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writes:Quick question for the women out there, which do you prefer, a MMF or MFF threesome? My wife and I are talking about it and she finds both pretty hot. I said my main concern would be for her to be happy and enjoy it and am willing to do either or both. Just curious what other women prefer. Also any good or bad stories to share about the experiences?Thanks in advance.
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reader, whitemoor5  +, writes (29 May 2009):
 Threesomes are a bad idea.
They only bring out negative emotions - jealousy, harm, anger so it isn't worth even considering one.
It's far better to have a loving, fulfilled relationship with your partner than bring a third party in who you probably know nothing or little about.
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (21 May 2009):
 I think some things are best left as a fantasy, or in a relationship that you know isn't going anywhere - ie a casual thing.
I can believe the Relate statistics and the lack of trust and loss of bond.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): I know of one girl who did this with her bloke and they did one of each, in order to be fair. He then could not trust her any more and they broke up leaving a fatherless daughter. It only takes one wobbly leg on a three legged stool for it to fall over according to my therapist. You need to be more than stable to manage a ménage a trois. According to Relate, 8 out of 10 couples who do these things split up within three years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): What happened to intimicy and one to one relationships - you lot are all fu**ed up. Am I the only one in this world who has a wonderful boyfriend and I only want him. Jeeze, the porn industry has a lot to answer for when you are all talking about "reverse cowgirl" and all that crap. It's not a competition. You lot are so "pornogrophized" that you think this shit is normal. What is it - some sort of sexual high you are after instead of that fantastic intimacy between a man and women who truly love and care about each other. And the reverse cowgirl position is shit anyway (in reality); it's uncomfortable and personally not that great for the female - so WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU ALL????
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): I'd be more into MMF. No chance of jealousy on my part of seeing my guy with another girl and all the attention is on me!! I have two guys catering to my every desire... that's what I would like best.
I think you should make your wife choose. It will be less messy if she gets complete control over how the situation is set up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): i would def say go with the mmf i think she'll enjoy it i've done it once n besides the fact the the 3rd party got off to soon it was amazing ive never had a mff.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): As a woman, both ARE pretty hot. I want to do both..but my bf isnt into the MMF...but we are both interested in MFF.
I guess it depends on what mood your in...sometimes i wanna eat a girl out, and sometimes i want penis!
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reader, fungirl69 +, writes (21 May 2009):
 I have tried both and admit that the MMF was hotter for me. I think it was for two reasons. First, the guys focus soley on the girl (unless they are bi I guess, haven't tried that yet), so it was more about me. Second, I was daring and really wanted to try a DP. It was akward to get it right, but the sheer naughtiness of it really got me going.
I liked the MFF too, don't get me wrong. It was fun to explore a woman, and performing oral on a man with help from another is fun...but two guys focused on me was way better!
Hope this helps.
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