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Wot the heck... Is he trying to make me jealous?

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Question - (1 May 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 May 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, *nonymous_16 writes:

I know a guy who I have been friends with for a while, we occasionally talk in school, but more on MSN. He always starts the conversations with me, I havent ever started a conversation first with him as I dont want to make it obvious I like him.

My friends said that they reckoned that he liked me by the way he acted towards me, recently though, We have been talking online on MSN more often and less in school, as the rest of his friends teased him about how friendly we were, anyway, he often talks about his conversations with other girls and about 'how much of a laugh he had had in chemistry with another girl' like hes really TRYING to make me jealous and it has confused me because I didnt think a guy would try and make a girl he liked jealous? I understand that maybe he doesnt like me after all but I still dont see why he would say things to make me jealous.

I was just wondering if you could help me with this?

I dont understand what his point is in trying to make me jealous :/

Thanks to anyone who has any advice for me, I really appreciate it :) x

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A female reader, curiosity1103 United States +, writes (2 May 2011):

He may just be talking to you about other girls because he sees you as just a friend. He may though be trying to judge your reaction to see if you like him. I don't think either way though he's be trying to make you jealous unless that is ALL he talks about with you. Even then though, yes some guys will try to make a girl jealous even if he likes her.

Though I do say it wouldn't hurt by you starting up a conversation with him- as long as you don't begin starting all the conversations up. Like maybe every 2-3 conversations he initiates would be safe for you to start up a conversation, or he might never think you are interested- if he is interested. But by you not starting them all it wont seem too obvious you like him at the same time.

Hope this helps.

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