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With Him, It's Only Sex or Computer Games

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Question - (8 July 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

It seems like my boyfriends losing interest in me, or just too into his computer game. The only times he wants to talk with me is when hes horny, or when i tell him i feel really sick or something. When hes not horny or anything, then he only wants to talk about his game, or drama in said game, never about us or non sexual things me and him can do. What should i do? I do love him, and want things to work out, but i want him to want to be with me and i cant tell if he does or not.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008):

MOVE ON,HUNNY,MOVE ON!You're his girlfriend and nothing

should come before you unless it's something to do with his

family.But I think he really only wants you for the sex,

because that's the only time he'll talk and communicate and

value you.No man would just completely ignore his woman in

the relationship unless he is just in it for sex.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom + , writes (8 July 2008):

I would just stop going round there and stop talking to him for a week and see if he notices.

When he gets in touch to find out where you've gone tell him how much his bahviour is hurting you. If he doesn't tell you he's willing to change then tell him it's over.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland + , writes (8 July 2008):

O Connor agony aunti agree with deadpromqueen. talk to him and if nothing happens or changes, then accept that he is still an immature child and move on. if he is not going to be with you 100%, then dont settle for less.

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A female reader, LIERIN United States +, writes (8 July 2008):

LIERIN agony auntHe needs to grow up thats the problem. Its not you! He is immature!

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A female reader, deadpromqueen United States +, writes (8 July 2008):

talk to him tell him how you feel...and if hes not going to be there for you 100% of the time then hes don't deserve you i know its really hard to accept but its true..i hope i help you :D

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