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writes:Can any guy's tell, would you sleep with a girl once, after that happened tell her you want to be friends, she tells you ok, but she can't be friends at the monment because she don't do one night stands, and says to you lets go our own way before anything else happens and someone gets hurt because you both want diffrent things she only wants a serious relationship.....then you call the girl in a weeks time, take her out end up having a relationship with her, bring a child into the world, stay together nearly a 1yr 1/2, split up, then when she ask for closure the guy turns round and says to the girl she wasn't his type, that was the only reason for the split. I don't know about anyone else, but i wouldn't go out with someone that was not my type.I'm asking this question because thats what happened to me, would a guy really let it go that far and have a relationship for that long bring a baby into the world, let you meet his friends etc move in together. Then turn round and say you wasn't his type.I found out the other day he said the same thing to his 1st baby mum, he already told me he has been enggaged x2...do u think he just has commitment problems, or saying i wasn't his type really the real reason...when we split the loser had someone else lined up....i did suffer from postnatal depression which caused alot off arguments...
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (7 September 2007):
 It depends really, someone doesn't have to be my type for me to like them. But, if I didn't actually care about the woman and was basically just being kind and staying in it to spare her feelings, there is no way in hell I would have a baby with her,and then ditch afterwards. And if I was stupid enough to get her pregnant just to make her happy, I'd just man up and stay with her for the kids sake.But to answer your question, I would go with a woman to spare her feelings, try and work something out, but I wouldnt let it go that far if there was no chemistry.
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