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Would it seem odd if I added him on Facebook and asked him how he is doing?

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Question - (30 November 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 November 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, *ovemeright11 writes:

I have this guy that I am in college with I have had a crush on him since we started school. I have never had a full conversation with him just small talk. So I just found out he was in a motorcycle accident and lost 2 of his fingers a pretty serious shock. He is not in any of my classes this term so I only heard it from another source. SO my question is would it seem odd if I went and found him on facebook randomly and added him and asked him how he is doing? Like i said we don't talk much and don't have any classes this term but we have been in each others classes since we started school in past. So would it seem odd to add him? I don't want to come off as creepy or stralker.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2011):

Oh My ... this is a perfect time to be with him if you cared about him. It would only convey that you are concerned and many things will come to light in his mind when he gets cured.... Go for it without even thinking about it .... Good luck.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (30 November 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntNo I don't think it would be odd, just tell him that you heard what happened him and that you hope he is OK. It is not like you are a complete stranger to him, so am sure he will see it as the kind gesture it is and not think it is creepy at all. I say you should go for it.

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