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Worried about these little black bits!

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Question - (30 November 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 February 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I really want to do things with this lad, but you know when a man shaves loads round their mouth? Well, "down there", has gone like that because ive shaved too much! Even when i shave it again you can see little black bits. What do i do?!

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A female reader, torch United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2011):

torch agony auntjust be lucky its not Ginger ;) .. but in all seriousness i use to stres about the same thing then i realised guys really dont care lol xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010):

I agree with the checking with your boyfriend on how you should maintain your "look" there.

Shaving hair does not alter its growth pattern... you may perceive a stubbly-prickliness because shaving cuts hair at an angle, but it is in no way growing back more quickly or coarser...

Waxing does not speed the return of hair. If anything, it slows it... and some experience a lessening, softening of hair over time.

-T.V.

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A male reader, Odds United States +, writes (30 November 2010):

Odds agony auntAs a guy, I can tell you that the dark stubble around my face never goes away unless I use a straight razor - which takes way too much time and effort unless I have an interview or a special date planned.

You could wax if you want all of it gone, but it will grow back - possibly very fast. Still, nothing you do will ever make it look like the girls in Playboy or other porn sites/mags because they have photoshoop at their disposal.

With that said, no normal guy is going to care that it's not picture-perfect. So long as it's not a massive bush, or scratchy stubble, it's fine. Even then, some guys like the big bush, so check with your boyfriend.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (30 November 2010):

chigirl agony auntStop thinking that it matters or that anyone cares. Your body is natural and normal and nothing to be ashamed of, and if a man ever gets to see you naked he should feel special and the luckiest man in the world, otherwise he's not worth it.

You're not a Barbie Doll, you have pubic hairs, and even if you shave and they have the little black showing, or if you don't shave, it's all natural and perfectly fine and NOTHING to worry about. It would just look odd if you looked like you've not reached your puberty yet.

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