 5 March 2008: Not sure but isn't cause of death considered to be public knowledge? You might be able to get this information without disturbing her husband. Call you local county records office and ask them if you can get this information and if you can then you ... (read in full...)
Is 'camel toe' looked down on?
Q. Is having 'camel toe' looked down on, or worse than being completely tight? Is it an insult?...
A. 5 March 2008: We already had a mumbles question today. Check out all the answers that one got: Do men like to see pussy lips through a women's shorts? ... (read in full...)
He's asked me to have "nasal sex!!!" What the hell's that???
Q. Hi, I know this is going to sound pretty weird but please help me with my relationship because everything was great until my boyfriend asked if we could have nasal sex. I don't even now what that is or if he's for real but one time he asked for it ...
A. 5 March 2008: Ha, ha, yea another one to add to my list!... (read in full...)
Do men like to see pussy lips through a women's shorts?
Q. What % of men want to see cameltoe on a woman and why do so many prude women have a problem with it ? Jealousy ? While you judge what looks inapropriate your alright with dresses, tops that display most of your breasts and cleavage and that isn...
A. 5 March 2008: "Mumbles" ha ha toooo funny Collaroy! Mumbles are very uncomfortable to me.... (read in full...)
What can I do so that my partner (who is a people pleaser) restricts his selfish adult descendents from sabotaging our relationship?
Q. i feel so stupid for even asking this question but i have been dating this 69 year old man for 3 years and 3 months and i have been to this site many times. what would be the best way for him to tell his adult children (36 and 40 year olds) that ...
A. 4 March 2008: I'm afraid that if you give him an ultimatum, you'll lose. If he hasn't stood up for himself and your relationship by this time I highly doubt he ever will. You can try it and see what happens, or you can adjust to being second fiddle.... (read in full...)
My periods are wierd and I'm bloated. Could I be pregnant?!?
Q. My partner and I are trying to conceive. My periods aren't regular, going from 21 days up until 30 days. They usually last 5 - 7 days, with at least 3 of those days heavy bleeding. Last month, (period starting 15th feb); 15th - light spott...
A. 4 March 2008: You wouldn't be able to detect any changes in your uterus so early, nobody would. Just take the test already.... (read in full...)
Did my guitar teacher use me?
Q. Ok,im 16 and ive always had this thing for older men...like a lil fantasy and i always end up infatuated with any older man between the ages of like 25/38 ish who is reasonably attractive, they usually are my teachers which is worse. Sooo i had ...
A. 4 March 2008: Sounds like you used each other to me.... (read in full...)
How should I react to my sister spitting in my face??
Q. What do you do when your sister spits in your face, during a heated argument? She's also done it to her 80 year old dad....
A. 3 March 2008: That reminds me of that scene in "To Kill A Mockingbird" when Gregory Peck gets it in his face. You know at this point he could kick the guy's butt if he wanted to but instead he just calmly takes out his handkerchief and wipes it off. I suggest you ... (read in full...)
I have a creepy feeling that this teacher likes me more than usual, what do I do?
Q. I Have Got This Creepy feeling this Teacher likes me more than usual. whether its just that I'm Friendly and because every teacher in the school knows me I am very sociable with them, but, he always smiles at me and if he sees me in the corridors he ...
A. 29 February 2008: I'm sure he doesn't mean anything by this, he's just a friendly guy. But it never hurts for you try to always be aware and not just of him but of all guys. You don't happen to have a school girl's crush on the guy do you? There seems to be a awful ... (read in full...)
How can I make him understand that this is a pointless argument?
Q. I had a fight with my BF. He gets so upset each time the issue is brought up, but he's the one who brings it up so there's no way for me to stop it. Anyway... I had a friend with benefits when I was 15, and years later, he introduced me to...
A. 29 February 2008: ....sigh....Once again this week I agree with q1605....I think....... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me what a "spit roast" is???
Q. What's a "spit roast" all these lasses at school where taking the piss out of a girl at school because she didn't know what it meant and I just laughed along so they didn't know any different. What does it actually mean? ...
A. 29 February 2008: Ha ha we sure have some funny aunts on this site which is MUCH better than a "funny uncle".... (read in full...)
Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?
Q. Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?...
A. 29 February 2008: She ain't right in the head so you are better off without her. Trust me she would be nothing but trouble.... (read in full...)
Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?
Q. Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?...
A. 29 February 2008: Me too, so that makes it two times out of ten!... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me what a "spit roast" is???
Q. What's a "spit roast" all these lasses at school where taking the piss out of a girl at school because she didn't know what it meant and I just laughed along so they didn't know any different. What does it actually mean? ...
A. 29 February 2008: Spit roast and butt plugs, I've had quite an informative month on this site. Can't wait to see what March has in store!... (read in full...)
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