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writes: Bonjour, I just wanted guys opinions because even though I know it's normal, as in it's not unhealthy, I don't like it. On my left side I have always had one long inner labia. I feel like it will freak guys out and/or get in the way!! Argh I hate it! Would you ever turn a girl down because you didn't like something physical about her, I'm in really good shape and stuff, but only because I feel I have to make up for being so wierd down there. :( Any help/advice would be apreciated but please don't tell me I'm gross because I don't want to hear anything like that as it already stops me ever getting close to a giy Reply to this Question
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (7 July 2010):
 If a guy is allowed to get close enough to find out, there's far too little blood left in his brain to be analytical about it. He's just grateful.
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reader, kittykhaos  +, writes (7 July 2010):
 I have big labia (oh i said it in public) lol i hate them i once slept with a guy who in fact said What the fuck is that!! He was a jerk it turns out. the thing is anyone who i have actually cared about or who have cared about me never say anything. I would like to get rid of them and i have discussed it many times with my boyfriend (who doesn't care and thinks they look fine) his oppinon being its my choice. If it depresses you and is getting in the way of you having sex (emotionally or physically) you can always ask your doctor about a labia plast. If you can prove it is damaging you emotionally you may even get it for free on the NHS. but if you do it make sure its for you because honestly most guys don't care.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 July 2010):
This is the sort of things women panic about. It's also the sort of thing that men don't pay any attention to whatsoever. Every woman is different, and men are actually not bothered by this sort of thing. I bet you'll find no guy will even notice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): The answer is no, I wouldn't nor would any other guy mind. All vaginas are different.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 Really, no guy is going to mind in the slightest about this.
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 Perform a Google search on this topic, you will see that your concern is VERY common. There are a lot of girls/women who feel the same way, and to be honest.... it doesn't bother men. Penises come in many different shapes and sizes, a woman's vagina is no different. Try not to let it bother you. You have nothing to worry about.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (6 July 2010):
 Honey, no two (private parts) be they on a male or female look alike. Some have huge outer labia, some huge inner. That is just how THAT person was made..
Just like not all guys look alike below, some are straight, some bend left, some right, some up some down. Some small, some big.Doesn't mean it can't do what it's suppose to do.
If a guy dumps you over the size and shape of your labia he is not only shallow, he is downright crazy.
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reader, Odds +, writes (6 July 2010):
 Of course I would turn down a girl if I didn't like her physically. However, what you describe does not sound abnormal to me (I'm not a medical doctor), and a little asymmetry is not uncommon in people. This sounds the equivalent of a guy hanging to the left.
Most guys will not notice at first, or even care once they do notice. It's fine.
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