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Woman's muscle control?

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Question - (19 December 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 25 March 2010)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

I was told some girls are good in control her vagina muscle and can make her man ejaculate sooner that usual in intercourse. Is it true that girl can control the muscle inside? is it true can make her man cum quicker that usual?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2010):

Yes, it's possible for a woman to develop enough muscle control that she can decide when the guy cums. It's an incredible feeling for the guy! A girl who develops this ability is giving her guy a REAL TREAT!

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (20 December 2008):

DoubleM agony auntJust a couple of corrections:

Correct spelling: Kegel exercises of the "pubococcygeal" muscle, which both men and women may use to stop urine flow, but also can help delay male ejaculation, or in the case of females, tighten the vaginal grip around an erection. Second correction: It will not "hurt" a guy to make love to a woman who has developed such control. It feels amazing. Possible downside: It typically takes quite a lot of exercising for most women to achieve such control, but it can be done daily with no apparent visible evidence because you can contract and relax the muscles involved repeatedly while doing most anything, such as sitting, driving, standing, etc. Nobody knows that you are doing it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Any one can share the experiences?

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A female reader, lacexoxo22 United States +, writes (19 December 2008):

lacexoxo22 agony auntIt's called a kegal muscle and yes it can tighten and help them "get their" faster if the woman knows what she's doing. Example: When you go pee, to make yourself stop peeing, that muscle you use to cut off the urine...that's your kegal. Go pee and pay attention to what tightens the second your finished. Do a few "dry runs" and you'll figure it out and how to work it. Good luck, hope this helps.

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A female reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (19 December 2008):

SoftlyCaress agony auntWell I will Answer that for you YUP A woman can control her vagina muscle if she wishes to as far as making it squeeze the mans penis .. Now as far as making him cum sooner well it might intensify the orgasm but i think ya might be on your own when it comes to lasting long and not lasting long...

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A male reader, ThatOneCroatian Ireland +, writes (19 December 2008):

I'll be honest with you, yes, it's possible, and the only reason I can say so is that my girlfriend does it. I'm not sure if it's something that requires practice, all I know is that a girl can tighten or squeeze the muscle down there.. and it makes things feel better.

So go for it :) Practice by yourself if you can. Check Wikihow or something.

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