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Worried that my messy habits will have gotten my girlfriend pregnant!

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Question - (19 January 2006) 6 Answers - (Newest, 20 January 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Hey, this is going to sound really dumb and you'll probably thinking that I'm worrying about nothing (I hope) but the other day me and my girlfriend were messing around on my couch. I went to adjust myself and got some precum on my finger, I wiped my finger on my couch a lot until it was dry and I couldn't feel anything on it. Then like 10 minutes later I fingered her with that same finger, so the worrier's question is, any chance she could pregnant from that? Appreciate any advice.

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A female reader, mystify +, writes (20 January 2006):

mystify agony auntlike rebecca said, i would ignore milannyc, i am a girl who has got pregant 4 times! all while on the pill, and 2 times with the extra precaution of the morning after pill! and 3 of them times was after having had sex just once in like a 3 month period, i would also say that mr ed hasnt really based his comment on fact, there is not a 6 hour window when an egg drops...

the truth is that sperm can live inside a womb for 3 days! so therefore you can impregnate a girl 3 days before she ovulates and also an egg can travel through a woman for 3 days before being wasted so you can impregnate a girl up to 3 days after she ovulates! that is 6 days out of 28 you can get a girl pregnant and that preuming she has a regular 28 day cycle i used to have a 21 day cycle so that would be a 6 in 21 chance , not one to risk on with the chances onf an unwanted baby!

unlike milana said you most definatly dont need penetration to get pregnant a woman CAN get pregnat from being in close contact with sperm around her privates AND pre cum DOES contain sperm and CAN get a girl pregant

sperm can survive outside the vagina for some time...

after my experience i wont let my husband near me without a condom and if he 'leaks' then he has to wash before we carry on , it dosent have to spoil the fun i give him a hand ;)

id say chances are shes not pregnant but the only way to know for sure is a pregancy test a couple of weeks after the incident

if you dont want a baby , then be careful

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A female reader, fairyangel South Africa +, writes (19 January 2006):

fairyangel agony auntThe object here, is to be of some kind of assistance to those faced with problems... not to bash other Agony Aunts for the advice that THEY choose to give.

So, with that in mind, I now choose to have my say...

You are probably in the clear on this one, but let this be a lesson you can learn from, for any future "messing around" sessions you may indulge in. Take Care in all things.

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A reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (19 January 2006):

Rebecca Batchelor agony auntI certainly wouldn't listen to MilanaNYC21. Quite difficult for a female to get pregnant? Ummm, okay, guess that will explain why there are so many people in the world but still...

Just be extremely careful next time. The odds are indeed in your favour of her not being pregnant but do consider all methods of contraception well in advance and always ask for any advice from anyone, including us here!

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A male reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (19 January 2006):

Mr.Ed agony auntThe odds are not very good since sperm doesn't live long once exposed to air, in addition; that sperm has a very long way to travel before getting to the egg. Not to mention the chances of your girlfriend ovulating at the same time are only 1 in 28 factoring in that your sperm count depends on your age, but averages 500,000,000.00 yes million. Plus or minus the 6 hour window once the egg drops. Well anything is possible but I think you probably are very safe. Too many factors go into actually getting pregnant. However; you know the saying. Be careful out there.

Sincerely

Ed

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A female reader, MilanaNYC21 +, writes (19 January 2006):

MilanaNYC21 agony auntNO there is no chance she is pregnant. First off, it is quite difficult for a female to get pregnant. Second of all pre-cum does not impregnate a woman. There was no penetration either. So its pretty safe to say your fingers can get back to work buddy. NEXT TIME, wash your hands, you wont have to ask for advice on a forum lol

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2006):

Hello!

I am not a doctor but I am a premed major in college and there is a slight chance that there was some reside left on your finger even after you wiped it down "completely". But, I would not worry about it. Chances are, your safe!

Take care!

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