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You think I should end things with him?

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Question - (3 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 July 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So I feel like the guy I'm seeing has been kind of ignoring me lately.

In the past, if he is around his phone, and he see that its me, he would pick up/text back, or even if he missed the call/text, he would call/text back later.

But recently, I feel like he is ignoring me, or at least, I can go for 24 hours without hearing a thing back from him. I once asked him, and he said that he simply doesnt have his phone with him and doesnt check it that often as he use to.

Yesterday, after almost 3 days of "no response" from him (I sent him 7 texts and called him once in the 3 days), I decided to give him a call, but this time, with a hidden number, the phone only rang 3 times and he picked up, I quickly hung up without even saying hi. approx 10 min later, I sent him a text, just asking how he is, nothing special or sound mad. Its been 12 hours and I have not hear back from him.

This all got me thinking....the relationship has been a long distance for quite a while now. Back when its not a long distance, we would actually do things together. But ever since he moved away, whenever we are together, oral and sex is one thing he would not go without, yes we would still spend some time together, go out to eat or go for a little walk. But it seems like sex always comes first, if we still have more time, then we will go do other things. But if not, he just leaves.

So really....should I dump him?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010):

yes just dump him...he doesnt loves u

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010):

Test the waters, don't contact him, let him chase you, and if he doesn't then there's your answer.

No point sending endless texts and phoning so much, no-one likes a stalker.

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