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writes:My heart is totally destroyed, i fancied this girl over a year ago, as time went on i was crazy over her. We're good friends.She told me she really likes my mate. After she told me i was totally speechless, as if i lorry was driven straight over heart. It felt horrible to hear the person i love tellin me she likes my friend.I know my friend also likes her. i've told her that she should talk to him (i know they will go out with each other as soon as they tell each other. It was hard for me to tell her that she should tell him, even though now i hate them both even though it's not thier fault.I dont know what to do, i'm wrecked, it's impossible to get over her!Even the most entertaining things in my life no longer seen interestin i dont care about anythin but think about her lovin someone else all day!Someone knock some sense into me, and i know it's easy to say get over and move on like the answers will say, but it's easily said than done!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): I can relate to you mate, the same thing happened to me 3 years ago. All I can tell you is time heals all wounds, it will hurt now but the worst thing you can do to yourself is dwell on it and lose your friend and the girls friendship. Try to occupy yourself as best you can and eventually the pain will go, if its not meant to be there isn't much that can be done.Goodluck mate
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2007): be happy she telling you something that mose people dont till it to late and you have ben with her for 10 years down road she telling you the true so now you have to live with that get up and go get you some but that will help alot getting some allway help me
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reader, badger +, writes (11 June 2007):
You know what the answers are going to say but that's because it's true ;). It hurts, it's painful, it consumes your life and yet it's just part of life. You think you'll never get over the feeling but you will - we all do - it fades and you move on - believe me! It is so tough at the time though and nobody can change the way that feels right now for you.
Don't hate them - you did a nice thing and who knows what the future will bring.
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