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"You're the kind of weird guys think is interesting." What?

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Question - (22 August 2016) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 August 2016)
A female United States age 26-29, *arahbeara23 writes:

Okay so I'm just a lot to confused on what one of my friends meant by this. I was at one of my male friends house, and he prompted to call me weird. I responded telling I know this, its not anything new to me. He followed by saying "yes but, you're the kind of weird that makes guys go 'oooh, interesting'" I want to know what the heck that means!! When I asked him he told me to figure it out! So a little bit of help here please. I'd greatly appreciate it.

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A female reader, Ivyblue Australia +, writes (24 August 2016):

Ivyblue agony auntA delightful and interesting challenge perhaps due to being less than stereotypical of women your age. I see it as a compliment too.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (23 August 2016):

CindyCares agony aunt He is right... it's not that difficult to figure out :)...

It's a compliment.

It means that, while there's something in you that makes you unusual, quirky, different from the average girl ( your looks, your attire, your demeanour, your interests ? ) this difference does not make you stand out in a negative way, one that would provoke ridicule or criticism or dislike- in fact it draws attention to you in a positive way. You may be " strange " , but in a sexy, interesting, alluring way.

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States + , writes (22 August 2016):

Fatherly Advice agony auntHey Sarah,

Good to see you again. Can you give us a bit more information. And, is this the Same male friend from your previous posts?

It could be that you have hobbies and interests that he likes, it could be that you have a body type, or beauty feature that he likes but that is uncommon.

Usually when I think she's weird, but in a way that interests me. I'm thinking of a Girl who is not wrapped up in the same things that her peers are. She has interests that are more like mine. The fact that you have many male friends makes me think this may be true of you. But you really have only talked to us about what the boys in your life are doing, you haven't told us what you do, what your hobbies are, What your interests are.

Your friend is right in a way. You do need to figure out what it is you do that attracts him, and learn how to use it to your advantage.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (22 August 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntMy guess is that he finds you interesting as he cannot read you to easily.

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