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writes:hey I am indulged in bad sex activities like watching X movies and doing all that stuff ……I want to know will it affect my married life if I continue to do so. please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (10 December 2016):
 If you think for one second that anything you see in porn represents reality then you could be setting yourself up for a major let down. These x-rated movies are pure fantasy. Just like a cartoon where bugs bunny gets shot by Elmer Fudd but is able to get up and run to the next carrot patch as though nothing happened. Best thing is to quit watching altogether before you start to get confused into thinking women love doing the stuff you see in porn. You'd be lucky to find any women that even likes sex.
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reader, Eagle'sfan1986  +, writes (16 November 2016):
If you are wanting to settle down with a nice beautiful woman then yes it will ruin your marriage with her, my advice to you will be to stay away from porn and other bad things that also will ruin your marriage with the right woman who comes into your life. Have you ever seen fire proof with Kirk Cameron who played Caleb, and Erin bethia who played Catherine Holt who were having marriage problems because Caleb did some things that almost broke his marriage. But his father helped him with his marriage by giving him a book, and he did what the book said. Intimacy with your future wife is better than porn. It is real than watching the fake stuff on porn.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 November 2016):
 If you are currently single then it won't affect you unless you develop an unrealistic view off love and being intimate. Why not spend more time meeting girls and getting to know them instead off looking at movies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2016): Only if you let it take precedence over and actual sex life with your partner.
If porn is just a private thing you do for a quick release when your partner isn't in the mood or is busy or is away or if her sex drive is much lower... have at it. Women don't generally understand that porn is not a judgement on them, at all, any more than romcoms are a judgement on their own relationship.
Either way, if you start to prefer porn over actual sex... that means you have lropblems.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2016): I actually think that everyone misunderstood your question - correct me if I am wrong - I feel you're currently unmarried and you watch x-rated movies and are worried whether it'll impact your future married life. I think it's OK as simply a release so if you forget about it after then it's fine.but not if you are addocted
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (14 November 2016):
If your wife also does bad activities, how would you feel?
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reader, N91  +, writes (14 November 2016):
 Wouldn't you rather have sex with your wife than watch porn?
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reader, singinbluebird +, writes (14 November 2016):
 YES it will ruin your marriage if youre addicted and use it replace your wife/sex. But if you are only viewing it with her and as a source of fun/pleasure, then it wouldnt ruin it. Many couples enjoy watching porn together and that is healthy. But if you are consistently watching it alone, hiding your porn addiction, and only using it to get off and even avoiding sex with your wife, you need to end it and seek some professional help.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (14 November 2016):
 Yes it will. You will train yourself to be a bad lover who does all the wrong moves who do NOT work in real life with real women, and also to have totally unrealistic expectations about how sex should be , and be sort of let down and bored when reality does not match movies. Same as if you believed firmly that life should be just like a Bruce Willis action movie, and were surprised that things don't go " bang ! " and " ka-boom !" every moment in your daily routine.
Moderation is the key. If you want to indulge occasionally,... I don't think you will turn impotent , or a sex maniac...it's normal , at your age, to be sexually curious, and at any age to wish for an occasional " walk on the wild side " ... but keep it in check, though, apparently these things have a way to become addictive, otherwise we would not have so many posters writimg us " I love my wife, she is young, she is pretty... but I can only get it up with porn ! "
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (14 November 2016):
YES!!! Many will try to tell you no, but it does.
Look around on this site, and you will see how many women are complain about their husbands watching X movies, and has caused major problems in their marriage.
Why did you get married if you like the fantasy women so much?? Does your hand look like your wife's vagina? Are you not smart enough to know the difference between a hand and real sex?
Throw away the fantasy women and enjoy your REAL wife.
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