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writes: I met up with my first love after he came to me in a dream. I sent him a message via Facebook and said it was nice to see him even if it was just in my dream. He demanded to link with me after over 15 years of not seeing and took me out for dinner.He invited me out again a few months later to his home, we had the most wonderful afternoon together and then it ended in bed. I did not really want to and wanted to whole out a little longer but he was so passionate and affectionate it was hard to resist. It took him a few hours to get his way with me. It felt so special and we spoke about old times and what caused the split.He is a frustrated musician and I don't want history repeating itself. when I first met him he was trying to make it. then he did - he really hurt me with the other women. I when on and had three children for someone else; they saved me as I was a wreak with him. He admitted that he wanted to live the rock and roll live style. He later stated that he let me go as he wanted to stop hurting me. At least he was honest.I'm not totally happy in my current relationship due to communication problems whereas with my ex we cant stop talking and making each other laugh.I know history has repeated itself but I wonder whether he would treat me the same as he did before now that he is older and wiser and that I have changed to an career orientated independent attractive woman.Any advice welcome or any experiences.Thanks for your time.
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reader, Slippers  +, writes (25 October 2015):
Your not old .. what's age nowadays and certainly you know your not a fool .. even I got that from your post .. you let him slip under your radar .. why because memories of you two as youngster is there .. that's normal to me.. you know what's right hence I think you posted just to double check ..I think your plan of keeping it meeting in public and seeing if he wants more ..my view is .. no ring he doesn't get a thing haha . My hubby says he's still trying work me out haha ( let him try )Don't always be available either keep it warm though .. If he's says let's meet and he demands so, then say not tonight but Saturday is good .. and you may get lucky and get a kiss .. but remember it's just kissing make him work for anything else ..as honey you're so worth it ..Take care and anything else we are here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2015): Hi Slippers
Thanks for your reply. I know I need to come back down to earth. He made me feel so good that I have been walking on clouds since. However, I dont want to be hurt again or taken as an old fool.
I will try not to get into that situation again and if we do meet, make sure its out and away from any environment where temptation may strike.
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reader, Slippers +, writes (24 October 2015):
In my opinion; he hasn't changed that much .. He saw a gateway to your panties .. when you spoke about dreaming about him ..guys see dreams as some sexual code of wanting and desire .. You put he "demanded" to see you; of course he did .. He wanted you in bed .. now lust and love are too different things.. your not a young girl anymore .. your experienced and yes it easy to get drawn into feeling all lovie dovie but you have children; commitment; a good job don't ruin it by chasing after someone who isn't interested in taking this seriously Someone who is .. wouldn't have taken you straight to bed .. They would have drop you of at your house kissed you goodnight and wanted to see you again.As the saying goes " .. A giraffe and turtle can be in the same space but their view on things are completely different "Take care and if you continue don't invest emotional until you know he does the same .. For me it would have been a one of and I would move on .
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